Dad of a Dancer

Brian Johnson

A dad’s perspective on raising a teen dancer — and figuring out how to support him in spaces where males are often the minority. www.dadofadancer.com

  1. Aug 20

    DOAD #40: Out with the old!

    We have giggities in this house — that’s our word for extreme hyperness and/or happiness about something. Atticus auditioned for and made the new studio he’s had his eye on for a long time! So I thought now would be a good time to compare and contrast some elements of our old studio experience with this new one. 🎟️ The audition process * Both studios run the same basic week — come in, learn a pile of choreography, then dance like your life depends on it. The difference is what happens after. Our old studio auditioned kids as numbers and released placements as numbers, so every family had to call around to figure out which number went with which dancer, which created a whole lot of unnecessary confusion and drama * They also held auditions before everyone else in the area and gave you a few days to commit or quit, so you never got the college approach of trying out a few places and then choosing 👦 Being the only male in the building * For most of five years Atticus was the only boy his age there. I’ve told you before about dressing room debacles and the parents who couldn’t seem to remember that there are boys at our studio. At this new studio there are other males…what a concept! 💸 What it actually costs * We were dropping close to a grand a month at the old place, and we’d still get the weekend SOS to come paint sets, bolt things together, and run stage crew. We always said yes, because saying no felt like a crime * I kept quietly wondering why a studio pulling in that kind of money couldn’t hire a few pros and hand the parents back a weekend. I also compare the place to Pluribus at one point, so brace yourself 😮‍💨 Drama, nerves, and shoulder height * I’m not claiming the new studio is drama-free, because I’m fairly sure the dictionary definition of dance is just the word drama. But Atticus used to go quiet and tense on every car ride to the old studio, then decompress on the ride home like he’d been holding his breath * Now he waves goodbye to everyone on the way out and gets in the car smiling. He describes the new place as somewhere they want you to work hard and take it seriously, but it’s okay to stumble If you’re shopping for a studio for the first time, or you’re quietly wondering whether you’ve outgrown the one you’re in, I hope this gives you a few things to chew on. If you’ve been somewhere a long time it is absolutely a rip-the-Band-Aid-off situation to leave, but there are other great environments out there if you go looking. Everything lives at dadofadancer.com, where you can subscribe and comment on any post — or just DM me, which is what most of you seem to prefer anyway. You’ll also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. Have a wonderful rest of your week and we’ll talk to you next week! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.dadofadancer.com

    DOAD #40: Out with the old!
  2. Aug 13

    DOAD #39: CLI 2026 - an interview with Atticus

    Hello friends! Atticus just got back from his second CLI Conservatory intensive, and this time he walked in knowing where everything was, who everyone was, and exactly how much a 9-to-9 schedule was going to hurt. We talk stamina, a music video that took roughly 500 takes, tumbling on a marley floor in the wrong shoes, and how much cash mom and dad would have to save up if he gets into the 10-month program. Then I ambush him with a pop quiz he had no idea was coming. 🕺 Round two at CLI * December was the winter intensive and Atti says he was stressed the whole time — this summer he wasn’t nervous at all because he knew the teachers, the building, and what was expected * He still ended the week on the floor with a heating pad, three energy drinks, and roughly a gallon of water * His advice for anyone considering CLI is the same advice we gave for Master Ballet Academy: build your stamina before you go, because you can prepare and it still might not be enough 🎬 The photo shoot and the music video * New for the summer session: professional photo shoots, which didn’t happen at the winter intensive and which turned out great * The music video went about 500 takes — a tumbling section straight into a dance section with no cuts, over and over * Atti’s gymnastics background put him in the tumbling group, which sounds like an advantage until you’re doing standing tucks on hardwood in low-profile shoes because they looked cleaner on camera 🎯 CY9 and the 10-month plan * He’s planning to audition for CY9 — the conservatory’s 10-month program — his junior year * Going to the summer intensive isn’t technically an advantage, but as he put it, they’ve seen your face and know what you’re capable of…that can’t hurt! * Tuition is somewhere in the $28,000–$29,000 range for the year, and housing is separate — roughly $800 a month for a double and $1,300 for a single 🧠 Pop quiz: how well do you actually know CLI? * I ran a batch of research questions past him cold, covering location, faculty, styles, age requirements, and cost * He named a solid chunk of the faculty list, correctly guessed the housing range, and knew the wellness and heels classes were part of the schedule * He also closed us out with the answer he first gave back on Episode 7: CLI is Create, Learn, Inspire 💡 Fun fact to leave you with * Atti asked someone at the conservatory what the CY on the t-shirts stood for and felt dumb about it — it stands for “conservatory” * For the record, I do not think that’s a dumb question, since Y is not usually where acronyms go looking for letters(?) Thanks for listening! You can find all our episodes and posts at dadofadancer.com, and we’re on Spotify, the Apple Podcasts app, and wherever else you get your podcasts. Follow Atticus on Instagram @theofficialatticusjohnson. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.dadofadancer.com

    DOAD #39: CLI 2026 - an interview with Atticus

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A dad’s perspective on raising a teen dancer — and figuring out how to support him in spaces where males are often the minority. www.dadofadancer.com