Murder of Crones

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Murder of Crones is a podcast featuring three Gen X women - Zabrina Nelson, Kori Kelloway & Jen Fink - who examine culture, history, and ageism through an intersectional feminist lens.  With humour and honesty, they challenge the patriarchy while celebrating women's voices and wisdom.

  1. Jul 10

    E21 Trans Athletes, Part 2

    This episode explores the complex and nuanced issues surrounding trans athletes in sports, focusing on biological, hormonal, and societal factors. We delve into recent IOC rulings, scientific research gaps, and the broader implications for fairness and inclusion. This episode dives into the complex and often controversial topic of trans athletes in sports, examining biological, ethical, and societal perspectives. We explore how policies are shaped, the science behind physical advantages, and the importance of inclusive, evidence-based approaches.   Show Notes Takeaways: - The IOC's new rules require genetic testing for Y chromosomes in female athletes. - Hormonal and chromosomal factors complicate the assessment of athletic advantage. - There is a significant lack of research on trans bodies and athletic performance. - Policies often target trans women, raising concerns about fairness and discrimination. - Chromosomal anomalies like SRY can affect eligibility and are often misunderstood. - A more inclusive approach might involve rethinking gender categories altogether. - The science of gender and performance is evolving, but gaps remain. - Trans athletes face risks of misclassification and unfair bans due to imperfect tests. - Societal biases and political agendas influence sports policies. - Creating fair and inclusive sports environments requires nuanced, science-based policies.   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to trans athletes and recent IOC rulings 01:59 Understanding gender identity, cisgender, and trans terminology 04:06 Biological factors influencing athletic performance 05:53 The IOC's genetic testing protocols and their implications 08:00 Hormones, testosterone, and athletic advantage 10:00 Chromosomal anomalies and their impact on eligibility 11:47 The science gaps and research challenges 14:02 Societal and political considerations in sports policies 16:01 Potential models for inclusive sports categories 18:06 Gender-neutral bathrooms and societal perceptions 19:57 The future of trans inclusion and fairness in sports References: “About — Chris Mosier.” Chris Mosier, https://www.thechrismosier.com/about-1. Accessed 24 June 2026. Basina, Marina. “What are normal testosterone levels? Ages, males, females, and more.” Medical News Today, https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323085#typical-levels. Accessed 24 June 2026. Batista, Rafael Loch, and et. al. “Androgen insensitivity syndrome: a review - PMC.” PMC, Archives of Endocrinology and Metabolism, 23 March 2018, https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10118986/. “Biological Foundations of Gender: Genes, Hormones, and Behavior.” Biological Foundations of Gender, Gender Studies, 23 September 2025, https://gender.study/?print-my-blog=1&post-type=post&statuses%5B0%5D=publish&rendering_wait=0&columns=1&font_size=normal&image_size=full&links=include&show_site_title=1&show_site_tagline=1&show_site_url=1&show_date_printed=1&show_title=1&show_url=1&show_da. Daftardar, Ishan. “Scientific Analysis Of Michael Phelps's Body Structure » ScienceABC.” ScienceABC, https://www.scienceabc.com/sports/michael-phelps-height-arms-torso-arm-span-feet-swimming. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Gender & Athletic Ability: Are Men Really Better Athletes Than Women?” Cathe Friedrich, 23 October 2016, https://cathe.com/gender-athletic-ability-men-really-better-athletes-women/. Hamilton, Blair, et al. “Strength, power and aerobic capacity of transgender athletes: a cross-sectional study.” Open Access, Br J Sports Med, 2024, https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/bjsports/early/2024/04/10/bjsports-2023-108029.full.pdf. Hunter, Sandra K., and Jonathon W. Senefeld. “Sex Difference in Human Performance.” The Physiological Society, The Journal of Physiology, 06 August 2024, https://physoc.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1113/JP284198. “International Olympic Committee announces new Policy on the Protection of the Female (Women's) Category in Olympic Sport.” Olympics.com, 26 March 2026, https://www.olympics.com/ioc/news/international-olympic-committee-announces-new-policy-on-the-protection-of-the-female-women-s-category-in-olympic-sport. Accessed 24 June 2026. Joyner, Michael J., et al. “Evidence on Sex Differences in Sport Performance.” Journal of Applied Physiology, 2025, https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/japplphysiol.00615.2024. “Lia Thomas.” Wikipedia, wikipedia.org, 17 June 2026, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lia_Thomas. “Mixed-sex sports.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mixed-sex_sports. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Puberty and Transitioning for Trans and Non-Binary Youth.” Kids Help Phone, 18 June 2019, https://kidshelpphone.ca/get-info/puberty-transitioning-trans-non-binary-youth/. Ro, Christine. “The sports where women outperform men.” BBC, 1 August 2024, https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20240731-the-sports-where-women-outperform-men. Rohmer, Robert B., and Glynne Walley. “Androgen insensitivity syndrome.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androgen_insensitivity_syndrome. Accessed 24 June 2026. Sonksen, Peter H., et al. “Why do endocrine profiles in elite athletes differ between sports?” Springer Nature Link, Clinical Diabetes and Endocrinology, 07 February 2018, https://doi.org/10.1186/s40842-017-0050-3. Soriano, Daniel. “Semenya hurt over IOC's women's category stance.” Inside the Games, 28 March 2026, https://www.insidethegames.biz/articles/semenya-voices-hurt-over-coventrys-trans-stance. Stechyson, Natalie. “She won boxing gold. Now Imane Khelif has filed a harassment complaint over claims she's a man or transgender.” CBC, https://www.cbc.ca/sports/olympics/summer/boxing/boxing-harassment-imane-khelif-1.7292457. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Testosterone — What It Does And Doesn't Do.” Harvard Health, https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthy-aging-and-longevity/testosterone--what-it-does-and-doesnt-do. Accessed 19 April 2026. The Associated Press. “Cycling governing body bans female transgender athletes from women's races.” CBC Sports, CBC.ca, 14 July 2023, https://www.cbc.ca/sports/olympics/summer/cycling/cycling-transgender-female-ban-1.6906815. Webb, Karleigh, et al. “These 29 trans athletes have won major competitions or titles - Outsports.” OutSports, 6 December 2024, https://www.outsports.com/2024/12/6/22948400/transgender-trans-athlete-championship-national-world-title/. Accessed 24 June 2026. “What are Gonads? Definition, Function, and Types.” biology insights, 22 July 2025, https://biologyinsights.com/what-are-gonads-definition-function-and-types/. “X and Y Chromosome Variations.” AXYS, Genetic.org, 2026, https://genetic.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/AXYS-General-Brochure-Update-5-26.pdf. Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : mofcrones@gmail.com   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

  2. Jun 26

    E20 The Trans Conversation, Part 1

    Welcome to Part 1 of our trans episodes, we explore the complex science of gender, sex, and biological variations, aiming to demystify trans identities and challenge societal perceptions. Join us for an in-depth discussion on how biology, culture, and identity intersect. This episode explores the complex science behind testosterone levels, gender transition, and athletic performance, highlighting the gaps in current research and the importance of nuanced understanding in sports and gender identity.   Show Notes: Takeaways - Gender is a spectrum, not a binary. - Chromosomal variations are common and often undiagnosed. - Testosterone and estrogen levels influence physical and emotional traits. - Society's gender roles are performative and culturally constructed. - Understanding biology helps reduce stigma around trans identities. - Differences between sex and gender - Chromosomal variations and their impact - Hormonal influences on gender expression - Societal roles and gender performance - Biological diversity and trans identities Testosterone levels across age and gender - Impact of puberty blockers on physical development - Scientific gaps in trans athlete research - Physical advantages in sports related to biology - The role of hormone therapy in gender transition -Legal and ethical considerations in sports   Chapters: 00:00 Exploring Femininity and Gender Roles 03:09 Understanding Trans Identity and Gender Definitions 09:17 Navigating Gender Fluidity and Societal Norms 16:40 The Spectrum of Gender Expression 27:09 Cultural Perspectives on Gender 32:05 Chromosomal Variances and Their Implications 40:26 Understanding Testosterone in Women 47:10 The Complexity of Hormonal Testing in Athletes 56:07 The Role of Puberty Blockers in Trans Youth 01:05:42 Navigating Gender Identity and Medical Interventions 01:12:42 The Role of Schools in Supporting Trans Students 01:16:58 The Science of Puberty Blockers and Trans Youth 01:21:27 The Need for Research on Trans Athletes   References: “About — Chris Mosier.” Chris Mosier, https://www.thechrismosier.com/about-1. Accessed 24 June 2026. Basina, Marina. “What are normal testosterone levels? Ages, males, females, and more.” Medical News Today, https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323085#typical-levels. Accessed 24 June 2026. Batista, Rafael Loch, and et. al. “Androgen insensitivity syndrome: a review - PMC.” PMC, Archives of Endocrinology and Metabolism, 23 March 2018, https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10118986/. “Biological Foundations of Gender: Genes, Hormones, and Behavior.” Biological Foundations of Gender, Gender Studies, 23 September 2025, https://gender.study/?print-my-blog=1&post-type=post&statuses%5B0%5D=publish&rendering_wait=0&columns=1&font_size=normal&image_size=full&links=include&show_site_title=1&show_site_tagline=1&show_site_url=1&show_date_printed=1&show_title=1&show_url=1&show_da. Daftardar, Ishan. “Scientific Analysis Of Michael Phelps's Body Structure » ScienceABC.” ScienceABC, https://www.scienceabc.com/sports/michael-phelps-height-arms-torso-arm-span-feet-swimming. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Gender & Athletic Ability: Are Men Really Better Athletes Than Women?” Cathe Friedrich, 23 October 2016, https://cathe.com/gender-athletic-ability-men-really-better-athletes-women/. Hamilton, Blair, et al. “Strength, power and aerobic capacity of transgender athletes: a cross-sectional study.” Open Access, Br J Sports Med, 2024, https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/bjsports/early/2024/04/10/bjsports-2023-108029.full.pdf. Hunter, Sandra K., and Jonathon W. Senefeld. “Sex Difference in Human Performance.” The Physiological Society, The Journal of Physiology, 06 August 2024, https://physoc.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1113/JP284198. “International Olympic Committee announces new Policy on the Protection of the Female (Women's) Category in Olympic Sport.” Olympics.com, 26 March 2026, https://www.olympics.com/ioc/news/international-olympic-committee-announces-new-policy-on-the-protection-of-the-female-women-s-category-in-olympic-sport. Accessed 24 June 2026. Joyner, Michael J., et al. “Evidence on Sex Differences in Sport Performance.” Journal of Applied Physiology, 2025, https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/japplphysiol.00615.2024. “Lia Thomas.” Wikipedia, wikipedia.org, 17 June 2026, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lia_Thomas. “Mixed-sex sports.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mixed-sex_sports. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Puberty and Transitioning for Trans and Non-Binary Youth.” Kids Help Phone, 18 June 2019, https://kidshelpphone.ca/get-info/puberty-transitioning-trans-non-binary-youth/. Ro, Christine. “The sports where women outperform men.” BBC, 1 August 2024, https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20240731-the-sports-where-women-outperform-men. Rohmer, Robert B., and Glynne Walley. “Androgen insensitivity syndrome.” Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androgen_insensitivity_syndrome. Accessed 24 June 2026. Sonksen, Peter H., et al. “Why do endocrine profiles in elite athletes differ between sports?” Springer Nature Link, Clinical Diabetes and Endocrinology, 07 February 2018, https://doi.org/10.1186/s40842-017-0050-3. Soriano, Daniel. “Semenya hurt over IOC's women's category stance.” Inside the Games, 28 March 2026, https://www.insidethegames.biz/articles/semenya-voices-hurt-over-coventrys-trans-stance. Stechyson, Natalie. “She won boxing gold. Now Imane Khelif has filed a harassment complaint over claims she's a man or transgender.” CBC, https://www.cbc.ca/sports/olympics/summer/boxing/boxing-harassment-imane-khelif-1.7292457. Accessed 24 June 2026. “Testosterone — What It Does And Doesn't Do.” Harvard Health, https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthy-aging-and-longevity/testosterone--what-it-does-and-doesnt-do. Accessed 19 April 2026. The Associated Press. “Cycling governing body bans female transgender athletes from women's races.” CBC Sports, CBC.ca, 14 July 2023, https://www.cbc.ca/sports/olympics/summer/cycling/cycling-transgender-female-ban-1.6906815. Webb, Karleigh, et al. “These 29 trans athletes have won major competitions or titles - Outsports.” OutSports, 6 December 2024, https://www.outsports.com/2024/12/6/22948400/transgender-trans-athlete-championship-national-world-title/. Accessed 24 June 2026. “What are Gonads? Definition, Function, and Types.” biology insights, 22 July 2025, https://biologyinsights.com/what-are-gonads-definition-function-and-types/. “X and Y Chromosome Variations.” AXYS, Genetic.org, 2026, https://genetic.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/AXYS-General-Brochure-Update-5-26.pdf. Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : mofcrones@gmail.com   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

  3. Jun 12

    E19 Spilling the Tea - In Defence of Gossip

    In this episode, Kori leads the squad as they explore the complex history and social significance of gossip, its evolution from a trusted form of communication to a stigmatized activity, and its potential as a tool for social bonding, protection, and empowerment. Join us as we challenge stereotypes and reclaim gossip as a positive force for community and connection.   Show Notes Takeaways: - History of gossip from the 16th century to today - Gossip's role in women's social networks and safety - The evolution of gossip from a trusted communication to a stigmatized activity - The use of gossip in social learning, trust, and accountability - Historical punishments for women accused of gossiping, including public shaming and   violence - The concept of whisper networks and their role in exposing predators like Harvey Weinstein - The importance of women’s communication for community building and safety - Reclaiming gossip as a pro-social, empowering activity - The influence of media in shaping perceptions of gossip and communication - The significance of women supporting each other through shared stories and experiences Chapters 00:00 Gossip and Its Social Implications 03:45 Introduction and Technical Setup 04:11 Understanding Gossip: Modern Perceptions and Stigma 12:30 The Historical Evolution of Gossip 20:10 Gossip as a Tool for Safety and Connection 21:10 The Silencing of Women: Historical Context 27:36 The Impact of Gossip on Women's Lives 31:28 Witch Trials and the Fear of Female Power 37:57 Gossip as a Tool for Connection and Empowerment 38:48 The Whisper Network: A Protective System 41:18 The Impact of Investigative Journalism 43:24 The Disappointment of Fallen Idols 44:27 Ghislaine Maxwell and Gendered Justice 45:01 The Role of Female Spies in History 46:06 Women Talking: A Cinematic Reflection 50:00 The Power of Women’s Conversations 53:20 Reclaiming Gossip as a Positive Force References: Dunbar, R. I. M. (2004). Gossip in evolutionary perspective. Review of General Psychology, 8(2), 100–110. Federici, S. (2018). Witches, witch-hunting, and women. PM Press. Feinberg, M., Willer, R., & Schultz, M. (2014). Gossip and ostracism promote cooperation in groups. Psychological Science, 25(3), 656–664. Foster, E. K. (2004). Research on gossip: Taxonomy, methods, and future directions. Review of General Psychology, 8(2), 78–99. Kantor, J., & Twohey, M. (2019). She said: Breaking the sexual harassment story that helped ignite a movement. Penguin Press. Robbins, M. L., & Karan, A. (2020). Who gossips and how in everyday life. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 11(3), 397–405. Toews, M. (2018). Women talking: A novel. Bloomsbury Publishing.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : mofcrones@gmail.com   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

  4. May 29

    E18 Female Genital Mutilation - A Global Pandemic

    This episode explores the deeply rooted and complex issue of female genital mutilation (FGM), its cultural origins, health consequences, and the ongoing efforts to eradicate it. Hosted by Zabrina, Kori, and Jen, the discussion aims to educate and inspire action against this human rights violation.   Show Notes Takeaways: - Definitions and classifications of FGM - Global prevalence and cultural origins - Health risks and long-term consequences - Survivor stories and emotional impact - Efforts to educate, prevent, and provide support   Chapters: 00:00 A Shocking Story: The Rat Incident 00:16 Understanding Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) 02:58 Understanding Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) 04:55 Cultural Context and Prevalence of FGM 05:37 Types and Classifications of FGM 08:07 Health Risks and Complications of FGM 11:32 Historical Origins and Social Drivers of FGM 15:15 Societal Pressures and Personal Stories 18:59 Healthcare Challenges and Education on FGM 22:23 Advocacy and Changing Cultural Practices 25:27 The Role of Women in Cultural Practices 28:38 Modernization and Medicalization of FGM 31:36 Consequences of FGM on Women's Health 34:00 Cultural Norms and Male Perspectives 38:55 Cultural Identity and the Impact of Immigration 42:04 Understanding the Impact of FGM 45:02 Generational Trauma and Community Change 47:58 Education and Advocacy for Women's Rights 50:50 Confronting Harmful Practices with Compassion   References: BMJ Global Health. (2020). FGM and maternal health outcomes.  Nature. (2023). Global burden estimates related to female genital mutilation.  BBC Africa. (n.d.). FGM: For the love of Fatmata [Video]. YouTube.  AS/IS. (n.d.). How I survived female genital mutilation [Video]. YouTube. SWPictures. (n.d.). The cutting tradition [Video]. YouTube. FGM: Denouncing The Cut [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube.  FGM: A Scourge That Persists In Gambia, But Mentalities Are Slowly Changing [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube.  Hibo’s Story [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube.  Hussein, L. (n.d.). FGM Survivor: Leyla Hussein’s Story [Video]. YouTube. Hussein, L. (n.d.). Cruel cut [Video]. YouTube.  The Girl Who Said No to FGM [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube.  The Unknown Pandemic: Female Genital Mutilation/cutting [Video]. (n.d.). YouTube.  World Health Organization. (2023). Female Genital Mutilation (FGM). https://www.who.int UNICEF. (2023). Female genital mutilation: A global concern. https://www.unicef.org UNFPA. (2022). Female genital mutilation dashboard. https://www.unfpa.org    Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : mofcrones@gmail.com   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

  5. May 15

    E17 Smile Sweetie the Story of Resting B Face

    In this engaging episode our hosts explore the societal perceptions of women's facial expressions, especially Resting Bitch Face (RBF), and how these perceptions impact women's experiences in healthcare, professional settings, and social interactions. It delves into cultural differences, gender stereotypes, racial biases, and the importance of self-advocacy.   Show Notes Takeaways: - The science behind facial expressions and social cues - Cultural differences in interpreting resting face - Gender bias and societal expectations around women and men - The impact of resting face on women's professional and personal lives - Unconscious biases and their influence on perception Societal perceptions of women's facial expressions - Impact of RBF on women's healthcare experiences - Cultural differences in expressing emotions - Racial and gender biases in social and medical contexts - Strategies for self-advocacy and authenticity   Chapters: 00:01 Introduction to Murder of Crones Podcast 00:49 Exploring RBF 05:28 Personal Experiences with RBF 11:00 Cultural Perspectives on Facial Expressions 14:04 The Burden of Smiling 16:18 RBF: A Double Standard 18:47 Cultural Expectations and Gender Norms 20:39 Unconscious Bias and Social Perception 29:16 The Impact of RBF on Professional Life 35:59 Navigating Health and Communication Challenges 36:49 The Impact of RBF on Women's Health 39:45 Systematic Dismissal of Women's Pain 44:13 Advocating for Women's Health in Medical Settings 47:03 Intersectionality in Healthcare Disparities 53:01 Understanding Neurodiversity and Gender Bias 54:25 Understanding Neurodivergence in Women 55:54 Cultural Perspectives on Facial Expressions 01:00:46 The Impact of RBF Across Cultures 01:05:27 Breaking Gender Norms and Embracing Authenticity 01:08:28 The Social Media Landscape and Its Effects 01:11:16 Concluding Thoughts on Performance and Identity   References: B, Nikki. “The "Bitch” Penalty: Why Assertive Women Pay the Price in Industry.” Linked In, 5 March 2026, https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/bitch-penalty-why-assertive-women-pay-price-industry-nikki-bens-vzvqc/. Carpenter, Kalyn. “Getting real about women's health - Fatal delays and the misdiagnosis epidemic.” Curious Health, 7 March 2024, https://curioushealth.io/getting-real-about-womens-health-fatal-delays-and-the-misdiagnosis-epidemic/. Accessed 5 April 2026. Christopher, Watkins D., et al. “Social Transmission of Leadership Preference: Knowledge of Group Membership and Partisan Media Reporting Moderates Perceptions of Leadership Ability From Facial Cues to Competence and Dominance.” Frontiers in Psychology, vol. 10, no. 2996, 2020. National Library of Medicine, https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6971406/. Cooke, Martin, and Tasha Shields. “Anti-Indigenous racism in Canadian healthcare: a scoping review of the literature.” International Journal for Quality in Health Care, vol. 36, no. 3, 2024. Oxford Academic, https://academic.oup.com/intqhc/article/36/3/mzae089/7749614?login=false. Grossman, Samantha. “The Insidious Sexism of 'Resting Bitch Face.'” This Week, 10 January 2019, https://theweek.com/articles/815496/insidious-sexism-resting-bitch-face. Harris Dr., Felecia C. “The Resting "Bitch" Face: Exploring The Intersection of African American Women, Race, Class, Sexuality. Gender and Reality TV.” University of North Carolina at Charlotte, 2016. Digital Commons, https://digitalcommons.winthrop.edu/sewsa/2016/fullschedule/5/. Khazan, Olga. “Why Some Cultures Frown on Smiling.” The Atlantic, 27 May 2016, https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/05/culture-and-smiling/483827/. Mehrotra, Palasha Krishna. “The Unsmiling Indian.” Man's World, https://www.mansworldindia.com/lifestyle/the-unsmiling-indian. R, Rathi. “Resting Bitch Face: Why Are Only Women Accused Of Having It?” Feminism in India, 1 August 2017, https://feminisminindia.com/2017/08/01/resting-bitch-face-women/. Salamon, Maureen. “The dangerous dismissal of women's pain.” Harvard Women's Health Watch, 2025. Harvard Health Publishing, https://www.health.harvard.edu/pain/the-dangerous-dismissal-of-womens-pain. “The Science Behind an Expressive Face and Its Signals.” Science Insights, 25 November 2025, https://scienceinsights.org/the-science-behind-an-expressive-face-and-its-signals/. Strinic, Andrea, et al. “Multiple-group membership: warmth and competence perceptions in the workplace.” Journal of Business and Psychology, vol. 36, 2020, pp. 903-920. Springer Nature Link, https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10869-020-09713-4.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : mofcrones@gmail.com   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

  6. May 1

    E16 Tradwives: Feminist Freedom or Step Backward?

    What happens when traditional gender roles meet modern feminism? In this episode of Murder of Crones, Kori, Jen, and Zab unpack the rise of the Tradwife movement—looking beyond the aesthetic to question power, choice, and control. Is it genuine empowerment, or a return to limiting roles shaped by religion and politics? Are Tradwives anti-feminist… or feminism in action? Listen in and decide.   Show Notes Takeaways: The traditional wife model: roles, aesthetics, and cultural significance Power dynamics and submission within Tradwife relationships The ideological underpinnings: religion, politics, and white nationalism Social media's role in glamorizing and monetizing Tradwife culture Feminism’s perspective: choice, autonomy, and societal implications The intersection of Tradwives with conservative policies and social agendas The economic realities and risks for women adopting this lifestyle Critique of hustle culture and capitalism within the Tradwife aesthetic Future challenges: legislation, social acceptance, and diversity of choice Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: the rise and cultural aesthetic of Tradwives 02:00 - Social media's influence on Tradwife culture 03:13 - Initial reactions: admiration, confusion, alarm 03:38 - Tradwives as a step backward for feminism 04:01 - Wealth and visibility in Tradwife portrayals 05:03 - Traditional model: roles, submission, and gender dynamics 06:49 - Visual aesthetics and curated femininity 07:46 - Morphed and adapted social media presence 08:38 - Gender differences and role delineation 09:04 - Trust and decision-making in Tradwife relationships 10:11 - The importance of partnership vs hierarchy 11:00 - Vulnerabilities: losing skills, economic insecurity 12:06 - Historical context: 1950s family ideals 13:16 - Religious and conservative political influences 14:37 - Social media promotion and the glamorization of domestic skills 16:12 - Economic autonomy and potential risks for women 17:18 - The appeal amid burnout and social chaos 18:29 - Declining marriage rates and social trends 19:25 - The racial and nationalist undertones of procreation drives 21:17 - Impact on children and religious influences on gender roles 22:39 - Religious and conservative currents in the Tradwife movement 25:41 - The intersection with politics, legislation, and social policy 28:49 - Submission, obedience, and power structures in relationships 36:32 - The branding and monetization of Tradwife influencers 44:51 - Social media as a marketing platform and industry for Tradwives 55:21 - The dangerous undercurrents: white nationalism, religious fundamentalism 60:27 - Feminism and choice: navigating autonomy vs societal pressures 62:41 - The importance of political engagement and education 64:29 - The role of legislation and the need for social vigilance 66:01 - The importance of critical thinking and empathy in education 66:39 - Closing thoughts and acknowledgments   This episode provides a nuanced perspective on a controversial social phenomenon—balancing respect for individual choice with a critique of underlying societal and political currents. Whether you see the Tradwife lifestyle as empowerment or regression, understanding its complexities is essential.   Reference:                                                                                                                           Bilezikian, G. (1985). Beyond sex roles: What the Bible says about a woman’s place in church and family. Baker Academic. Butler, J. (1990). Gender trouble: Feminism and the subversion of identity. Routledge. Hochschild, A. R., & Machung, A. (2012). The second shift: Working families and the revolution at home (Revised ed.). Penguin Books. (Original work published 1989) Nock, S. L. (1998). Marriage in men’s lives. Oxford University Press. Pateman, C. (1988). The sexual contract. Stanford University Press. Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity: Unlocking erotic intelligence. HarperCollins. Rubin, G. (1975). The traffic in women: Notes on the “political economy” of sex. In R. Reiter (Ed.), Toward an anthropology of women (pp. 157–210). Monthly Review Press. Schwartz, P. (1994). Peer marriage: How love between equals really works. Free Press. Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : mofcrones@gmail.com Special Thanks to www.dinnissindesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

  7. Apr 17

    E15 Sex Myths, Part 2

    Welcome back for part 2 of Sex Myths. In this episode, we explore common myths about sex and desire in long-term relationships, aiming to shed light on the realities that often go unspoken. Our conversations unravel misconceptions that can hinder intimacy, offering insight and encouragement for enduring love lives.   Show Notes  Takeaways: The myth that love naturally sustains desire over time How desire evolves with age and changes in life circumstances The impact of societal expectations and myths about aging and sexuality The role of emotional safety, distance, and separation in maintaining desire The influence of societal norms, porn, and cultural stories on expectations The significance of communication and honesty about intimacy The effects of parenthood and life transitions on sexuality Challenging the idea that sexual frequency equals health The importance of individual external lives and separate interests How myths about sexual performance and aging can create unnecessary stress Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to the myths surrounding long-term sex and desire    02:17 - Why silence and shame impact ongoing intimacy                          04:46 - The myth that desire fades as love endures                                        10:05 - How opening relationships doesn't necessarily restore desire      13:54 - The historical and cultural context of sexuality in different eras        17:28 - Impact of societal beliefs about spontaneous desire                          22:19 - The challenge of keeping the spark alive and the myth of eternal passion                                                                                                                  26:40 - The effectiveness of date nights and creating space for eroticism  29:47 - Differentiating closeness and desire, and the importance of healthy separation                                                                                                35:10 - How desire fluctuates with life phases and age                                    43:06 - Common misconceptions that low desire signals relationship failure                                                                                                                    47:30 - The influence of porn, fantasy, and societal narratives on expectations                                                                                                      50:01 - The myth that aging ends eroticism and desire Note: For a more comprehensive understanding, we recommend reading Esther Perel’s work, which guides much of our discussion today. The episode emphasizes that desire and intimacy in long-term relationships are dynamic, and myths only serve to create unnecessary pressure. Honest communication, ongoing self-awareness, and redefining societal narratives are key to sustaining a healthy, passionate love life as the years go by. References Basson, R. (2001). Using a different model for female sexual response to address women’s problematic low sexual desire. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 27(5), 395–403. https://doi.org/10.1080/009262301753148637 Baumeister, R. F., Catanese, K. R., & Vohs, K. D. (2001). Is there a gender difference in strength of sex drive? Personality and Social Psychology Review, 5(3), 242–273. https://doi.org/10.1207/S15327957PSPR0503_5 Bogaert, A. F. (2004). Asexuality: Prevalence and associated factors. The Journal of Sex Research, 41(3), 279–287. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224490409552235 Hamilton, L. D., & Meston, C. M. (2013). Chronic stress and sexual function in women. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 42(7), 1349–1359. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-012-0044-0 Leitenberg, H., & Henning, K. (1995). Sexual fantasy. Psychological Bulletin, 117(3), 469–496. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.117.3.469 Lindau, S. T., Schumm, L. P., Laumann, E. O., Levinson, W., O’Muircheartaigh, C. A., & Waite, L. J. (2007). A study of sexuality and health among older adults. New England Journal of Medicine, 357(8), 762–774. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa067423 Muise, A., Schimmack, U., & Impett, E. A. (2016). Sexual frequency predicts greater well-being. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 7(4), 295–302. https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550615616462 Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity: Unlocking erotic intelligence. HarperCollins.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : mofcrones@gmail.com   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

  8. Apr 3

    E14 Sex Myths, Part 1

    Join our hosts as Zabrina leads Kori and Jen in part one of this compelling conversation around Sexual Myths. Discover how myths shape our understanding of desire, intimacy, and aging in long-term relationships. Listen along as we explore cultural narratives, scientific insights, and personal experiences that challenge common assumptions about sexuality at every life stage.   Show Notes Key Topics: The myth that love automatically sustains desire and how desire evolves over time How societal and cultural views on aging impact sexuality for women and men The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire and its implications Why frequency of sex does not equate to relationship health How to navigate changes in desire during major life transitions like parenthood and menopause The role of fantasy, distance, and novelty in maintaining eroticism The importance of open communication and challenging societal myths around aging, sex, and desirability Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to myths about long-term sexuality and desire 02:06 - How desire shifts with age and life changes 03:10 - The myth of maintaining desire through constant effort 05:15 - Scientific insights: spontaneous vs. responsive desire 08:22 - The truth about frequency and relationship satisfaction 12:42 - Myths about aging and the stereotypes of sexuality in older adults 15:15 - Cultural narratives and media representation of older sexuality 20:05 - How societal ageism impacts women's and men's desire 24:00 - The importance of communication and seeking help early 29:00 - Embracing change in desire and redefining intimacy 33:00 - Parenthood, children, and their effects on sexual intimacy 41:41 - Challenging the idea that aging ends eroticism 45:28 - The significance of intentionality and creating space for desire 50:34 - Moving beyond myths: embracing evolving sexuality at every age  References:                                                                                                                         Basson, R. (2001). Using a different model for female sexual response to address women’s problematic low sexual desire. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 27(5), 395–403. https://doi.org/10.1080/009262301753148637 Baumeister, R. F., Catanese, K. R., & Vohs, K. D. (2001). Is there a gender difference in strength of sex drive? Personality and Social Psychology Review, 5(3), 242–273. https://doi.org/10.1207/S15327957PSPR0503_5 Bogaert, A. F. (2004). Asexuality: Prevalence and associated factors. The Journal of Sex Research, 41(3), 279–287. https://doi.org/10.1080/00224490409552235 Hamilton, L. D., & Meston, C. M. (2013). Chronic stress and sexual function in women. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 42(7), 1349–1359. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-012-0044-0 Leitenberg, H., & Henning, K. (1995). Sexual fantasy. Psychological Bulletin, 117(3), 469–496. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.117.3.469 Lindau, S. T., Schumm, L. P., Laumann, E. O., Levinson, W., O’Muircheartaigh, C. A., & Waite, L. J. (2007). A study of sexuality and health among older adults. New England Journal of Medicine, 357(8), 762–774. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa067423 Muise, A., Schimmack, U., & Impett, E. A. (2016). Sexual frequency predicts greater well-being. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 7(4), 295–302. https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550615616462 Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity: Unlocking erotic intelligence. HarperCollins.   Contact Information: Find Murder of Crones on You Tube, Tik Tok, Facebook and Instagram.  Email : mofcrones@gmail.com   Special Thanks to www.dinnissendesign.com for Zabrina’s use of their show room for recording. Check them out for all your interior design needs. Dinnissen Design is located in Vancouver and Castlegar BC.

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Murder of Crones is a podcast featuring three Gen X women - Zabrina Nelson, Kori Kelloway & Jen Fink - who examine culture, history, and ageism through an intersectional feminist lens.  With humour and honesty, they challenge the patriarchy while celebrating women's voices and wisdom.

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