Élever With Mama Kesh

Mama Kesh
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Welcome to Élever with Mama Kesh — where style meets self-discovery. I’m Mama Kesh — stylist, storyteller, and your bestie on your redefining self journey. This channel is for women ready to rediscover who they are and rise with intention. Here, we blend practical style tips, soulful space refreshes, and mindset shifts that help you elevate every part of your life — without losing your authenticity. New video podcast episodes drop weekly, covering: ✨ Personal Style for real life 🏡 Space + vibe elevation 📝 Personal growth & identity rediscovery You’re not starting over — you’re rising up. Subscribe and join the elevation. mamakesh1.substack.com

  1. 2d ago

    Questions Women Ask Mama Kesh About Style, Identity and Becoming Herself Again

    Most women think they have a style problem. But what if the real question has never been, “What should I wear?” What if it’s been, “Who am I becoming?” In this special Questions Women Ask Mama Kesh episode, we’re having the conversation many women have silently with themselves in front of the mirror—but rarely say out loud. ✨ Am I too old to wear this?✨ How do I find my personal style?✨ Am I dressing modestly... or hiding?✨ Can I still be sexy without seeking attention?✨ How do I stop copying other women?✨ Can I have great style on a budget?✨ Has motherhood changed my style—or my identity? This isn’t just a fashion Q&A. It’s a conversation about confidence, visibility, self-worth, reinvention, and learning to let your wardrobe reflect the woman you’ve become. If you’ve ever opened your closet and felt like nothing truly represented you anymore, this episode is for you. 💛 I’d love to hear from you:What is one personal style question you’ve always wanted to ask—but never have? Leave it in the comments. Your question may be featured in the next Questions Women Ask Mama Kesh episode. If this conversation resonated with you, don’t forget to:✨ Like the video✨ Subscribe for weekly conversations on style, confidence, and personal growth✨ Share this with a woman who needs the reminder that she doesn’t need permission to become herself again. Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZVx0IOw7kAzAV4P2Txu_krymMlxv4q-r&si=3Bb1GDTTtPDRo8x1 Spotify: Apple Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2vFX9KI8SrhIKVyZA69akT?si=f7422d42b7514a19 This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mamakesh1.substack.com

  2. Jul 15

    "You Don't Have to Choose: Mother, Wife, Boss & Still That Woman"

    You've been pouring into everyone else — your children, your partner, your career — but somewhere along the way, the bucket labeled "you" started collecting dust.In this episode, Mama Kesh introduces the Four Buckets framework: Companionship, Motherhood, Career, and The Woman Herself. Because here's the truth nobody told you — those buckets are connected. When one runs dry, the others start to crack.We walk through how to dress stylishly for EVERY role without sacrificing any of them, why fueling the woman herself isn't selfish (it's the engine that makes everything else possible), and the practical, ten-minute routines that keep all four buckets filled.This one is personal. This one is for every woman who forgot that she's allowed to show up for herself too.⏱ TIMESTAMPS0:00 — The Four Buckets1:30 — Why starving one starves them all4:00 — How to dress stylishly for every role7:15 — How to have it all8:00 — Michelle Obama11:00 — Your homework💬 Drop a comment: which bucket have you been starving — and what's one thing you'll do this week to start filling it?🔔 Subscribe for weekly conversations on style, identity, and becoming who you were always meant to be. Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZVx0IOw7kAzAV4P2Txu_krymMlxv4q-r&si=3Bb1GDTTtPDRo8x1 Spotify: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/%C3%A9lever-with-mama-kesh/id1858675121?l=en-GB This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mamakesh1.substack.com

  3. Jul 8

    The Wrong Attention: Baddie Sexy or Grown Woman Sexy

    Where’s the line between grown & sexy and baddie sexy? It’s not about age. It’s not about body type. It’s about what you’re actually asking for when you walk into a room — and what the room gives you in return. In this episode, Mama Kesh draws the line between two kinds of attention: being looked at, and being received. If you’ve ever been called “sweetheart” when you deserved “ma’am” — this one is for you. 🔑 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: 0:00 — Dress How You Want To Be Addressed 3:00 — Response Attention vs. Regard Attention 4:45 — Your Outfit Is A Contract 6:30 — The 5 Lines: Seen/Registered, Language, Power, Mystery, Legacy 10:00 — Beyonce and Kim Kardashian Study 13:30 — Your Mirror Moment 💬 Drop a comment: when you got dressed today, what kind of attention were you actually asking for? #GrownAndSexy #DressHowYouWantToBeAddressed #StyleOver40 #ConfidenceAfter50 #QuietLuxury #MidlifeStyle #PersonalStyle #OwnedPower #ÉleverWithMamaKesh Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZVx0IOw7kAzAV4P2Txu_krymMlxv4q-r&si=3Bb1GDTTtPDRo8x1 Spotify: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/%C3%A9lever-with-mama-kesh/id1858675121?l=en-GB This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mamakesh1.substack.com

  4. Jul 1

    The Real Reason You Shop But Still Have No Style

    Style isn't about the clothes. It's about coming home to yourself.You keep shopping. The closet keeps filling. And you still stand in front of it every morning feeling like you have nothing — like you have no style at all. Here's the real reason: you were never actually buying clothes. You were buying three things that never come in the box — and until you see them, the cart will never fix it.In this episode I'll show you the three things you're really purchasing every time you shop (permission, time, and approval), why a woman like Tracee Ellis Ross can look unmistakably herself while the rest of the feed looks borrowed — and the truth that even if she handed you the exact piece off her back, you'd still be missing something. Plus the three-question filter that ends the cycle for good.If you've ever felt invisible in a closet full of clothes, this one's for you. 🤍🪞 Subscribe and join the women Returning to Self → www.youtube.com/@ÉleverwithMamaKesh💬 Which of the three were you really buying — permission, time, or approval? Be honest in the comments. This is the mirror, and we look together.⏱️ CHAPTERS0:00 — The shopping bags don't fix it1:48 — The three things you're really buying5:00 — Tracee Ellis Ross & dressing from your essence9:00 — Why the closet never worked12:30 — What you were actually shopping for + the 3-question filter13:15 — Returning to Self#StyleMistakesThatAgeYou #confidenceafter50 #MidlifeStyle #ReturningToSelf #ÉleverWithMamaKesh Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZVx0IOw7kAzAV4P2Txu_krymMlxv4q-r&si=3Bb1GDTTtPDRo8x1 Spotify: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/%C3%A9lever-with-mama-kesh/id1858675121?l=en-GB This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mamakesh1.substack.com

  5. Jun 24

    The Polygamist Taught Me This About Style & Power (What Every Woman Needs to Hear)

    Style isn’t about the clothes. It’s about coming home to yourself. Everyone’s watching The Polygamist on Netflix — Joyce Gomora and her flawless, perfect family front. But underneath the drama is a lesson every woman needs to hear: your style is either a disguise you’re performing for everyone else… or a declaration of the woman you actually are. Today, I’m breaking down what The Polygamist really teaches us — not about marriage, but about power — and the three filters I dress by to make my wardrobe speak the truth before I ever open my mouth. Because here’s what Joyce had to learn the hard way, and what Princess Diana showed the whole world: your power was never waiting on the other side of a perfect body, a perfect marriage, or a perfect front. It was always available the second you stopped performing and started declaring. In this episode: 🪞 Why Joyce’s “perfect front” is the same costume so many of us quietly wear 👑 The Princess Diana style lesson hiding inside this story (it was never about revenge) ✨ My three filters — Presence, Assertiveness, Authenticity — and how to run every outfit through them 💛 How to make your style stop being a disguise and start being your power If you’ve ever caught your reflection and realized you’ve been dressing for a life you’re performing instead of the one you’re living — this one’s for you. 🪞 Subscribe and join the women Returning to Self 💬 Tell me in the comments: what’s the “perfect front” you’ve been hiding behind? Be honest — no judgment here. This is the mirror, and we look together. * ⏱️ CHAPTERS * 0:00 — The perfect front (and why it cracks) * 0:55 — What The Polygamist is really about * 2:00 — The costume so many of us wear * 3:00 — The betrayal that breaks the mirror * 5:30 — Style as reclamation: my 3 filters * 8:30 — Princess Diana, power in real life 1 * 0:45 — This is for you * 12:30 — Returning to Self #ThePolygamist #ThePolygamistNetflix #StyleStorySoul #ConfidenceAfter50 #WomenEmpowerment #PrincessDiana #MidlifeStyle #ÉleverWithMamaKesh #ReturningToSelf Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZVx0IOw7kAzAV4P2Txu_krymMlxv4q-r&si=3Bb1GDTTtPDRo8x1 Spotify: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/%C3%A9lever-with-mama-kesh/id1858675121?l=en-GB This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mamakesh1.substack.com

  6. Jun 17

    "The Most Stylish Women Stopped Asking for Permission"

    The most stylish women have one thing in common — and it’s not money, body type, or a designer closet. They stopped asking for permission. In this episode of Élever with Mama Kesh, we’re unpacking why so many of us learned to dress for an invisible audience — and how to finally stop caring what people think and start dressing like the woman you actually are. If you’ve been waiting for confidence after 50 (or 40, or any age) to magically arrive, here’s the truth: it doesn’t show up. You build it. I’m walking you through my 4 steps to basking in your style confidence — unapologetically: ✨ 1. Stop Asking for Permission — why your taste doesn’t need a vote from the group chat ✨ 2. Dress for the Woman You Are, Not the Audience Watching — the one question to ask instead ✨ 3. Practice Being Seen — confidence as exposure therapy for self-expression ✨ 4. Let Them Have Their Opinion — making peace with the fact that approval was never the goal Because true style confidence isn’t walking into a room hoping everyone likes you. It’s walking in already liking yourself. If this episode names something you’ve been carrying, tell me in the comments — which of the 4 steps hit hardest? Let’s go deeper. 💬 🔔 Subscribe for style, truth, and soul every week: it’s the space where you elevate into the person you are becoming. #StyleConfidence #ConfidenceAfter50 #PersonalStyle #StyleOver50 #MidlifeStyle #SelfWorth #EléverWithMamaKesh Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZVx0IOw7kAzAV4P2Txu_krymMlxv4q-r&si=3Bb1GDTTtPDRo8x1 Spotify: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/%C3%A9lever-with-mama-kesh/id1858675121?l=en-GB This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mamakesh1.substack.com

  7. Jun 10

    World Cup Style: How to Show Up When You Don't Watch Soccer

    Have you ever found yourself in the “invisible wife” costume at a sports game, feeling like you’ve left your personal style—and your sense of self—at home? We’ve all been there: showing up for a partner’s interests, only to feel completely disconnected from the woman in the mirror. But what if showing up for his world didn’t mean disappearing from your own? In this episode of Élever with Mama Kesh, we are breaking down why “dressing the part” shouldn’t mean sacrificing your signature style. Using the effortless confidence of Victoria Beckham as our guide, I’m showing you how to bridge the gap between being a supportive partner and remaining unmistakably you. In this video, we cover: ✅ The “Victoria Beckham” Effect: How to support him without adopting “fan attire” you hate. ✅ The 4-Point Reclamation Framework: * The Elevated Casual: Swapping worn-out basics for intentional, structured pieces. * The Signature Anchor: The one item that keeps you feeling like yourself, no matter the event. * Comfort That Counts: How to choose comfort without surrendering your style. * His Colors, My Way: Subtly nodding to his world while keeping your look sharp. You are allowed to bring your edge, your elegance, and your soul into every space you enter. It’s time to stop shrinking and start elevating. 👇 Let me know in the comments: What is the one environment where you feel most tempted to shrink your style? Let’s talk about it. Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZVx0IOw7kAzAV4P2Txu_krymMlxv4q-r&si=3Bb1GDTTtPDRo8x1 Spotify: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/%C3%A9lever-with-mama-kesh/id1858675121?l=en-GB This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mamakesh1.substack.com

  8. Jun 3

    She Wrote Me This Letter — Every Plus Size Woman Needs to Hear This

    She wrote me a letter she almost didn’t send. Inside it, she said three words that stopped me completely: “I dress to disappear.” If you are a plus size woman navigating fashion over 50 — this episode is for you. This is not a style tips video. This is about the moment a woman stops seeing herself in the mirror. And how she finds her way back. In this episode of Élever with Mama Kesh, I read a real letter from a woman who has spent decades hiding behind dark colors and oversized layers — not because she loves them, but because the world taught her that her body was a problem to solve before style could even begin. We are going to break that down together. Because style for women over 50 — especially plus size women — has nothing to do with shrinking yourself. It has everything to do with returning to yourself. ✨ In this episode: * Why plus size women over 50 have been taught to dress for subtraction — and how to stop * The 5-step framework to reclaim your style after years of hiding * How Queen Latifah and Ashley Graham embody The Decision every woman needs to make * Why your wardrobe might be a Comfort Trap — and how to clear it * The one question that will change how you shop, dress, and walk into every room 💬 Drop a comment: “I’m returning.” Two words. That’s all. Let’s go on this journey together. 🎯 Your style does not begin when your body changes. It begins today. This channel is built for women ready to stop waiting — and start becoming. 👗 ABOUT ÉLEVER WITH MAMA KESH This is the space where style, truth, and soul come together for women ready to rediscover who they are and rise with intention. Youtube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZVx0IOw7kAzAV4P2Txu_krymMlxv4q-r&si=3Bb1GDTTtPDRo8x1 Spotify: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/fr/podcast/%C3%A9lever-with-mama-kesh/id1858675121?l=en-GB This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mamakesh1.substack.com

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Welcome to Élever with Mama Kesh — where style meets self-discovery. I’m Mama Kesh — stylist, storyteller, and your bestie on your redefining self journey. This channel is for women ready to rediscover who they are and rise with intention. Here, we blend practical style tips, soulful space refreshes, and mindset shifts that help you elevate every part of your life — without losing your authenticity. New video podcast episodes drop weekly, covering: ✨ Personal Style for real life 🏡 Space + vibe elevation 📝 Personal growth & identity rediscovery You’re not starting over — you’re rising up. Subscribe and join the elevation. mamakesh1.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Mama Kesh
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    33
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Mama Kesh
  • Show Website
    Élever With Mama Kesh