The Paco Podcast

Sandra Prunsky
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Your Journey Back to Yourself. 🏠 Welcome to The Paco Podcast (Formerly The Unfiltered Truths Podcast) with Sandra Prunsky. Paco means “home” in my Lango heritage—and that’s exactly what this space is: a home for honest conversations on life: purpose, restoration, resilience, healing, boundaries, and reclaiming the life you were meant to live. 📩 FREE RESILIENCE TOOLKIT Get your free guide at the-unfiltered-truths-podcast.kit.com (Don’t worry – it’s still yours, now part of The Paco Podcast family!) 👋 CONNECT WITH SANDRA 📸 Show Instagram: @ThePacoPodcast 📸 Personal Instagram: @prunskyba

  1. May 9

    Your anger is not the enemy (here's what it's trying to tell you). | Reclaimation Series Episode 8

    Let me ask you something. When was the last time you were really angry? Not annoyed. Not frustrated. I mean red-hot, chest-tight, I-could-scream angry.What happened? Did you let it out? Or did you swallow it?Most of us were told that anger is bad. Especially if you're a woman. "Good girls don't yell." "Calm down." "You're being dramatic." And if you're a man, you might have been told that anger is the only emotion you're allowed to show – but even then, only in certain ways.So what do we do? We push it down. We pretend. We smile when we want to scream. And then later, alone, we wonder why we feel so heavy.But here's the truth I need you to hear today: Your anger is not the enemy. It's trying to tell you something. And if you learn to listen, it might just save your life.In this episode of The Paco Podcast (Reclamation Series), I want to change the way you see anger.In this episode, you'll learn:• What we were taught about anger (and why most of it was wrong)• What happens to swallowed anger (depression, anxiety, resentment, physical symptoms)• Why anger is actually a signal (like an alarm system in your house)• The 4 things your anger is trying to tell you• Real examples of anger as messenger (not the enemy)• The difference between feeling anger and acting on it destructively• 6 practical steps to go from swallowing anger to listening to it• What about righteous anger? (injustice, corruption, abuse)• A word for those who were told anger makes them unlovableIf you've ever been told you're "too emotional" or "too much" – this episode is your permission slip to feel differently.🎧 LISTEN TO THE PACO PODCASTPrefer audio? Take me on your walks, commutes, or quiet moments. Link in description.⚠️ DISCLAIMERThis content is for educational and informational purposes only. The stories and opinions shared are my own personal experiences and do not constitute professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice.If you are experiencing persistent anger, rage, or emotional dysregulation that is affecting your relationships or daily life, please seek support from a licensed therapist, counselor, or trusted professional. Professional help is available – you do not have to navigate this alone.This episode is meant to inspire and comfort, not replace professional guidance. Your journey is your own.💬 YOUR ASSIGNMENTNext time you feel angry, don't push it down. Do the pause. Ask the question: What is this anger trying to tell me?Then write it down. Just one sentence: "I was angry because _____."If you feel brave, share that sentence in the comments. Not to be attacked. To be witnessed. To remind yourself and others that anger is not the enemy.📢 SHARE THISSend this episode to someone who was told their anger made them "too much."🔔 SUBSCRIBEThe Paco Podcast – your journey back to yourself. Hit subscribe so you don't miss the next episode in the Reclamation Series.📱 CONNECT WITH METhe Pod: @thepacopodcast on all platformsPersonal: @prunskybae#Anger #EmotionalHealth #AngerIsNotTheEnemy #ThePacoPodcast #ReclamationSeries #EmotionalIntelligence #MentalHealth #HealthyAnger #UgandaPodcast #AfricanPodcast #HealingJourney #YouAreNotTooMuch

    12 min

  2. May 9

    The voice in your head is lying to you (here's how to prove it wrong). | Reclaimation Series Epd 7

    There's a voice in your head. You think it's yours. But it's not.It says things like:• "You're not good enough"• "You're too old to start over"• "People like you don't get those opportunities"• "You always mess up"You've heard it so many times, you don't even notice it anymore. It's just running in the background, like a song you memorized without choosing to.But here's the truth you need to hear today: That voice is not you. It was given to you. By a parent, a teacher, a friend, a partner, or a failure you couldn't forget. Someone spoke it over you, and you caught it like a cold. And now it lives in your head, pretending to be you.In this episode of The Paco Podcast (Reclamation Series), we are reclaiming the voice in our heads. Not by screaming at it. Not by pretending it doesn't exist. By asking one simple question: Whose voice is this really?Then, slowly, we start writing a new one.In this episode, you'll learn:• Where the voice actually comes from (it wasn't born inside you)• The cost of believing a voice that isn't yours (missed opportunities)• A simple exercise to trace the voice to its source• Why the voice isn't the enemy (it's a misguided guard dog)• 4 powerful tools to change the voice for good• What to do if the voice is very, very loud (from trauma or abuse)If you've ever felt held back by a voice that tells you you're not enough – this episode is for you.🎧 LISTEN TO THE PACO PODCASTPrefer audio? Take me on your walks, commutes, or quiet moments. Link in description.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS0:00 – The voice in your head (it's not yours)0:24 – Welcome to the Reclamation Series1:08 – Close your eyes: whose voice is that?1:55 – Common voices that are not ours2:41 – What happens when you believe the wrong voice3:08 – The woman who thought she was "bad with people"3:52 – Exercise: trace the voice to its source5:06 – The voice is not the enemy (the belief is)5:24 – Why the voice is trying to protect you6:27 – Tool #1: Name it7:03 – Tool #2: Evidence check7:32 – Tool #3: Write a new recording8:17 – Tool #4: The small action8:53 – When the voice is very, very loud (trauma)9:27 – The listener is you (that's your power)10:38 – Your assignment for this week11:12 – Share this with someone who needs it⚠️ DISCLAIMERThis content is for educational and informational purposes only. The stories and opinions shared are my own personal experiences and do not constitute professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice.If you are experiencing persistent negative self-talk, intrusive thoughts, or mental health challenges, please seek support from a licensed therapist, counselor, or trusted professional. Professional help is available – you do not have to navigate this alone.This episode is meant to inspire and comfort, not replace professional guidance. Your journey is your own.💬 YOUR ASSIGNMENTWrite down the old voice. Then write your new sentence. Keep it somewhere you'll see it every day – your mirror, your phone wallpaper, your notebook.If you're brave, share it in the comments. Not to be judged. To be witnessed. To tell the world: "I'm rewriting the voice in my head."📢 SHARE THISSend this episode to someone who needs to hear that the mean voice in their head is not theirs.🔔 SUBSCRIBEThe Paco Podcast – your journey back to yourself. Hit subscribe so you don't miss the next episode in the Reclamation Series.📱 CONNECT WITH METhe Pod: @thepacopodcast on all platformsPersonal: @prunskybae#InnerCritic #NegativeSelfTalk #TheVoiceInYourHead #ThePacoPodcast #ReclamationSeries #RewireYourBrain #SelfTalk #MentalHealth #LimitingBeliefs #UgandaPodcast #AfricanPodcast #HealingJourney #YouAreEnough

    12 min

  3. May 9

    Why you hate your body (it's not your fault). | Reclaimation Series Episode 6

    Let me start with a question. I don't want you to answer out loud. I want you to answer in your head. Honestly.When was the last time you looked in the mirror and felt not good enough? Not "I could fix my hair." I mean that deep sinking feeling. The one that says something is wrong. My body is wrong. If I could just change this one thing...Maybe it's your weight. Maybe it's your skin. Maybe it's a scar. A part of you that someone, somewhere, made you feel ashamed of.That feeling has a name. And it was given to you.In this episode of The Paco Podcast (formerly The Unfiltered Truths), I'm starting the Reclamation Series with the most personal topic of all: reclaiming your body.Not with diet tips. Not with workout plans. Not with "love yourself" quotes that feel impossible to believe.We're going to name where the shame came from. We're going to talk about the things nobody wants to say out loud – including body enhancements, surgeries, the whole messy truth. And we're going to find a way back to ourselves.Because your body is not the problem. It's everything that has been projected onto it.In this episode, you'll learn:• The 4 sources of body shame (family, church, partners, media)• Why the voice in your head isn't yours (and who it belongs to)• The truth about body enhancements (no judgment, but an honest question)• What body shame really costs you (years of your life)• 7 small, practical steps to reclaim your body todayIf you've ever avoided a swimming pool, deleted a photo, or skipped an event because you felt your body wasn't good enough – this episode is for you.Listen until the end. Your future self will thank you.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS0:00 – The mirror question (don't answer out loud)0:43 – Welcome to The Paco Podcast (rebrand + Reclamation Series)1:12 – What this episode is NOT (diet tips or fake positivity)1:32 – Close your eyes: the first time you felt wrong2:04 – Source 1: Family (the first wound)2:58 – Source 2: Church (when faith becomes shame)3:34 – Source 3: Partners (the renovation project)4:59 – Source 4: Media and culture (the shifting rules)6:17 – Body enhancements (let's be real, no judgment)7:44 – The gentle question before any procedure8:22 – The cost of not reclaiming your body (lost years)8:59 – My acne story (how I reclaimed my skin)9:58 – 7 steps to reclaim your body10:17 – Step 1: Name the voice10:57 – Step 2: Wear what you want11:48 – Step 3: Move for joy (not punishment)12:06 – Step 4: Stop apologizing for existing12:51 – Step 5: Look in the mirror and speak13:20 – Step 6: Curate what you consume13:39 – Step 7: Seek support if you need it13:59 – The truth: your body was never wrong14:36 – Hope: every small act is a revolution15:16 – Your assignment (look in the mirror today)15:55 – Share this with someone who needs it16:14 – Subscribe + closing⚠️ DISCLAIMERThis content is for educational and informational purposes only. The stories and opinions shared are my own personal experiences and do not constitute professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice.If you are experiencing body dysmorphia, eating disorders, or severe body image distress, please seek support from a licensed therapist, counselor, or medical professional. Professional help is available – you do not have to navigate this alone.This episode is meant to inspire and comfort, not replace professional guidance. Your journey is your own.💬 YOUR ASSIGNMENTLook in the mirror today. Just for 30 seconds. Look at yourself. And say this out loud:I am reclaiming my body. Starting now.It might feel silly. Do it anyway. Then come back to the comments and tell me how it felt.📢 SHARE THISSend this episode to your sister, your friend, your partner – anyone who has ever felt ashamed of their body. You never know who needs to hear that it's not their fault.📱 CONNECT WITH METhe show: @thepacopodcast on all platformsPersonal: @prunskybae

    17 min

  4. May 9

    Why you're tired but didn't do anything (the attention thief). | Reclaimation Series Episode 5

    Let me ask you something.Have you ever picked up your phone to check one thing – and then an hour later, you're watching a man deep fry a watermelon while a dope playlist plays and you don't even remember how you got there?That's not a time machine. That's your attention being stolen in broad daylight by people who have never met you.Today, we're taking it back.In this episode of The Paco Podcast, you'll learn:• Why your attention has become a product (and who's stealing it)• The 4 signs your attention has been chopped into tiny pieces• 3 small, weird, actually doable tricks that worked for me• The embarrassing bathroom story that changed everything• How to get your presence back (not just your productivity)If you've ever felt tired at the end of the day but can't name one thing you actually finished – this episode is for you.Listen until the end. Your future self will thank you.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS0:00 – The watermelon deep fry moment (you know the one)0:26 – Put your phone down right now0:41 – Welcome to The Paco Podcast (what "Paco" means)1:02 – Today's topic: reclaiming your attention1:28 – No app deleting or mountain moving (just small, doable things)1:51 – What attention really is (fuel for everything)2:08 – The hard truth: your attention is a product2:50 – The 4 signs your attention has been stolen3:18 – Sign #1: You meant to work but watched cooking videos instead3:42 – Sign #2: You're nodding but not really there4:12 – Sign #3: Your brain feels itchy (can't sit still)4:12 – Sign #4: Tired but can't name what you finished4:41 – 3 small tricks to reclaim your attention4:55 – Trick #1: Turn off the useless notifications5:25 – Trick #2: The "one thing" rule5:58 – Trick #3: Schedule your scrolling6:25 – My embarrassing bathroom story (where I learned the hard way)7:48 – The unexpected gift: presence, not productivity8:19 – Quick recap8:48 – Your homework for this week9:27 – Next episode teaser9:50 – Class dismissed🎧 LISTEN TO THE PACO PODCASTPrefer audio? You can take me with you on your walks, commutes, or quiet moments.• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LF3COgTMuovC5oMHUjhzK• Full Podcast Directory (Apple, Google, etc.): https://pod.link/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8xMGJjMmZjZTgvcG9kY2FzdC9yc3M⚠️ DISCLAIMERThis content is for educational and informational purposes only. The stories and opinions shared are my own personal experiences and do not constitute professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice.If you are experiencing mental health challenges, relationship difficulties, or emotional distress, please seek support from a licensed therapist, counselor, or trusted professional. Professional help is available – you do not have to navigate this alone.This episode is meant to inspire and comfort, not replace professional guidance. Your journey is your own.💬 YOUR HOMEWORKThis week, pick just one of the three tricks:1. Turn off useless notifications for a day2. Try the "one thing" rule for 10 minutes3. Schedule one scrolling session (instead of checking all day)Just one small change. Then come tell me about it.📱 The show: @thepacopodcast on all platforms📱 Personal: @prunskybaeSay "I ignored my phone for 10 minutes" and I'll celebrate with you 🎉📢 SHARE THISSend this episode to a friend who needs to hear that their attention is being stolen – and they can take it back.🔔 SUBSCRIBEThe Paco Podcast – your journey back to yourself. Hit subscribe so you don't miss the next episode.#Attention #PhoneAddiction #ReclaimYourAttention #ThePacoPodcast #ReclamationSeries #DigitalDetox #Focus #MentalHealth #ScreenTime #Distraction #UgandaPodcast #AfricanPodcast #HealingJourney #PresenceNotProductivity

    10 min

  5. May 9

    How to say no without explaining yourself (the unapologetic no). | Reclaimation Series Episode 4

    Quick show of hands: how many of you have said "no" and then immediately started explaining yourself like you were defending a thesis?Yeah, same.We say no, and then we give three reasons, an apology, and a possible future date when the answer might be yes. We're not saying no. We're writing a novel.Today in The Paco Podcast classroom, we're learning the art of the unapologetic no. Spoiler: it's shorter than you think.In this episode, you'll learn:• Why we over-explain our no (and how to stop)• The simple formula for a clean no (thank + state your no + stop talking)• What to do with the awkward silence (don't fill it)• Why "no" is not selfish – it's self-respect• My real story: the Saturday I finally said no (and felt lighter)If you've ever said "let me think about it" when you already knew the answer was no – this episode is for you.Listen until the end. Your future self will thank you.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS0:00 – Quick show of hands (the over-explaining problem)0:19 – Today's topic: the unapologetic no0:41 – Welcome to The Paco Podcast (what "Paco" means)1:03 – Why we over-explain1:32 – The truth about reasons (they give people something to argue with)1:42 – Step one: recognize you don't owe anyone a paragraph1:59 – The formula for a clean no2:22 – It feels awkward at first (like new shoes)2:49 – What to do with the silence (step two: don't fill it)3:09 – My story: the stare I survived3:38 – Step three: stay in the silence4:05 – My Saturday no story (the weight lifted)4:45 – Quick recap4:56 – Your homework for this week5:22 – Subscribe reminder5:48 – Share this with someone who needs it🎧 LISTEN TO THE PACO PODCASTPrefer audio? You can take me with you on your walks, commutes, or quiet moments.• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LF3COgTMuovC5oMHUjhzK• Full Podcast Directory (Apple, Google, etc.): https://pod.link/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8xMGJjMmZjZTgvcG9kY2FzdC9yc3M⚠️ DISCLAIMERThis content is for educational and informational purposes only. The stories and opinions shared are my own personal experiences and do not constitute professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice.If you are experiencing mental health challenges, relationship difficulties, or emotional distress, please seek support from a licensed therapist, counselor, or trusted professional. Professional help is available – you do not have to navigate this alone.This episode is meant to inspire and comfort, not replace professional guidance. Your journey is your own.💬 YOUR HOMEWORKFind one thing this week and say no. Not a big, life-changing no. A small one.• "No, I can't take that call right now."• "No, I don't want to go out tonight."• "No, I don't have the capacity for that."Say it without apology. Then come tell me how it felt.📱 The show: @thepacopodcast on all platforms📱 Personal: @prunskybaeSay "I said no!" and I'll celebrate with you 🎉📢 SHARE THISSend this episode to a friend who needs to hear that "no" is a complete sentence.🔔 SUBSCRIBEThe Paco Podcast – your journey back to yourself. Hit subscribe so you don't miss the next episode.#UnapologeticNo #HowToSayNo #StopOverExplaining #ThePacoPodcast #ReclamationSeries #Boundaries #SayingNo #SelfRespect #PeoplePleasingRecovery #UgandaPodcast #AfricanPodcast #HealingJourney #NoIsACompleteSentence

    6 min

  6. May 9

    Stop being a human doormat (people pleasing vs peacekeeping). Reclaimation Series Episode 3

    Raise your hand if you've ever said yes when your spirit was screaming no.I see you. Don't worry. This is a safe space.Today, we're going to school. The virtual podcast classroom is open. And our topic is one we all need to graduate from: people pleasing.But we're not just going to talk about it. We're going to break it down step by step until you can tell the difference between being kind and being a human doormat.Yes, there will be jokes. You can laugh.In this episode of The Paco Podcast, you'll learn:• What people pleasing actually is (it's not just being nice)• The 3 signs you're a people pleaser (exhausted after conversations? constantly apologizing? your yes doesn't feel like a choice?)• What people pleasing really costs you (your energy, your identity, and your peace)• The difference between people pleasing and peacekeeping (they sound similar but they're NOT the same)• How to shift from people pleaser to peacekeeper (small practices that work)• My real story: the friendship that ended when I stopped pleasingIf you've ever felt like you're running on empty while making everyone else happy – this episode is for you.Listen until the end. Your future self will thank you.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS0:00 – Raise your hand if you've said yes when you wanted to say no0:12 – Welcome to the virtual podcast classroom0:18 – Today's topic: people pleasing0:39 – The goal: stop being a human doormat0:53 – Meet your host (Sandra)1:02 – What "Paco" means (home)1:28 – Defining people pleasing1:39 – What is people pleasing really?2:03 – The default setting: making everyone else comfortable at your expense2:28 – Where people pleasing comes from (fear)3:01 – My story: the flat bearer of people pleasers3:37 – Step one: recognize the signs4:11 – What people pleasing costs you (energy, identity, peace)4:28 – The battery drain metaphor5:26 – The magic happens here5:34 – People pleasing vs peacekeeping (the key difference)6:24 – Real example: the friend who constantly got upset7:30 – What I should have done (peacekeeping)7:52 – A note to those on the receiving end8:23 – The day I stopped pleasing (and lost a friendship)8:48 – How to shift from people pleaser to peacekeeper9:18 – The pause technique9:30 – The conversation that changed everything10:13 – Let the discomfort sit (it won't kill you)10:25 – Quick recap11:03 – Your homework this week11:23 – The show's new social media handles11:50 – Next episode teaser: The Unapologetic No12:00 – Class dismissed🎧 LISTEN TO THE PACO PODCASTPrefer audio? You can take me with you on your walks, commutes, or quiet moments.• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LF3COgTMuovC5oMHUjhzK• Full Podcast Directory (Apple, Google, etc.): https://pod.link/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8xMGJjMmZjZTgvcG9kY2FzdC9yc3M⚠️ DISCLAIMERThis content is for educational and informational purposes only. The stories and opinions shared are my own personal experiences and do not constitute professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice.This episode is meant to inspire and comfort, not replace professional guidance. Your journey is your own.💬 YOUR HOMEWORKCatch yourself in one people pleasing moment this week. That's it. You don't have to change it overnight. Just notice it.Then come tell me about it. Find me on social media:📱 The show: @thepacopodcast on all platforms📱 Personal: @prunskybaeSay "I caught myself pleasing people today" and I'll reply with a virtual high five 🖐️📢 SHARE THISSend this episode to a friend who needs to hear that it's okay to stop performing for everyone.🔔 SUBSCRIBEThe Paco Podcast – your journey back to yourself. Hit subscribe so you don't miss next week's episode: "The Unapologetic No"#PeoplePleasing #StopBeingADoormat #Peacekeeping #ThePacoPodcast #ReclamationSeries #PeoplePleaserRecovery #HowToStopPeoplePleasing #SelfCare #Boundaries #UgandaPodcast #AfricanPodcast #HealingJourney

    12 min

  7. May 9

    Why you're exhausted all the time (the boundary mistake). | Reclaimation Series Episode 2

    You wake up tired. You go to bed tired. And somewhere in between, you said yes to things you wanted to say no to, stayed in conversations that drained you, and wondered why everyone else seems to have energy you don't.That exhaustion has a name. And it's connected to something most of us were never taught.The boundary mistake.In this episode of The Paco Podcast, I break down:• Why you're exhausted (it's not because you're weak)• The 3 layers of a boundary (front door, gate, and private room)• What boundaries are NOT (controlling, mean, or selfish)• The exact phrase I use to say no without guilt or over-explanation• What happens when you start respecting your own boundariesIf you've been feeling drained, resentful, or taken for granted – you don't have a "too much on your plate" problem. You have a boundary problem.This episode will show you how to fix it.Listen until the end. Your future self will thank you.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS0:00 – That drained feeling has a name0:23 – Welcome to The Paco Podcast (what "Paco" means)0:49 – What we were taught about boundaries (it was wrong)1:15 – Why no boundaries = exhaustion + resentment1:40 – The house metaphor (front door, gate, and private room)3:09 – Your private room (the part no one else enters)3:55 – What a boundary is NOT (controlling someone else)4:57 – How to phrase a boundary (the right way)5:36 – The simple formula for setting boundaries6:14 – My real-life example (exhausted but honest)7:00 – What about last-minute invites and favors?8:16 – Your challenge for this week8:49 – Share your boundary in the comments⚠️ DISCLAIMERThis content is for educational and informational purposes only. The stories and opinions shared are my own personal experiences and do not constitute professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice.If you are experiencing mental health challenges, relationship difficulties, or emotional distress, please seek support from a licensed therapist, counselor, or trusted professional. Professional help is available – you do not have to navigate this alone.This episode is meant to inspire and comfort, not replace professional guidance. Your journey is your own.🎧 LISTEN TO THE PACO PODCASTPrefer audio? You can take me with you on your walks, commutes, or quiet moments.• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LF3COgTMuovC5oMHUjhzK• Full Podcast Directory (Apple, Google, etc.): https://pod.link/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8xMGJjMmZjZTgvcG9kY2FzdC9yc3M💬 YOUR TURNTell me in the comments: Which door have you been leaving open? Your time? Your emotions? Your values? I read every single comment.📢 SHARE THISSend this episode to a friend who needs to hear that it's okay to say no. You never know who's quietly exhausted and blaming themselves.🔔 SUBSCRIBEThe Paco Podcast – your journey back to yourself. Hit subscribe and the notification bell so you don't miss the next episode in our Reclamation Series.📱 CONNECT WITH MEInstagram: @thepacopodcastTikTok: @thepacopodcastPersonal: @prunskybae#Boundaries #WhyAmIExhausted #ThePacoPodcast #ReclamationSeries #PeoplePleasing #HowToSetBoundaries #SelfCare #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealth #SayNo #StopSayingYes #UgandaPodcast #AfricanPodcast #HealingJourney #BoundaryMistake

    10 min

  8. May 9

    Why walking away is the best self-care you'll ever practice. | Reclaimation Series Episode 1.

    I quit my job. No backup plan. No next gig. Just me, my tears, and a decision that scared me to my core.And then… something unexpected happened.This is not a "hustle harder" story. This is not a "follow your passion" fairy tale. This is the real, messy, terrifying truth about what happens when you choose yourself over the people you're afraid to disappoint.In this episode of The Paco Podcast, I'm starting our Reclamation Series with the hardest lesson I've ever learned: walking away is not failure. It's self-care.I share:• The toxic job that broke me (even though I tried everything to survive)• The exact moment I knew I had to leave• 3 questions that helped me stop people-pleasing and start choosing me• Why "quitting" saved my life – and how it might save yours tooIf you've been staying somewhere too long – a job, a friendship, a relationship, a version of yourself you've outgrown – this episode is your sign.🎧 Listen until the end. The last 2 minutes might be the most important.🎧 LISTEN TO THE PACO PODCASTPrefer audio? You can take me with you on your walks, commutes, or quiet moments.• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LF3COgTMuovC5oMHUjhzK• Full Podcast Directory (Apple, Google, etc.): https://pod.link/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8xMGJjMmZjZTgvcG9kY2FzdC9yc3M⏱️ TIMESTAMPS0:00 – Why it's been quiet (I was recalibrating)0:40 – The counterintuitive truth about self-care1:53 – My toxic job story (the environment that broke me)4:44 – The day I finally quit5:54 – What happened next (the unexpected twist)8:03 – 3 questions to ask before you walk away12:37 – The gardener metaphor (pruning as care)13:19 – Your permission to leave14:30 – Why sharing this episode matters⚠️ DISCLAIMERThis content is for educational and informational purposes only. The stories and opinions shared are my own personal experiences and do not constitute professional medical, psychological, or career advice.If you are experiencing mental health challenges, workplace harassment, or emotional distress, please seek support from a licensed therapist, counselor, or trusted professional. Professional help is available – you do not have to navigate this alone.This episode is meant to inspire and comfort, not replace professional guidance. Your journey is your own.💬 YOUR TURNTell me in the comments: Have you ever walked away from something that was costing you your peace? What happened? I read every single comment.📢 SHARE THISSend this episode to someone who needs permission to leave. You never know who's staying somewhere they shouldn't.🔔 SUBSCRIBEThe Paco Podcast – your journey back to yourself. Hit subscribe and the notification bell.📱 CONNECT WITH MEInstagram:  @ThePacoPodcastUG  Twitter/X:  @ThePacoPodcastUG  TikTok:  @ThePacoPodcastUG  #WalkingAway #SelfCare #QuitYourJob #NoBackupPlan #ReclamationSeries #ThePacoPodcast #MentalHealthMatters #PeoplePleasing #ToxicWorkplace #Boundaries #ChoosingYourself #UgandaPodcast #AfricanPodcast #HealingJourney #PermissionToLeave

    15 min
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Your Journey Back to Yourself. 🏠 Welcome to The Paco Podcast (Formerly The Unfiltered Truths Podcast) with Sandra Prunsky. Paco means “home” in my Lango heritage—and that’s exactly what this space is: a home for honest conversations on life: purpose, restoration, resilience, healing, boundaries, and reclaiming the life you were meant to live. 📩 FREE RESILIENCE TOOLKIT Get your free guide at the-unfiltered-truths-podcast.kit.com (Don’t worry – it’s still yours, now part of The Paco Podcast family!) 👋 CONNECT WITH SANDRA 📸 Show Instagram: @ThePacoPodcast 📸 Personal Instagram: @prunskyba

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  • Creator
    Sandra Prunsky
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    50
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Sandra Prunsky
  • Show Website
    The Paco Podcast