Unshrinkable midlife moves - Movement, meaning + midlife magic

Onika Griffith-Elliott

Midlife isn’t the time to shrink - it’s a reset, a reframe, and a relaunch. It’s time to move and to grow. Unshrinkable Midlife moves is for women 40+ who are ready to discover  strength, confidence, purpose and lots more through movement.  This is a space to discover what’s still possible in midlife, despite what we've  been told and believed. Onika Griffith-Elliott dives into the stories of women who are rewriting the midlife script. You’ll hear from women who’ve ignited or reignited their spark through movement and found joy, freedom, adventure and resilience as a result. These aren’t elite athletes. They’re women who decided to move. Expect honest conversations, unexpected breakthroughs,laughter and explore what happens when women stop waiting for the right time and take the first step. You’ll learn how to:  - Get and keep moving, no matter where you’re starting.-  Crush the midlife myths that tell women to slow down and step back.  -  Avoid the pitfalls that hold midlife women back, from fear and fatigue to guilt and self-doubt.-  Embrace movement as an act of confidence, courage, and self-discovery. Because when you move, you don’t just change your body, you change your life and story.  It's time to age boldly and unapologetically.

  1. 4d ago

    Don’t Wait for Later - Running, Wake Up Calls and Starting Again with Emma Beck

    Send us Fan Mail For Emma Beck, running has always been about more than exercise. It’s headspace, freedom, time to herself and something that has found a place alongside work, motherhood and family life. Emma is also someone who tends to say yes. To trying things. To experiences. To finding out what she can do rather than deciding beforehand that she can’t. But a few years ago, something changed. It started with things that were easy to explain away. A headache that wouldn’t quite disappear. Small changes Emma noticed while running. Nothing that suggested just how quickly life was about to shift. What happened next challenged some of the assumptions Emma had made about herself, her health and the things we expect our bodies to keep doing. And at the centre of it was a surprisingly simple question: When can I run again? In this episode of Unshrinkable Midlife Moves, we talk about what happened to Emma and what came next, a story that raises some interesting questions about how we move through life.  About the choices we make and the ones we postpone. The difficulty of holding back when you want to push forward. What counts when you're starting again. And why sometimes you only discover what you're capable of by giving something a go. There are also a few unexpected turns along the way, including a return to something Emma hadn’t done since her younger years and some past choices she’s now particularly glad she made. Because perhaps “later” isn't something any of us should take for granted. What have you been assuming you’ll get around to one day? Follow us on Instagram: @unshrinkablemidlifemoves  Find out more about Onika on Instagram: @lifeopenedup

  2. Sep 30

    From "Absolutely Not" To CrossFit at 69 With Anne Thomas

    Send us Fan Mail  At 69, Anne is stronger and fitter than she has ever been. But how does someone who hated PE at school end up discovering CrossFit later in life — and still be doing it 11 years later? The answer isn’t quite what you might expect. In this episode of Unshrinkable Midlife Moves, Anne shares the unlikely beginning of her CrossFit journey and what happened when she stopped letting “I can’t do that” have the final say. We talk intimidating barbells, going upside down, stepping beyond the comfortable option in competition, and an unexpected moment that completely changed what Anne thought she was capable of. Along the way, we explore: When “I can’t” becomes a decision, not a factHow you get from “absolutely not” to “I just did that”What changes when you stop choosing what you already know you can doWhether age limits us, or our expectations of it doWhy being seen doing the unexpected can change what others believe is normalHow staying capable keeps more of life open to usYou don’t need to be interested in CrossFit to take something from this conversation. If you’ve ever thought I’m too old for that, I couldn’t do that or that’s not for someone like me, Anne’s story might leave you wondering what you’ve ruled out before giving yourself the chance to find out. What could become possible if “I can’t” wasn’t the end of the conversation?  Connect with Anne: @crossfitover60 Follow us on Instagram: @unshrinkablemidlifemoves  Find out more about Onika on Instagram: @lifeopenedup

  3. Jun 10

    Borrowed Bikes to Ironman - Hills, Second Chapters and Refusing to Wait with Donna McConnell

    Send us Fan Mail  Donna McConnell came to cycling late. To triathlon late. To the version of herself that would complete an Ironman, late. And she'll be the first to tell you that none of that was a disadvantage.  She found her tribe in her 50s. Completed an Ironman. Ran the London Marathon. And came back from all of it not just fitter,but fundamentally different. Bolder. Clearer. Less willing to accept the ceiling she'd quietly been living under. At 57 she's still racing, still building, and completely uninterested in the idea that this is the age you start winding down. In this conversation Donna talks about the mental game behind endurance sport, what 500 miles through the Scottish Highlands does to your relationship with fear, and why perimenopause and peak performance aren't the opposites the fitness world would have you believe. In this episode you'll discover: Why visualising enjoying a race, not just finishing it changes everything about how you show upWhat 500 miles through the Scottish Highlands taught her about fear that years of training couldn'tHow completing an Ironman changed what she thought she deserved in sport and in lifeWhy perimenopause and peak athletic performance aren't opposites and why the timing of her Ironman mattered more than she expectedWhat women over 40 are doing in elite endurance sport that nobody's talking about enoughThis is a conversation for anyone who has ever wondered whether they've left it too late, set the ceiling too low, or talked themselves out of something before they even started. Connect with Donna: @the_ironempress Follow us on Instagram: @unshrinkablemidlifemoves  Find out more about Onika on Instagram: @lifeopenedup The Grit and Grace Games — 12th September 2026, Crystal Palace National Sports Centre, London. www.gritandgracegames.com

  4. Jun 3

    From Cheering to Competing - Triple Jump, Breaking Records and Backing Yourself at 48 with Emily Murray

    Send us Fan Mail She Thought She'd Peaked at 16. Then She Broke a National Record at 48. Most of us quietly accept that our best athletic years are behind us. Emily accepted it too for about thirty years. Then she didn't. Emily came to triple jump the way nobody comes to triple jump as a 46-year-old with zero experience, a decades-old gymnastics background, and a competitive streak she'd been accidentally unleashing on the wrong areas of her life. Within two years she'd broken the Scottish national record and competed at European Championships. But this conversation goes deeper than athletics. In this episode you'll learn: Why masters athletics might be the best kept secret in midlife fitnessWhy sprinting, not marathons could be the most powerful thing women over 40 can do for their bodiesHow to find a coach who knows the difference between pushing an older athlete and breaking oneWhat really happens when you stop being the supporter of everyone else's ambitions and start pursuing your ownWhy the guilt of going after something for yourself is worth pushing throughWe also get into what it does to a teenage boy when his mum walks out onto a world class stage and competes. And the question that sits underneath all of it, what are we actually capable of, and have we ever really tested it? If you've ever suspected there's a version of yourself you haven't met yet, this episode is for you. Connect with Emily: @pinkhouseliving  Follow us on Instagram: @unshrinkablemidlifemoves  Find out more about Onika on Instagram: @lifeopenedup The Grit and Grace Games — 12th September 2026, Crystal Palace, London. www.gritandgracegames.com

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Midlife isn’t the time to shrink - it’s a reset, a reframe, and a relaunch. It’s time to move and to grow. Unshrinkable Midlife moves is for women 40+ who are ready to discover  strength, confidence, purpose and lots more through movement.  This is a space to discover what’s still possible in midlife, despite what we've  been told and believed. Onika Griffith-Elliott dives into the stories of women who are rewriting the midlife script. You’ll hear from women who’ve ignited or reignited their spark through movement and found joy, freedom, adventure and resilience as a result. These aren’t elite athletes. They’re women who decided to move. Expect honest conversations, unexpected breakthroughs,laughter and explore what happens when women stop waiting for the right time and take the first step. You’ll learn how to:  - Get and keep moving, no matter where you’re starting.-  Crush the midlife myths that tell women to slow down and step back.  -  Avoid the pitfalls that hold midlife women back, from fear and fatigue to guilt and self-doubt.-  Embrace movement as an act of confidence, courage, and self-discovery. Because when you move, you don’t just change your body, you change your life and story.  It's time to age boldly and unapologetically.