What does it truly mean to be a powerful man? Is strength measured by control, authority, and the ability to command others—or by authenticity, vulnerability, and the confidence to lead with purpose? In this thought-provoking episode of Balance & Breakthroughs with Wil Singleton, Wil welcomes Garth Haslem, author of Power Over Force and founder of Mentalizing, for an honest and insightful conversation about modern masculinity, emotional resilience, and redefining what it means to be a strong, effective man in today's world. Together, Wil and Garth explore the critical difference between power and force—and how understanding that distinction can transform the way men lead, communicate, build relationships, and navigate life's challenges. Drawing from personal experiences, childhood influences, and lessons learned through adversity, Garth challenges traditional ideas of masculinity and explains why genuine strength isn't about controlling others, but about mastering ourselves. The conversation also takes a deeper look at the loneliness and emotional isolation many men experience, the importance of vulnerability, and why having a trusted brotherhood can make all the difference when facing life's toughest moments. Through his work with Mentalizing, Garth is creating opportunities for men to be heard, supported, and empowered to become better versions of themselves. In this episode, you'll discover: The difference between operating from power versus force.How traditional expectations of masculinity shape men's identities and relationships.Why vulnerability, authenticity, and emotional awareness are essential to genuine strength.The importance of purpose, significance, and self-worth in overcoming personal struggles.How men can build healthier relationships through communication, accountability, and mutual respect.Why meaningful male friendships and supportive communities are essential for personal growth.Practical ways to move beyond control, fear, and frustration toward confidence, compassion, and intentional leadership.True strength isn't about having power over others. It's about having the courage, discipline, and self-awareness to lead yourself. Whether you're a man navigating the pressures of modern life, someone seeking to better understand the men in your life, or simply looking for inspiration to grow beyond old patterns, this conversation offers a refreshing perspective on masculinity, connection, and the power of personal transformation. CONNECT WITH GARTH: ➡️ Website ➡️ Instagram ➡️ Facebook ➡️ Linkedin FOLLOW THE SHOW: 👉 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BALANCE & BREAKTHROUGHS YOUTUBE CHANNEL ➡️ Instagram ➡️ Facebook ➡️ TikTok