Actually Doing Things

Nikki Sharp
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Actually Doing Things is a practical podcast about turning intentions into action—inside the gym and out. Host Nikki, a therapist and CrossFit affiliate owner, shares real stories, mindset tools, and simple next steps on fitness, mental health, and community. Less theory, more doing. Hit play, take one step, repeat. 💥

  1. 3d ago

    You Already Won": What a Priest, Chaplain, and Backcountry Guide Taught Us About Showing Up

    There's a moment in almost everyone's day where a voice says: just skip it today. Coach Curtis Seidel knows that voice well. Between coaching at DCF, serving as a priest and school administrator, and leading multi-day backpacking trips through the Wind River Range, his days are long. Some nights, the couch and a quiet evening sound a lot better than gym clothes. "Some days that voice wins," he told us. "But the days where I take a breath and say no, I'll be happier if I go — invariably, just making that decision, I'm already happier with myself. I'm choosing for my future self." That's the line that's stuck with us since recording: you judge the value of something by how you'll feel after, not how you feel right now. "You Already Won" Curtis has a phrase he tells members who walk in unsure if they wanted to show up: "You already won. You won the workout. Everything else from there is gravy." It's such a simple reframe — but it takes the pressure off the entire hour. Walking through the door is the win. Whatever happens after is bonus. The Integrated Human A theme that runs through Curtis's whole approach — both as a priest and a coach — is that we're not separate compartments. Spiritual life, relationships, physical health: they all feed each other. "If I'm not physically active, my capacity to relate well to others is hampered," he said. "And vice versa — as one gets stronger, it enables the other." It's part of why CrossFit resonated with him in the first place: it treats fitness not as vanity or punishment, but as part of being a whole, capable human — the kind of human who can carry a 165-lb person down a canyon if it ever actually comes to that (true story — ask him about his Grand Canyon instructor training sometime). Play, Not Punishment Another idea Curtis brought up: the best workouts often feel like being a kid on a playground again. Box jumps, rope climbs, wall walks — things that are hard and a little ridiculous and fun. "I think we sometimes take fitness so seriously," Nikki noted. "The whole goal is for it to be a good hour in your day — because everything else gets better." That's "type 2 fun" — the kind that's miserable in the moment and makes a great story (and a stronger you) afterward. A Send-Off, Not a Goodbye Curtis is moving to Spokane this summer to continue his work as a priest and school leader — but if you've been part of DCF for any length of time, you know this gym has a way of staying connected to people long after they walk out the door. Before he goes, we're throwing a hangout after his last class. Come tell him thanks, hear his stories, and send him off the DCF way. Showed up today? You already won. See you on the floor, Nikki + the DCF Team #getfitlivehappykeepgoing #crossfit #downtownwallawallawa

    38 min

  2. Jun 4

    She Deadlifted 150 lbs at 65. Then Came a Triple Bypass. Then She Came Back.

    Jane moved to Walla Walla to be close to her daughter. She wasn't sure she could keep up. She’d survived a triple bypass, spent months recovering from a broken shoulder, and felt—by her own honest admission—generally weak. What happened next is exactly why we built Legends class. In this episode of the DCF Actually Doing Things Podcast, Nikki sits down with Jane—a late-blooming CrossFitter, a self-described "slow and steady" athlete, and someone who is actively training for a self-guided hike through the Scottish Highlands this summer. Jane is in her 70s. She does CrossFit twice a week. And she is, without question, a Walla Walla Legend. In this conversation you’ll hear: How Jane rebuilt strength and balance after a cardiac event AND a shoulder break — without a single excuseWhy “something is better than nothing” is one of the most underrated fitness philosophies aliveWhat functional fitness actually means when you’re planning to lift your own suitcase into the overhead bin at 75Why the Legends class pace is intentional — and why it works for people who thought CrossFit wasn’t for themJane’s personal standard: “I need to be strong enough to lift my own suitcase into the overhead bin” This one’s for anyone who thinks they’ve waited too long, come back too late, or aren’t the “type” for a gym. Jane is proof that the best time to start is whenever you start. 📍 Destination CrossFit | Downtown Walla Walla, WA | wwdcf.com 📅 Legends Class meets Tuesdays & Thursdays at 9:30am

    29 min

  3. May 31

    She Stopped Counting. She Just Kept Showing Up

    Madison Hollenbeck has been showing up to the 4:30 class at Destination CrossFit for over 10 years. She came to Walla Walla for a two-year job. She found a gym, found her corner, found her people — and never really left. She's not a perfect gym-goer. She goes six weeks without touching a barbell every fall. She scales everything. She has a lifetime ban on box jumps. She doesn't love going every day. She just keeps going. In this episode, Nikki sits down with Madison to talk about what consistency actually looks like over the long haul — and what keeps someone coming back to the same gym for over a decade. We get into: The post-college athlete identity crash — and what filled the gapWhy she never works out when she travels (and why that's completely fine)The concept of 'rehiring yourself' — finding what still makes you want to show upWhat makes CrossFit stick for people who don't love every movementThe 4:30 class culture, scaling without apology, and music worth rowing to If you've ever come back after a long break, modified every movement, or wondered if you belong at a CrossFit gym — this one is for you. 🎙️ Actually Doing Things is the DCF podcast about real people doing the fitness thing in real life. 📍 Destination CrossFit | Walla Walla, WA | wwdcf.com 🏋️ Class 1 is free — book your intro: wwdcf.com/free-consultation 🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & everywhere via Captivate 🔔 Subscribe for new episodes #CrossFit #ActuallyDoingThings #DestinationCrossFit #WallaWalla #CrossFitPodcast #AffiliateLife #WomenInFitness #ConsistencyOverPerfection #CrossFitCommunity

    37 min

  4. May 3

    The Intersection of Nutrition and Fitness: Insights from Vero's Journey

    The podcast delves into the transformative journey of Vero, a member of Destination CrossFit, as she recounts her initial foray into the world of CrossFit, catalyzed by a respected coworker. This initial exposure, sparked during a 'Bring a Friend' week, ignited a competitive spirit within Vero, propelling her into a fitness regime that would soon become integral to her life. Despite the challenges posed by a demanding career as a general manager at a local restaurant, Vero adeptly navigated her busy schedule to prioritize her health and fitness. She faced initial apprehensions regarding her ability to integrate CrossFit into her routine, yet the welcoming community at Destination CrossFit alleviated her fears, allowing her to embrace the experience fully. Through a nuanced discussion, Vero highlights how the camaraderie and support from fellow members have played a pivotal role in her CrossFit journey, fostering a sense of belonging and motivation that encourages consistency and personal growth. As Vero's narrative unfolds, listeners gain insight into the complexities of balancing a high-pressure job in the food industry with the demands of a rigorous fitness program. She candidly discusses the inevitable temptations and challenges that arise from working in an environment saturated with culinary delights, emphasizing the importance of moderation and mindful eating. The conversation further explores the adjustments Vero made to her nutritional habits, particularly following participation in a nutrition challenge led by a coach, which illuminated the critical interplay between diet and performance. Vero's evolving relationship with food—now viewed as fuel rather than mere sustenance—has significantly contributed to her overall well-being and fitness achievements. The episode culminates with Vero's reflections on her personal growth through the lens of fitness and nutrition, illustrating the profound impact that CrossFit has had on her mental and physical health. From overcoming injuries to achieving personal records, Vero's journey is a testament to the resilience and determination required to excel in both CrossFit and life. She emphasizes the intrinsic rewards of consistency and the importance of setting personal goals, inspiring listeners to embark on their own fitness journeys with conviction and enthusiasm. This episode serves not only as an exploration of Vero's experiences but also as a motivational call to action for those seeking to transform their lives through fitness and community engagement. Takeaways: Vero's journey at Destination CrossFit began when a respected coworker introduced her to the community, sparking her interest in fitness.Initially intimidated by the environment, Vero found encouragement and support from fellow members, which helped her continue her CrossFit journey.Through prioritizing her fitness, Vero learned to balance her demanding job in the restaurant industry with her health goals.Vero emphasized the importance of nutrition, revealing that she learned to view food as fuel during her journey to improve her health.After overcoming significant back pain through rehabilitation, Vero returned to CrossFit stronger and more determined than ever to reach her fitness goals.Vero's commitment to her health has not only transformed her physically but has also enhanced her mental well-being and confidence in her personal and professional life.

    26 min

  5. Apr 25

    I Quit Fitness. Repeatedly. Here's What Finally Worked.

    Thirteen episodes of other people's stories. This time, the host is in the chair. Nikki Sharp is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, CrossFit Level 3 Coach, and owner of Destination CrossFit in Walla Walla, WA. She has spent 20 years helping people build consistency, resilience, and mental strength. And she has quit fitness more times than she can count. In this honest, unscripted conversation, Erika Rootvik turns the tables and asks Nikki the questions she'd skip past if she were solo — about the quitting, the patterns, what she was actually carrying during those seasons, and what finally shifted. This episode is for the person who looks fine on the outside but is quietly struggling to show up for themselves. The high performer who keeps restarting. The woman who knows what to do but can't seem to make herself do it. Nikki makes the clinical case that fitness isn't optional — it's one of the most powerful mental health tools we have. And then she gets personal about what it took her to actually believe that. 💚 What you'll hear in this episode: Why Nikki kept quitting — and what was really going on underneathWhat 20 years of clinical work taught her about movement and mental healthThe CrossFit metaphors she actually uses in therapy sessionsWhat she'd tell the version of herself who was quittingThe minimum viable version of "actually doing the thing" 🎙️ Listen, subscribe, and share with one person who has quit and is ready to try again. 📍 Find Destination CrossFit: wwdcf.com 📱 Follow Nikki: @amitysharp #actuallydoingthings #getfitlivehappykeepgoing #crossfit #mentalhealth #podcast

    47 min

  6. Apr 5

    Building a Fit Family: Lessons with Stephen Garnett of Over Time Training

    The primary focus of our discourse is the indispensable significance of parental engagement and the necessity of fostering familial connections through shared activities. In our conversation with Stephen Garnett, a coach from Over Time Training, we delve into the profound impact of fitness on personal development and family dynamics. Garnett elucidates how his own upbringing instilled a passion for fitness, which he now endeavors to pass on to his children by modeling healthy behaviors and creating memorable experiences. We further explore the balance between professional commitments and family time, particularly highlighting the enriching moments that arise from prioritizing fun and active participation as a parent. Ultimately, this episode emphasizes the vital role of intentional parenting in cultivating a supportive environment that encourages both personal growth and family bonding. Takeaways: Stephen Garnett emphasizes the significant influence of family fitness habits instilled during childhood.Engaging in regular physical activity serves as a vital form of therapy for both parents and children.The importance of modeling healthy behaviors for children to promote their lifelong fitness and well-being is paramount.Garnett discusses how homeschooling has allowed for deeper family connections and shared physical activities.Creating enjoyable and memorable family experiences through fitness fosters strong familial bonds and lasting memories.The journey of personal growth and fostering resilience in youth through sports is emphasized as essential for their development. Companies mentioned in this episode: CrossFitNorthern Arizona UniversityWhitman CollegeYMCAOTT

    24 min

  7. Mar 22

    CrossFit Explodes Cancer Cells? 🧬 What We Learned at the Health Integration Summit

    This podcast episode elucidates the transformative insights garnered from our recent participation in a Health Integration Summit alongside the CrossFit Medical Society. We delve into the profound implications of biomarkers and hormonal health on our fitness journey, a subject that has been particularly enlightening for both Erica and myself. Throughout our discussion, we reflect on the significant experiences we encountered during our recent athletic endeavors, including a High Rocks event, and how these activities have enhanced our understanding of personal health metrics. Furthermore, we aim to illuminate the importance of integrating rigorous physical exercise with a keen awareness of one’s biochemical status, emphasizing that such knowledge empowers individuals to make informed health decisions. Ultimately, we aspire to foster a community that prioritizes holistic well-being, thereby enabling each person to cultivate a healthier, happier existence. The latest episode of Actually Doing Things podcast presents a thorough exploration of the hosts' recent activities, including their participation in a High Rocks event and attendance at a Health Integration Summit hosted by the CrossFit Medical Society. The hosts begin by discussing their hiatus, expressing excitement about their experiences during this time. The conversation shifts to their participation in the High Rocks, an event they describe as both exhilarating and accessible, emphasizing how their CrossFit training enabled them to perform admirably despite not being elite athletes. Their reflections on this event serve as a testament to the inclusivity of fitness and the joy derived from challenging oneself in a supportive environment. Subsequently, the hosts delve into their experiences at the Health Integration Summit, where they gained valuable insights regarding biomarkers and hormonal health. They share their astonishment at the data presented, particularly concerning the effects of high-intensity exercise on cancer cells, which sparked a profound discussion about the transformative power of exercise in combating serious health issues. This segment not only highlights the significant health benefits of physical activity but also underscores the necessity for individuals to understand their own health metrics and how they correlate with fitness. As the episode progresses, the hosts advocate for greater awareness of hormonal health, particularly for women, and stress the importance of regular health screenings. They unveil their plans to integrate the knowledge acquired from the summit into the operations of their gym, including the implementation of comprehensive health assessments for members. This episode encapsulates a holistic approach to health and fitness, reaffirming the notion that exercise is not solely about physical strength but also about fostering a deeper understanding of one's health and well-being. The hosts encourage their audience to engage with their health proactively, leveraging the insights shared to enhance their fitness journeys. Takeaways: The podcast episode discusses recent experiences and insights gained from participating in a health integration summit with the CrossFit Medical Society.One significant takeaway is the exploration of biomarkers and hormones, emphasizing their crucial roles in overall health and fitness.Listeners are encouraged to engage in high-intensity exercise, as research suggests it is more beneficial for health than lower-intensity workouts.The speakers reflect on their personal health journeys, highlighting the importance of regular blood work to monitor vital health markers and make informed lifestyle choices.A key point made is about the necessity of understanding hormone health, particularly testosterone levels in women, as part of a comprehensive fitness regime.The conversation reinforces the idea that physical fitness is a vital component of preventative care, contributing to long-term health and resilience against diseases. Companies mentioned in this episode: CrossFit Medical SocietyHigh RocksCrossFit CountercultureLabCorpWalla Walla ClinicDr. Tom McCoyDCF healthhsn

    24 min

  8. Jan 31

    Nutrition, CrossFit, and the Other 23 Hours of Your Day

    Nutrition, Mental Health & Fueling the Life You Want | Actually Doing Things PodcastNutrition isn’t just about what you eat — it’s about how you feel, how you think, and how you live. In this episode of the Actually Doing Things Podcast, we unpack our personal histories with food, fitness, and fueling — and why nutrition deserves a thoughtful, trauma-informed, habit-based approach, especially in fitness spaces. We start with our backgrounds in vegetarianism and flexible eating, sharing how family culture, texture aversions, ethics, and lived experience shaped our relationships with food. Rather than debating labels like “vegetarian” or “vegan,” we focus on what actually matters: feeling good after you eat and fueling yourself for the life you want. From there, the conversation widens into how nutrition has been weaponized in modern culture, why it can be deeply triggering, and why we believe mental health is the true base of the health pyramid. Only then does nutrition make sense as support — not control. We also introduce our upcoming habit-based nutrition program using Healthy Steps Nutrition (HSN). This approach looks beyond food alone and considers stress, support systems, sleep, self-care, fitness, and mindset — the other 23 hours of the day that actually shape our habits. Along the way, we discuss: Why mindfulness around food is helpful — and when it’s notHow CrossFit changed our relationship with fueling and body imageWhy small, sustainable habits beat extreme overhaulsHow nutrition affects kids’ energy, learning, and emotional regulationWhy one-size-fits-all approaches don’t work — in fitness or nutrition This episode is for anyone who wants to improve their nutrition without shame, fear, or perfectionism — and who’s ready to build habits that support both physical and mental health. What We Cover:Personal experiences with vegetarianism and flexible eatingEthical, psychological, and sensory factors that influence food choicesWhy mental health comes before nutrition in our model of healthTrauma-informed language and coaching around foodMindful eating vs. overthinking foodFueling for fitness, parenting, work, and daily lifeAn overview of the Healthy Steps Nutrition (HSN) approachWhy habits, not willpower, drive long-term change Key Takeaways:Feeling good after you eat matters more than dietary labelsNutrition is deeply connected to stress, mindset, and mental healthSustainable habits start with awareness, not restrictionFueling well supports performance, mood, and resilienceSmall changes build momentum — you don’t need to do everything at once 🎧 Listen now and join the conversation 💬 Reflect on your own relationship with food and fueling 📅 Stay tuned for our upcoming 28-Day Habit-Based Nutrition Challenge

    24 min
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Actually Doing Things is a practical podcast about turning intentions into action—inside the gym and out. Host Nikki, a therapist and CrossFit affiliate owner, shares real stories, mindset tools, and simple next steps on fitness, mental health, and community. Less theory, more doing. Hit play, take one step, repeat. 💥

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  • Creator
    Nikki Sharp
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Nikki Sharp
  • Show Website
    Actually Doing Things