Men Suffer In Silence

Men Suffer In Silence Podcast

Life's complicated. Being a man doesn't have to be. We're just three guys (Rich Blackman, Lucky Let'em Know, and Rawsko Squeezoff) trying to figure it all out, and we're bringing you along for the ride. We're talking with other men about the real stuff—the pressures, the screw-ups, and the silent battles we all face. No judgment, no BS, just real talk for men who are tired of going through it alone. For Men who Suffer In Silence!

  1. 2D AGO

    My Ex Our Ex???

    Welcome back to another mind-blowing episode of the Men Suffer In Silence Podcast! 🎙️ Today, your hosts Rawsko Squeezoff, Lucky Let 'Em Know, and Richie B are diving into one of the most explosive, controversial, and awkward relationship dynamics ever: What happens when your homeboy starts dating your ex-wife or serious ex-girlfriend? 🤯Is there an unspoken "Bro Code" that should never be violated, or is everything fair game once a relationship ends? The guys don't hold back as they break down the concepts of loyalty, the disappointment of betrayal, and the agonizing awkwardness of future group hangouts! From dealing with co-parenting situations to decoding if temporary hookups are different from full-on relationships, this unfiltered conversation gets real, heated, and hilariously honest.Drop a comment below and let us know your thoughts: Is an ex strictly off-limits, or are you cool with your circle moving in? Like, share, and SUBSCRIBE for more raw truths! 🎧🔊⏱️ Timestamps[00:00] – Podcast Intro: Meeting the Hosts[00:06] – The Ultimate Question: Your Homeboy and Your Ex?![00:27] – Defining What "Homeboy" Really Means[00:46] – Dealing with the Ultimate Disappointment in People[01:14] – Who Do You Blame? The Ex or the Friend?[01:30] – The Awkwardness of Being Around Their Safe Space[02:14] – Is the Ex-Partner Completely Off-Limits?[03:05] – Why There's Billions of Other Women on the Planet[03:38] – Imagining the Most Awkward Social Gatherings[03:56] – Adding Kids into the Drama: A Co-Parenting Nightmare[04:42] – The "Lauryn Hill Type" Situation: When the Code Is Broken[05:11] – "If She Was My Ex, She's Our Ex" Philosophy[06:01] – The Wedding Invite: Ultimate Revenge or True Love?[07:23] – One-Night Stand vs. A Real Relationship[08:44] – Final Verdict and Closing Out the Show #mensufferinsilencepodcast #ModernDating #DivorceRecovery #MensPodcast #RealTalk #goldenyearswisdom #MenSufferInSilence #MensMentalHealth #PodcastForMen #Vulnerability #RealTalk #MentalHealthMatters #SafeSpaceForMen #NewPodcast #YouTubePodcast #mensufferinsilencepodcastDon't forget to Like, Subscribe, and hit the Notification Bell to join our community of honest conversations! 👇👇🏻👇🏿Tune in to "Men Suffer In Silence" on all platforms. Check the link below!https://linktr.ee/mensufferinsilence

    11 min
  2. MAY 13

    When are you in a relationship

    In this episode of the Men Suffer In Silence Podcast, we dive deep into the often-confusing world of dating and relationships! When is it officially "exclusive"? Is it after a few dates, a certain amount of time, or only after an explicit conversation?Our hosts share personal stories, debate common dating norms, and discuss the importance of communication to avoid misunderstandings. Whether you're navigating the early stages of a new romance or just want to hear some honest perspectives on modern dating, this episode is for you! Don't miss out on this raw and real conversation!15 Engagement Timestamps:[00:13] - Welcome to the Men Suffer In Silence Podcast![00:23] - The big question: When is a relationship exclusive?[00:35] - Is it a declaration, or does it just happen?[00:44] - "We're together!" – A third-date surprise story.[01:00] - "We’re a thing now" – Defining relationships after intimacy.[01:23] - Why exclusivity is a hard but necessary question.[02:02] - What if you want to date other people?[02:12] - The trap of not being exclusive from the start.[02:40] - "I just assumed..." – The danger of surface-level talk.[04:19] - Why some people avoid the exclusivity conversation.[06:17] - Knowing your place in the relationship after six months.[06:51] - "Rules and boundaries" – Setting the standard early on.[07:32] - Transitioning from a breakup to a new friendship.[08:45] - The importance of getting to know someone over time.[19:40] - Closing thoughts and words of wisdom.#mensufferinsilencepodcast #ModernDating #DivorceRecovery #MensPodcast #RealTalk #goldenyearswisdom #MenSufferInSilence #MensMentalHealth #PodcastForMen #Vulnerability #RealTalk #MentalHealthMatters #SafeSpaceForMen #NewPodcast #YouTubePodcast #mensufferinsilencepodcastDon't forget to Like, Subscribe, and hit the Notification Bell to join our community of honest conversations! 👇👇🏻👇🏿Tune in to "Men Suffer In Silence" on all platforms. Check the link below!https://linktr.ee/mensufferinsilence

    20 min
  3. MAY 5

    Revenge Cheating: Does 'Getting Even' Actually Save a Relationship? 💔⛓️

    In this powerful and raw episode of the Men Suffer In Silence Podcast, the crew dives deep into one of the most controversial topics in modern dating: Revenge Cheating. 📉 When the person you love betrays you, the impulse to "get even" can be overwhelming—but is it ever worth it?We break down the psychology behind retaliation, the toxic cycle of "tit-for-tat" infidelity, and why some people stay in broken relationships just to wait for their moment of revenge. 🔄 From childhood lessons on getting your "lick back" to the absolute destruction of trust, no stone is left unturned as we explore if a relationship can ever truly be "even" after double betrayal.Join the conversation as we tackle the hard truths about communication breakdowns, emotional vs. physical infidelity, and whether true healing can ever come from more hurt. 🕊️Join the discussion and navigate the episode below:[00:10] - Welcome Back: Episode kickoff and topic reveal. 🎙️[01:45] - Defining Revenge Cheating: What it is and how it starts.[03:15] - The Satisfaction Myth: Does "getting even" actually feel good?[04:50] - The Trap: Staying in a relationship just to wait for an opportunity to cheat. 🪤[06:20] - The Unhealthy Reality: Is revenge cheating just a sign it’s already over?[07:55] - Blame Games: Using their past mistakes to justify your current actions.[09:30] - Sabotage: How revenge is often used as a way to end the bond. 🧨[11:10] - The 'Lick Back' Mentality: Comparing adult revenge to childhood playground logic.[12:40] - Trust vs. Honesty: The moment the foundation completely crumbles. 🏚️[14:15] - Can It Be Even? Exploring if double cheating cancels out the pain.[15:50] - Forced Hand: Why some partners feel they "have" to cheat back.[17:25] - Communication Breakdown: How silence creates the door for temptation. 🚪[18:45] - Gender Perspectives: Emotional vs. physical infidelity.[19:55] - The Final Verdict: Is there any positive outcome for revenge?[20:30] - Outro: Where to follow the Men Suffer In Silence Podcast. 🔗#mensufferinsilencepodcast #ModernDating #DivorceRecovery #MensPodcast #RealTalk #goldenyearswisdom #MenSufferInSilence #MensMentalHealth #PodcastForMen #Vulnerability #RealTalk #MentalHealthMatters #SafeSpaceForMen #NewPodcast #YouTubePodcast #mensufferinsilencepodcastDon't forget to Like, Subscribe, and hit the Notification Bell to join our community of honest conversations! 👇👇🏻👇🏿Tune in to "Men Suffer In Silence" on all platforms. Check the link below!https://linktr.ee/mensufferinsilence(40)

    21 min
  4. MAR 18

    The Controversial Intimacy Debate Modern Couples Can't Agree On

    In this episode of Men Suffer In Silence, the team tackles one of the most controversial and polarizing topics in modern relationships: Wake-Up Sex. Is it a romantic gesture between spouses, or is it a legal and moral minefield? 🚩 We dive deep into:🔥 The "SA" word: Why mentioning sexual assault in a marriage can be a "relationship-ender."🔥 The "Agreement" Trap: Do you really need a written contract before cuddling?🔥 Personal Stories: From "thief in the night" moments to a hilarious (and shocking) story about a coworker.🔥 Extreme Requests: Dealing with "choking" and other high-risk intimacy requests.We aren't holding back—Rawsko, Richie B, and Lucky break down the legalities, the disrespect, and the reality of modern dating. Where do you draw the line? Is "no" always "no" in the middle of a deep sleep?👇 DROP A COMMENT: Is wake-up sex a "Yes" or a "Hard No" in your house?Subscribe for more raw, unfiltered conversations!12 Timestamps Throughout the Video:[00:21] - The big question: Is waking your partner up for sex considered sexual assault?[01:02] - The double standard: What if she wakes him up?[01:42] - Do you need a "prior agreement" in a long-term relationship?[02:43] - Being offended: Why hearing the "SA" word from a spouse is a "done deal."[04:02] - Fear in the relationship: "I’m scared you might call the police on me."[04:55] - Historical context: How laws regarding marital rights have changed since the '80s.[06:44] - The "No Means No" generation: How our upbringing differs from our parents.[07:44] - The "Thief in the Night" vs. Spooning: The right and wrong way to wake someone up.[08:47] - Changing the dynamic: "I won’t even give you that vibe no more."[10:36] - Role reversal: A shocking story about a man being assaulted by a coworker.[11:48] - Extreme intimacy: When partners ask for "choking" and passing out.[13:12] - Final Verdict: Why rape is never cool and there are "professionals" for everything else. #mensufferinsilencepodcast #ModernDating #DivorceRecovery #MensPodcast #RealTalk #goldenyearswisdom #MenSufferInSilence #MensMentalHealth #PodcastForMen #Vulnerability #RealTalk #MentalHealthMatters #SafeSpaceForMen #NewPodcast #YouTubePodcast #mensufferinsilencepodcastTune in to "Men Suffer In Silence" on all platforms. Check the link below!https://linktr.ee/mensufferinsilence

    15 min
  5. MAR 16

    Her Fitness Glow-Up Exposed A Bigger Problem

    Is it insecurity or a valid boundary? 🚩 In today’s episode, we dive into a heavy email from a loyal listener who is at a breaking point. After a fitness journey together, his wife has "aged backwards"—and her wardrobe has followed suit. He loves her progress but hates the constant male attention and the "disrespectful" shift from the modest woman he married.Join the team as we debate:✨ The line between self-confidence and seeking external validation.✨ Does dressing provocative disrespect the marriage?✨ Why men often "suffer in silence" when they feel their boundaries are being belittled.✨ Is "classy" always better than "flashy"?What would you do if your partner completely changed their style after getting in shape? Let us know in the comments!👇 Subscribe for more raw conversations on modern relationships.Timestamps[00:16] - The "John" email: "I love my wife's progress but I hate the attention."[01:05] - "She's aging backwards": The shift from modest to provocative.[01:25] - The "Insecure" Trap: When boundaries are dismissed as jealousy.[01:45] - The ultimatum: Why the listener is thinking about leaving.[02:13] - Initial reactions: Should she have stayed unhealthy to keep the peace?[02:33] - Class vs. Body: Showing off the work without losing the elegance.[03:09] - The Motivation: Was the fitness for health or for the attention?[03:37] - The Respect Factor: It’s not about the clothes, it’s about the feelings.[04:41] - A different perspective: Does she just feel good about herself?[05:30] - The Trust Test: If you trust her, does the outfit matter?[06:15] - Flipping the script: If the husband started flaunting his "new body."[07:44] - The "School Girl" analogy: Aging gracefully vs. a total transformation.[08:28] - The reality of male attention: Why men can't "help themselves."[09:22] - A personal story: Dealing with a partner who gets too much attention.[11:30] - Final Advice: How to handle the situation without losing the relationship. #MenSufferInSilence #ModernDating #DivorceRecovery #MensPodcast #RealTalk #goldenyearswisdom #MenSufferInSilence #MensMentalHealth #PodcastForMen #Vulnerability #RealTalk #MentalHealthMatters #SafeSpaceForMen #NewPodcast #YouTubePodcast #mensufferinsilencepodcastTune in to "Men Suffer In Silence" on all platforms. Check the link below!https://linktr.ee/mensufferinsilence

    12 min
  6. MAR 10

    Dating over 40: The Brutal Truth About Rules, Boundaries, and the "Dirty" Dating Pool

    Think dating in your 50s is just like your 20s but with better wine? Think again. In this raw and unfiltered episode of the Men Suffer In Silence Podcast, Lucky, Rawsko Squeezoff, and Rich B dive deep into the reality of starting over. From why the modern dating pool feels like "someone pissed in it" to the essential Relationship Checklist every man needs, we aren't holding anything back.We discuss the controversial "PTO" (Personal Time Off) rule, why credit scores matter more than ever, and how to spot "eye candy" that has zero substance before it costs you your peace. Whether you're recently divorced or looking for your "golden years" partner, these boundaries are the survival guide you didn't know you needed.Don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT with your own dating rules, and SUBSCRIBE for more real talk!🕒 Chapter Timestamps:[00:31] Topic Reveal: The new rules of dating at 50[01:25] The "PTO" Rule: Why men reserve the right to personal time off[03:01] The Checklist: Why being upfront is better than walking on eggshells[04:12] Starting Over: The mental shift of divorce after 50[05:45] The Dating Pool Analogy: "One big pool that someone pissed in"[06:31] Financial Boundaries: Why credit and status are dealbreakers[10:11] Sex vs. Decisions: How the "pedestal" shifts as you age[11:44] Intellectual Compatibility: The necessity of good conversation[12:44] Story Time: The "Socially Awkward" date at a family function[15:33] The Mother’s Test: Spotting "Eye Candy" with no substance[18:49] Don’t Change the Mission: Respecting a man’s work ethic[20:55] Adjusting vs. Changing: How to merge lives without losing yourself[22:14] Time Management: Why 50-year-olds have no time for games[23:23] Hidden Motives: Why long-term marriages fail after 20+ years[27:44] Lessons from Divorce: Dealing with separation and "choosing sides"#DatingAt50 #RelationshipBoundaries #MenSufferInSilence #ModernDating #DivorceRecovery #MensPodcast #RealTalk #goldenyearswisdom #MenSufferInSilence #MensMentalHealth #PodcastForMen #Vulnerability #RealTalk #MentalHealthMatters #SafeSpaceForMen #NewPodcast #YouTubePodcast #mensufferinsilencepodcastTune in to "Men Suffer In Silence" on all platforms. Check the link below!https://linktr.ee/mensufferinsilence

    31 min
  7. MAR 10

    Confessions of a Master Thief: 25 Years of Heroin, Prison, and the Hustle to Redemption

    Strap in for one of the most raw, unfiltered, and surprisingly hilarious redemption stories you will ever hear. Meet Benzo Kenzo, a man who spent 25 years in the trenches of heroin addiction and professional thievery, treating prison stints like "college semesters" to sharpen his criminal craft. But this isn't just a war story about the dark days; it’s a masterclass on how to flip the script. Benzo reveals how he took the elite "people skills" he developed while robbing stores blind and transformed them into the customer service superpowers that made him a successful, legitimate business owner today.From the "Grand Tour" of every major penitentiary in Maryland to the lonely, desperate rock bottom where the party finally stops, Benzo holds nothing back. You’ll hear about the "versatile addict" who can find trouble in any city, the psychological trick of the "Taxi Selfie" that keeps him clean, and why he refuses to stay in Baltimore for more than an hour. Capped off with a side-splitting story about a security guard takedown gone wrong, this episode proves that no matter how deep the hole, you can always climb out—if you’ve got the hustle.Timestamps:[00:00] - The Confession: Admitting to being a "professional thief" and how he used charm to rob stores without a gun.[00:51] - Flipping the Script: How he transferred his criminal "people skills" into running a legitimate business.[02:18] - Benzo Kenzo enters the chat and jokes that the podcast's audio bars remind him of police lights.[04:09] - The Gateway: How childhood trauma, alcohol, and weed opened the door to harder struggles.[05:19] - 25 Years in the Trenches: A quarter-century stint with heroin that spanned multiple states.[06:23] - The "Grand Tour" of Prisons: Recalling his time in every major facility from the Penitentiary to Jessup.[07:47] - Criminal University: Why prison didn't stop him, but actually served as "college" to learn new ways to rob.[08:48] - The Versatile Addict: Dropping into a new city and finding the "scene" in under five minutes.[10:11] - True Rock Bottom: The moment you realize all your friends are dead or gone, and you're using alone.[13:33] - No Splitting a 20: The intense isolation and paranoia of deep addiction where trust doesn't exist.[15:43] - The Replacement Family: When the substance becomes the only "relative" you care about.[17:01] - The Personality Test: If you were a drug, which one would you be? (Benzo chooses 1980s Cocaine).[21:32] - The Achilles Heel: Why he treats Baltimore like a danger zone and refuses to linger there.[25:02] - The Landlord Hustle: How he once scammed his way into running a boarding house for other addicts.[27:37] - The Taxi Selfie: The powerful psychological trick he used in a cab ride to rehab to never forget his lowest point.[33:39] - Boss Mentality: Rejecting the temp agencies that treated him like a number to start his own empire.[41:44] - The Takedown: A hilarious story about a security guard tackling him—and why he couldn't stop laughing while being arrested. #MenSufferInSilence #MensMentalHealth #PodcastForMen #Vulnerability #RealTalk #MentalHealthMatters #SafeSpaceForMen #NewPodcast #YouTubePodcast #mensufferinsilencepodcastTune in to "Men Suffer In Silence" on all platforms. Check the link below!https://linktr.ee/mensufferinsilence

    45 min
  8. MAR 10

    Sharing Relationship Finances? 💸 Why Sharing Your Bank Account Might Be Your Biggest Mistake!

    THE TRAP OF JOINT ACCOUNTS? 💸 Why Sharing Your Bank Account Might Be Your Biggest Mistake!Video DescriptionAre you working hard just to ask for an allowance? In this eye-opening episode of the Men Suffer In Silence Podcast, the crew dives deep into one of the most controversial topics in any relationship: FINANCES. From personal horror stories of losing total control to the secret strategies for maintaining your independence, this discussion is a MUST-WATCH for anyone in a serious relationship. We’re breaking down the power dynamics, the hidden "skimming," and the real reason why treating your marriage like a business might actually save your love life.🔥 In this video, you’ll discover:Why the "10% Rule" is a game-changer for your financial sanity.The psychological toll of having to ask for your own hard-earned cash.How total transparency can sometimes lead to total control.Pro-tips on balancing joint family goals with personal freedom.Don't let money be the reason you suffer in silence. Hit that play button, join the conversation, and learn how to protect your peace—and your pockets!Timestamps[00:00] The 10% Rule: Why everyone needs their own access.[00:43] Girlfriend or Wife? Deciding when to share financial info.[01:41] The Control Factor: Who is really managing the money?[03:00] A Personal Story: "My mother called me a bad name for this."[03:59] The "Friday Meeting" that never happened.[05:34] The Exit Strategy: Why you can’t leave if you have no money.[06:24] Learning from the First Marriage: The "textbook" mistake.[07:34] When simple wants become "Roundtable Meetings."[09:11] Financial Double Standards: 57 Purses vs. A new car radio.[10:32] The "Financial Guy" Perspective: Taking charge of the paperwork.[11:35] Life Hack: Using multiple bank accounts for different goals.[12:41] Reality Check: Why 50% divorce rates mean you need a backup.[13:16] Feeling "Less of a Man": The weight of financial dependence.[14:33] Marriage as a Business: The legal and moral reality of partnerships.[15:24] Your Turn: How to share your anonymous story with the show!#MenSufferInSilence #MensMentalHealth #PodcastForMen #Vulnerability #RealTalk #MentalHealthMatters #SafeSpaceForMen #NewPodcast #YouTubePodcast #mensufferinsilencepodcastTune in to "Men Suffer In Silence" on all platforms. Check the link below!https://linktr.ee/mensufferinsilence

    16 min

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Life's complicated. Being a man doesn't have to be. We're just three guys (Rich Blackman, Lucky Let'em Know, and Rawsko Squeezoff) trying to figure it all out, and we're bringing you along for the ride. We're talking with other men about the real stuff—the pressures, the screw-ups, and the silent battles we all face. No judgment, no BS, just real talk for men who are tired of going through it alone. For Men who Suffer In Silence!