Primas Pero Not Really

Ayeisha, Genise, and Yvette
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Primas Pero Not Really brings together three Miami Latinas sharing honest, funny, and unfiltered conversations about the real moments that shape womanhood. Ayeisha and Yvette open up about divorce, dating, co-parenting, motherhood, identity, boundaries, and the friendships that carry us through life’s curveballs. A mix of humor, real stories, and candid conversations from three women at completely different stages of life — all in one playlist. Three women. 🎙️One mic. Spilling tea, not tears. Healing out loud- One episode at a time. ============================= 📱Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/primasperonotreally/ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/primasperonotreally Subscribe & follow for episodes filled with truth, chaos, laughter, and healing. An original podcast presented by: Cultura Media House 🎙️Powered by: Cultura Talks Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. Jul 6

    The Truth About Men and Midlife Dating

    Dating After 40: Men, Midlife Dating & Modern Relationships Is a man in his 40s who's never been married a red flag, or is that one of the biggest misconceptions in modern dating? In this episode of Primas Pero Not Really, they sat down with Charles Timoneda to get an honest male perspective on dating after 40, relationships, and navigating today's dating world. They discuss what it's really like dating single moms, whether men should always pay on the first date, how dating apps like Hinge and Facebook Dating have changed relationships, why ghosting has become so common, and whether first-date intimacy changes the way men view a relationship. They also explore the realities of midlife dating, dating with children, finding love later in life, and the challenges of building meaningful relationships when everyone comes with a past. If you're navigating modern dating, dating after divorce, or simply wondering how men really think about relationships in their 40s, this episode delivers an honest, funny, and relatable conversation. Topics discussed: • Dating after 40 • Men and midlife dating • Dating single moms • Dating apps (Hinge & Facebook Dating) • First date etiquette • Who pays on the first date? • Ghosting and modern dating • Dating with kids • Dating red flags • Finding love later in life Follow Primas Pero Not Really for unfiltered conversations about relationships, motherhood, healing, identity, and the moments that shape our lives—with plenty of laughs along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Truth About Men and Midlife Dating

  2. Jun 22

    Would you get married again after a divorce?

    After years of marriage, divorce, co-parenting, and building lives of their own, the primas find themselves asking a question they never thought they'd revisit: Would you ever get married again? In this catch-up episode, Aisha, Genise, and Yvette share where life has taken them since their last dating conversation. Two of the primas are now in new relationships, which sparks an honest discussion about dating in your 40s, remarriage, blended families, independence, and what healthy love looks like after heartbreak. The conversation explores everything from introducing partners to your children and navigating co-parenting dynamics, to protecting your peace, maintaining your independence, and learning how to trust again. They also reflect on the realities of empty nesting, creating new chapters after divorce, and how their perspectives on marriage have evolved. For anyone who has ever wondered whether love is worth the risk after a difficult relationship, this episode is a reminder that healing changes what you look for, and what you're willing to accept. 💬 Would you get married again after a divorce? 🎙️ Primas Pero Not Really is a Miami-born podcast where three Latina women share honest conversations about motherhood, relationships, healing, identity, co-parenting, and the beautifully messy moments that shape our lives. Follow, rate, and share if you've ever had to start over, rebuild, or rediscover yourself after a major life change. #PrimasPeroNotReally #DatingAfterDivorce #Relationships #CoParenting #SecondChances #LatinaPodcast #WomenOver40 #SingleMoms #HealingJourney #MarriageAndDivorce Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Would you get married again after a divorce?

  3. Jun 9

    Love Bombing, Red Flags & What Parents Should Watch For

    This one is for the parents… and honestly, for all of us. How do you know when attention becomes control? This week on Primas Pero Not Really, we sat down with clinical psychologist Luz Maria Berrio to talk about the relationship conversations more families should be having earlier. We get into: 🚩 Red flags vs pink flags ❤️ Love bombing vs genuine interest 📍 Why teens share locations 🧠 Narcissistic traits vs actual narcissism 🚧 Boundaries vs control 👩‍👧 Signs parents should pay attention to in teen relationships 📱 How social media is changing relationships for teens—and adults One moment that really stayed with us: Just because something feels like love… doesn’t always mean it’s healthy. We talk about what’s normal, what’s not, and how parents can create space for these conversations without judgment. And somehow… we also ended up talking about identity, growing up, and why adults may not be as different from teenagers as we think. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Love Bombing, Red Flags & What Parents Should Watch For

  4. May 25

    The Truth about Dating & Parenting Through Special Needs

    Rebecca aka “The Dude” joins Las Primas for one of the most honest conversations we’ve had yet. From raising a nonverbal autistic son to navigating dating as a single mom, this episode dives into the realities people rarely talk about out loud. We talk about parenting, co-parenting, relationships, emotional safety, friendship, identity, and what it really means to show up for the people you love. The conversation also takes some unexpected turns: ✨ Dating as a single lesbian mom ✨ The reality of modern dating ✨ Co-parenting after divorce ✨ Raising a child with special needs ✨ Friendship, loyalty, and support ✨ Why relationships fail ✨ Healing generational patterns ✨ and why Rebecca might actually be “the worst lesbian ever” 😂 This episode is funny, emotional, chaotic, and deeply human, exactly how Primas conversations should feel. 👇 Tell us in the comments: What’s something nobody warns you about when it comes to relationships or parenting? #PrimasPeroNotReally #SingleMomLife #Podcast #Dating #CoParenting Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Truth about Dating & Parenting Through Special Needs

  5. May 11

    We Try Gentle Parenting… Until It Doesn’t Work

    We all try to be gentle parents… until we’re not. In this episode of Primas Pero Not Really, Las Primas get real about parenting in today’s world, what works, what doesn’t, and the moments no one talks about. From trying to help kids regulate their emotions, to losing patience, to realizing every child needs a different approach, this is real mom talk, unfiltered. We get into: Gentle parenting vs real-life reactionsTeaching kids emotional regulationWhy can’t you parent every child the sameDiscipline, consequences, and respectMom guilt, overstimulation, and losing your coolPreparing kids for the real worldWhy college isn’t the only path to success This episode is for moms in the trenches—figuring it out day by day, making mistakes, learning, and showing up anyway. Because parenting is real and isn’t perfect. 💬 If you’ve ever gone from calm to “don’t test me” in 0.5 seconds… this one’s for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    We Try Gentle Parenting… Until It Doesn’t Work

  6. Apr 27

    Ballin’ on a Budget Isn’t Cute When It’s Real Life

    Going from two incomes to one changes everything. In this episode of Primas Pero Not Really, Las Primas talk about what it really looks like to adjust financially after separation and major life changes. From learning how to live large on a smaller budget, to rethinking everyday spending, to figuring out what’s actually necessary… this conversation is honest, relatable, and very real. They get into: Life after separation and financial adjustmentsLiving on one income (and sometimes none)Budgeting without losing your lifestyle completelyCutting back on events, birthdays, and daily habitsPride, independence, and learning as you go This isn’t about perfect budgeting. It’s about real life, real decisions, and figuring it out in the moment. If you’ve ever had to adjust your lifestyle or rethink your finances… this episode will hit. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Ballin’ on a Budget Isn’t Cute When It’s Real Life

  7. Apr 13

    What men carry isn’t always visible

    What men carry isn’t always visible—and most of the time, they don’t talk about it. In this episode of Primas Pero Not Really, we sit down with JC Perez—husband, father, and co-founder of Cultura Media House—to talk about men’s mental health, fatherhood, and the pressure of being “the man” in today’s world. From marriage and communication, to raising boys in a different social landscape, to why men often stay silent even when they’re struggling… this conversation gets real. We get into: Men’s mental health and emotional pressure. Fatherhood and raising boys today. Masculinity and modern expectations. The communication on marriage and relationships.Why men don’t open up—and what that leads to. This is an honest one. If you’ve ever wondered what men are actually dealing with behind the scenes… this episode is for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    What men carry isn’t always visible

  8. Mar 30

    The Parenting Transition Nobody Prepares You For

    Is it just us, or did everyone forget to mention the massive identity crisis that comes with parenthood? In this episode, the Primas are getting raw and real about the "Parenting Transition"—that jarring shift from being a spontaneous individual to a 24/7 manager of a tiny human. We aren't talking about diapers or sleep schedules; we’re diving into the psychological toll of mourning your "pre-kid" self, the invisible mental load that keeps you up at night, and the awkward "friendship gap" that happens when your social circle isn't on the same page. In this conversation, the Primas open up about: Losing your sense of self after becoming a momKids growing up and becoming more independentFinding purpose again in a new chapter of lifeThe chaos of parenting, schedules, and daily responsibilitiesGenerational differences in parenting and communication This episode is honest, emotional, and relatable for anyone navigating change — whether it’s motherhood, co-parenting, or simply entering a new season of life. 🎙️ Follow the show and share it with someone going through the same transition. -============================= This episode BROUGHT TO YOU BY: 🎪*THE FAIR* : https://www.fairexpo.com/ ============================= 🕒 TIMESTAMPS 0:00 — Introduction: Life updates and the "Primas" catch-up 4:15 — The Identity Crisis: Transitioning from "Individual" to "Parent" 11:30 — The Grief of Your Former Self: Why it’s okay to miss your old life 18:45 — Navigating the "Friendship Gap": When your social circle changes 27:10 — The Invisible Mental Load: Understanding the 24/7 "Manager" role 35:50 — Social Media vs. Reality: Debunking "Aesthetic Parenting" 44:20 — Relationship Strains: Keeping the spark alive amidst the chaos 52:15 — Reclaiming Your Personal Identity: Finding "You" again Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Parenting Transition Nobody Prepares You For
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Primas Pero Not Really brings together three Miami Latinas sharing honest, funny, and unfiltered conversations about the real moments that shape womanhood. Ayeisha and Yvette open up about divorce, dating, co-parenting, motherhood, identity, boundaries, and the friendships that carry us through life’s curveballs. A mix of humor, real stories, and candid conversations from three women at completely different stages of life — all in one playlist. Three women. 🎙️One mic. Spilling tea, not tears. Healing out loud- One episode at a time. ============================= 📱Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/primasperonotreally/ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/primasperonotreally Subscribe & follow for episodes filled with truth, chaos, laughter, and healing. An original podcast presented by: Cultura Media House 🎙️Powered by: Cultura Talks Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Ayeisha, Genise, and Yvette
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Ayeisha, Genise, and Yvette
  • Show Website
    Primas Pero Not Really