Inside the Leader's Mind

David Suson

What if the biggest leadership breakthroughs happen not from learning something new—but from seeing yourself differently? Welcome to Inside the Leader's Mind, where host David Suson—executive coach, keynote speaker, and creator of The Perception Code™—sits down with high-performing executives, founders, and thought leaders to unpack the internal shifts behind their external success. This isn't just another leadership podcast. It's a deep dive into the stories, identity shifts, decisions, and moments that changed everything. Each conversation explores how leaders spot limiting patterns, shift their perception, and spark action that leads to real performance, real results—and real impact. If you're a leader who wants to lead with more clarity, empathy, and influence, this is your new go-to podcast.

  1. The Brain Behind Sharpie, Graco & Expo: Kris Malkoski on Building Billion-Dollar Brands From Farm Girl to Fortune 500

    MAY 4

    The Brain Behind Sharpie, Graco & Expo: Kris Malkoski on Building Billion-Dollar Brands From Farm Girl to Fortune 500

    Summary Kris Malkoski, CEO of Learning and Development at Newell Brands, shares how growing up on a Nebraska farm shaped her leadership philosophy, work ethic, and ability to make a difference in complex organizations. From gathering eggs as a child to leading global brands like Sharpie, Graco, Paper Mate, Expo, Dymo, NUK, and Elmer's, Kris explains why leadership begins with clear expectations, personal accountability, human connection, and caring deeply about the people you lead. She and David Suson discuss what younger employees may be missing in a digital-first world, why meetings need more human presence and fewer distractions, how agile teams move faster, and why leaders must model the culture they want to create. Kris also shares why feedback is a gift, why developing people is 50% of business performance, and how her curiosity about what makes people tick has helped her build beloved consumer brands. Takeaways Work ethic matters, but making a difference matters more. Kris learned early that overdelivering creates opportunity, trust, and career momentum. Leadership culture starts at the top. If leaders do not define and model expectations, a culture will form anyway, but it may not be the one they want. Human connection drives speed and performance. Kris believes teams move faster when they talk directly, stay off devices in meetings, and operate with shared objectives. Developing people is part of the job. Kris says 50% of business performance is the business plan, and 50% is the people. Feedback is a gift. Honest, thoughtful feedback can help people grow, redirect their careers, and find success in the right place. Soundbites "If you always make a difference, it doesn't matter what your background is." "Control what you can and let go of what you can't." "Leadership agenda and behaviors start at the top." "My team and my business performance is as good as the weakest link." "Feedback is a gift." "People want fair, transparent expectation setting." Timestamps 00:02 Introduction to Kris Malkoski and her leadership background 03:40 Growing up on a Nebraska farm and learning hard work 04:52 Prioritization, resilience, and controlling what you can 07:57 Why making a difference became Kris's career mantra 09:00 Entering Procter & Gamble as a nontraditional candidate 16:06 Learning business through farm economics and brand leadership 18:22 Technology, analog writing, and the future of communication 22:09 Why Kris expects device-free, fully engaged meetings 24:53 Agile teams, shared objectives, and daily communication 29:38 Why Kris loves seeing people grow and develop 33:55 The CEO's role in organizational effectiveness 37:36 How leadership and parenting both require clarity and consequences 41:22 Caring about people while holding expectations 43:15 Why feedback is one of the greatest leadership gifts 45:26 How curiosity helps Kris build brands consumers love Contact links for the guest Kris Malkoski LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kris-malkoski-2346122/ Company: newellbrands.com Keyword tags Kris Malkoski, David Suson, Inside the Leader's Mind, Newell Brands, leadership, executive leadership, brand leadership, consumer packaged goods, CPG, human connection, work ethic, feedback, leadership development, agile teams, organizational culture, Sharpie, Graco, Paper Mate, Expo, Elmer's, women in leadership

    43 min
  2. Morag Barrett: The Hidden Cost of Disconnection at Work (And How to Fix It)

    APR 15

    Morag Barrett: The Hidden Cost of Disconnection at Work (And How to Fix It)

    Summary In this episode, Morag Barrett, leadership expert and author, explores the growing epidemic of disconnection at work and its impact on performance, engagement, and wellbeing. She explains how modern workplaces have created an illusion of connection through technology, while true human relationships have weakened. Morag shares practical ways leaders can rebuild connection, from small daily interactions to modeling vulnerability. She highlights the business cost of disconnection—estimated at $406 billion annually—and shows how meaningful relationships directly improve results, safety, and collaboration. Takeaways Success is powered by relationships, not just strategy or data Disconnection is widespread—1 in 5 employees feel isolated at work Technology creates an illusion of connection, not real connection Small actions (like 5 minutes of banter) can transform culture Leaders must model vulnerability to build trust Disconnection impacts productivity, safety, and retention Real connection improves decision quality and innovation The shift starts with self-awareness: you, me, we Soundbites "Fine is a four letter word." "We've created an illusion of connection through technology." "Success in business is powered by relationships." "Metrics don't provide meaning—connection does." "You can't build connection with others if you're disconnected from yourself." "How can I help? is the question we don't ask enough." Timestamps 00:01 – Intro to Morag Barrett 01:27 – What she does and mission 02:49 – Transition from banking to leadership 04:49 – Defining disconnection at work 07:34 – Pre vs post-COVID connection challenges 10:21 – Business cost of disconnection 12:40 – Simple connection practices in meetings 13:28 – Executive pushback 15:38 – Technology and illusion of connection 17:35 – AI and emotional substitution 19:53 – Vulnerability and leadership 23:30 – Practical tools for teams 25:03 – What still surprises her 30:01 – Personal leadership obstacles 33:52 – Biggest influence 36:35 – Question she wishes people asked 37:35 – How to connect with Morag Contact Links for the Guest Website: https://www.skyeteam.com LinkedIn:   https://www.linkedin.com/in/moragbarrett/ Ally Profile: https://skyeteam.cloud/youmewe

    39 min
  3. Julia Stefani | Designing a Life on Your Own Terms: Clarity, Courage, and the Leadership Lessons of Motherhood

    APR 4

    Julia Stefani | Designing a Life on Your Own Terms: Clarity, Courage, and the Leadership Lessons of Motherhood

    Summary Yulia (Julia) Stefani, founder of SWolta Ventures and former Chief Product Officer at Treasure Financial, joins David Suson on Inside the Leader's Mind for a rich conversation about leadership transformation, radical honesty, and intentional career design. Yulia shares how becoming a mother in March 2020 — at the height of COVID — cracked open her definition of success and set her on a path toward a portfolio career that includes fractional executive consulting, real estate, and e-commerce. She reflects on what she learned scaling products at Expedia, Meta, and SoFi, how she turned around an underperforming team, and why the most overlooked leadership skill is truly understanding what drives the person in front of you — not who you think they are, but who they are right now. Takeaways Motherhood can be the most transformative leadership school you never expected. True empathy isn't putting yourself in someone's shoes — it's being them in their shoes. The fastest path from complexity to clarity is defining your goal in actionable, measurable terms. Leaders who came from building often either hold on too tight or let go too completely — both are costly. What motivates someone today may be completely different six months from now — great leaders stay current. A portfolio career isn't just about income streams — it's about designing work around what fulfills you. AI makes now the best time ever for women to explore working independently and scaling themselves. Radical honesty only lands well when the relationship is built first — otherwise it just sounds blunt. Soundbites "I define myself with my professional achievements. And when I became a mom, I didn't expect much of that to change. It all changed." "The biggest leadership job you'll ever have is raising a child who doesn't fully understand you yet." "It's just as dangerous to drop something as it is to stay on it too long." "Nobody will look out for you if you don't look out for yourself first." "Mothers are the most productive workers you will ever have." "Every environment is a brand new canvas. Bring your learnings, hold them loosely, and start with a beginner's mindset." Timestamps 00:03 — Welcome & guest introduction 02:15 — How motherhood completely rewired Yulia's definition of leadership and success 06:24 — Can leadership empathy actually be taught, or does it take lived experience? 10:59 — What SWolta Ventures does and the variety of problems founders bring 13:35 — What Expedia, Meta, SoFi, and Treasure Financial each taught her about scaling 17:22 — How she assesses whether a team and product are healthy from day one 23:29 — The most common leadership mistake technical founders make 27:50 — What coach-style leadership rooted in radical honesty looks like in practice 34:00 — How she turned around an underperforming team at Treasure Financial 36:05 — What leaders consistently misread about what motivates people 41:13 — One practical step leaders can take this week to create clarity 44:50 — What was in the way that ultimately became the way for Yulia 47:34 — Advice for women in the workforce and for male leaders managing women 53:15 — The question no one asks her — but should   Guest Contact Information Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliastefani/ Website:  https://www.swolta.com/

    55 min
  4. Chris Mele | The Science of Pricing: How Software Companies Leave Millions on the Table

    APR 4

    Chris Mele | The Science of Pricing: How Software Companies Leave Millions on the Table

    Summary Chris Mele, CEO of Software Pricing Partners (SPP) and creator of the pricing management platform Levelsetter, joins David Suson on Inside the Leader's Mind to pull back the curtain on one of the most overlooked growth levers in B2B software: pricing. A computer science graduate turned Ernst & Young consultant, SaaS co-founder, and now pricing strategist, Chris breaks down why pricing isn't just math — it's licensing, packaging, and strategy working together. He shares how companies are hemorrhaging revenue through discount-happy sales teams, over-complicated offers, and a "set it and forget it" mindset. The conversation also goes deep on leadership: navigating layoffs with empathy, building mental fortitude as a CEO, and why the best business relationships form when you drop the facade and show up as a full human being. Takeaways Pricing has three distinct pillars: licensing, packaging, and price point — and most companies only think about the last one. The metric you choose to charge on ripples into every part of your business: sales, marketing, and customer trust. Simplicity in pricing drives deal velocity — fewer choices close more deals faster. Sales teams spending 80% of their time internally instead of with customers is a pricing and packaging problem in disguise. CEOs who wait for a "chemical spill" moment to address pricing are already behind. Mental fortitude as a CEO means staying calm and grounded even when the business is a roller coaster. Empathy isn't soft — it's the foundation of retention, loyalty, and lasting business relationships. Celebrate small wins deliberately; it's what keeps leaders and teams from burning out. Soundbites "I made the firm over a million dollars and got a $7,500 bonus. I knew I was on the wrong side of the formula." "If you pick a metric that is too constrained, you can expect revenues and valuation to also be very constrained." "The antithesis of complexity — the purpose of monetization — is to make the right trade-offs for simplicity without sacrificing revenue." "Business is personal. As soon as we understand there is no delineation there, you start to build very different kinds of relationships." "I show up in my shoes, I command the floor the way I want to command it — adopting it on your own and making it your own is one of the most pivotal things that ever happened to me." Timestamps 00:02 — Welcome & guest introduction 02:48 — Chris's creative writing life and the Writers of the Future contest 05:08 — How Chris went from SPP customer to SPP CEO 06:42 — Why pricing isn't just math — it's strategy 09:40 — The three buckets of pricing: licensing, packaging, and price points 12:59 — How pricing complexity kills sales team productivity 18:23 — The SaaS recession and why pricing is now a boardroom priority 22:18 — The mindset difference between leaders who get pricing right vs. those who don't 25:01 — Who in the organization actually champions pricing — CFO vs. CEO dynamics 33:09 — What it really feels like to go from employee to founder/CEO 40:26 — The mindset required to survive and thrive as a CEO 45:25 — What was "in the way" that became the way: layoffs, empathy, and leading his own way 49:30 — The person who shaped Chris's empathetic leadership style 56:03 — The question Chris wishes more people would ask him   https://www.linkedin.com/in/christophermele/ https://softwarepricing.com/contact/

    1h 4m
  5. Robynn Storey on Leadership Without Ego and Building a Business That Puts People First

    JAN 20

    Robynn Storey on Leadership Without Ego and Building a Business That Puts People First

    Summary In this episode of Inside the Leader's Mind, David Suson sits down with Robynn Storey, Founder of Storeyline Resumes, to explore what leadership looks like when ego steps aside and humanity takes the lead. Robynn shares her unconventional journey from a high-level corporate role at Pepsi to waiting tables, and ultimately building a multi-million-dollar, fully remote company rooted in kindness, accountability, and trust. Robynn explains why she hires for character over credentials, how loyalty is earned rather than demanded, and why culture is built through everyday human moments rather than perks or programs. From sending care packages to protecting work-life balance, her leadership philosophy proves that compassion and high performance are not opposites—they are partners. Takeaways Leadership without ego creates stronger loyalty and engagement Culture is built in everyday human moments, not corporate perks Hiring for character leads to long-term success and retention Transparency and kindness drive performance more than fear Strong leaders protect people, not just results Soundbites "If someone on your team can call you for personal advice, you've won." "Culture isn't a program. It's how you treat people when life happens." "People will never work harder for you when you are mean to them." "Success isn't privilege. It's the result of effort and care." "We are not brain surgeons. I want people to go have a life." Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction to Robynn Storey 03:25 – Leaving corporate life and redefining success 05:56 – Ego, identity, and waiting tables 09:48 – Hustle mentality and leadership balance 15:50 – Loyalty, care, and human-centered culture 23:32 – Leadership lessons from corporate America 29:35 – Hiring failures and automated systems 37:55 – What truly creates strong culture 45:22 – The donut question and final reflections Contact Links for the Guest LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robynnstorey/ Website: storeylineresumes.com

    47 min
  6. Lee Caraher How High Appreciation and High Standards Drive Performance

    12/30/2025

    Lee Caraher How High Appreciation and High Standards Drive Performance

    Summary Lee Caraher, CEO of Double Forte, explains how her PR and strategic communications firm helps clients reach business goals by improving how they connect with employees, customers, partners, and the public. She traces her path from a medieval history degree to tech PR, and why agency work accelerates learning. After 9/11 and her mother's stage 4 lung cancer diagnosis, Lee founded Double Forte (now 23 years old) to build a values-led agency that could flex around family needs. She describes early growth by focusing on a short list of trusted relationships, protecting culture with the "no assholes" client rule, and leading with high input, low democracy, high appreciation, and high standards so the team stays relevant through constant change, including AI. Takeaways High input, low democracy: gather input widely, then decide and share the rationale. High appreciation: specific, contextual praise improves performance and reduces wasted effort. Culture guardrails matter: the "no assholes" rule can limit revenue but protects teams. Hiring well isn't enough—leaders often wait too long to fire or re-seat someone. Empathy doesn't mean lowering standards; it means support + timelines + role shifts when life happens. Leaders must communicate a clear path in change: "Here's the road we're taking." Soundbites "We help our clients achieve their business goal through communication." "High input, low democracy." "Teams who feel appreciated outperform those who don't." "No assholes." "If you don't think you can improve… leave now." "Agencies succeed only if they're relevant now and next." "My definition of success is money, time, people." Timestamps 00:01 – Meet Lee Caraher and Double Forte 02:31 – What Double Forte does: business goals via communication 03:02 – From medieval history to PR and why agencies train 05:18 – 9/11 + mom's diagnosis → starting Double Forte 06:57 – The "first 11 people" strategy for landing clients 08:09 – Culture rules and the no assholes line 10:24 – Biggest lesson: leaders are often slow to fire 11:57 – Leadership pillars: input, appreciation, high standards 13:28 – 360 wake-up call: appreciation must be visible 19:08 – Empathy with standards: timelines and "park yourself" 22:29 – Leading through constant change and AI uncertainty 24:46 – Color-coding the calendar: in vs on the business 35:18 – Her success definition: money, time, people 37:09 – How to reach Lee Contact links for the guest Double Forte: double-forte.com Lee Caraher: lee-karaher.com Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/leecaraher/ Email: lkaraher@double-forte.com Keyword tags Lee Caraher, Double Forte, Leadership, Strategic Communications, Public Relations, Team Culture, Appreciation, Employee Retention, Decision-Making, Empathy, Client Selection, AI Change

    38 min
  7. Alex Rodriguez on Quiet Leadership, Compassion, and Pressure Into Precision

    12/30/2025

    Alex Rodriguez on Quiet Leadership, Compassion, and Pressure Into Precision

    In this episode of Inside the Leader's Mind, David Suson sits down with Alex Rodriguez, a veteran government affairs strategist, CEO of Conduit Government Relations, and Chairman and CEO of DCG Public Affairs. With more than 30 years advising Fortune 500 companies, public agencies, and nonprofit leaders, Alex operates at the intersection of policy, power, and public perception. He also brings a unique perspective shaped by over five decades as a lifelong martial artist and sixth-degree black belt. This conversation explores what quiet leadership really looks like. Alex shares why communication and empathy are not weaknesses but force multipliers, how discipline from martial arts translates directly into leadership under pressure, and why compassion is the often-overlooked sixth tenet of effective leadership. From navigating complex government systems and high-stakes water policy decisions to the personal cost of choosing purpose over prestige, Alex offers grounded wisdom on leading with clarity, integrity, and balance. This episode is a powerful reminder that leadership is not about dominance. It is about presence, perspective, and precision. 🔑 Key Takeaways Great leadership is rooted in communication and empathy, not control or ego The discipline learned through martial arts directly shapes calm, effective leadership Compassion is not weakness. It is a strategic advantage The best leaders turn pressure into precision by staying grounded and intentional Leadership begins at home and carries into the boardroom Failure is not something to avoid. It is proof that you are trying The "middle way" creates balance, clarity, and sustainable success 💬 Standout Soundbites / Quotables "If I'm an a*****e in the boardroom, I'm probably an a*****e at home." "Empathy isn't weakness. It's how you stay human under pressure." "Leadership doesn't need to be loud to be powerful." "I want peace of mind more than power or position." "If you don't fail, you're not taking risks." ⏱️ Episode Chapters 00:00 – Introduction & Background 03:00 – Navigating Government, Influence, and Strategy 07:30 – Water Policy, the Salton Sea, and Defining Leadership Moments 11:00 – Martial Arts, Discipline, and Empathy 16:00 – Quiet Leadership and Compassion 21:00 – Is Empathy a Weakness? 26:00 – Turning Pressure Into Precision 31:00 – The Cost of Leadership and Choosing Purpose 34:30 – Final Reflections and How to Connect 🔗 Connect with Alex Rodriguez Website: https://www.dcgco.com Books: Available on Amazon The Way of Walking Alone A Stick in Time 365 Days of Martial Valor

    36 min
  8. Dr. Shonna Waters: Why AI Adoption Is a Human Transformation, Not an IT Upgrade

    12/29/2025

    Dr. Shonna Waters: Why AI Adoption Is a Human Transformation, Not an IT Upgrade

    Summary Dr. Shonna Waters, CEO of Fractional Insights, explains what organizational psychologists do—optimizing the fit between people, work, and context—and why the "beginning and end of any value chain is a person." She argues that organizations are social systems, not technical ones, and that trust and relationships are the fuel for change. The conversation explores why leaders often address symptoms (sales, turnover, stalled transformations) instead of root causes, and why "strong management" trends like forced ranking can create fear that kills innovation. Dr. Waters introduces psychological ergonomics—designing systems to reduce workplace "angst" (insecurity, stagnation, insignificance) just as physical ergonomics reduces bodily strain. She also unpacks "altitude sickness" in leadership and the need for structural empathy to bridge power gaps. Finally, she reframes AI as continuous change that requires upgrading human operating systems—identity, meaning, and trust—so people can thrive through what comes next. Takeaways Organizational psychology optimizes the alignment of people + work + context to help individuals and organizations thrive. The "people stuff" isn't noise—it's the social fabric that enables change: trust, relationships, safety, and meaning. Leaders often bring symptoms (turnover, lagging sales, stalled strategy), but the core gap is strategy vs. execution—a behavior change challenge. "Strong management" moves (e.g., forced distribution / rank-and-yank) can create fear that suppresses risk-taking and innovation. Innovation requires psychological safety: people don't innovate when they're scared. Universal Need Triad: security, growth, significance—and work meets these needs for ~97% of people. Psychological ergonomics: reduce "angst" in the work environment the way physical ergonomics reduces physical strain. Power can create altitude sickness; combat it with structural empathy (habits and systems to see what you can't see). AI is not a one-time tech project; it's continuous change that demands upgraded human operating systems and clearer promises about what won't change. Work isn't just an economic transaction; it's value creation—often tied to purpose, identity, and contribution. Soundbites "The beginning and end of any value chain is a person." "Organizations are not technical systems—they're social systems." "People don't innovate when they're scared." "AI adoption isn't an IT upgrade—it's a human transformation." "We get to define what 'performance' means—and then engineer the environment so it becomes the path of least resistance." "Trust is credibility, integrity, and benevolence—and benevolence is where people feel the loss most." "Psychological ergonomics is the standing desk for the mind—raise or lower the environment to fit how humans work best." "If you keep flipping people, anyone left goes into protection mode instead of generative mode." "We can't promise AI won't change jobs—but we can promise clarity, integrity, and humane decision-making." "Work can be the ultimate expression of our gifts to the world." Timestamps 00:02 Intro to Dr. Shonna Waters and the idea that leadership is also a science 01:46 What an organizational psychologist is 03:19 The real goal: aligning people, work, and context to drive value 05:50 What Fractional Insights does and why it exists now 08:28 AI as a design moment: scale problems or redesign work intentionally 09:11 Performance engineering explained 11:28 What leaders are really trying to solve: bridging strategy and execution 14:12 "Strong management" pendulum swing and rank-and-yank returning 16:39 The risk: fear kills innovation; companies must produce and innovate 18:23 Why trust is low: credibility, integrity, benevolence 20:13 "Soft stuff" skepticism—and why meaning always returns to people 27:47 Social systems vs technical systems: why change needs trust 30:15 Root causes and the Universal Need Triad 33:58 Learned helplessness and why top performers leave first 35:10 Psychological ergonomics defined 37:56 Leadership "altitude sickness" and the neuroscience of empathy loss 41:53 Structural empathy as a leadership design practice 44:19 What leaders underestimate about AI: continuous change 45:56 Identity, meaning, and why work isn't "just a paycheck" 49:13 Re-humanizing connection (communal tables, movement bars, etc.) 53:20 Belief we'll outgrow: work as only an economic transaction 56:29 Why she's hopeful: family story, change across generations 59:44 Where to find Dr. Shonna Waters Contact links for the guest LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shonna-waters/ Website: https://www.fractionalinsights.ai/ Substack: Fractional Insights Email: shawna@fractionalinsights.ai Keyword tags Dr. Shonna Waters, Fractional Insights, organizational psychology, industrial-organizational psychology, performance engineering, psychological ergonomics, change management, trust, psychological safety, innovation, culture, engagement, turnover, leadership, adaptive capacity, AI transformation, future of work, human operating systems, identity at work, universal needs, security growth significance, structural empathy, altitude sickness, rank and yank, forced distribution, behavior change, strategy execution gap

    1h 1m

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What if the biggest leadership breakthroughs happen not from learning something new—but from seeing yourself differently? Welcome to Inside the Leader's Mind, where host David Suson—executive coach, keynote speaker, and creator of The Perception Code™—sits down with high-performing executives, founders, and thought leaders to unpack the internal shifts behind their external success. This isn't just another leadership podcast. It's a deep dive into the stories, identity shifts, decisions, and moments that changed everything. Each conversation explores how leaders spot limiting patterns, shift their perception, and spark action that leads to real performance, real results—and real impact. If you're a leader who wants to lead with more clarity, empathy, and influence, this is your new go-to podcast.