Permission Slip-Ups

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Permission Slip-ups is a podcast about what it really takes to live the life you desire. We all want a life that feels more aligned, more fulfilling, more us. But giving ourselves permission to go after it? That's where things get messy. Kate and David dive into the real-life tension between desire and doubt, courage and caution, freedom and fear. They explore what happens when you take a bold step and it doesn't go as planned, when you hold back because you're afraid it won't work out, and what it means to keep going—even after a stumble. This isn't about having it all figured out. It's about navigating the in-between—the messy middle—where we learn, stretch, slip up, and keep moving forward. Because sometimes the biggest breakthroughs come right after the biggest doubts.

  1. What If Love Is the Mirror You Didn't Ask For?

    4d ago

    What If Love Is the Mirror You Didn't Ask For?

    We have been holding out on you. Today's episode occurred several months ago, in a way that wasn't planned. We just happened to record a post episode conversation with guest Marina Triner and the next thing we realized, we had another podcast episode... In this episode with somatic coach Marina Triner, our discussion shifts from theory to lived experience. What started as a conversation about identity and masks becomes a deeply personal exploration of love, trauma, intuition, and what it means to truly be seen. Marina shares the story behind a relationship that challenged everything she thought she knew about safety, spirituality, and control — falling in love with someone living on the street. What unfolded wasn't just romance. It was a mirror. In this episode, we explore: • Why we "marry our unfinished business" • The nervous system's obsession with safety • The grief hidden beneath our masks • The difference between helping and being seen • Why some relationships are short but transformative • How spirituality can reopen after trauma • And what it means to trust that everyone has their own process This is a raw conversation about love that destabilizes you, growth that doesn't feel tidy, and the courage it takes to let someone see past the performance. If you've ever played by the rules and still felt something missing… If you've ever wanted to be seen but were afraid of what that would uncover… This episode will land. Contact information:  Marina Triner (email) Marina Triner (website) Kate Turner David Cooke

    49 min
  2. Authenticity in an Artificial World

    Jun 1

    Authenticity in an Artificial World

    In this episode of Permission Slip-Ups, David and Kate sit down with business growth strategist Andrea LaRosa for a timely and thought-provoking conversation about AI, communication, authenticity, and the future of human connection. Andrea shares her unexpected journey from matchmaking and dating coaching into the world of AI consulting, and how one simple conversation about presence and communication became the spark that shifted her entire career path. Together, they explore the growing role AI is playing in business, leadership, relationships, and daily communication—and the deeper questions that come with it: • Are we becoming more efficient… while losing our ability to truly connect? • What happens when AI begins speaking for us? • How do we use technology without sacrificing authenticity? • And where do we draw the line between convenience and human connection? This episode dives into the tension between innovation and authenticity, while reminding us that no matter how advanced technology becomes, real connection still matters. If you've ever wondered how to embrace modern tools without losing your voice, your presence, or your humanity… this conversation is for you.

    43 min
  3. What if nothing needs to change right now?

    May 21

    What if nothing needs to change right now?

    Being content in your discontent... In this episode of Permission Slip-ups, Kate and David explore a space that most of us experience—but rarely talk about. The space between contentment and discontent. One of us shows up feeling grounded, present, and at peace. The other shows up unsettled, questioning, and unsure what to do next. What unfolds is an honest conversation about what it means to be a growth-minded person when there is no clear next step. What happens when: You feel discontent… but don't know why You feel content… but wonder if you've stopped growing You're used to moving forward… but now, nothing is moving We talk about the tension between awareness and action, the tendency to measure progress, and the quiet shame that can emerge when we don't have answers. Because for many of us, not knowing what to do can quickly turn into: "What's wrong with me?" This episode doesn't offer a formula or a fix. Instead, it invites a different perspective: That growth isn't always visible. That not all movement looks like action Sometimes, the work is simply being present with where you are—without rushing to change it. If you've ever found yourself asking, "What now?"…this conversation will feel familiar.

    46 min
  4. What If Walking Away Is the Plan?

    May 11

    What If Walking Away Is the Plan?

    In this episode of Permission Slip-ups, Kate and David sit down with Jennifer de Tréglodé to explore her unexpected journey into the world of meditative tea—a path that didn't begin with a plan, but with a quiet, undeniable knowing. Jennifer shares how she walked away from a teaching career almost as quickly as she entered it, trusting the feeling that something wasn't right—even without clarity on what came next. What followed wasn't a linear path, but an unfolding. Through curiosity, stillness, and a willingness to listen deeply to herself, she found her way into a life centered around tea, presence, and connection. This conversation explores the tension between certainty and trust, the courage it takes to leave something behind without a roadmap, and what becomes possible when you allow life to evolve instead of forcing it into a plan. If you've ever felt the pull to step away from something that no longer fits—but didn't know what comes next—this episode is for you.

    52 min
  5. Different Paths to the Same Door | Retreats, Psychedelics & Self-Discovery

    Apr 30

    Different Paths to the Same Door | Retreats, Psychedelics & Self-Discovery

    In this episode of Permission Slip-ups, Kate and Dave sit down with Will Burkhart for an open and curious conversation about the many paths people take toward self-discovery. The discussion explores the growing world of personal development retreats, the role of intentional spaces for reflection, and why stepping away from the routines of daily life can open the door to deeper self-awareness. Will shares his perspective on psychedelic-assisted exploration as one avenue some people are using to reconnect with themselves and break through patterns that keep them stuck. While not everyone walks that path, the conversation highlights a powerful truth: people are searching for meaningful ways to understand themselves, heal old patterns, and live more authentically. Dave reflects on his own retreat experiences—without psychedelics—and the surprising similarities in what people discover when they step outside their normal environment and begin asking deeper questions about who they are and how they want to live. Together, the conversation explores: • Why stepping away from daily life can unlock new insight • The growing interest in retreats and immersive self-development • Psychedelics as one emerging tool in personal exploration • The courage required to question the life we've built • What it really means to give yourself permission to grow At its core, this episode is about curiosity, openness, and the willingness to explore new ways of understanding ourselves. Because sometimes the biggest shift begins when we allow ourselves to ask a deeper question. Contact information: Will Burkhart (email) Will Burkhart (coaching) Will Burkhart (retreats)   Kate Turner (email) David Cooke (email)

    56 min
  6. Am I doing it right?

    Apr 20

    Am I doing it right?

    One of the quiet questions many of us carry through life is surprisingly simple: Am I doing it right? In this episode of Permission Slip-ups, Kate and Dave explore the pressure we place on ourselves to get life "right" — to follow the correct path, make the correct decisions, and somehow meet an invisible standard we believe exists. Together, they unpack where this mindset comes from and how it quietly shapes the way we live, the risks we avoid, and the choices we second-guess. Through personal reflection and conversation, Kate and Dave challenge the idea that life has a single correct formula. Instead, they explore what might happen if we loosen our grip on being "right" and begin trusting our own experience, curiosity, and instincts. Because sometimes the most freeing permission slip we can give ourselves is letting go of the idea that there is only one right way to live.

    39 min
  7. Kate Turner — The Story Behind the Voice

    Apr 9

    Kate Turner — The Story Behind the Voice

    In this episode, Dave takes the host seat and turns the microphone toward co-host Kate Turner. Instead of their usual back-and-forth conversations, Kate shares more of her own story—her background, the experiences that shaped her, and the moments that pushed her to start questioning the expectations placed on her life. Kate opens up about the winding path that brought her here, the courage it takes to challenge old narratives, and what it really means to begin giving yourself permission to live differently. This conversation sets the tone for the new season: honest, curious, and willing to explore the uncomfortable questions many of us quietly carry. If you've ever felt the pull to rethink the life you've been performing, this episode is an invitation to start asking your own questions. Because sometimes the first permission slip is simply telling the truth about where you are.

    54 min
  8. What if ease isn't about avoiding the struggle?

    Mar 30

    What if ease isn't about avoiding the struggle?

    In this episode of Permission Slip-Ups, we sit down with somatic coach Marina Triner — known as "The Compassionate Somatic Coach" — for a conversation about identity, vulnerability, nervous system safety, and the masks we wear to survive. We explore how early adaptations — the traits that once kept us safe — can become both our superpowers and our shields. Marina shares her journey of discovering her Enneagram type, confronting self-criticism, and learning that compassion isn't about being positive all the time — it's about being honest about what is present. This conversation dives into: • The difference between being strong and being armored • Why high-achievers often struggle with vulnerability • The nervous system and the "window of tolerance" • Letting go of control without losing yourself • Learning to speak your needs — and receive support • How ease isn't the absence of struggle, but the ability to move through it Kate shares her experience of working with Marina while leaving corporate life. David reflects on how charisma and confidence can sometimes be protection strategies. And together, they explore what it really means to give yourself permission to be seen — not just as competent, but as human. If you've built an identity around being the strong one, the achiever, the helper, or the challenger — this episode might gently ask you: what would it feel like to loosen the armor? Contact Information: Marina Triner (email) Kate Turner David Cooke

    59 min
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Permission Slip-ups is a podcast about what it really takes to live the life you desire. We all want a life that feels more aligned, more fulfilling, more us. But giving ourselves permission to go after it? That's where things get messy. Kate and David dive into the real-life tension between desire and doubt, courage and caution, freedom and fear. They explore what happens when you take a bold step and it doesn't go as planned, when you hold back because you're afraid it won't work out, and what it means to keep going—even after a stumble. This isn't about having it all figured out. It's about navigating the in-between—the messy middle—where we learn, stretch, slip up, and keep moving forward. Because sometimes the biggest breakthroughs come right after the biggest doubts.

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  • Creator
    David Cooke
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    26
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025
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    Permission Slip-Ups