Dear Tober

Sara Miville & Kasandra Lima
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Kasandra and Sara podcast about grief, parenting, hope, and navigating the in between. Sharing personal stories and struggles, as well as some viewer and reddit submissions. Come spill some tea or diet pepsi with Kas and Sara every second Thursday.

Episodes

  1. Apr 2

    Episode # : A Fox's Tale

    Kas and Sara welcome a very special guest: Kas’s mom, Fern. Together, they revisit the emotional landscape of Kas’s pregnancy and the heartbreaking loss of Tober, exploring how Fern experienced those moments as a mother and grandmother. She shares her perspective on supporting Kas through uncertainty, grief, and healing, and reflects on how the loss still echoes a year later.

    1h 9m
  2. Episode #10: Fu*k Chuck!

    Mar 19

    Episode #10: Fu*k Chuck!

    In this episode, Sara and Kasandra open up part two of Chuck’s story, diving into the chaos, confusion, and emotional fallout surrounding Kasandra's pregnancy with Tober. They walk listeners through the screenshots from that period, unpacking what was said, what was implied, and what was left unsaid. Kasandra revisits the exact messages Sara sent Chuck that day—messages loaded with frustration, and honesty—while Sara helps contextualize the drama that unfolded around Tober’s birth. Together, they piece through the timeline, the reactions, and the impact those conversations had on everyone involved, offering a raw and unfiltered look at this chapter.

    1h 4m

  3. Mar 5

    Episode #9: What the Chuck

    Kasandra and Sara discuss Chuck in part 1 of their story.

    1h 10m

  4. Feb 19

    Episode #8 : Reddit Stories Part 2

    Kasandra and Sara read reddit stories and discuss different topics from previous episodes, and how they relate to the real world.

    1h 13m
  5. Episode #7 : Rainbow After the Storm

    Feb 5

    Episode #7 : Rainbow After the Storm

    Kas and Sara speak with their guest Tiffany about her multi-miscarriage journey to motherhood. Her story of grief, and hope as well as the joy of having her babies and the prospect of how different her life may have looked if those losses hadn't happened.

    1h 21m
  6. Episode 6 : Reddit Stories of Loss

    Jan 22

    Episode 6 : Reddit Stories of Loss

    Kas and Sara read #reddit #stories about #greif and #loss while discussing their personal journeys and #feelings about certain situations.

    1h 2m

  7. Jan 8

    It wasn’t my baby but it still hurts anyways

    On this episode we're joined by our friend Hailey who recounts her perception of the day and the events surrounding Tober's loss. Her guilt of being the only one whose baby survived our joint pregnancy journeys.

    1h 16m
  8. Merry Friendsmas Episode

    12/25/2025

    Merry Friendsmas Episode

    Kasandra and Sara are joined by Tiff and Hailey, join them as they talk about Friendsmas and their own personal holiday miracles.

    1 hr

  9. 11/20/2025

    Oops I did it again, I broke my own heart.

    Kasandra and Sara discuss Sara's miscarriage and Kasandra's current predicament as well as some baby daddy drama.

    1h 10m

  10. 11/13/2025

    Life moves on, but my world stopped!

    Kas and Sara discuss what it was like going home after the hospital and everything that happened in year 1 of losing Tober.

    59 min
  11. Welcome to your new normal.

    11/13/2025

    Welcome to your new normal.

    Episode 1: Kasandra and Sara discuss Tober's birth and that day in October.

    48 min

  12. Season 1 Trailer

    Welcome to the podcast!

    Kasandra and Sara introduce themselves, and drop their first official episodes release date.

    1 min

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About

Kasandra and Sara podcast about grief, parenting, hope, and navigating the in between. Sharing personal stories and struggles, as well as some viewer and reddit submissions. Come spill some tea or diet pepsi with Kas and Sara every second Thursday.

Information

  • Creator
    Sara Miville & Kasandra Lima
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Sara Miville & Kasandra Lima
  • Show Website
    Dear Tober