Let’s Get UnStuck Podcast

Let’s Get UnStuck

I’m not a coach or a therapist, I’m a storyteller who tells the truth about what it takes to heal. On Let’s Get Unstuck, I sit down with real people who’ve lived through the hard parts. Trauma, reinvention, shame, identity shifts, grief, and the moments that force us to grow. Together, we explore how they rebuilt confidence, reclaimed self-worth, and found purpose after everything fell apart. No gurus. No perfection. Just honest conversations that remind you you’re not alone not in the struggle, and not in the comeback. traciedwards1.substack.com

  1. 10H AGO

    🎙️Let’s Get UnStuck Live x Daniel Yee Psychology - Adult Life with ADHD

    Last night’s conversation with Daniel Yee was one of the most honest and psychologically layered episodes we’ve had on Let’s Get Unstuck. What started as a conversation about ADHD quickly unfolded into something much deeper. Daniel Yee Psychology read his story What ADHD Feels Like as an Adult We talked about shame. About growing up believing your struggles mean something is fundamentally wrong with you as a person. About knowing exactly what you should be doing while still feeling unable to consistently make yourself do it. Daniel spoke openly about executive dysfunction, emotional dysregulation, gambling addiction, limerence, loneliness, dopamine chasing, and the exhausting cycle of constantly searching for the next thing that might finally make life feel okay. One of the biggest takeaways from the conversation was this: A lot of what people call laziness is actually pain, overwhelm, avoidance, shame, and a nervous system struggling without the right map. There were also powerful moments about modern dating, rejection sensitivity, impulsivity, identity, and the pressure so many people carry to become someone else before they finally feel worthy of love, stability, or peace. But underneath all of it was something hopeful. The realization that understanding yourself changes everything. That maybe the answer is not becoming a completely different person.Maybe the answer is learning how to build a life around the brain, nervous system, and emotional reality you actually have. If you have ever struggled with self sabotage, addiction, procrastination, emotional overwhelm, feeling behind in life, or constantly questioning why things seem harder for you than everyone else around you, I think this episode will resonate deeply. The full episode is now live on Let’s Get Unstuck. Thank you Dido Torchi, Chris Laible, Lynn J. Broderick , Marlana aka Outtamydamnmind, Hannah Brown and many others for tuning into my live video with Daniel Yee Psychology! ~ I AM TAKING A WEEK OFF~ I WILL BE BACK JUNE 3rd~ Get full access to Let’s Get UnStuck at traciedwards1.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 19m
  2. MAY 14

    🎙️Let’s Get UnStuck Live x Relationships Reimagined

    Tonight’s conversation with Eric Bensoussan went far beyond relationship advice. His story Why People Keep Choosing the Same Person took me through some deep reflections on parts of my life that definitely raised my eyebrows. What made this discussion powerful was the honesty inside it. The exhaustion of recognizing our own patterns while still feeling pulled toward them.The shame we carry when awareness alone does not create change and the realization that survival responses often shape relationships more than people realize. Eric spoke openly about attachment wounds, grief, emotional survival, nervous system conditioning, and the slow process of learning how to stop abandoning yourself inside relationships. One of the biggest takeaways from tonight was this:Understanding your patterns intellectually does not automatically mean your body feels safe enough to choose differently yet. That does not make someone broken. It makes them human. This conversation opened up honest dialogue around emotional safety, vulnerability, anxiety in relationships, trauma responses, and what healing actually looks like beyond self help language and surface level advice. The full conversation with Eric is now available on Let’s Get Unstuck and the blog. Thank you to everyone who joined us live tonight and shared pieces of themselves in the comments. Lynn J. Broderick, KaZ Akers-Wild About The Wild., John Rinaldo , Ellen Scherr , Marlana aka Outtamydamnmind, Albert Kivak, and many others for tuning into my live video with Relationships Reimagined! Join me for my next live 5/20 5:30pm pst. with Daniel Yee Psychology and an in depth conversation about life with ADHD. Get full access to Let’s Get UnStuck at traciedwards1.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 24m
  3. MAY 7

    🎙️Let’s Get UnStuck Live x Imi

    Tonight’s conversation with Imi went much deeper than I expected. Not because of the diagnosis, but because of everything underneath it. We talked about anxiety in a way that felt real. It doesn’t just live in your thoughts. It shows up in your body. You try to manage it, push through it, stay ahead of it… until that stops working. Imi shared what it felt like to be stuck in that space. Constant tension. Overthinking. The need to control what’s coming next just to feel okay. Living in the future because sitting in the present feels uncomfortable. Then everything shifts. At 25 years old, she was diagnosed with early onset Parkinson’s disease. But her story didn’t begin there. It began in the self doubt.In the pressure to keep going and the internal voice that keeps questioning you. We talked about what it really means to feel stuck in anxiety. Not just experiencing it, but living inside it. Letting it shape how you move through your day, how you respond to yourself, how you make decisions. There comes a point where pushing through doesn’t work anymore. When that happens, you’re forced into something most people try to avoid. You’re forced into the present moment. That’s where our conversation shifted. From control to awareness. From trying to fix everything to starting to understand it. She talked about asking a different question. Not “how do I get rid of this,” but “what is this showing me?” That question changes how you see everything. It slows you down and pulls you out of autopilot. It can make you sit with what’s actually there instead of trying to move past it. We also talked about how uncomfortable that is at first. When you’ve built your identity around pushing through, being productive, and staying in control, slowing down feels wrong. There is something in that pause. Something that gives you clarity, even if it’s not the kind you were expecting. If you’ve ever felt stuck in anxiety, if self doubt has taken up more space than you’d like, or if you’ve been moving so fast you haven’t had time to check in with yourself, this conversation is one you’ll want to listen to. Imi shares her story, You Can’t Walk, and everything that comes with it. You can listen to the full episode now on Let’s Get Unstuck. Thank you Roger Browne, Florence Acosta, Nabanita, Mack Devlin, Sarah-SMR, Jon Derek, Marlana aka Outtamydamnmind , Hannah Brown , Lynn J. Broderick and many others for tuning into my live video with imi! Get full access to Let’s Get UnStuck at traciedwards1.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 8m
  4. APR 30

    🎙️ Live SOLO - My Dad is a Superhero- A Fatherhood Story About Love and Sacrifice

    A Fatherhood Story About the Kind of Love That Stays My Dad is a Superhero was not just a story I read. It was a story I lived, and finally understood. I shared what it looked like to grow up in a home where illness changed everything, and how, in the middle of that, my dad became more than a father. He became caregiver, provider, protector, and the person who kept our family moving when nothing about our situation felt stable. As a kid, I saw tasks getting done. Rides. Meals. Schedules. Presence. As an adult, I see what it actually was. Sacrifice. Pressure. Fear. Love in its most relentless form. What made tonight even more powerful was having Chris B. Writes join us to read his poem, The Caregiver’s Lament. His words added another layer. It brought language to the emotional toll caregivers carry, often in silence, often without recognition. There was something about hearing that poem alongside this story that made everything land deeper. Caregiving is not one moment nor one decision. It is a life that shifts, often without warning, and asks people to keep showing up anyway. That is what tonight was about. It was about the father who stayed. The mother who kept fighting. The family that adjusted, adapted, and grew up inside something none of us chose. And the realization, years later, that what I witnessed was not just responsibility. It was love at a level most people never fully see. If you joined live tonight, thank you. If you are reading this and couldn’t make it, the full episode is now available on Let’s Get Unstuck. If you are a caregiver, or love someone who is, I hope this story made you feel seen. And if you know someone who has carried more than the world ever acknowledged, tell them. Some people spend a lifetime showing up. They deserve to know it mattered. Thank you Nabanita, Sarah-SMR, Ellen Scherr , Lynn J. Broderick , Life On The Other Side and many others for tuning into my live video with Chris B. Writes! Join me for my next live episode with imi Weds, 5/6 5:30pm pst. Get full access to Let’s Get UnStuck at traciedwards1.substack.com/subscribe

    1 hr
  5. APR 23

    🎙️Let’s Live with Let’s Get UnStuck x Jason MacKenzie - I Actually Wanted Her To Be Mangled

    Last night, Jason MacKenzie and Let’s Get Unstuck went live for one of those conversations that stays and stays and stays with you long after it ends. Jason shared the heartbreaking loss of his 19 year old daughter, Chloe, and brought listeners into the reality of what grief can look like when tragedy hits a family without warning. He spoke with honesty about shock, fear, trauma, and the impossible moments no parent should ever have to face. We talked about what happens when your body and mind are trying to process something too big to understand. We talked about the decisions people are forced to make while they are still in survival mode. We also talked about the role family can play when someone is barely able to stand under the weight of what has happened. Jason also spoke about men and grief. Too many men are taught to keep it together, stay silent, and carry pain alone. He offered another path, one built on truth, vulnerability, support, and allowing yourself to be fully human in the middle of heartbreak. One of the most meaningful parts of the conversation was hearing how love continues after loss. Even when someone is gone, the connection, the memories, and the impact they had do not disappear. This episode is for anyone grieving a child, grieving someone they love, supporting a person in pain, or trying to understand how people survive life altering loss. It is honest. It is emotional. It is important. The full episode is now available. Come listen to Jason’s story on Let’s Get Unstuck.Thank you Bear Sage, Marlana aka Outtamydamnmind, Lynn J. Broderick, Life On The Other Side, Nabanita, Sarah-SMR, Karen C-Collector of Books📚🧿♒️, and many others for tuning into my live video with Jason MacKenzie! Join me for my next live 4/29 5:30pm pst. SOLO! I will be officially ending The Fatherhood Series to read about my Dad aka my Superhero! Get full access to Let’s Get UnStuck at traciedwards1.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 23m
  6. APR 16

    🎙️Let’s Get UnStuck Live x Chris B Writes - The Life You Imagine vs The Life You Live

    Tonight was incredible. 2 poems, 2 different versions of life and a ton of tears! Seriously Chris B. Writes you need to write a poem book and title it The Gospel of Bray Bray! The two poems, Shave and Another Anagram, and together they gave us a deeply honest look at fatherhood through two very different lenses. 👉 Read Shave brought us into the future he once imagined with his son. It held the milestones, the ordinary moments, and the version of life many parents assume will naturally unfold. You could feel the tenderness in that poem, along with the grief that comes when life moves in another direction. 👉 Read Another Anagram brought us into the reality he lives every day with Bray Bray, who was born with the rare genetic disorder GNAI1. This poem carried the weight of caregiving, constant awareness, and the kind of love that remains fully present when every moment matters. What made tonight so meaningful was not only the contrast between the two poems, but the truth they revealed together. Life does not always follow the path we pictured. Love does not disappear when that happens. In many cases, it becomes stronger, deeper, and more intentional. Chris gave language to a version of fatherhood that deserves to be seen. He reminded us that strength is not always loud. Sometimes it looks like staying engaged. Sometimes it looks like adapting. Sometimes it looks like continuing to show up in circumstances that ask everything from you. To everyone who joined us live tonight, thank you for being part of a conversation that mattered. If you missed it, the full episode is available now on Let’s Get Unstuck. Thank you mary beth kaplan🪶, Lynn J. Broderick, Annette Sharp, Denise Servais, Sarah-SMR, Bear Sage , Hannah Brown , Erin Gregory, Marlana aka Outtamydamnmind , Milret2, Kelly - Mothers never give up, FaithBindsUs , Jess, The Creator, Bud Hager, Osorio Neo 🇲🇽, Eladio Matos and many others for tuning into my live video with Chris B. Writes! Join me for my next live on 4/22 at 5:30pm PST with Jason MacKenzie where we complete The Fatherhood Series.. Get full access to Let’s Get UnStuck at traciedwards1.substack.com/subscribe

    56 min
  7. APR 9

    🎙️ Let's Get Unstuck x Bear Sage - Identity Crisis

    What we talked about in this conversation with Bear Sage and why it matters more than people think Last night’s conversation with Bear Sage stayed with me. Not because it was shocking or dramatic, but because it was honest. The kind of honest that most people do not open up about. We talked about what it means to be a parent when the beliefs you were raised with do not line up with the reality in front of you. When your child comes to you and says this is who I am and you realize that loving them is not the question. It is how you love them that matters. Bear did not sit here and pretend he got it right from the beginning. He talked about the discomfort.The resistance and the moments where he did not know what to say or how to respond. That is what made this conversation land. This was not about perfection, it was about staying. Staying in the conversation, in the relationship and long enough to see clearly. There is a moment in the conversation where everything shifts. Where it stops being about understanding and becomes about choice. Do you hold onto what you were taught?Or do you choose your child? That is not a one time decision, it is something you make over and over again. It’s in the way you speak, show up and the way you decide whether your child feels seen or questioned. What Bear showed in this conversation is that protecting your children is not always what we think it is. It is not control.It is not forcing them into something that makes you comfortable. It is learning how to stand with them in who they are, even when you are still figuring it out yourself. That takes humility. It takes self awareness and a willingness to let go of the version of your child that only ever existed in your own expectations. Maybe the most important part of this conversation is this. His children are not in crisis. They know who they are. The real question is whether the people around them are willing to accept it. That is where the work is. That is where the shift happens. If you missed the live, the full episode is now available. And this is one I would sit with. Not just listen to. Sit with. Somewhere in this conversation, there is a moment where you will recognize something in yourself. And that is usually where it starts. Thank you Fiona Bridges , Ilias Shepherd Marrow, Nabanita, Mack Devlin, Sherrie Phillips, KFitz , Life On The Other Side , Dorie Snow/雪多丽 and many others for tuning into my live video with Bear Sage! Join me next week with Chris B. Writes 4/15 5:30pm pst Get full access to Let’s Get UnStuck at traciedwards1.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 16m
  8. APR 2

    🎙️LIVE Let's Get Unstuck X Jeff Loving - He Held Both of His Sons as They Took Their Last Breath

    A post-live reflection on Jeff’s story of infant loss, grief, and what it means to keep going Tonight, Jeff read his story out loud. Boy the tears were flowing for us both! And there are some stories that do not leave you when they are over.This was one of them. He walked us through what it means to become a father…and lose your child in the same moment. Not once.Twice. He spoke about Davian.He spoke about Jadon. And you could feel it. Not in a dramatic way.Not in a way that tries to make it bigger than it already is. Just in a real way. The kind of real that makes you stop what you are doing and actually listen. What stayed with me the most was not only the loss.It was how honest he was about what came after. The grief.The confusion.The pressure to be “the strong one.” He said something that matters. That people told him Cassie needed him to stay strong.To hold it together. But what about him? What about the father who is also grieving? That part does not get talked about enough. And tonight, he talked about it. He gave space to something that so many men carry but do not say out loud. He also talked about faith. Not in a way that had all the answers.But in a way that felt like someone trying to make sense of something that does not make sense. There was a moment where you could feel the shift. Not away from grief.But toward something else existing alongside it. Hope. Not the kind that erases what happened.But the kind that allows you to keep living anyway. That is what this conversation was. Not a story about moving on.But a story about carrying something that never leaves… and still finding a way forward. If you were there live, you felt it. If you were not, I encourage you to go back and listen. Because stories like this matter. They matter for the people who have lived it.And they matter for the people who need to understand it. Thank you, Jeff, for telling the truth about something this heavy. Thank you mary beth kaplan🪶, Nabanita, A Reflection, Bear Sage and many others for tuning into my live video with Life On The Other Side! Get full access to Let’s Get UnStuck at traciedwards1.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 14m

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I’m not a coach or a therapist, I’m a storyteller who tells the truth about what it takes to heal. On Let’s Get Unstuck, I sit down with real people who’ve lived through the hard parts. Trauma, reinvention, shame, identity shifts, grief, and the moments that force us to grow. Together, we explore how they rebuilt confidence, reclaimed self-worth, and found purpose after everything fell apart. No gurus. No perfection. Just honest conversations that remind you you’re not alone not in the struggle, and not in the comeback. traciedwards1.substack.com