Blueprint: Raising Good Men Podcast

Johann Arnason
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A blueprint for fathers to raise strong, good men in a world that’s forgotten how. goodmenblueprint.substack.com

  1. Feb 26

    Podcast 15 - Why Fathers Should Absolutely Kiss Their Sons

    Let’s get something straight. If you are uncomfortable kissing your son, that discomfort did not come from biology. It came from culture. And culture is wrong. This is not about turning boys soft.. This is not about turning fathers into therapists. This is not about politics, ideology, or whatever team you think you’re on this week. This is about raising boys who do not grow into brittle men. Strong men can give affection. Fragile cultures pretend they can’t. Read full post here This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit goodmenblueprint.substack.com

    3 min

  2. Feb 25

    Podcast 14. - Was Tony a good father?

    We meet Tony Soprano joyfully playing with a family of ducks, quite a robust, balding, middle aged man in his trademark bathrobe and boxers, submerged in his own backyard pool, feeding them like somone briefly convinced he has achieved domestic harmony. His own family observes, perplexed. Then the ducks leave. And Tony has a panic attack. Later, in therapy with Dr. Jennifer Melfi he admits he’s terrified of losing his family. The ducks were never just ducks. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit goodmenblueprint.substack.com

    11 min
  3. Podcast 12 - How to Celebrate New Offspring

    Feb 2

    Podcast 12 - How to Celebrate New Offspring

    It is incumbent upon us, as fathers, to celebrate the arrival of a newborn properly. with intent, noise, and at least a vague sense that something ancient has been satisfied. The gods must be notified. Chief among them are Odin and Thor, custodians of wisdom, violence, strength, storms, and extremely poor anger management. They demand brute strength, fire, smoke and preferably a meat-based sacrifice. Lightning ⚡ is often a clue that you have either succeeded or failed spectacularly. What follows is a practical guide for the modern man attempting an ancient rite, possibly in a suburban environment, likely while sleep-deprived. Read full post here This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit goodmenblueprint.substack.com

    4 min
  4. Podcast 11 - Eat, Sleep, Poop

    Feb 2

    Podcast 11 - Eat, Sleep, Poop

    In the days following the arrival of my newest family member and future hunting partner, my son Viktor, I was reminded of something both obvious and strangely under-appreciated: experience matters enormously when raising a child. This should surprise no one. And yet, every first-time parent behaves as though the universe has unveiled a never-before-seen creature, operating by occult rules, requiring fresh panic for every noise. What experience gives you is confidence. The kind that lives in your hands. The kind your spouse feels without you saying a word, simply by watching you move without hesitation. Read full post here This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit goodmenblueprint.substack.com

    7 min
  5. Podcast 10 - Fathers in Film: Was Walt a good Father?

    Feb 1

    Podcast 10 - Fathers in Film: Was Walt a good Father?

    Stealing Bread for Starving Children When asked, almost any father will confirm they would rather steal bread than allow his children to starve. and who can blame them? And if compared to Breaking Bad’s fundamental stated premise: What if Mr. Chips turned into Scarface - and the method was producing high quality Crystal Meth? Full post here This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit goodmenblueprint.substack.com

    14 min
  6. Podcast 9 - Why Your Son Needs to Be Bored

    Jan 31

    Podcast 9 - Why Your Son Needs to Be Bored

    We now know that modern digital platforms are engineered systems designed to capture attention through dopaminergic feedback loops, optimized relentlessly to keep us engaged, scrolling, and mildly dissatisfied. I highly recommend the documentary The Social Dilemma, which was my first eye-opening gut punch on just how effective these systems are at watching us, learning us, and gently herding us into endless loops with no natural stopping point. (Did you know that Instagram actually follows your eye-movements to better measure how you like each portion of the endless scroll? yes, it’s creepy.) Full post here This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit goodmenblueprint.substack.com

    10 min
  7. Podcast 8 - What makes a good father #1

    Jan 30

    Podcast 8 - What makes a good father #1

    When you ask people what makes a good father, opinions are like a******s: everyone has one. Patient. Kind. Present. Strong. Helpful. Wealthy. Smart. They’re not wrong. But they are incomplete. Like listing tools without asking what they are used for. easy to say. A man can be patient. Patiently apathetic, not caring one bit what actually happens to his son. Perhaps he’s too self-involved. Too worried about his own work, his own problems. Full post here. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit goodmenblueprint.substack.com

    8 min
  8. Podcast 7 - Annoying kids

    Jan 29

    Podcast 7 - Annoying kids

    It’s five o’clock on a Friday. Supermarket is full. People buying dinner. Beer. Nachos. With dip. Maybe some avocados and lime for that nice guac. Blonde hair bounces past me. A boy, about six. Short legs, explosive energy, a chocolate smear on the front of his shirt. It’s a sunny day. Probably the remains of a previous chocolate ice cream. First impression: a cute kid. He’s clutching a box of Ben & Jerry’s - the raw cookie dough one, that people love with a warlike passion. Full post here This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit goodmenblueprint.substack.com

    9 min
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