Starlit Success

Jessica Gaines
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The Starlit Success podcast is a show designed for those feeling unfulfilled with the daily grind of life. Hosted by Certified NLP and Success Coach, Jessica Gaines blends practical self-development tools, mindset shifts and spiritual principles to help you recognize your limitless potential, discover your true purpose and align with your passion to create your ultimate dream life. If you're ready to transcend your current reality, follow what truly lights you up and create success on YOUR terms, this is the show for you.

  1. 2d ago

    #31: We Made It To Florida! (A Quick Life Update)

    We made it! 🌴 After months of planning, packing, emotional goodbyes, and a 20+ hour drive, my family and I have officially made it to Florida. This week, I'm giving you a quick life update from our new home (boxes, clutter, and all) and sharing why I'll be taking a short break from the podcast as we get settled into this exciting new chapter. More importantly, I want to remind you of something I needed to hear myself: Dreams are rarely easy, but they're always worth pursuing. In this episode, I share what this move has taught me about following your dreams, giving yourself credit instead of beating yourself up, protecting your mental health, and choosing what matters most in different seasons of life. If you've been waiting for the "perfect" time to chase a dream, I hope this episode reminds you that every dream starts as nothing more than an idea, and the only way it becomes reality is by taking that first step. Thank you for being part of this journey. I'll be back in a few weeks after we've unpacked a few more boxes, helped the boys get settled into school, and had a chance to soak in this new adventure. Until then... don't be afraid to do hard things. They just might lead you to the life you've been dreaming about. 💙 01:00 Travel Chaos Confession02:32 Settling In Gratitude03:18 You Can Do Hard Things04:21 Give Yourself Credit05:30 Family First06:26 Short Break Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/ Connect with me! https://www.starlitsuccess.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starlitsuccess/?hl=en

    #31: We Made It To Florida! (A Quick Life Update)

  2. Jul 15

    #30: The Messy Middle (#4) - Scared Doesn't Mean Stop

    Have you ever felt excited about making a big change... only to question everything once it became hard? Whether you're changing careers, starting a business, moving, ending a relationship, or finally following a dream, it's easy to mistake feelings like fear, stress, sadness, or uncertainty as signs you're making the wrong decision. But what if they're not? In this episode of The Messy Middle, I'm sharing one of the biggest mindset shifts I've experienced during our family's move to Florida, and why the difficult emotions that show up during change don't necessarily mean you should stop. ✨ Why big life changes bring conflicting emotions✨ The mistake that causes so many people to give up on their dreams✨ How to tell the difference between fear and genuine intuition✨ Why remembering why you started changes everything✨ How to stay connected to your vision when the journey gets hard If you're navigating a major life transition or questioning a decision that once felt exciting, this episode will help you reconnect with the reason you started in the first place. Because scared doesn't mean stop. Sometimes it simply means you're growing. 01:36 Why Change Feels So Hard03:52 Which Emotion Should You Trust?04:52 The Renovation Lesson06:37 Remember Why You Started10:02 Scared Doesn't Mean Stop10:45 Your Challenge Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/ Connect with me! https://www.starlitsuccess.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starlitsuccess/?hl=en

    #30: The Messy Middle (#4) - Scared Doesn't Mean Stop

  3. Jul 8

    #29: The Messy Middle (#3) - Not Everyone Will Understand

    Have you ever wanted to make a big change in your life but worried about what everyone else would think? Whether you're changing careers, starting a business, moving, setting boundaries, or finally following a dream that's been on your heart for years, one thing is almost guaranteed: Not everyone will understand. In this episode of The Messy Middle, I'm sharing what I've been learning during one of the biggest transitions of my life, and why other people's reactions don't have to determine your direction. ✨ Why seeking approval and people-pleasing can keep you stuck✨ How fear of judgment quietly holds you back✨ Why the people who love you may still question your decisions✨ The mindset shift that's helping me move forward with confidence If you've ever felt misunderstood, questioned your own decisions because of someone else's opinion, or worried that pursuing your dreams might disappoint the people around you, this episode is for you. Because not everyone has to understand your journey... for it to be the right one. 00:14 Messy Middle Move02:36 Telling Everyone03:28 Excited Reactions05:06 Fear Projectors07:47 The Non Responders09:40 Not Wrong, Just Human11:38 My Own Lesson13:09 Live Your Life14:50 Trust Yourself Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/ Connect with me! https://www.starlitsuccess.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starlitsuccess/?hl=en

    #29: The Messy Middle (#3) - Not Everyone Will Understand

  4. Jul 1

    #28: The Messy Middle (#2) - Why Everything Feels Like Too Much

    Have you ever looked at your to-do list and thought, "There's no way I can do all of this!" Whether you're balancing work, kids, a major life transition, or simply trying to keep up with everyday responsibilities, it's easy to feel like everything needs your attention at once. In this second episode of The Messy Middle series, I'm sharing what I'm learning in real time while navigating one of the busiest seasons of my life, and the surprising realization that's helping me move through overwhelm without letting it take over. ✨ Why everything suddenly feels like "too much"✨ The mindset mistake that makes overwhelm even heavier✨ Why your brain treats everything like an emergency✨ How to stop freezing when your to-do list feels endless✨ Simple ways to regain focus, clarity, and peace of mind✨ The perspective shift that completely changed how I view stressful seasons If you've been feeling mentally exhausted, constantly behind, or like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, this episode is for you. Because sometimes the problem isn't everything that's on your plate... It's believing you have to carry it all at once. 00:14 When Life Gets Crazy04:10 WTF is Overwhelm?06:46 How We Sabotage Ourselves08:07 House Showing Frenzy11:15 Give Your Brain a Break13:49 Practical Steps17:23 Focus And Perspective19:01 Wrap Up And Challenge Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/ Connect with me! https://www.starlitsuccess.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starlitsuccess/?hl=en

    #28: The Messy Middle (#2) - Why Everything Feels Like Too Much

  5. Jun 24

    #27: The Messy Middle (#1) - What To Do When Life Feels Uncertain

    What do you do when life feels uncertain and you have no idea how everything is going to work out? Whether you're facing a major move, career change, relationship transition, sending a child off to college, or simply standing at the edge of something new, the unknown can feel overwhelming. In this first episode of The Messy Middle series, I'm sharing what I'm learning in real time as my family prepares for a major relocation from Wisconsin to Florida, and why uncertainty feels so much harder than we think. ✨ Why our brains automatically imagine the worst-case scenario✨ The difference between growth and true uncertainty✨ How fear of the unknown keeps us feeling stuck✨ Why trying to control every outcome creates more anxiety✨ The mindset shift helping me navigate this season of change✨ How to trust yourself when you don't know what's coming next If you're in a season where life feels unclear, messy, or completely up in the air, this episode is for you. Because sometimes the hardest part isn't taking the leap. It's learning to trust yourself while you're in mid-air. Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/ Connect with me! https://www.starlitsuccess.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starlitsuccess/?hl=en

    #27: The Messy Middle (#1) - What To Do When Life Feels Uncertain

  6. Jun 17

    #26: Life Changing Lessons: (#4) Stop Waiting and Start Small

    Have you ever looked at a big dream and immediately talked yourself out of it? Whether it's starting a business, launching a podcast, changing careers, or pursuing a goal that's been sitting on your heart for years, many of us make the mistake of thinking we need massive action to create massive change. But what if the secret isn't doing more? What if it's simply starting smaller? In this final episode of the Life-Changing Lessons mini-series, I share the mindset shift that helped me stop waiting until I felt ready and start building momentum through tiny, consistent action. We talk about: ✨ Why big dreams feel overwhelming✨ The confidence myth that's keeping you stuck✨ How small actions create massive results over time✨ Why consistency beats motivation every time✨ How to stop procrastinating and start moving forward✨ The simple habit that helps you build your dream life Your future isn't built overnight. It's built one small step at a time. 00:14 Why Small Steps Win04:02 Fear Kills Momentum05:00 Confidence Through Reps07:39 Mountain Step Mindset09:20 Habits Will Rewire You10:22 Build Your Consistency Routine11:58 How To Break Goals Down13:23 Daily 30 Minute Plan Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/ Connect with me! https://www.starlitsuccess.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starlitsuccess/?hl=en

    #26: Life Changing Lessons: (#4) Stop Waiting and Start Small

  7. Jun 10

    #25: Life Changing Lessons: (#3) The Real Reason You Never Have Enough Time

    Do you ever feel like there's just not enough hours in the day? Between work, kids, household responsibilities, appointments, sports, errands, and trying to keep up with life, it can feel impossible to find time for your dreams, goals, or personal growth. Yeah. I used to tell myself the same thing:"I'll start next year.""Things will calm down eventually.""I just don't have the time right now." But one day I realized something that completely changed the way I look at time: More time isn't coming. In this episode of the Life-Changing Lessons mini-series, I'm sharing one of the biggest mindset shifts that helped me stop waiting for the perfect time and start building the life I actually wanted—using the time I already had. We'll talk about:✨ Why "I don't have time" is often a story we tell ourselves✨ The hidden ways we unconsciously lose hours every week✨ How consumption can keep you stuck while creation moves you forward✨ Why waiting for the right time can actually delay your dreams for years✨ The surprising reason procrastination becomes harder to overcome over time✨ Simple ways to create more space for your goals without sacrificing what matters most If you've been feeling overwhelmed, stretched too thin, or frustrated that your dreams keep getting pushed to "someday," this episode is for you. Because your dream life isn't built when things finally slow down.It's built in the small pockets of time you already have.And once you learn to see them, everything starts to change. If this episode resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Connect with me on Instagram or YouTube @StarlitSuccess and let me know: What's one thing you've been putting off because you thought you didn't have the time? 00:44 No Time Myth01:30 Basketball Lesson02:54 Autopilot Consumption06:26 Procrastination Costs09:30 Time As An Investment11:43 Small Steps14:27 Habit Stacking Hacks15:19 Simplify And Delegate17:42 Work With Your Life19:29 Recap And Weekly Challenge20:44 Next Episode Tease Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/ Connect with me! https://www.starlitsuccess.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starlitsuccess/?hl=en

    #25: Life Changing Lessons: (#3) The Real Reason You Never Have Enough Time

  8. Jun 3

    #24: Life Changing Lessons: (#2) Why Nothing Feels Right Until You Find Your Purpose

    Have you ever tried to pursue a new goal or opportunity, but it flopped for one reason or another? Maybe you’ve tried things that looked successful on the outside… only to end up feeling just as unfulfilled as before. In this second episode of my Life-Changing Lessons mini series, we talk about the lesson that completely changed the direction of my life: success means nothing if it doesn't align with who you truly are and what you love to do. For years, I thought the answer was to chase money, opportunities, or whatever seemed like the “smart” path. But every time I forced myself into something that didn’t genuinely light me up, I ended up burned out, disconnected, and wanting to quit. In this episode, we’re diving into:✨ why chasing the wrong goals keeps you feeling stuck✨ the difference between passion, purpose, and external success✨ why some dreams energize you while others drain you✨ how alignment changes your motivation completely✨ the hidden signs that something is actually meant for you✨ and how discovering your purpose and passion is the key to following your dreams Because when you finally find something that feels aligned — something that excites you, fulfills you, and gives you a bigger reason behind what you’re doing — you stop forcing yourself to keep going. You just WANT to. And that changes everything. 00:55 Chasing The Wrong Goals01:34 Purpose + Passion05:25 Why Money Isn't Enough08:21 Aligned Work Changes Everything10:34 Find Your Natural Gifts11:09 My Advice Magnet Story15:08 Self Discovery Questions17:15 Next Episode Teaser Music by: https://laceybortvit.com/ Connect with me! https://www.starlitsuccess.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StarlitSuccess Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starlitsuccess/?hl=en

    #24: Life Changing Lessons: (#2) Why Nothing Feels Right Until You Find Your Purpose
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The Starlit Success podcast is a show designed for those feeling unfulfilled with the daily grind of life. Hosted by Certified NLP and Success Coach, Jessica Gaines blends practical self-development tools, mindset shifts and spiritual principles to help you recognize your limitless potential, discover your true purpose and align with your passion to create your ultimate dream life. If you're ready to transcend your current reality, follow what truly lights you up and create success on YOUR terms, this is the show for you.

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  • Creator
    Jessica Gaines
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    32
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    Starlit Success