Reinventing Retirement

Cathy Paessun

Real-life stories of everyday people who are redefining what retirement can look like.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    Jeff Darbee Conversation — Chapter 2 of 3: Following the Path That Found Him

    Cathy continues her conversation with Jeff Darbee, exploring how his life and work evolved into a version of retirement that still feels full of purpose. Jeff reflects on the moment he and Nancy realized they no longer needed to work for income and could instead choose projects that brought joy, curiosity, and meaning. He talks about shifting from consulting to writing, teaching, and volunteering, and how that change let him focus on the parts of preservation and history he loves most. Jeff shares stories from the study abroad programs he and Nancy have led for Ohio Dominican University. They have taken seventy-seven students to Rome and other historic cities, helping many of them travel outside the country for the first time. He describes how students come alive when they experience new cultures, new architecture, and new ways of seeing the world. Cathy and Jeff discuss how mentoring young people has become a natural extension of his work and how it keeps both him and Nancy energized. The conversation also traces Jeff’s path back to his early influences. He recalls his father’s work at Old Sturbridge Village, his own teenage years spent interpreting history in costume, and the unexpected way a newspaper editorial led him to the Ohio Historical Society. Looking back, Jeff sees how his interests in architecture, railroads, and storytelling quietly shaped a career that feels less like a plan and more like a path that revealed itself over time. This chapter is a warm reflection on legacy, curiosity, and the way passion can guide a life forward long after traditional retirement begins. Reinventing Retirement is the property of Dr. Cathy Paessun and is produced by Tim Beeman for Such-N-Such Media.

    Jeff Darbee Conversation — Chapter 2 of 3: Following the Path That Found Him
  2. 3d ago

    Jeff Darbee Conversation, Chapter 1 of 3: A Retirement That Isn’t Really Retirement

    Cathy talks with Jeff Darbee, a familiar name in Central Ohio and a lifelong advocate for historic preservation. Jeff and his wife, Nancy, have spent fifty years protecting and celebrating the architecture that defines communities across the region. Their story begins with the dramatic 1976 demolition of Columbus’s Union Station arcade, an event that not only sparked a movement but also brought Jeff and Nancy together. Jeff shares how that moment shaped a career devoted to preserving history, from consulting on the renovation of the Ohio Statehouse to documenting the expansion of Ohio Stadium. He reflects on how passion for the past has kept him busier than ever in what most people would call retirement. Today, he continues his work through WOSU TV’s Columbus Neighborhoods series, where his “Driving with Darbee” segments bring local history to life for viewers across the state. The conversation explores how Jeff and Nancy transitioned from full‑time preservation work to mentoring the next generation of consultants, helping them carry forward the mission of protecting Ohio’s architectural heritage. Cathy and Jeff discuss why preserving the physical artifacts of history matters, how communities like German Village have thrived because of it, and why curiosity about the past remains essential to shaping the future. It’s a thoughtful, inspiring start to a three‑part conversation about purpose, legacy, and how a lifelong passion can turn retirement into reinvention. Reinventing Retirement is the property of Dr. Cathy Paessun and is produced by Tim Beeman for Such-N-Such Media.

    Jeff Darbee Conversation, Chapter 1 of 3: A Retirement That Isn’t Really Retirement
  3. Jun 29

    Expert on a Topic Series: When Home Is More Than a House: The Emotional Side of Downsizing and Moving

    Thinking about downsizing, relocating, or aging in place? Choosing where and how to live during retirement is about much more than real estate. It is about emotions, family, independence, and creating the life you want for the years ahead. In this episode of Reinventing Retirement: Health and Wellness, I sit down with Jim Perry, an experienced real estate professional, to discuss the emotional and practical challenges older adults often face when deciding whether to remain in their current home, move closer to loved ones, downsize, or explore new living options. In this conversation, we explore: Why housing decisions become more complex during retirement The emotional connection many people have with a home they’ve lived in for decades How family relationships influence relocation decisions The challenges and rewards of downsizing a lifetime of belongings Finding the right balance between independence, safety, and quality of life Common concerns about aging in place How to prepare emotionally for a major housing transition Practical tips for making confident and informed real estate decisions later in life Whether you’re planning your own retirement, supporting an aging parent, or simply thinking ahead, this discussion offers valuable insights to help you navigate one of life’s most important transitions with confidence and clarity. Retirement isn’t the end of the story. It’s the beginning of a new chapter. With thoughtful planning and the right mindset, your next move can become an opportunity for greater freedom, comfort, and peace of mind. If you found this conversation helpful, please like this episode, subscribe to the channel, and share it with someone who may be facing similar housing decisions. What housing decisions are you considering for your next chapter? We’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. Reinventing Retirement is the property of Dr. Cathy Paessun and is produced by Tim Beeman for Such-N-Such Media.

    Expert on a Topic Series: When Home Is More Than a House: The Emotional Side of Downsizing and Moving
  4. Mar 4

    Destiny Burns: Military Work to Urban Winery

    Destiny Burns joins Cathy for a conversation that feels like a roadmap for anyone wondering what reinvention can look like in life’s later chapters. Destiny’s story begins in Cleveland, winds through the Navy as a Russian linguist, moves into intelligence and the defense industry, and even includes a chapter as a volunteer firefighter in her late forties. Through each transition, she discovered that her core values stayed steady while her “why” evolved, a pattern she eventually captured in her book My Why and I? A Rebel’s Guide to a Why‑Centered Lifestyle. As she explains, living a why‑centered life is a deliberate choice, one that requires staying aligned with what matters most and being willing to realign when life shifts. That commitment eventually brought her home to Cleveland, where she created something entirely new: an urban winery built inside a hundred‑year‑old auto garage. Destiny describes it not as a wine business but as a relationship business, a community hub where connection is the real product and the wine is simply the glue . She shares the three tenets that guide everything she does—good wine made fun, celebrate Cleveland, and drink wine and do good—and how those principles shape her team, her partnerships, and her impact. From hosting fundraisers to supporting local artists to donating wine to neighborhood theaters, Destiny has built a business that reflects her values as much as her entrepreneurial spirit. As the conversation turns toward retirement, Destiny offers a refreshingly honest look at what comes next. She talks about the realities of running a business that never stops, the importance of planning for an eventual transition, and the freedom that comes from knowing your purpose beyond your job. She imagines a future rooted in impact and adventure, perhaps working with nonprofits or using her hard‑earned experience to strengthen her community in new ways. For listeners navigating their own next chapters, Destiny’s story is a reminder that purpose does not retire. It evolves, expands, and invites us to follow it with intention. Reinventing Retirement is the property of Dr. Cathy Paessun and is produced by Tim Beeman for Such-N-Such Media.

  5. Mar 4

    Growing Younger: Diana Howes on Tango, Flexibility, and a Life in Motion

    Diana Howes joins Cathy for a conversation that feels like a celebration of what reinvention can look like when you stay open, flexible, and willing to follow joy wherever it leads. Diana describes her life today as one filled with movement, connection, and purpose, much of it centered around Argentine tango. What began as a way to strengthen her knees turned into a passion that brings her exercise, community, and what she jokingly calls her eight hugs a day. She talks about the closeness of the dance, its social nature, and the delight of learning something she had always wanted to do but never had time for while raising four children. Her path into retirement was shaped by a lifetime of taking leaps and trusting that the net would appear. After decades in insurance and investments, she shifted into virtual bookkeeping long before remote work was common, a move that gave her the freedom to be with her children as their lives took them to different cities. When her daughter had what Diana calls a miracle baby, she moved to Charlotte to help. When her son and daughter‑in‑law in Los Angeles were expecting twins, she packed up again and headed west. She describes herself as a minimalist with a suitcase and a storage unit, choosing furnished rooms and month‑to‑month living so she can stay close to family and keep her life flexible. Diana reflects on the realities of aging, the desire to sit less, the importance of staying mentally and physically active, and the joy of being surrounded by younger people who keep her engaged. She talks about her commitment to “growing younger,” a mix of mindset, movement, whole foods, and purpose. And she shares her newest dream with a smile: to become a dancer everyone wants to dance with. It is a reminder that reinvention does not require grand gestures. Sometimes it looks like choosing connection, choosing movement, and choosing to stay open to the next beautiful thing. Reinventing Retirement is the property of Dr. Cathy Paessun and is produced by Tim Beeman for Such-N-Such Media.

    Growing Younger: Diana Howes on Tango, Flexibility, and a Life in Motion
  6. Feb 13

    Retirement in Full Volume: Cathy Paessun Talks with Ron Franke‑Polz

    Cathy Paessun sits down with longtime friend and lifelong music tinkerer Ron Franke‑Polz for a conversation that begins in snowy northern Indiana and quickly opens into a story about coming home. Ron reflects on what it’s like to return to the town where he grew up, now just a couple of miles from his childhood house, and how familiar places feel both unchanged and completely new. As Cathy notes, it’s a full circle moment that sets the stage for a thoughtful look at the twists and turns of his working life. Their conversation moves into Ron’s parallel worlds of engineering and music, from garage bands in high school to recording sessions in his basement studio today. He shares how technology, curiosity, and a few lucky encounters helped him build a creative second act that spans local musicians, old bandmates, and even cross‑state collaborations. Cathy draws out the humor and heart in his stories, including the unexpected ways retirement opened space for new projects and revived passions. Ron also talks candidly about easing out of corporate life, adjusting to the rhythm of retirement, and discovering that weekdays are now the best days of the week. From rebuilding a pond path with a tractor to navigating the realities of health, finances, and time, he offers a grounded look at what reinvention can feel like in real life. The episode closes with a glimpse of what he’s exploring next, hinting at both the playful and the profound. Reinventing Retirement is the property of Dr. Cathy Paessun and is produced by Tim Beeman for Such-N-Such Media.

    Retirement in Full Volume: Cathy Paessun Talks with Ron Franke‑Polz

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Real-life stories of everyday people who are redefining what retirement can look like.