Not Too Tight, Not Too Loose

Dr. Joe Flanders and Andrew Rose
  • 5.0 (2)
  • Mental Health
  • Updated Monthly

Not Too Tight, Not Too Loose is a podcast about finding balance in the pursuit of wellbeing. Inspired by an ancient teaching about meditation, music, and finding a middle path, NTTNTL explores developments in psychology, psychedelics, meditation, spirituality, AI and more. We talk with leading thinkers and practitioners to make sense of both cutting edge and traditional wisdom. Rather than searching for ways to fix what’s wrong, NTTNTL invites us to stay humble, pay attention, and realize that wellbeing isn’t about flipping the right switch, but more like keeping an instrument in tune.

Episodes

  1. Apr 22

    Episode 9: Experiential psychotherapy with Dr. Tori Olds

    In this episode, experiential therapist Tori Olds explores how understanding the brain's memory reconsolidation process can unlock profound healing. Discover how experiential therapies offer deep and efficient ways to shift entrenched patterns and heal trauma. Tori shares science-backed techniques like imagery and prediction error exercises that help bring unconscious beliefs into awareness, enabling rapid transformation. Perfect for therapists and individuals eager to harness cutting-edge neuroscience, this conversation dispels the myth that transformation must be slow. Tune in to learn practical frameworks that marry science with soulful change. Chapters: Introduction to Experiential Therapy (0:02 - 2:12)Mindfulness and Self-Exploration (2:12 - 6:33)Understanding Trauma (6:33 - 9:14)Experiential Techniques (9:14 - 13:27)Internal Family Systems (IFS) Model (13:27 - 19:19)Memory Reconsolidation and Healing (19:19 - 25:06)Practical Applications and Case Studies (25:06 - 30:11)Conclusion and Future Directions (30:11 - 35:00)Themes: Experiential Therapy: Exploring how experiential therapy can be both deep and efficient, focusing on memory reconsolidation and prediction errors.Mindfulness and Self-Exploration: The role of mindfulness in self-exploration and how it differs from self-analysis.Trauma and Healing: Understanding trauma through predictive processing and the potential for rapid healing.Internal Family Systems (IFS): The use of IFS in experiential therapy to map out and update unconscious predictions.Memory Reconsolidation: The science behind memory reconsolidation and its application in therapy.

    1h 40m

  2. Mar 16

    Episode 8: AI Risk Reduction in Psychotherapy

    In this episode, Andrew and Joe delve into the transformative potential and the profound risks of integrating AI into mental health practice. Join them as they explore the science, stories, and frameworks shaping the future of AI-assisted psychotherapy, with insights grounded in recent research and ancient philosophies. Key Topics: The emergence of AI tools in therapy, including note-taking, therapeutic alliance, and symptom reductionEvidence from recent randomized controlled trials showing AI’s efficacy in reducing anxiety and depression symptomsThe phenomenon of attachment bonds forming with chatbots and the implications for therapeutic allianceRisks including reality drift, epistemic over-trust, and attachment amplification, illustrated by real-world cases such as AI-induced psychosis and tragic outcomesParallels between AI therapy and psychedelics in terms of amplification and the harm reduction approachThe importance of set and setting, and the role of human oversight in safe AI deploymentRegulatory landscapes, including state bans and professional guidelines from organizations like the APAEthical considerations: confidentiality, bias, therapeutic reliability, and the need for ongoing evaluationAncient frameworks of eudaimonia and the virtues of truth, goodness, and beauty as guiding principles for AI in wellbeingThe analogy of AI as a co-pilot or harm reduction tool, emphasizing the necessity of human-in-the-loop modelsHarm Reduction AI White PaperPsychedelic and Harm Reduction frameworksAPA Guidelines on Digital TherapeuticsAndrew Rose - LinkedIn  Joe Flanders - LinkedIn  Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction to AI and mental health: potentials and perils02:03 – Recent meta-analyses and evidence supporting AI effectiveness04:21 – Personal stories of AI integration in therapy practice06:37 – Cases of AI-induced psychosis and tragic outcomes09:01 – The rapid integration of AI in daily life and mental health support11:04 – Evidence of symptom reduction in clinical populations with AI chatbots13:01 – Limits and risks of AI in psychotherapy15:36 – Therapeutic alliance with AI and attachment bonds16:35 – Challenges with AI handling suicide risk and safety protocols17:41 – Notable cases of AI causing harm: the Adam Rain case21:11 – Real-world stories of problematic AI behavior and vulnerabilities22:49 – The risks of reality drift, epistemic over-trust, and attachment amplification25:33 – The potential for AI to support or undermine contact with reality and values27:27 – Drawing parallels with psychedelics and harm reduction strategies30:36 – The importance of set, setting, and human oversight in AI use34:10 – The role of regulation, policy, and professional standards40:14 – Risks related to bias, confidentiality, and therapeutic reliability46:47 – The importance of ongoing assessment, calibration, and human-in-the-loop models50:23 – Reflection on therapeutic alliance, attachment, and the non-human therapist55:02 – Philosophical framing: Aristotle’s virtues and human flourishing in AI-supported wellbeing58:02 – Cultivating truth, goodness, and beauty with AI in therapy64:17 – The challenge of projecting moral and existential frameworks onto AI tools69:22 – Balancing awe with caution: where do we really stand?73:24 – Empowering practitioners with education and harm reduction strategies75:13 – Closing thoughts on future directions and the continued dialogueResources & Links:Connect with the Hosts:

    1h 14m
  3. Episode 7: The neuroscience of meditation, well-being and the spiritual path with Jonas Mago

    Feb 20

    Episode 7: The neuroscience of meditation, well-being and the spiritual path with Jonas Mago

    In this episode, Andrew and Joe welcome Jonas Maggo, a cognitive neuroscientist and meditation teacher, to discuss the intersection of neuroscience and contemplative practices. They explore Jhana meditation, the role of attention in shaping perception, and the implications of these practices for well-being. The conversation also delves into the potential of AI in mental health, the ethical considerations of neurohacking, and the importance of understanding the impact of perception on reality. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of wellbeing, exploring the alignment problem and its implications for mental health practices. They discuss the importance of personalization in interventions, the science behind meditation and its effects on brain states, and the journey from researcher to practitioner. The dialogue also touches on the significance of creating a sense of safety in practice, the similarities and differences between meditation and psychedelics, and the role of community support in enhancing the meditation experience. Ultimately, the speakers emphasize that personal experience remains the best indicator of progress in one's practice.

    1h 52m

  4. Jan 22

    Episode 6: Neurodivergence, predictive processing, and psychotherapy with Sarah Bergenfield

    In this episode, Sarah Bergenfield, a certified IFS practitioner and author, discusses her work on autism and the predictive processing framework. She shares insights into the challenges and misconceptions surrounding autism, emphasizing the need for a paradigm shift in understanding it as a condition of surplus rather than deficit. The conversation explores the intersection of autism, neurodivergence, and trauma, highlighting the importance of supportive environments and adaptive strategies. Sarah also delves into the role of predictive processing in therapy and its potential to transform therapeutic practices. Takeaways Autism is a condition of surplus, not deficit.Predictive processing offers a new lens for understanding autism.Supportive environments are crucial for neurodivergent individuals.IFS therapy can help update predictive models in the brain.Trauma and autism share overlapping characteristics.The world needs to adapt to support neurodivergent individuals.Predictive processing is becoming integral to therapy.Understanding autism requires challenging old tropes.Neurodivergence includes a wide range of conditions.Therapy can help individuals navigate their unique experiences.Keywords: autism, predictive processing, IFS, neurodivergence, trauma, therapy, paradigm shift, supportive environments, adaptive strategies, Sarah BergenfieldTakeaways:

    1h 33m

  5. Jan 6

    Episode 5: The Joy of Solitude with Professor Rob Coplan

    In this conversation, Dr. Joe Flanders and Professor Rob Coplan explore the nuanced relationship between solitude and loneliness, emphasizing the importance of understanding solitude as a positive experience distinct from loneliness. They discuss the balance needed between social interaction and solitude, the concept of 'aloneliness', and the impact of technology on our ability to experience solitude. The conversation highlights the need for individuals to develop a capacity for solitude and the importance of finding a personal balance that optimizes well-being. In this conversation, Robert Coplan, Andrew, and Dr. Joe Flanders explore the intricate balance between solitude and social connection. They discuss the importance of human interaction, the value of solitude for emotional regulation, and the cultural stigma surrounding solitude. The conversation delves into the concept of companionate solitude, mindfulness as a tool for managing overstimulation, and personal reflections on the role of solitude in creativity and self-regulation. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for individuals to find their own balance between social engagement and solitude to enhance well-being.

    1h 30m
  6. Episode 4: Navigating the complexities of psychedelic therapy with Dr. Devon Christie

    12/10/2025

    Episode 4: Navigating the complexities of psychedelic therapy with Dr. Devon Christie

    In this conversation, Dr. Devon Christie shares her journey from traditional medicine to the innovative field of psychedelic-assisted therapy. She discusses the founding of the Center for Medicine-Assisted Therapy (CMAT), describing the challenges posed by regulatory frameworks in Canada, particularly regarding the approval of MDMA and psilocybin therapies. Devon highlights the need for education and harm reduction in the context of psychedelic use, advocating for a balanced approach that prioritizes patient safety and well-being. Together, Devon, Andrew and Joe explore the complexities of psychedelic therapy, emphasizing the need for advocacy, regulation, and training for therapists. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, community support, and the integration of indigenous wisdom into therapeutic practices. The conversation highlights the challenges of navigating the ethical landscape of psychedelic work. Devon offers the 'Five Invitations' framework as a guiding principle for practitioners. The speakers also stress the significance of rituals in therapy and the necessity of cultural sensitivity when working with diverse populations.

    1h 43m

  7. 11/12/2025

    Episode 3: Psychedelic psychiatry after the renaissance with Dr. Kyle Greenway

    In this conversation, Dr. Kyle Greenway discusses his work in psychedelic-assisted therapy, particularly focusing on the Montreal model of ketamine therapy. He emphasizes the importance of integrating conventional psychiatry with psychedelic approaches, the role of set and setting in therapy outcomes, and the significance of music in enhancing therapeutic effects. Dr. Greenway also addresses the challenges in psychedelic research, the potential of psilocybin, and the need to consider social determinants of health in clinical trials. He reflects on the future of psychedelics in mental health treatment and the importance of navigating difficult experiences in therapy.

    1h 24m

  8. 10/29/2025

    Episode 2: Giuliano’s Story - MDMA-Assisted Therapy, PTSD, and the Power of Emotional Integration

    In this conversation, Dr. Joe Flanders interviews Giuliano Biagioni, who shares his profound journey through trauma and healing via MDMA-assisted therapy. Giuliano recounts his traumatic experience of being a victim of gunshot violence, the subsequent PTSD, and his struggles with traditional therapies. He describes how MDMA therapy opened new pathways for emotional healing, allowing him to confront his anxiety, grief, and the complexities of his trauma. The discussion highlights the transformative power of psychedelics in therapy, the importance of addressing grief, and the personal nature of healing journeys.

    1h 13m

  9. 09/25/2025

    Episode 1: Introduction to Not Too Tight, Not Too Loose

    In this introductory episode of the podcast, hosts Dr. Joe Flanders and Andrew Rose explore the themes of mental health, psychedelics, mindfulness, and trauma. They introduce the guiding principle of 'Not Too Tight, Not Too Loose' as a framework for understanding well-being. The conversation delves into the complexities of trauma, the role of meditation, and the importance of finding balance in therapeutic practices. They also discuss the backlash against trauma paradigms and the applications of Internal Family Systems therapy. The episode sets the stage for future discussions on these critical topics.

    1h 20m
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Not Too Tight, Not Too Loose is a podcast about finding balance in the pursuit of wellbeing. Inspired by an ancient teaching about meditation, music, and finding a middle path, NTTNTL explores developments in psychology, psychedelics, meditation, spirituality, AI and more. We talk with leading thinkers and practitioners to make sense of both cutting edge and traditional wisdom. Rather than searching for ways to fix what’s wrong, NTTNTL invites us to stay humble, pay attention, and realize that wellbeing isn’t about flipping the right switch, but more like keeping an instrument in tune.

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  • Creator
    Dr. Joe Flanders and Andrew Rose
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    9
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dr. Joe Flanders and Andrew Rose
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