Just Another Statistic

Izzy and Sarah

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Welcome to Just Another Statistic, hosted by Sarah and Izzy. This is where we lay bare our deconstruction from Christianity and our vibrant, sometimes challenging, transition into witchcraft and personal spirituality. We're here to share the blueprint of our spiritual rebuilding, one honest conversation at a time.

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Ep. 11 The Friends We Lost: Navigating Faith, Frienship, and Finding Your Tribe After Christianity

Losing Friends After Leaving Christianity: Grief, Rejection, and Finding Real Community | Just Another Statistic Sarah and Izzy introduce their podcast about deconstructing from Christianity and rebuilding spirituality through witchcraft, noting they will use pseudonyms and share only their perspectives. In this episode, they discuss losing friendships after leaving church, where most relationships were formed and maintained, and how questioning doctrine threatened others and led to sudden silence, distancing, and rejection—often tied to performance, cliques, and conditional love. They recall specific interactions that signaled judgment and describe the emotional toll, from isolation and anger to relief from no longer performing. They highlight one enduring friend, Bebe, and supportive siblings who stayed connected despite faith differences, and contrast church-based "community" with authentic friendships and their current meditation group, inviting listeners to share their own stories via email and social media. 00:00 From Scripture to Spirit 00:37 Podcast Mission and Scope 01:40 Privacy and Perspective Note 02:21 Setting the Stage Exhausted 02:47 Losing Friends After Leaving 03:46 Church as Social Hub 07:19 Faith as Friendship Glue 10:32 When You Leave Nobody Calls 12:01 Bridal Shower Awkwardness 17:26 First Signs of Distance 21:10 Sudden Collapse Slow Deconstruction 25:38 Why They Rejected Us 27:09 Threatened Friend Dynamics 27:52 Being Other In Church 29:30 Leaving Faith Fallout 31:07 Grief And Anger 34:10 Bebe Stays Loyal 37:51 Family Faith Conversations 42:43 Why Real Friends Stay 46:49 Healing And New Community 50:14 Friendship Versus Belief 54:33 Closing And Call To Share

56 min
May 9

Ep. 10 Beyond the Pulpit: Sarah's Journey as a Black Woma in Pastorial Legacy

From Generational Church Legacy to Spiritual Deconstruction: Sarah's Story as a Black Woman Sarah and Izzy introduce their podcast, Just Another Statistic, sharing their deconstruction from Christianity and transition into witchcraft and personal spirituality, while noting they will use no real names and are sharing only their perspective. The episode focuses on Sarah's upbringing in a multi-generational Christian family deeply rooted in church leadership, with strong patriarchal expectations, intense visibility tied to her last name, and an assumed lifelong commitment to Christianity. Sarah describes how being a Black woman shaped her experiences, contrasting the supportive, justice-oriented community of the Black church with tokenization and second-class treatment she felt in a predominantly white megachurch. She reflects on her grandfather's community generosity, her mother's teaching to "follow God, not man," and how these foundations informed her leadership, resilience, and commitment to being unapologetically herself as her spirituality evolves. 00:00 Leaving Scripture Behind 00:36 Podcast Premise 01:38 Privacy Disclaimer 02:15 Sarahs Church Legacy 02:53 Generational Leadership 05:36 Family Expectations 07:53 Power of the Name 09:48 Black Woman in Church 13:23 Community Duty and Generosity 15:04 Personal Faith vs Inherited 16:58 Pressure and Being Watched 18:28 Finding Your Own Voice 20:43 Church As Community 21:50 George Floyd Wakeup Call 22:51 Black Church Perspective 26:52 Racism Inside Megachurch 31:16 Black Woman Expectations 33:09 What She Cherishes 36:07 Unapologetically Yourself 38:23 Podcast Closing Message

40 min
Apr 11

Ep.9 Unseen Worlds: Izzy's Journey from Christian Isolation to Personal Faith

Homeschooling, Control, and Deconstruction: Izzy's Childhood Story | Just Another Statistic Sarah and Izzy introduce their podcast about deconstructing Christianity and rebuilding spirituality through witchcraft and personal intuition, noting they will use altered names and share only their perspective. The episode focuses on Izzy's childhood: being homeschooled through 12th grade in a rigid, Christian-centered environment where Bible study shaped the day, curricula were biblically oriented, and questioning was punished. Izzy describes isolation from "worldly" influences, strict control over hobbies and social exposure, and gendered expectations to become a wife and mother. She recounts emotional suppression, anger, psychological abuse, and later realizing and processing trauma, including sexual abuse. Izzy reflects on benefits like learning to think independently, major worldview shifts in adulthood, and hopes for protecting children from religiously driven harm while acknowledging her parents "tried" with what they had. 00:00 From Scripture to Spirit 00:37 Podcast Mission and Disclaimer 02:13 Episode Setup Izzy's Childhood 02:55 Homeschooling Inside Christian Curriculum 09:02 Isolation and Lost Hobbies 12:24 Fear of the Outside World 15:03 Identity Anger and Opening Up 20:21 Early Doubts and Control 25:45 Drawn to Magic and Past Lives 28:21 Therapy Naming the Abuse 30:30 Looking Back Pros Cons and Politics 36:16 Closing Thoughts and Farewell

40 min
Mar 14

Ep. 8 From Leaving to Leaning In

From Christianity to Personal Spirituality: Our Deconstruction Journey In this episode of 'Just Another Statistic,' hosts Sarah and Izzy recount their transformative journey from Christianity to witchcraft and personal spirituality. They discuss the pivotal moments that led them away from structured religion, the challenges they faced in redefining their beliefs, and the newfound sense of freedom and authenticity they have discovered. The episode dives into themes of intuition, community, and the experiences that proved the reality of magic and spirituality. Join them as they lay bare their deconstruction process and explore what it means to find true spiritual alignment. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Background 00:43 Welcome to the Podcast 02:28 Deconstructing Christianity 05:36 Historical Manipulations in Christianity 12:05 Personal Spiritual Journey 21:56 Embracing Femininity and Spirituality 26:48 Embracing Intuition and Tarot 27:42 First Steps into Oracle and Tarot Readings 28:32 Finding Power in Spiritual Practices 29:13 Celebrating Pagan Rituals 31:06 Facing Judgment and Misunderstanding 32:58 Losing and Gaining Friendships 45:53 Proving Magic is Real 51:17 Conclusion and Community Invitation

53 min
Feb 14

Ep: 7 The Power of Two: Would we have left so soon

From Christianity to Witchcraft: A Journey of Deconstruction and Spiritual Rebuilding In this heartfelt episode, hosts Sarah and Izzy share their personal deconstruction from Christianity and their transition into witchcraft and personal spirituality. They discuss how their living situation and mutual support helped them recognize and validate their experiences and feelings while navigating the challenging path away from organized religion. Through honest conversation, they explore the dynamics of leaving the church, finding new community, and redefining spirituality. Join them in this deep dive into spiritual evolution and the quest for authentic beliefs. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Background 00:43 Welcome to the Podcast 02:41 Deconstruction and Spiritual Rebuilding 04:08 Living Together and Mutual Support 06:45 Isolation and Church Dynamics 17:08 The Final Sermon and Aftermath 18:04 Transition to New Spirituality 25:21 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Safety 27:21 Impact of Living Together on Mental Health 28:07 Christianity's Influence and Manipulation 29:07 Processing Loss and Betrayal 32:45 Questioning Faith and Exploring New Beliefs 37:13 Emotional Journey and Spiritual Growth 40:54 Family Dynamics and Personal Beliefs 47:52 Concluding Thoughts and Community Invitation

50 min
Jan 10

The Final Straw: Unpacking Betrayal and Departure from Faith - Part Two

From Christianity to Witchcraft: Our Journey to Spiritual Awakening In this episode of 'Just Another Statistic,' hosts Sarah and Izzy discuss their profound shift from Christianity to witchcraft and personal spirituality. Both recount their experiences and challenges during their deconstruction from their Christian faith, highlighting the moments that led them to seek different spiritual paths. The conversation delves into struggles with church dynamics, personal relationships, and the eventual embrace of new spiritual practices. Join Sarah and Izzy as they share their blueprints for spiritual rebuilding and aims to connect with others on similar journeys. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Journeys 00:42 Podcast Purpose and Audience 01:40 Privacy and Perspective 02:23 The White Knight Incident Begins 04:23 Escalation and Family Involvement 13:49 Confrontation and Resolution 19:10 Church Dynamics and Social Fallout 24:12 Deciding to Avoid the Group 24:41 Facing Ostracism at Church 25:14 Confronting Mr. Pushups 25:37 Protecting My Nephew 28:45 Judgment Over Relationships 31:24 Exploring New Spiritual Paths 32:47 A Traumatic Robbery 38:39 Final Straws at Church 43:23 Leaving the Evangelical Church 46:52 Conclusion and Call to Share Stories

49 min
Jan 10

The Final Straw: Unpacking Betrayal and Departure from Faith - Part One

From Hymns to Hexes: Our Spiritual Deconstruction – Part 1 In this episode of Just Another Statistic, hosted by Sarah and Izzy, we delve into our journeys of leaving Christianity and transitioning into witchcraft and personal spirituality. We reflect on pivotal moments of deconstruction, the challenges we faced, and the healing process. We share stories of navigating new beliefs, dealing with manipulative friendships, and the importance of setting boundaries. This episode marks the beginning of an honest discussion about finding authentic spirituality beyond inherited dogmas. Stay tuned for part two as we continue to unfold our personal experiences and insights. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Journeys 00:51 Welcome to the Podcast 02:55 Setting the Stage for the Main Event 04:05 Life After Leaving the Church 06:27 Living Together and New Beginnings 09:02 The White Knight's Obsession 11:30 Boundaries and Tensions 16:53 Manipulation and Breaking Points 21:36 Wedding Drama and Mediation 25:00 Father's Day and Emotional Struggles 26:22 The Stressful Incident 27:51 Dealing with Manipulative Behavior 32:18 Unwanted Advances and Boundaries 35:40 The Night Out and Confrontation 43:39 Conclusion and Reflection

45 min
12/13/2025

Born Into Guilt: The Convert's Child

Deconstructing Faith: From Christianity to Witchcraft & Personal Spirituality In this episode of 'Just Another Statistic,' hosts Sarah and Izzy share their personal journeys of deconstructing from Christianity and transitioning into witchcraft and personal spirituality. They delve into their upbringing, the emotional and psychological impact of being raised with Christian dogma, and discuss the differences between being born into Christianity versus converting to it. Sarah and Izzy also explore how these experiences affected their self-esteem, sense of worthiness, and view of God. The episode offers a candid conversation about finding authentic spirituality and invites listeners to share their own journeys. Join us as we unravel the complexities of spiritual transformation and seek to build a supportive community. 00:00 Introduction: From Scriptures to Spirituality 00:41 Podcast Purpose and Audience 01:39 Privacy and Perspective 02:21 Born vs. Converted: A Personal Exploration 06:43 Parental Influence and Childhood Beliefs 14:51 Generational Christianity and Personal Experiences 17:16 Evangelism and Internal Conflict 22:22 Fear and Doubt in Childhood Faith 24:18 Questioning Faith and Salvation 28:21 Christianese and Manipulation Tactics 30:31 Impact on Self-Esteem and Relationships 37:10 Critique of Christian Mentality 43:04 Concluding Thoughts and Community Invitation

45 min
11/08/2025

Unpacking Unmade Promises

From Purity Culture to Personal Freedom: Deconstruction and Awakening In this episode, Izzy and Sarah discuss their personal journeys from strict Christian upbringings steeped in purity culture to embracing witchcraft and personal spirituality. They share their experiences with purity rings, the impact of these practices on their mental health and relationships, and their eventual deconstruction from Christianity. Alongside their stories, the hosts invite listeners to reflect on their own spiritual journeys, aiming to create a community through shared experiences. 00:00 Introduction: From Scripture to Spirituality 00:48 Podcast Overview: Deconstruction and Witchcraft 02:52 Technical Difficulties and Episode Re-recording 03:28 Purity Culture: An Introduction 05:32 Personal Experiences with Purity Rings 08:57 The Impact of Purity Culture 10:30 Receiving Purity Rings: Personal Stories 18:37 Sheltered Upbringing and Its Consequences 26:35 Struggles with Purity Culture and Guilt 28:12 Finding Self-Worth Through Friendship 29:38 Parental Pressure and Failed Engagements 30:54 Reevaluating Purity and Sexuality 35:18 Struggles with Church and Community 43:49 Dating Challenges and Self-Discovery 51:30 Concluding Thoughts and Community Invitation

53 min
10/11/2025

The Power of Intent

Debunking Misconceptions about Witchcraft and Spiritual Practices Join Izzy and Sarah on 'Just Another Statistic' as they delve into the complexities of spirituality and witchcraft, tackling misconceptions fueled by recent sensational headlines. They discuss the ethical foundations of spiritual practices, the power of words and intentions, and the profound effects of spiritual vibrations on well-being. Learn about the consequences of hexing, the importance of positive energy, and alternative approaches to handling negativity. This episode aims to clarify assumptions and promote a deeper understanding of spiritual paths, moving beyond sensationalism to the true energetic principles at play. 00:00 Introduction and Overview 00:28 Misconceptions About Witchcraft 02:25 Understanding Spiritual Vibrations 04:01 The Ethics of Intent and Negativity 11:51 Hexing and Its Alternatives 22:23 The Risks of Negative Energy 25:01 Consequences of Negative Intentions 25:48 Responsibility of Spiritual Practitioners 27:47 Spiritual Cleansing and Protection 32:38 The Power of Words and Intentions 37:12 Reflecting on Jezebel's Article 44:53 Empathy and Support for Marginalized Communities 45:42 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

48 min
10/11/2025

Why Women Are Leaving the Church More than Ever

Why Young Women Are Leaving the Church: A Deep Dive into Shifting Spiritual Paths In this episode of 'Just Another Statistic,' hosts Sarah and Izzy delve into the reasons behind the growing trend of young women leaving the church. They discuss their personal journeys from Christianity to witchcraft and personal spirituality. Key topics include shifting gender roles, the impact of purity culture, outdated biblical manhood models, and the compassion fatigue women experience as the church's volunteer force. Join them for an honest conversation about the quest for authentic spirituality, shared struggles, and their unique deconstruction stories. They also explore an article by Emily Brown from Relevant Magazine, 'Why Young Women Are Leaving the Church More Than Ever,' offering their perspectives on the claims made. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Stories 00:43 Podcast Overview and Purpose 02:54 Discussion on Women Leaving the Church 04:41 Shifting Gender Roles in the Church 17:01 Experiences with Purity Culture 23:57 Changing Relationship Dynamics 29:17 Addressing Celibacy and Women's Independence 30:09 Outdated Biblical Manhood Models 31:30 Spiritual Leadership in Families 36:59 Burnout and Compassion Fatigue in Churches 45:11 Challenges and Solutions for Churches 52:46 Conclusion and Call to Action

55 min
10/11/2025

Just Another Statistic

Breaking Free from Dogma: Our Deconstruction Journey from Christianity to Witchcraft In this premiere episode of 'Just Another Statistic,' hosts Sarah and Izzy share their personal journeys of spiritual awakening and deconstruction from Christianity. They recount their experiences within a megachurch, including facing spiritual manipulation and emotional abuse by church authorities. The narrative takes a transformative turn as they navigate the transition from Christianity to witchcraft and personal spirituality. Emphasizing healing, authenticity, and empowerment, this episode sets the stage for a series that explores the profound shifts and emotions involved in stepping away from inherited beliefs. The hosts also stress the importance of community and encourage listeners to share their own spiritual journeys and challenges. 00:00 Introduction: From Scripture to Spiritual Awakening 00:40 Welcome to Just Another Statistic 02:25 Episode One: Sarah's Story 03:01 The Mega Church Experience 04:17 The Breaking Point 07:39 Leaving the Church 14:11 Becoming Another Statistic 22:30 Reclaiming the Narrative 25:10 Building a Community 27:36 Conclusion and Call to Action

29 min

12 Episodes

Welcome to Just Another Statistic, hosted by Sarah and Izzy. This is where we lay bare our deconstruction from Christianity and our vibrant, sometimes challenging, transition into witchcraft and personal spirituality. We're here to share the blueprint of our spiritual rebuilding, one honest conversation at a time.

Creator

Izzy and Sarah
Years Active

2025 - 2026
Episodes

12
Rating

Explicit
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© 2025
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Just Another Statistic