Let’s Unpack That

Kris Viljoen
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Hey, I’m Kris — an American living in South Africa who loves talking about the real stuff of faith and life. I’ve spent my adult life in ministry, walking with people as they wrestle with what they believe and how that belief shapes the way they live. Let’s Unpack That is a space for women — whether you’re curious about truth, faith, what’s real and trustworthy; or have known Jesus for years — to pause, reflect, and engage with truth that changes everything. It’s honest, raw, hope-filled, and I’m excited to go there with you. Bring your questions and curiosity and let’s unpack it together.

Episodes

  1. Feb 27

    Should women “shoot their shot?”

    In this episode of *Let’s Unpack That*, we continue the conversation from our previous discussion on pursuing the right person, at the right time, in the right way, by tackling a question many Christians wrestle with today: Should women “shoot their shot,”? Within Christian circles there are often three common perspectives. We’ll look at these and see what the Bible says in response. The episode also addresses the cultural pressures shaping dating today. In a moment where masculinity is often criticized and women are pushed toward independence that dismisses relational interdependence, the gospel offers a different vision—one where men grow in courage and responsibility, and women grow in wisdom, dignity, and relational openness.

  2. Feb 4

    What does the Bible say about dating? Can’t I date anyone I like?

    In this episode, Kris explores how Christians date today—and how much of our approach has been shaped more by culture than by Scripture. Together, we unpack the modern “Christian dating” model and contrast it with the relational framework we actually see in the Bible: brothers and sisters, husbands and wives, and the purposeful pathway toward covenant. Drawing from Scripture’s vision of holiness, wisdom, and God’s covenantal love toward us, this episode invites listeners to re-orient their hearts around God’s design for relationships—right time, right person, right way. With pastoral clarity and biblical grounding, Kris challenges us to consider not just who we date, but how we relate, and whether our dating practices reflect the way God lovingly and faithfully relates to us.

  3. Jan 22

    How do you discern false doctrine? How do you know what’s real and what’s not?

    In this episode, Kris unpacks one of the most pressing questions facing Christians today: How do we discern false doctrine? With Scripture as the ultimate authority, Kris walks through what the Bible actually says about false teaching and false teachers—and why not everything labeled “Christian” is rooted in Christ. From Paul’s strong warning in Galatians to Jesus’ own words about wolves in sheep’s clothing, this episode emphasizes the importance of knowing the true gospel so well that counterfeits are easy to spot. Using the U.S. Mint illustration and Psalm 1 as a framework, Kris encourages listeners to become people steeped in God’s Word, developing spiritual discernment not through fear or suspicion, but through deep familiarity with the truth.

  4. Jan 13

    I don’t need to ask people for advice on decisions I make do I? I am an adult.

    How does the Bible actually respond to this question? In this episode, we explore Scripture’s surprisingly direct answer to radical independence—and why maturity, in God’s economy, is not marked by self-sufficiency but by humility. We’ll look at wisdom literature that warns against being “right in our own eyes,” and we’ll unpack the sobering story of King Rehoboam, the young king who rejected the counsel of seasoned elders in favor of the advice of his peers—with devastating consequences for an entire nation. Is refusing counsel a sign of strength… or a warning light Scripture tells us not to ignore? We’ll explore what biblical wisdom really looks like—and why listening might be one of the most adult things we can do.

  5. Jan 5

    Do I really have to go to church? What if I want to follow God on my own.

    In this episode of Let’s Unpack That, we take the question head-on, with honesty and without the guilt trips. We’re digging into four foundational truths about community, why God designed it, and why we can’t fully follow Him in isolation, even when independence feels easier. We’ll look at what Scripture says about belonging, worshiping together, spiritual growth, accountability, and mission. And we’ll unpack the deeper question behind the question: Is church a religious obligation… or a divine invitation into something we actually need? If you’ve ever wondered whether church is optional, unnecessary, outdated, or just plain overwhelming—this one’s for you. Let’s pull it apart, sift through the noise, and get back to God’s original design for His people: together, not alone. Press play. Bring your questions. We’ll unpack the rest.

  6. 12/17/2025

    What is prayer? Is there a certain way I should pray?

    Prayer is one of the most familiar practices in the Christian life—and yet, for many of us, it’s also one of the most confusing. We pray… but sometimes we’re not sure what we’re doing, why we’re doing it, or whether we’re doing it “right.” In this episode, we slow down and let Scripture define prayer for us. Prayer, at its core, is not a formula or a performance. It is an invitation—to draw near to God, to hear from Him, and to speak honestly before Him. Prayer is relational before it is functional. We’ll look to the Word as our primary reference point, especially the Psalms, where we see real people bringing their full humanity before a real God—joy, fear, doubt, repentance, praise, and longing. The Psalms remind us that God welcomes honesty far more than polish. We’ll also explore helpful biblical models of prayer—not as rigid structures, but as gentle guides. One model many believers have found helpful is ADORATION, CONFESSION, THANKSGIVING, and SUPPLICATION—a framework that shapes our hearts as much as our words. And ultimately, we’ll look to the model Jesus Himself gives us in Matthew’s eyewitness account of the Lord’s Prayer. Not a script to recite mindlessly, but a pattern that forms us: adoration of the Father, acknowledgment of His will and kingdom, and humble petition for our daily needs. So—is there a certain way you should pray? Yes… and no. There is a way shaped by Scripture, but it begins with honesty, dependence, and trust. Prayer is not about getting the words right—it’s about coming to God as we are, and being drawn closer to who He is.

  7. 12/08/2025

    Why do Christians memorize the Bible?

    In this episode, we explore a question many why do Christians memorize scripture? We talk about how memorizing Scripture makes real meditation possible when you can’t have a Bible open—in the car, in a meeting, or in the middle of a chaotic day. God’s Word stored in the mind becomes God’s Word available to the heart. You’ll hear how memorized Scripture becomes a weapon against the world, the flesh, and the devil, helping us fight temptation, resist lies, and persevere through suffering. It strengthens faith, reorients the heart, and keeps truth cycling through the inner life when emotions or circumstances try to take over. We also explore how Scripture memory shapes community and mission: it helps us share the gospel, comfort a friend, and pray with greater depth and confidence. It keeps us connected to the voice of God, who continues to speak through His Word wherever we go—even when our Bible isn’t in our hands. If you’ve ever wondered whether memorizing Scripture really matters, this conversation will remind you that it’s not about performance—it’s about presence. It’s about carrying God’s truth with you, ready for wherever life meets you next.

  8. 12/01/2025

    Isn’t it enough to live a morally good life? Can’t living by Christian principles be good enough?

    This week on Let’s Unpack That, Kris wrestles with a common question: Isn’t it enough to simply live a morally good life? Many people believe that living by Christian or traditional value, doing good, spreading joy, and contributing positively to the world -is the ultimate goal. But is morality alone what God is after? In this episode, Kris explores the deeper issue beneath the pursuit of goodness, asking: By whose standard are we measuring morality? What does the Bible actually say about it? Join the conversation as we examine what lies beyond morality and why this question matters for our faith and lives.

  9. 11/24/2025

    How can I know for sure that Christ is the person to follow and believe in?

    This week we look at the questions: How can I know for sure that Christ is the person be to follow and believe in? Can I I really put my trust in him? We have to start with who Jesus says he is versus who others say he is and understand when we ask this question we have a preconceived idea already at work in our minds and hearts. Let’s unpack this from two angles: intellectual and experiential.

  10. 11/17/2025

    Who is God? Who is Jesus?

    In this episode we unpack the questions of who is God and who is Jesus. We look at these questions from a biblical narrative perspective.

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About

Hey, I’m Kris — an American living in South Africa who loves talking about the real stuff of faith and life. I’ve spent my adult life in ministry, walking with people as they wrestle with what they believe and how that belief shapes the way they live. Let’s Unpack That is a space for women — whether you’re curious about truth, faith, what’s real and trustworthy; or have known Jesus for years — to pause, reflect, and engage with truth that changes everything. It’s honest, raw, hope-filled, and I’m excited to go there with you. Bring your questions and curiosity and let’s unpack it together.

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  • Creator
    Kris Viljoen
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    10
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Kris Viljoen
  • Show Website
    Let’s Unpack That