The Hushed

Martin Coul
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The Hushed is an independent podcast by men, for men and for those who love them. Men leave their job titles & accomplishments at the door and talk honestly about their lived experience. Mental health often sits somewhere in these stories, but it is rarely the whole story. The conversations can be heartbreaking, funny, irreverent and surprising, with room for the serious and the absurd. Each episode brings together men from different countries, cultures and backgrounds, including anonymous questions from women who want to understand what men really think. The Hushed® is heard in 60+ countries.

  1. 2d ago

    The Village We Built

    S2/E7: For many families living abroad, the village they need isn’t inherited. It has to be built. In this episode, Roy and Ronny reflect on friendship, fatherhood, divorce, belonging, and the quiet ways people show up when life starts to fall apart. From spare rooms and shared projects to raising children far from grandparents, old friends and familiar places, this is a conversation about the people who become family along the way. Together, they explore what home means when your roots are elsewhere, and why the right friend at the right time can help you find your footing again. Want to know more about The Hushed, why it exists and the stories behind it? Meet the show, hear from listeners and explore every episode here:  ⁠https://www.otii.swiss/the-hushed/⁠

    The Village We Built

  2. Aug 27

    Last Orders

    S2 / E6: Alcohol is often woven into male identity,  celebration, coping, connection, routine, even belonging. In this episode, Steve and Shane reflect on their changing relationship with alcohol, what drinking once gave them, and what sat beneath it. From Irish pub culture to nights that slowly stopped feeling social, the conversation explores masculinity, avoidance, loneliness, and what happens when men begin questioning the role alcohol plays in their lives. The Hushed® has no marketing budget, so every comment, rating and review helps these conversations reach someone new. If this episode meant something to you, please consider leaving one wherever you listen. You may help someone find the conversation they need. Thank You!

    Last Orders

  3. Aug 13

    Holding Your Ground

    S2 / E5: Many men are praised for knowing how to keep going. Far fewer are taught when to stop. In this episode, Tom & Martin talk about strength, caregiving, fatherhood, humour and the quiet cost of carrying too much alone. From staying calm when panic is not an option to bottling things up until someone close notices first, this is a conversation about understanding your limits before you reach them, and learning how to hold your ground without shutting yourself down. Want to know more about The Hushed, why it exists and the stories behind it? Meet the show, hear from listeners and explore every episode here:  ⁠https://www.otii.swiss/the-hushed/⁠

    Holding Your Ground

  4. Jul 30

    When The Wheels Come Off

    S2 / E4: Many men spend years building a career, supporting a family, chasing success and ignoring the warning signs. Until the wheels come off. Ewald and Gilles appeared successful from the outside, while quietly unravelling beneath the surface. Together, they reflect on insomnia, the pressure to keep going, seeking help, life inside a psychiatric clinic and the difficult truths they had to confront along the way. Their honest conversation helps demystify an experience many men fear and shows that recovery is not about going back. It is about rebuilding. Editor’s note: We recorded this episode during one of the worst storms of the summer, so if the sound gets a little lively in places, blame the weather. The Hushed® has no marketing budget, so every comment, rating and review helps these conversations reach someone new. If this episode meant something to you, please consider leaving one wherever you listen. You may help someone find the conversation they need. Thank You!

    When The Wheels Come Off

  5. Jul 16

    The Roles We Play

    S2 / E3: We all play different versions of ourselves depending on where we are. But what happens when performing becomes the place you feel most like yourself? In this episode, stand-up comic Teddy and Mikey, whose weekends are spent performing in drag as Oh! Beverly, explore masculinity, humour, confidence and belonging. They talk about using comedy to fit in, finding freedom on stage, and the surprising ways performance can become both a mask and a safe space. Funny, warm, occasionally absurd and unexpectedly revealing, The Roles We Play asks a simple question: how much of who we are is real, and how much is just the role we learned to play? Want to know more about The Hushed, why it exists and the stories behind it? Meet the show, hear from listeners and explore every episode here:  ⁠https://www.otii.swiss/the-hushed/⁠

    The Roles We Play

  6. Jul 2

    Staying

    S2 / E2: Suicide remains one of the leading causes of death among men, yet it’s still a subject many struggle to speak about openly. In this episode, we hear from two men, Dale and Tim, whose lives have been shaped by suicide in very different ways: one who has survived multiple attempts, and a father who lost one of his sons. Together, they reflect on the warning signs that are often missed, the quiet battles many men fight alone, and the conversations that might help save lives. The Hushed® has no marketing budget, so every comment, rating and review helps these conversations reach someone new. If this episode meant something to you, please consider leaving one wherever you listen. You may help someone find the conversation they need. Thank You!

    Staying

  7. Jun 18

    A Good Man

    S2 / E1: We hear a lot about toxic masculinity, but far less about what healthy masculinity actually looks like. In this opening episode, we explore how men can redefine strength, self-worth, and emotional honesty in a world where the rules of manhood are shifting. Joined by George and Pete, we reflect on the expectations many men inherited, the pressures they still carry, and what it means to model something different for the next generation. Want to know more about The Hushed, why it exists and the stories behind it? Meet the show, hear from listeners and explore every episode here:  ⁠https://www.otii.swiss/the-hushed/⁠

    A Good Man

  8. Season 2 Trailer

    Season Two Preview

    S2 Preview: What do a drag queen, a man rebuilding his life after multiple stays in a psychiatric clinic, and a father who lost one of his sons to suicide have in common? Quite a lot, it turns out. They're just some of the voices you'll hear in Season 2 of The Hushed. After finding listeners in more than 40 countries during Season 1, The Hushed® returns with a new season of conversations about the things men don't always say out loud, but perhaps should. Want to know more about The Hushed, why it exists and the stories behind it? Meet the show, hear from listeners and explore every episode here:  https://www.otii.swiss/the-hushed/

    Season Two Preview
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The Hushed is an independent podcast by men, for men and for those who love them. Men leave their job titles & accomplishments at the door and talk honestly about their lived experience. Mental health often sits somewhere in these stories, but it is rarely the whole story. The conversations can be heartbreaking, funny, irreverent and surprising, with room for the serious and the absurd. Each episode brings together men from different countries, cultures and backgrounds, including anonymous questions from women who want to understand what men really think. The Hushed® is heard in 60+ countries.

Information

  • Creator
    Martin Coul
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Martin Coul
  • Show Website
    The Hushed