Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

Kat DJ & Hunter Vern

Welcome to Fairy Gaymothers Sorta! Your hosts, Kat and Hunter, walk you through what exactly it means to be a Fairy Gaymother and why they're only "Sorta" there. As the "inventors" of this term and the singular authority on who/what meets the criteria, they're making it all up! Each episode we'll highlight a Fairy Gaymother in the wild and explore a new piece of the self-imposed curriculum in our training. We're learning to be our best, gayest, most off-putting selves and we're here to pass our knowledge and failings onto you! So strap in!

  1. Gay Perspectives on Girl Code

    1d ago

    Gay Perspectives on Girl Code

    Welcome back to Fairy Gaymothers Sorta for season two, episode two, where Kat and Hunter take on one of society’s most confusing and inconsistently enforced social contracts: girl code. Through extensive research (watching clips of reality television on TikTok and god forbid, Reels), the girls attempt to determine what girl code actually is, whether lesbians play by a different set of rules, and at what point “violating girl code” becomes indistinguishable from simply making a decision someone didn’t like. Using case studies from The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and the latest Summer House drama, Kat and Hunter examine the ever-expanding list of offenses that can often be used to label someone as not “a girl’s girl”. Is there a universal code? Does one NEED a code to have compassion and consideration for women? As always, the girls remain committed to asking important questions, reaching questionable conclusions, and providing guidance that should under no circumstances be considered legally binding. Class is back in session. Additional Episode Notes: - Paul W. Downs https://www.instagram.com/paulwdowns/?hl=en - Lucia Aniello https://www.instagram.com/luciaaniellosetfits/?hl=en - Jen Statsky https://www.instagram.com/jenstatsky/?hl=en Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thrats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.com Hosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymot... Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymot...

    47 min
  2. Is Justin Bieber A Lesbian Icon?

    Jun 5

    Is Justin Bieber A Lesbian Icon?

    Welcome back to Fairy Gaymothers Sorta and happy Pride Month! After some time away dedicated to becoming even gayer and, somehow, even funnier, Kat and Hunter return for the very first episode of season two. To kick off the new semester, the girls tackle one of life’s greatest unsolved mysteries: Is Justin Bieber a lesbian? Through rigorous investigation, questionable methodology, and several compelling exhibits, Kat and Hunter examine how Bieber came to earn lesbian icon status, what exactly that title means, and whether the evidence can withstand academic scrutiny. Also making its debut this season is a brand new segment: The Gay Agenda Generator. Guided by forces beyond their control (namely God herself), Kat and Hunter surrender to fate and discover which piece of gay gospel they’ve been chosen to spread to the masses. With a new season comes new lessons, new revelations, and the same unwavering commitment to offering completely unqualified guidance. Class is officially back in session. Additional Episode notes: Hayley Kiyoko website: Official Website Original Girls like girls music video: https://youtu.be/I0MT8SwNa_U Girls like girls movie trailer: https://youtu.be/ZC1kEknG2ro Girls like girls album spotify link: https://open.spotify.com/prerelease/1oer2le30c3kC24jeMyuBn?si=QAiK8OCLTmyqlsxKxXaQEA YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@thehayleykiyokovevo?si=g506lzwgWV2rn6A6 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hayleykiyoko/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hayleykiyoko Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.com Hosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymot... Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymot...

    41 min
  3. Know Thy Unknowns: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    Apr 3

    Know Thy Unknowns: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    In the season finale of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter complete their exam in the last instalment of their extremely rigorous (and completely self-appointed) curriculum of semester one: Know Thy Unknown. This week, they turn their attention to the things that simply refuse to make sense, and perhaps were never meant to. First on the agenda, Kat and Hunter report back with their recurring fieldwork segment: The Crash, Bit, Bang. In a special twist, the girls take turns crashing out over the many things in this world they just don’t understand. Some are sweeping, existential concepts, others are smaller, more niche curiosities… and a few are things they’ve decided they’re actually better off not knowing at all. Wrapping up their first semester at Fairy Gaymother Academy, Kat and Hunter reflect on everything they’ve learned (academically, spiritually, and emotionally, give or take), revisit standout moments, and take stock of how their worldview has shifted. They also offer a glimpse into what’s ahead for semester two, including new lessons, evolving perspectives, and, of course, continued unqualified guidance. Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? Dath Thrats? Send us an email @ mailto:officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: /fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi

    55 min
  4. Know Thy Shepherd: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    Mar 27

    Know Thy Shepherd: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in another instalment of their extremely rigorous (and completely self-appointed) curriculum: Know Thy Shepherd. This week, they examine who we’re really taking advice from, and ask what happens when the loudest voices in the room are also the most misguided? First on the agenda, Kat and Hunter report back with their recurring fieldwork segment: The Crash, Bit, Bang. Hunter crashes out over St. Patrick’s Day and the alarming influx of women posting their deeply questionable boyfriends (be serious), while Kat finds herself endlessly entertained by men attempting (earnestly, yet unsuccessfully) to understand diva cups. Points for effort, perhaps. From there, we move into the main lecture: the manosphere. Inspired by Louis Theroux’s Inside the Manosphere documentary, Kat and Hunter unpack the rise of red pill content and the pipeline drawing young men into these digital echo chambers. What makes these spaces so enticing? Why are they resonating now? And more importantly, how do we begin to challenge and dismantle them without further alienating the very people caught inside? The girls explore the emotional undercurrents, cultural influences, and possible paths forward in a world where guidance is increasingly coming from questionable shepherds. Louis Theroux. (2024). Inside the Manosphere. https://www.unwomen.org/en/articles/explainer/what-is-the-manosphere-and-why-should-we-care https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/nov/02/teenage-radicalised-manosphere-young-men-masculinity Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? Dath Thrats? Send us an email @ mailto:officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun (https://kat-dj-and-hun/)... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas.... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi....

    1 hr
  5. Know Thy Sparkle: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    Mar 20

    Know Thy Sparkle: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in another instalment of their extremely rigorous (and completely self-appointed) curriculum: Know Thy Sparkle. This week, they take a look at what makes us shine, and ask why it feels like mayhaps we’ve collectively dimmed the lights? First on the agenda, Kat and Hunter report back with their recurring fieldwork segment: The Crash, Bit, Bang. Hunter absolutely loses it over the widespread theft of her texting lingo (and therefore, her rizz), while Kat steps into a new era, experimenting with styles that have her feeling fly, fresh, and frankly unstoppable. #styleicon From there, we move into the main lecture: sparkle (or lack thereof). Kat and Hunter unpack the rise of the “lobotomized chic” trend and why Gen Z seems slightly obsessed with numbness. Is it aesthetic or coping? What does it say about our collective desire to take the edge off? The girls investigate the cultural shift toward detachment, emotional minimalism, and what it means to feel nothing, but fashionably. Anderson TL, Valiauga R, Tallo C, Hong CB, Manoranjithan S, Domingo C, Paudel M, Untaroiu A, Barr S, Goldhaber K. Contributing Factors to the Rise in Adolescent Anxiety and Associated Mental Health Disorders: A Narrative Review of Current Literature. J Child Adolesc Psychiatr Nurs. 2025 Feb;38(1):e70009. doi: 10.1111/jcap.70009. PMID: 39739929; PMCID: PMC11683866. Rothman, L. (2022, April 13). It’s harder than ever to care about anything. Time. https://time.com/6160337/hard-to-care-about-anything/ https://www.tiktok.com/@whatzaraloves6/video/7614196285616164118 https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeff/video/7612656180996934925 https://www.tiktok.com/@sydneyyeds2/video/7510347827059445023 Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas.... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi....

    1 hr
  6. Know Thy Hobbies: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    Mar 13

    Know Thy Hobbies: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in another instalment of their extremely rigorous (and completely self-appointed) curriculum: Know Thy Hobbies. Yes girls and gays, we’re getting introspective… but like, fun about it. This week’s syllabus tackles the age-old question plaguing our generation: do we actually have hobbies, or are we just scrolling with conviction? First on the agenda, Kat and Hunter report back with their recurring fieldwork segments: The Hinge Cringe and Crash / Bit / Bang. Hunter attempts to defend her matchmaking abilities (the evidence scarce), while Kat explains her deeply held philosophy of joy by proxy, specifically through the time-honoured practice of watching SMOSH videos like they’re prestige television. From there, we enter the main lecture: hobbies. Hunter and Kat unpack their own personal hobbies, the mysterious state of Gen Z hobbies as a whole, and why so many of us feel like we’re supposed to have enriching personal interests but instead just have… screen time reports. Does scrolling count as a hobby? Are we doomed to live hobbyless lives? It’s up to us to investigate. Plus, a surprisingly earnest exploration of something radical in the year of our lord 2026: being alone. What happens when you actually spend time with yourself? Is solitude scary, powerful, healing, or all three? Kat and Hunter discuss the quiet art of getting to know yourself, and why it might be the most important hobby of all. It’s hobbies. It’s existential. It’s extremely unserious self-improvement. 🧚‍♀️📓 Mahayosnand, P. P., & Sabra, S. M. (2024). Generation Z: Increasing self-perceived employability and well-being through serious leisure. GILE Journal of Skills Development, 4(3), 87-92. Yağmur, Y. (2024). An Exploratory Research to Reveal the Habits, Motivations, and Tendencies of Generation Z to Use Social Media Platforms as A Leisure Activity. Advances in Hospitality and Tourism Research (AHTR), 12(2), 172-199. https://doi.org/10.30519/ahtr.1452356 Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas.... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi....

    51 min
  7. Know Thy News: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    Mar 7

    Know Thy News: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

    In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in a brand-new instalment of their self-imposed curriculum: Know Thy News. Yes, girls and gays, we’re getting journalistic (loosely). This week’s syllabus includes the most pressing events in pop culture right now, from baffling celebrity discourse to the stories that have taken over everyone’s timelines. As always, we report back with our crashes, bits, and bangs of the week, because staying culturally literate is a full-time job. We dive into the newest Wuthering Heights adaptation starring Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi (our personal enemy), unpack the unexpected fan fiction ecosystem emerging around The Pitt, and attempt a groundbreaking academic exercise: using the Lesbian Web™ to properly place the chaotic characters and actors of Hulu’s Tell Me Lies. Naturally, things only get more unhinged from there. Plus, a deep dive into the internet’s favourite pastime: celebrity conspiracy theories, including the strange and suspicious online narratives swirling around Selena Gomez. Are these theories based in fact, fiction, or pure chronically-online energy? The girls investigate. It’s news. It’s nonsense. It’s cultural reporting of the highest (and lowest) order. 🧚‍♀️📰 Mentioned Links: https://www.tiktok.com/@oldfashonedhussle Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi...

    1h 3m
  8. Know Thy Crime: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta Podcast

    Feb 27

    Know Thy Crime: Fairy Gaymothers Sorta Podcast

    In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in a brand-new instalment of their self-imposed curriculum: Know Thy Crime or Do Thy Time. Yes, girls and gays, we’re getting investigative. This week’s syllabus includes cold cases, serial murderers, and the ever-growing cultural obsession with true crime. They dig into the ethics of it all: Who gets centred in these stories? Is consuming true crime a form of advocacy, or are we all just a little too comfortable treating real tragedy like prime television? It’s camp. It’s crime. Plus: we premiere a brand-new segment, The Hinge Cringe, where the girls bravely (and foolishly) read the most horrifying dating app messages they’ve ever received — digital artifacts so unsettling they deserve to be sealed in a vault beneath the earth. Consider this your formal warning. Please note: Unfortunately, there was some technical difficulties with the microphones towards the end of the video (homophobic, we know) and we apologize in advance if it disturbs the listening experience! Resources mentioned in the episode below: Available on Google Scholar; Gray, H. Obsessed with Murder: True Crime and Gender. Dhaliwal, M. (2025). CONSTRUCTIONS OF SERIAL KILLERS AND VICTIMS: ANALYSIS OF TRUE CRIME DOCUSERIES. Links: https://daily.jstor.org/bloody-history-of-true-crime-genre/ https://crimereads.com/a-brief-history-of-the-rise-and-evolution-of-true-crime-books/ https://creativenonfiction.org/writing/our-long-standing-obsession-with-true-crime/ https://www.unc.edu/posts/2024/01/11/why-are-we-fascinated-by-true-crime/ https://www.thecollector.com/what-are-the-origins-of-the-true-crime-genre/ Janelle Monáe’s Dirty Computer Emotion Picture: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jdH2Sy-BlNE Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ officialfairygaymothers@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas.... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi....

    1 hr
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Welcome to Fairy Gaymothers Sorta! Your hosts, Kat and Hunter, walk you through what exactly it means to be a Fairy Gaymother and why they're only "Sorta" there. As the "inventors" of this term and the singular authority on who/what meets the criteria, they're making it all up! Each episode we'll highlight a Fairy Gaymother in the wild and explore a new piece of the self-imposed curriculum in our training. We're learning to be our best, gayest, most off-putting selves and we're here to pass our knowledge and failings onto you! So strap in!

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  • Creator
    Kat DJ & Hunter Vern
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    17
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Katrina Desjardins 2025
  • Show Website
    Fairy Gaymothers Sorta