Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

Kat DJ & Hunter Vern

Welcome to Fairy Gaymothers Sorta! Your hosts, Kat and Hunter, walk you through what exactly it means to be a Fairy Gaymother and why they're only "Sorta" there. As the "inventors" of this term and the singular authority on who/what meets the criteria, they're making it all up! Each episode we'll highlight a Fairy Gaymother in the wild and explore a new piece of the self-imposed curriculum in our training. We're learning to be our best, gayest, most off-putting selves and we're here to pass our knowledge and failings onto you! So strap in!

  1. Jul 17

    Is Love Island For the Gays?

    Welcome back to Fairy Gaymothers! This week begins with Hunter & Kat doing what they do best (spreading the gay gospel). Naturally, this leads to a deep reflection on the inexplicable phenomenon that is Buffalo, NY, before Kat takes it upon herself to dispel the persistent and deeply misguided rumour that soccer (football?) is straight. For this week’s lesson, Kat & Hunter turn their attention to one of society’s greatest ongoing sociological experiments, Love Island. They investigate whether the newest season has finally achieved gay status, brainstorm the ways it could become gayer, and unpack why reality dating TV seems determined to keep queer people on the sidelines. Along the way, they imagine what the perfect queer dating show would look like, revisit the valiant (occasionally disastrous) attempts that have come before, and grapple with one uncomfortable possibility: maybe only straight people are capable of manufacturing drama on this scale. As always, we tackle the questions academia refuses to answer, offers completely unbiased cultural analysis despite having absolutely no qualifications. While our opinions should be treated as indisputable fact, they should under no circumstances be considered professionally endorsed. Welcome to the villa. Additional Episode Notes: ⁃ Ryan Beatty Spotify ⁃ Ryan Beatty Website ⁃ Love Island USA on Crave ⁃ Love Island UK on Crave ⁃ Are You The One Season 8 on Paramount ⁃ Articles referenced: ⁃ https://www.out.com/gay-tv-shows/gay-love-island ⁃ https://www.vogue.com/article/why-cant-every-reality-show-be-season-8-of-are-you-the-one ⁃ https://www.them.us/story/ariana-madix-also-wants-to-see-more-queer-bombshells-on-love-island Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thrats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram and TikTok Our website Hosted Even More

    Is Love Island For the Gays?
  2. Jul 10

    Can High Altitude Make You Gay? Reading Reddit Stories

    Welcome back to Fairy Gaymothers! This week begins with Kat conducting a deeply important reenactment of the internet’s most pressing philosophical question: would it actually be weird if Stitch and Girl Stitch were in a relationship? Meanwhile, Hunter experiences a series of rapid fire crash outs, sparked by everything from pimple stickers to the countless injustices of modern life. The girls also take a moment to recognize the invaluable contributions Eli has made to society, including releasing a certified pop princess album and single-handedly making it socially acceptable to openly admit that you want to fornicate with a DJ. Progress comes in many forms. For this week’s lesson, Kat and Hunter turn to the sacred archives of Gay AITA Reddit, reading through a collection of delightfully messy stories to determine who is actually the a*****e. Armed with absolutely no qualifications but an overwhelming amount of confidence, the girls dissect the questionable decisions and uniquely gay circumstances. As always, the girls remain committed to asking important questions, delivering completely objective verdicts, and reminding everyone that while their rulings are obviously law, they should under no circumstances be considered legally binding. Court is now in session. Additional Episode notes: Eli’s Spotify link: https://open.spotify.com/artist/0phkgcpVchB7IJFJ7KcSP1?si=HrCa_UCYTVe6wq1TsWuDAw&utm_source=copy-link Eli’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/journalofadoll The Ethics of Stitch Sex video: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTIhz0oDfhK/ Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thrats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.com Hosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymothers-sorta-pod Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymothers?utm_source=linktree

    Can High Altitude Make You Gay? Reading Reddit Stories
  3. Jun 26

    Why Lesbians Hate Bisexuals

    Welcome back to Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, where Kat and Hunter tackle one of the LGBTQ+ community’s oldest and least productive debates: lesbians vs. bisexuals. Before class begins, however, the girls debut a pair of deeply questionable accents while dramatically reading a spicy scene from the sequel to Heated Rivalry, a decision that may permanently alter the trajectory of the podcast. From discourse over who gets to claim which labels to the ongoing negotiations around queer spaces, Kat and Hunter attempt to get to the bottom of the age-old lesbian versus bisexual debate. Who belongs where? Who can call themselves what? And is anyone actually having a good time arguing about it? As always, the girls conduct exhaustive research (reading comment sections they absolutely should’ve ignored), arrive at conclusions that may or may not hold up under scrutiny, and ultimately determine that the solution was in front of us all along: everyone should simply be kissing. Additional Episode Notes: Megan Stalter ⁃ https://www.tiktok.com/@megstalter?lang=en ⁃ https://www.instagram.com/megsstalter/?hl=en Lowkey I Chose To Be A Lesbian article: ⁃ https://www.autostraddle.com/lowkey-i-chose-to-be-a-lesbian/ Bittnia’s YouTube: ⁃ https://youtube.com/@bittnia?si=Bbr7270Fbt6hvZ0n Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thrats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.com Hosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymothers-sorta-pod Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymothers?utm_source=linktree

    Why Lesbians Hate Bisexuals
  4. Jun 19

    Perspectives on Obsession: Is It a Gay Movie?

    Hi gay! Welcome back to Fairy Gaymothers Sorta Season 2! Episode 3 starts off with a bang, with Kat sharing the gayest thing to happen to her (and consequently, Hunter) this week, truly a happy pride to all. 🌈 This week, the girls turn their attention to the 2026 horror-thriller Obsession, using the film as a jumping-off point to explore one of humanity’s most enduring conditions: obsession. More specifically, the differences between straight obsession and lesbian obsession. Through rigorous analysis, Kat and Hunter examine whether Nikki was actually a great girlfriend, why straight men seem uniquely capable of developing a crush and immediately making it everyone else’s problem, and what separates harmless yearning from behavior that would warrant a restraining order. Using Obsession as both a cultural artifact and cautionary tale, the girls investigate how obsession manifests across sexualities, whether lesbians have perfected the art of fixation, and why straight people consistently insist on creating unnecessary chaos in pursuit of romance. As always, the girls remain committed to asking important questions, reaching questionable conclusions, and providing guidance that should under no circumstances be considered legally binding. Class is back in session. Additional Episode notes: Keke Palmer best moments compilations: ⁃ https://youtu.be/8_ADosHY1j4 ⁃ https://youtu.be/4CPAP19lJNw Keke Palmer Round Table Interview: ⁃ https://youtu.be/zk3CB8nxo0E Spice Babies Links: ⁃ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@spice.babies?si=6bsFriqeLQe4sshx ⁃ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spice.babies ⁃ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spice.babies?_r=1&_t=ZS-97KZ2CgNG5t ⁃ Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/spicebabies Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thrats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.com Hosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymot... Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymot...

    Perspectives on Obsession: Is It a Gay Movie?
  5. Jun 12

    Gay Perspectives on Girl Code

    Welcome back to Fairy Gaymothers Sorta for season two, episode two, where Kat and Hunter take on one of society’s most confusing and inconsistently enforced social contracts: girl code. Through extensive research (watching clips of reality television on TikTok and god forbid, Reels), the girls attempt to determine what girl code actually is, whether lesbians play by a different set of rules, and at what point “violating girl code” becomes indistinguishable from simply making a decision someone didn’t like. Using case studies from The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and the latest Summer House drama, Kat and Hunter examine the ever-expanding list of offenses that can often be used to label someone as not “a girl’s girl”. Is there a universal code? Does one NEED a code to have compassion and consideration for women? As always, the girls remain committed to asking important questions, reaching questionable conclusions, and providing guidance that should under no circumstances be considered legally binding. Class is back in session. Additional Episode Notes: - Paul W. Downs https://www.instagram.com/paulwdowns/?hl=en - Lucia Aniello https://www.instagram.com/luciaaniellosetfits/?hl=en - Jen Statsky https://www.instagram.com/jenstatsky/?hl=en Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thrats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.com Hosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymot... Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymot...

    Gay Perspectives on Girl Code
  6. Jun 5

    Is Justin Bieber A Lesbian Icon?

    Welcome back to Fairy Gaymothers Sorta and happy Pride Month! After some time away dedicated to becoming even gayer and, somehow, even funnier, Kat and Hunter return for the very first episode of season two. To kick off the new semester, the girls tackle one of life’s greatest unsolved mysteries: Is Justin Bieber a lesbian? Through rigorous investigation, questionable methodology, and several compelling exhibits, Kat and Hunter examine how Bieber came to earn lesbian icon status, what exactly that title means, and whether the evidence can withstand academic scrutiny. Also making its debut this season is a brand new segment: The Gay Agenda Generator. Guided by forces beyond their control (namely God herself), Kat and Hunter surrender to fate and discover which piece of gay gospel they’ve been chosen to spread to the masses. With a new season comes new lessons, new revelations, and the same unwavering commitment to offering completely unqualified guidance. Class is officially back in session. Additional Episode notes: Hayley Kiyoko website: Official Website Original Girls like girls music video: https://youtu.be/I0MT8SwNa_U Girls like girls movie trailer: https://youtu.be/ZC1kEknG2ro Girls like girls album spotify link: https://open.spotify.com/prerelease/1oer2le30c3kC24jeMyuBn?si=QAiK8OCLTmyqlsxKxXaQEA YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@thehayleykiyokovevo?si=g506lzwgWV2rn6A6 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayleykiyoko/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hayleykiyoko Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.com Hosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymot... Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymot...

    Is Justin Bieber A Lesbian Icon?
  7. Apr 3

    Know Thy Unknowns: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    In the season finale of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter complete their exam in the last instalment of their extremely rigorous (and completely self-appointed) curriculum of semester one: Know Thy Unknown. This week, they turn their attention to the things that simply refuse to make sense, and perhaps were never meant to. First on the agenda, Kat and Hunter report back with their recurring fieldwork segment: The Crash, Bit, Bang. In a special twist, the girls take turns crashing out over the many things in this world they just don’t understand. Some are sweeping, existential concepts, others are smaller, more niche curiosities… and a few are things they’ve decided they’re actually better off not knowing at all. Wrapping up their first semester at Fairy Gaymother Academy, Kat and Hunter reflect on everything they’ve learned (academically, spiritually, and emotionally, give or take), revisit standout moments, and take stock of how their worldview has shifted. They also offer a glimpse into what’s ahead for semester two, including new lessons, evolving perspectives, and, of course, continued unqualified guidance. Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? Dath Thrats? Send us an email @ mailto:officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: /fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi

    Know Thy Unknowns: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta
  8. Mar 27

    Know Thy Shepherd: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in another instalment of their extremely rigorous (and completely self-appointed) curriculum: Know Thy Shepherd. This week, they examine who we’re really taking advice from, and ask what happens when the loudest voices in the room are also the most misguided? First on the agenda, Kat and Hunter report back with their recurring fieldwork segment: The Crash, Bit, Bang. Hunter crashes out over St. Patrick’s Day and the alarming influx of women posting their deeply questionable boyfriends (be serious), while Kat finds herself endlessly entertained by men attempting (earnestly, yet unsuccessfully) to understand diva cups. Points for effort, perhaps. From there, we move into the main lecture: the manosphere. Inspired by Louis Theroux’s Inside the Manosphere documentary, Kat and Hunter unpack the rise of red pill content and the pipeline drawing young men into these digital echo chambers. What makes these spaces so enticing? Why are they resonating now? And more importantly, how do we begin to challenge and dismantle them without further alienating the very people caught inside? The girls explore the emotional undercurrents, cultural influences, and possible paths forward in a world where guidance is increasingly coming from questionable shepherds. Louis Theroux. (2024). Inside the Manosphere. https://www.unwomen.org/en/articles/explainer/what-is-the-manosphere-and-why-should-we-care https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/nov/02/teenage-radicalised-manosphere-young-men-masculinity Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? Dath Thrats? Send us an email @ mailto:officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun (https://kat-dj-and-hun/)... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas.... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi....

    Know Thy Shepherd: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

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Welcome to Fairy Gaymothers Sorta! Your hosts, Kat and Hunter, walk you through what exactly it means to be a Fairy Gaymother and why they're only "Sorta" there. As the "inventors" of this term and the singular authority on who/what meets the criteria, they're making it all up! Each episode we'll highlight a Fairy Gaymother in the wild and explore a new piece of the self-imposed curriculum in our training. We're learning to be our best, gayest, most off-putting selves and we're here to pass our knowledge and failings onto you! So strap in!