What happens when you achieve everything you thought you wanted, only to realize it doesn't actually make you happy? Our guest Summer Lindman knows a thing or two about that experience. After a childhood rooted in creativity, Summer spent her twenties climbing the corporate ladder, earning an MBA in Paris (Leanne swooned), and ultimately becoming CEO of a tech company at just 29. But reaching the top didn't deliver the freedom or fulfillment she'd imagined. Instead, it sparked a much bigger journey: reconnecting with her creativity, questioning the expectations she'd spent a lifetime trying to meet, and figuring out what it really means to build a life that feels authentic. In this episode, we talk about her new book, I'm Done Being Good: A Memoir and Guide to Unlearning the Rules, Making a Mess, and Creating a Life That's Yours, and the winding road that brought her back to her inner artist. We get into the arrival fallacy, the pressure to be the good girl, the courage it takes to walk away from something that no longer serves you (even when you're successful), and why sometimes the best thing you can do for your team or the people around you is to give yourself permission to leave. We also get into rage art (yes, it's a thing!), creative expression as a form of personal and political empowerment, the messy realities of reinvention, and the surprising freedom of realizing you don't need someone else to give you permission to pursue what you want. A few things we explore: Why becoming CEO at 29 didn't deliver the happiness or freedom Summer expected. How perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the good girl conditioning can disconnect us from our creativity. Finding your way back to play through painting, dancing, journaling, and listening to your body. Why walking away from a leadership role can actually be the best thing for the people you're leading. The arrival fallacy and why the next big thing doesn't necessarily solve what's missing. How Summer created Rage Art Studio to bring creativity and political activism together. The vulnerability of writing a memoir and the importance of giving your story time to evolve. Why you don't have to wait for someone else to cheer you on, choose you, or give you permission to begin. Summer's reminder that really stayed with us? I'm the one I've been waiting for. Whether you're contemplating a career pivot, trying to reconnect with a part of yourself you've put on the shelf, or simply wondering what comes next, this conversation is a reminder that you get to rewrite the rules. Summer's book, I'm Done Being Good: A Memoir and Guide to Unlearning the Rules, Making a Mess, and Creating a Life That's Yours, is out November 7. LINKS Summer Lindman: https://www.summerlindman.com/ Substack: https://summerlindman.substack.com/ Instagram: @SummerLindmanCreates I'm Done Being Good: A Memoir and Guide to Unlearning the Rules, Making a Mess, and Creating a Life That's Yours: out November 7th on Amazon Leanne Shear: https://consciousnessraise.consulting/ Helaine Knapp: https://www.helaineknapp.com/