Girl, Date the Good Guy | Relationship, Healing, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags, Discernment, Boundaries

Emily Jordan | Faith-Based Healed Feminine Guide and Relationship Coach
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Girl, Date the Good Guy is a Christian dating podcast for women ready for healing after heartbreak, ready to mend a broken heart, break toxic relationship cycles, set healthy boundaries, strengthen discernment, recognize red flags, and build healthy, God-led relationships. Hosted by Emily Jordan, this faith-based relationship podcast helps women stop repeating unhealthy dating patterns, grow in biblical discernment, and prepare for the kind of relationship God designed. Through biblical wisdom, personal testimony, and the Royal Transformation Path, you’ll learn how to experience real healing, protect your heart with boundaries, identify red flags early, and choose relationships rooted in truth, peace, and purpose. 📌 This podcast is for women healing from heartbreak, navigating a broken heart, and ready to date with clarity, confidence, and Godly wisdom. Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy — the royal training ground for women who are done chasing broken love, ignoring red flags, crossing their own boundaries, and repeating painful relationship cycles. I’m Emily — your faith-based, healed feminine guide and relationship coach. Once chasing emotionally unavailable men, twice divorced, and trapped in cycles of heartbreak. I surrendered my love life to God, entered a season of celibacy and deep healing, and allowed Him to restore my broken heart and rewrite my relationship story. After nearly a decade walking through a God-led journey of healing and restoration, I went from repeating heartbreaking relationship patterns… to experiencing a Godly, healthy, aligned relationship built on peace, discernment, and strong boundaries. Now, I help women just like you reclaim your crown, heal your heart, strengthen discernment, and prepare for the God-led love you were always meant for. Inside this podcast, you’ll step into The Good Guy Society — a movement and royal transformation path designed to guide you through: 👑 Reclaim your God-given identity and break unhealthy relationship cycles 🪞 Develop spiritual discernment and confidently recognize red flags ⚔️ Release past heartbreak, heal a broken heart, and let go of old relationship patterns 📜 Establish God-honoring standards and boundaries without guilt 🛡️ Date from healing and wholeness — not wounds or fear 🏛️ Prepare for a healthy, Christ-centered, God-led relationship Here, you’ll walk the journey from wounded to whole… from heartbreak to healing… from ignoring red flags to walking in discernment… from weak boundaries to holy standards… from confusion to clarity… from survival to royal identity. You'll also find: 💚 Soothe Her Soul Saturday — your royal pause, your royal return — a weekly moment of poetic healing where truth meets heartbreak, hope restores the broken heart, and God lifts the crown you thought you lost. 🎙️ A weekly, heart-to-heart relationship space where Emily speaks honestly about healing, boundaries, discernment, obedience, and the messy middle of rebuilding after heartbreak. These Holy Spirit–led conversations are raw, unfiltered, and rooted in truth — offering real-life stories, clarity, and encouragement for women learning to slow down, strengthen their boundaries, trust their discernment, and let God bring order to their relationship journey. If you’re ready to rise into the woman God created you to be — and build the kind of healthy, God-led relationship that honors your heart and aligns with Heaven — sis, you’re in the right place. So grab your crown, your heart, and your journal. Hit play — your healing, your discernment, and your royal training begin now. XOXO Emily 👑 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode.

  1. 23H AGO

    57: God Will Make a Way | Trusting God When Everything Falls Apart

    What do you do when God asks you to walk away from everything you’ve known? In Part 2 of this deeply personal testimony, Emily continues sharing the powerful story of how God led her out of a 17-year toxic cycle. After losing income, facing eviction, and realizing God was calling her to leave the chaos behind, Emily found herself sitting on the couch one morning asking the question so many of us ask in our darkest moments: “God… what am I going to do?” With no financial safety net and no clear plan, she had to make one of the hardest decisions of her life — trusting God completely. In this episode, Emily shares: • Why she released a financial debt that could have kept her tied to her past • How financial control can keep women trapped in toxic cycles • The Holy Spirit nudges that guided her next steps • The unexpected way God provided when she had nowhere to go • How obedience often comes before understanding • Why God rarely shows the full picture — only the next step This episode is a reminder that when God calls you out of something, He is already preparing the way forward. Even when it feels like everything is falling apart. Scripture in this episode: Isaiah 43:19 "See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland." If you are: • Trusting God in uncertainty • Healing from a toxic relationship • Facing financial fear after leaving • Or wondering how God will provide This episode will remind you that God is still a way-maker.   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    7 min

  2. 2D AGO

    56. Sis, It’s Time to Leave the Dead Places: Christian Healing & Leaving Toxic Relationships

    What do you do when your life starts falling apart? When the money dries up. When the bills stack up. When anxiety is through the roof. When the eviction notice hits your door. In this deeply personal Sister-to-Sister Royal Real Talk episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares the raw story of how God removed her from a 17-year toxic cycle — not gently, but fully. What felt like collapse was actually deliverance. When her cleaning jobs ceased, income dried up, and eviction became her reality, it looked like destruction. But it was divine redirection. Through an unexpected book, a God-placed friendship, and the support of her Good God Guy, Emily realized God was calling her to leave the dead places. This episode dives into: What it really looks like when God answers your prayer for freedom How toxic cycles can disguise themselves as survival The pain of leaving familiarity — even when it’s unhealthy The spiritual warfare that often comes right before breakthrough Trusting God when obedience costs you everything comfortable Why you cannot heal in the place that broke you With vulnerability and biblical truth, Emily shares the hardest part of her journey — leaving her daughters, her home, and everything she had known for nearly two decades — and how God met her in her breaking point. Scriptures in this episode: Psalm 34:18 — The Lord is close to the brokenhearted John 11:43 — “Lazarus, come forth” Isaiah 43:19 — God makes a way in the wilderness If you are: Healing from a toxic relationship Praying for God to remove you from chaos Struggling with fear about leaving Feeling like your life is collapsing Or standing at the edge of a leap of faith This episode is for you. Sis, sometimes eviction is the exit. Sometimes collapse is deliverance. Sometimes God dries up false provision so He can lead you to real freedom. Peace requires courage. Freedom requires obedience. And when Jesus says, “Come forth,” you don’t stay in the tomb. ✨ This is your Royal Return. ✨ This is your sign to leave the dead things. 🎧 Make sure you’re subscribed — Part 2 of this story continues Friday, where Emily shares what happened next and how God began restoring her soul. If this episode blessed you, share it with a sister who needs the courage to choose peace over chaos. Welcome to your royal training ground.  ⚠️ Important Safety Note for Women in Domestic Abuse Situations If you are currently in a domestic abuse situation, please hear me clearly: Your safety comes first. While this episode shares my personal story of leaving a toxic relationship, every situation is different. If you are experiencing physical violence, threats, coercion, stalking, or escalating control, it is critical that you seek professional support and create a safety plan before making any major moves. Leaving an abusive relationship can sometimes increase risk in the short term. You do not have to navigate that alone. Please reach out to trained advocates who can help you confidentially: National Domestic Violence Hotline (U.S.) 📞 Call or text: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) 💬 Live chat available at thehotline.org If you are in immediate danger, call 911 (or your local emergency number). You can also reach out to: A local domestic violence shelter A licensed counselor trained in abuse recovery A trusted church leader who understands domestic violence dynamics A legal professional for custody and protection guidance Faith and courage are powerful. But wisdom includes preparation. Create a safety plan. Gather support. Seek professional guidance. You are not weak for needing help. And you are not alone. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    9 min

  3. FEB 27

    55: When Obedience Hurts: Trusting God in the Middle of Heartbreak

    What if the pain you’re carrying isn’t random… but accumulated? In this deeply personal and faith-filled episode, Emily shares the powerful analogy of “the bag of pebbles” — how every hurt, disappointment, toxic cycle, and act of disobedience adds weight to our lives until we simply can’t carry it anymore. At first, we manage. We cope. We tell ourselves we’re fine. Until the bag becomes too heavy. And that’s often the moment we finally cry out: “God, I can’t do this anymore. I need You.” This episode is about surrender. It’s about trusting God’s will over our own. It’s about the painful truth that obedience can hurt — but disobedience costs more. Emily vulnerably shares her own journey of leaving toxic cycles, surrendering fully to God, and the heartbreak of releasing her daughter into her own life choices — trusting that just as she once did, her daughter will have to carry her own “bag of pebbles” until she turns fully to the Lord. If you’re tired of doing life in your own strength… If your soul feels exhausted… If surrender feels scary but necessary… This episode will meet you right where you are. 👑 What You’ll Learn: Why we repeat cycles until we can’t bear them anymore The spiritual cost of living in our own will Why surrender doesn’t always make life instantly easier How God uses weight to build deeper trust and faith The difference between worldly comfort and true spiritual rest How to lovingly release the people we cannot control Why obedience protects, not restricts 📖 Key Scripture: Proverbs 3:5–6 — Trust in the Lord and submit to Him Psalm 31:14–15 — “My times are in Your hands.” 💔 Real Talk Moment: Sometimes surrender feels heavier before it feels lighter. God may allow the weight to remain — not to punish you, but to teach you to rely fully on Him. The world feeds the flesh. God restores the spirit. 👑 Royal Reflection: What pebbles are you still trying to carry on your own? Are you exhausted because you’ve been living in your will instead of His? What would full surrender look like for you today? 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    7 min

  4. FEB 26

    54: When Charm Hides Pride (6 Signs His Character Doesn’t Match His Confession)

    Not every man who claims Christ reflects Christ in his character. In this powerful teaching episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down 6 biblical red flags that reveal when ego — not the Holy Spirit — is leading a man’s behavior. Learn how to discern pride, instability, lack of accountability, emotional manipulation, and counterfeit empathy in Christian dating. This episode will help you identify whether his public confession matches his private fruit. If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation apologizing for something you didn’t do — this episode is for you. Scripture References • Matthew 7:16 • Proverbs 12:1 • Philippians 2:3–4 • Galatians 5:22–23 • 1 John 1:9 • James 5:16 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    15 min

  5. FEB 25

    53: Does His Public Faith Match His Private Fruit? How to Spot the Good Guy

    He posts Scriptures. He serves at church. He sounds spiritual. But does his private character match his public Christianity? In this powerful teaching episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down how to discern the difference between a good church guy and a God-led man. Because not every man who talks about God is led by Him. Using biblical wisdom from Matthew 7:15–16, James 1:22, 2 Corinthians 11:14, Galatians 5:22, and Ephesians 5:25, this episode walks you through how to identify spiritual performance versus real fruit in Christian dating. If you’ve ever felt spiritually impressed but emotionally drained… If you’ve ignored red flags because “he loves Jesus”… If you’ve struggled to tell the difference between charm and character… This episode is for you. 👑 What You’ll Learn: The difference between public Christianity and private obedience Why words are easy — but fruit is evidence How wolves in sheep’s clothing operate in dating The danger of fast emotional bonding Why confusion is a red flag and peace is a green one What real, biblical masculinity actually looks like How to evaluate patterns instead of promises 🔎 Key Scripture References: Matthew 7:15–16 — You will recognize them by their fruit James 1:22 — Be doers of the Word 2 Corinthians 11:14 — Angel of light deception Galatians 5:22–23 — Fruit of the Spirit Ephesians 5:25 — Christ-like leadership 💬 Royal Reflection Question: When no one is watching, does his private fruit match his public faith? Do you feel peace or pressure around him? 🎧 Who This Episode Is For: Christian women navigating dating Women healing from toxic or manipulative relationships Women learning discernment after church hurt Women who want a God-led man, not just a church-going one 📣 Next Steps: If this episode helped you gain clarity: ✔ Share it with a sister who needs discernment ✔ Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy ✔ Join the Royal Guard community and continue building biblical standards We are no longer impressed by performance. We are looking for fruit. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    10 min

  6. FEB 21

    52: No More Breadcrumb Love: That Season Is Over (Christian Dating, Healing from Toxic Relationships, Raising Your Standards)

    This Soothe Her Soul Saturday is your permission slip to stop settling. If you’ve ever looked back and wondered, “Why did I accept that?” “Why did I tolerate so little?” “Why did I shrink to keep someone?” This episode is not about shame. It’s about awakening. In this powerful and healing message, we unpack why you accepted less in past relationships — and why that chapter does not define you. Through Scripture, truth, and prayer, you’ll be reminded that you weren’t weak… you were wounded. You weren’t desperate… you were still discovering your worth. And now? That season is over. God is doing a new thing in your life. The woman who once tolerated confusion, inconsistency, and emotional breadcrumbs is not the woman you are today. You have grown. You have healed. You have learned. And you are no longer available for less than God’s best. 📖 Scriptures in This Episode • Isaiah 43:19 — “See, I am doing a new thing…” • Song of Songs 4:7 — “You are altogether beautiful…” • Jeremiah 29:11 — “For I know the plans I have for you…” • 2 Corinthians 12:9 — “My grace is sufficient for you…” 💗 In This Episode, You’ll Discover: ✔ Why you settled in past seasons ✔ How wounds influence relationship choices ✔ The difference between chemistry and confusion ✔ Why growth changes your standards ✔ How to release shame and embrace healing ✔ Why God’s best requires alignment, not desperation 🌸 This Episode Is For You If: • You’re healing from a relationship that lowered your standards • You tolerated inconsistency or emotional unavailability • You ignored red flags because you feared being alone • You’re learning to date with discernment • You’re ready for healthy, God-centered love • You feel God calling you into a higher standard 👑 Royal Reminder You didn’t fail. You were learning. You didn’t waste time. You were growing. And now that you know better, you will choose better. That season of settling has ended. God is preparing you for love that feels safe, steady, honoring, and aligned with His will. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    5 min

  7. FEB 19

    51: “Sis, Can We Be Honest? Why Praying Harder Won’t Change Him: Biblical Truth About Toxic Relationships, Abuse, and Letting Go

    In this emotional and Spirit-led episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares her personal testimony of spending years praying for a relationship that never changed—and the painful truth God revealed about staying in unhealthy, disrespectful, and abusive situations. Many Christian women are taught that endurance equals faithfulness. But in this episode, Emily exposes that lie and reveals what Scripture truly says about love, marriage, repentance, and freedom. If you’ve ever wondered why your prayers haven’t transformed your partner, why you keep holding on to hope that leads to more heartbreak, or whether God really wants you to stay in pain, this episode will bring clarity, healing, and courage. Through biblical truth, sister-to-sister encouragement, and heartfelt prayer, you’ll learn: ✔ Why God cannot change someone who refuses Him ✔ The difference between faith and emotional attachment ✔ When it’s time to release instead of endure ✔ Why abuse and disrespect are never God’s will ✔ How to break unhealthy soul ties ✔ How to reclaim your peace, confidence, and identity ✔ What godly love is meant to look like This episode is for Christian women who are: Praying for a husband or partner who won’t change Healing from emotional, spiritual, or physical abuse Recovering from toxic marriages and relationships Breaking cycles of heartbreak and soul ties Learning to trust God after betrayal Rebuilding self-worth through faith Choosing freedom over familiarity If you’re tired of surviving in relationships God never assigned, this episode will remind you that you were created for honor, love, safety, and peace—not pain. 🎧 Listen now and be encouraged: God’s will for you is freedom, not bondage. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    15 min

  8. FEB 18

    50: Stop Entertaining Mr. Right Now (Why Temporary Men Keep Blocking Your Future)

    Are you stuck entertaining “Mr. Right Now” — the man who gives attention but no commitment? In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily Jordan exposes why temporary men delay your destiny and how emotional attachments can block God’s best for your future. Through biblical wisdom, real-life testimony, and practical royal training, you’ll learn how to recognize distractions, set godly boundaries, and release relationships that lack alignment. This episode will help you move from confusion to clarity, from emotional attachment to spiritual obedience, and from settling to preparing for covenant love. If you’re ready to break toxic dating cycles, stop entertaining “almost,” and start walking in God-led love, this episode is for you. 📖 Scripture References • Proverbs 13:12 • Luke 16:10 • Jeremiah 17:9 • Matthew 6:24 • Isaiah 60:22 ✨ In This Episode, You’ll Learn How To: ✔ Identify “Mr. Right Now” and emotional distractions ✔ Recognize access without commitment ✔ Strengthen your spiritual discernment in dating ✔ Break unhealthy soul ties ✔ Set godly boundaries ✔ Prepare for Christ-centered relationships ✔ Stop repeating broken relationship cycles ✔ Trust God’s timing in love 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

    15 min
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Girl, Date the Good Guy is a Christian dating podcast for women ready for healing after heartbreak, ready to mend a broken heart, break toxic relationship cycles, set healthy boundaries, strengthen discernment, recognize red flags, and build healthy, God-led relationships. Hosted by Emily Jordan, this faith-based relationship podcast helps women stop repeating unhealthy dating patterns, grow in biblical discernment, and prepare for the kind of relationship God designed. Through biblical wisdom, personal testimony, and the Royal Transformation Path, you’ll learn how to experience real healing, protect your heart with boundaries, identify red flags early, and choose relationships rooted in truth, peace, and purpose. 📌 This podcast is for women healing from heartbreak, navigating a broken heart, and ready to date with clarity, confidence, and Godly wisdom. Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy — the royal training ground for women who are done chasing broken love, ignoring red flags, crossing their own boundaries, and repeating painful relationship cycles. I’m Emily — your faith-based, healed feminine guide and relationship coach. Once chasing emotionally unavailable men, twice divorced, and trapped in cycles of heartbreak. I surrendered my love life to God, entered a season of celibacy and deep healing, and allowed Him to restore my broken heart and rewrite my relationship story. After nearly a decade walking through a God-led journey of healing and restoration, I went from repeating heartbreaking relationship patterns… to experiencing a Godly, healthy, aligned relationship built on peace, discernment, and strong boundaries. Now, I help women just like you reclaim your crown, heal your heart, strengthen discernment, and prepare for the God-led love you were always meant for. Inside this podcast, you’ll step into The Good Guy Society — a movement and royal transformation path designed to guide you through: 👑 Reclaim your God-given identity and break unhealthy relationship cycles 🪞 Develop spiritual discernment and confidently recognize red flags ⚔️ Release past heartbreak, heal a broken heart, and let go of old relationship patterns 📜 Establish God-honoring standards and boundaries without guilt 🛡️ Date from healing and wholeness — not wounds or fear 🏛️ Prepare for a healthy, Christ-centered, God-led relationship Here, you’ll walk the journey from wounded to whole… from heartbreak to healing… from ignoring red flags to walking in discernment… from weak boundaries to holy standards… from confusion to clarity… from survival to royal identity. You'll also find: 💚 Soothe Her Soul Saturday — your royal pause, your royal return — a weekly moment of poetic healing where truth meets heartbreak, hope restores the broken heart, and God lifts the crown you thought you lost. 🎙️ A weekly, heart-to-heart relationship space where Emily speaks honestly about healing, boundaries, discernment, obedience, and the messy middle of rebuilding after heartbreak. These Holy Spirit–led conversations are raw, unfiltered, and rooted in truth — offering real-life stories, clarity, and encouragement for women learning to slow down, strengthen their boundaries, trust their discernment, and let God bring order to their relationship journey. If you’re ready to rise into the woman God created you to be — and build the kind of healthy, God-led relationship that honors your heart and aligns with Heaven — sis, you’re in the right place. So grab your crown, your heart, and your journal. Hit play — your healing, your discernment, and your royal training begin now. XOXO Emily 👑 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode.

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