At the Kitchen Table

Amanda DiVito Parle

At The Kitchen Table is a podcast where gratitude meets ambition! Amanda DiVito Parle is thrilled to have you join her on this journey as she celebrates the incredible mentors and industry professionals who have shaped her path to success. In each episode, we’ll gather around the metaphorical kitchen table to share inspiring stories of entrepreneurship, collaboration, and life lessons that have fueled our journeys. From the high-stakes world of real estate to the heartfelt moments of community, we’ll explore what it truly means to lift each other up and give thanks for the invaluable support we receive along the way. So, whether you’re a budding entrepreneur or just someone eager to learn from the best, get ready for a joyful ride filled with authentic conversations, practical insights, and plenty of inspiration. Let’s dive in and discover how together we can create a ripple effect of gratitude and success!

  1. 1d ago

    At the Kitchen Table: Lana Rodriguez & Danielle Nuno

    Host Amanda Divito Parle sits down with powerhouse real estate leaders Lana Rodriguez and Danielle Nuño for a candid, unfiltered conversation about building, scaling, and evolving real estate teams—while navigating motherhood, leadership identity, and the ever-changing brokerage landscape. From retail roots to top-producing team leaders, Lana and Danielle share how they each carved their path into real estate, built high-performing teams, and learned (often the hard way) what it really takes to lead people—not just production. Together, they unpack the realities behind team growth, agent turnover, accountability, and the emotional weight of leadership, offering an honest look at what happens when “baby birds become hawks” and decide to leave. The conversation dives deep into the lifecycle of a real estate business—from rapid growth to pruning phases, burnout, and rebuilding with intention. They also explore the shift toward cloud-based brokerages like Real, the importance of culture and alignment over hype, and why today’s agents are seeking more than just splits—they’re looking for community, collaboration, and long-term opportunity. Woven throughout is a powerful theme of women supporting women in business, redefining leadership on their own terms, and learning to balance ambition with motherhood and personal fulfillment. Raw, insightful, and incredibly relatable, this episode is a masterclass in resilience, reinvention, and leading with both strength and heart. 💬🔥 ________________________________________ Topics Discussed 🔑 • From Retail to Real Estate Leadership How Lana and Danielle transitioned from customer service backgrounds into high-level real estate careers. • Building (and Rebuilding) Real Estate Teams The realities of scaling teams, finding the “sweet spot,” and navigating growth cycles. • The Four Phases of Business Growth Planting, growing, pruning, and harvesting—and why every leader cycles through all of them. • When Agents Leave the Nest The “baby bird to hawk” analogy and the emotional reality of training agents who eventually go out on their own. • Team Culture, Accountability & Fit Why hiring the right agent avatar matters more than just adding headcount. • Leadership Styles: Visionary vs. Manager Balancing heart-led leadership with structure, expectations, and performance standards. • Burnout, Boundaries & Motherhood How stepping back can actually fuel long-term growth—and why you can “do it all, just not all at once.” • Brokerage Models: Brick & Mortar vs. Cloud-Based A transparent look at Real, EXP, Keller Williams, and the evolution of value in today’s market. • The Power of Community & Collaboration Why modern agents are seeking connection, not competition—and how that’s reshaping the industry. • Women Empowering Women in Real Estate The importance of trust, support, and building meaningful relationships beyond local competition. ________________________________________ Practical Takeaways for Entrepreneurs & Leaders 🛠️ • Growth requires pruning—letting go is part of scaling. • Not every great agent is the right fit for your team—and that’s okay. • Leadership is emotional—develop resilience, not just systems. • Culture is built intentionally through hiring, communication, and standards. • Your team members are your clients—consistently communicate your value. • Burnout is a signal, not a failure—step back to move forward stronger. • There is no perfect brokerage—only the right fit for your season. • You can build a big business and still prioritize your family—but not all at once. • Collaboration is the future of real estate—not isolation. • The best leaders evolve—from doing everything to empowering others.

    At the Kitchen Table: Lana Rodriguez & Danielle Nuno
  2. May 28

    At the Kitchen Table: Lance Sommerville

    The real estate industry is changing faster than most brokers want to admit — and Lance Somerville is one of the few people who has seen it all from the inside. In this episode of At The Kitchen Table, Amanda DiVito Parle sits down with commercial real estate veteran and RE/MAX alumni Lance Somerville to talk about the seismic shifts reshaping the brokerage landscape — and why cloud brokerages like Real Broker may be the 2.0 model the industry has been waiting for. With over 22 years at RE/MAX corporate, Lance traveled across eight states, worked with 100+ cities, and looked under the hood of franchise operations, startups, conversions, mergers, and acquisitions. That front-row seat gave him a perspective most agents never get — and it's why his move to Real Broker raised eyebrows and started conversations across the industry. In this episode, Lance and Amanda break down: Why the traditional franchise model is becoming a liability — and what the numbers actually sayThe three-legged stool of real estate (brokerage, NAR, MLS) and why it's crackingHow cloud brokerages are reimagining agent-centric real estate for the modern marketThe real cost of carrying real estate knowledge inside a brokerage that doesn't reward you for itWhat agents and brokers should be doing right now as the industry continues to shift post-SitzerThe intersection of fear and trust when making a major brokerage moveIf you're a real estate agent, broker owner, or investor trying to figure out where the industry is heading — this is a conversation you need to hear. Topics: real estate brokerage, cloud brokerage, Real Broker, RE/MAX, eXp Realty, franchise model, agent-centric real estate, Sitzer lawsuit, NAR, MLS, real estate industry trends, brokerage business model, commercial real estate

    At the Kitchen Table: Lance Sommerville
  3. May 14

    At the Kitchen Table: Amy Sommerville

    What happens when one of the most driven women in real estate finally stops? In this episode of At The Kitchen Table, host Amanda DiVito Parle sits down with longtime friend and industry powerhouse Amy Somerville — former Corporate RE/MAX leader, CEO of SUCCESS Magazine (acquired by eXp Realty), and self-described "recovering high achiever" — to talk about what it really means to rest. Amy spent nearly two decades building an extraordinary career in personal growth and development within the real estate space, traveling constantly, leading teams, shaping culture at some of the most recognized brands in the industry. And then she stopped. Not because she had to — but because a business coach dared her to go 60 days without working. This is the story of what happened next. In this episode, Amanda and Amy explore: The real cost of always being in "go mode" — and why high achievers are wired to chase the next thingWhat burnout actually looks and feels like when you've been running at full speed for decadesThe masculine vs. feminine energy conversation every driven woman needs to hearHow a forced sabbatical cracked open clarity, presence, and a whole new way of livingWhat Amy calls her "moment of clarity" — and how she's protecting itWhether you're a real estate professional, entrepreneur, or anyone who has built their identity around achievement, this conversation will challenge you to ask: what would happen if you just... stopped? Topics: burnout recovery, women in leadership, personal growth, real estate career, identity, work-life balance, masculine feminine energy, sabbatical, mindset, self-awareness

    At the Kitchen Table: Amy Sommerville

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At The Kitchen Table is a podcast where gratitude meets ambition! Amanda DiVito Parle is thrilled to have you join her on this journey as she celebrates the incredible mentors and industry professionals who have shaped her path to success. In each episode, we’ll gather around the metaphorical kitchen table to share inspiring stories of entrepreneurship, collaboration, and life lessons that have fueled our journeys. From the high-stakes world of real estate to the heartfelt moments of community, we’ll explore what it truly means to lift each other up and give thanks for the invaluable support we receive along the way. So, whether you’re a budding entrepreneur or just someone eager to learn from the best, get ready for a joyful ride filled with authentic conversations, practical insights, and plenty of inspiration. Let’s dive in and discover how together we can create a ripple effect of gratitude and success!