Parent From Love Podcast

Jerrod Zertuche

Parent From Love Podcast is for parents who want to stop yelling, stop doubting themselves, and start parenting with calm and connection. Learn nervous system–based tools, emotional regulation strategies, and heart-centered parenting approaches for raising emotionally resilient kids.

Episodes

  1. 4d ago

    All Behavior is Communication

    Hitting. Whining. Ignoring you (again). Teen shutdown. Toddler tantrums. What if none of this is “bad behavior”… and all of it is communication? In this episode, All Behavior is Communication. Even That., we reframe the most frustrating parenting moments through the lens of child development, emotional regulation, and nervous system science. If you’ve ever searched “why is my child acting out,” “how to handle tantrums,” “defiant child what to do,” “teenager won’t listen,” or “how to respond instead of react as a parent,” this episode will completely shift how you see behavior. Because behavior isn’t the problem—it’s the message. We break down how to decode your child’s behavior, understand the unmet needs behind tantrums, and respond in a way that builds connection, emotional safety, and trust—without ignoring boundaries. From toddlers melting down to teens shutting down, you’ll learn how to move from power struggles to partnership. ✨ In this episode, we cover: Why all behavior is communication (even defiance and disrespect)What tantrums, hitting, and whining are really telling youHow to handle toddler tantrums and big emotionsWhy kids “don’t listen” and what to do insteadCo-regulation and nervous system parentingSensory vs. skill vs. stress (and how to tell the difference)Gentle parenting strategies that actually work in real lifeHow curiosity reduces power struggles and builds connectionRepair after yelling (and why it matters for emotional development) You’ll walk away with simple, practical tools to better understand your child—and yourself—in the hardest moments. Because your child isn’t giving you a hard time… they’re having a hard time. And when you learn to listen beneath the behavior, everything changes. One moment of curiosity. One moment of connection. One message at a time. Connect with me on Social Media: @parentfromlove Instagram l Facebook l Youtube l Tiktok l Linkedin l Website l Email

    40 min
  2. Apr 13

    The Calm Parent Starter Pack: Regulate Your Nervous, Share Your Calm

    Mornings melting down over socks. Toddler tantrums. Big kid attitude. Your voice getting louder—and that instant regret that follows. In this episode, The Calm Parent Starter Pack, we’re breaking down how to stay calm when your child is not—and why it has nothing to do with willpower. If you’ve ever searched “how to stop yelling at my kids,” “how to handle tantrums,” “gentle parenting tools,” or “how to regulate your emotions as a parent,” this episode is for you. We dive into the science of nervous system regulation, explaining why parents snap, how emotional regulation actually works, and what to do in real-time when your child is melting down. You’ll learn the difference between top-down vs. bottom-up regulation, why co-regulation matters, and how to shift from reactive parenting to calm, responsive parenting. Plus—simple, practical tools you can use immediately (even if you’re already overwhelmed). This isn’t about being a perfect parent. It’s about learning how to stay grounded, present, and connected—especially in the hard moments. ✨ In this episode, we cover: How to stay calm during tantrums and meltdownsWhy parents yell (and how to stop yelling)Nervous system regulation for parents and kidsGentle parenting strategies that actually workCo-regulation and emotional safetyTop-down vs. bottom-up regulation explained simplyBreathwork for stress and overwhelmMindful parenting tools for real-life chaos Whether you’re parenting a toddler, preschooler, or big kid, these tools will help you respond instead of react—and build a calmer, more connected home. You’re not “losing it”—your nervous system is overloaded. And the good news? You can rewire it. One breath. One pause. One “wiggle it out” moment at a time. 00:00 Welcome and Overview 01:05 Morning Meltdown Story 02:36 Co Regulation in Action 05:11 Why Parents Snap 06:37 Body First Not Willpower 09:56 Shame and Anger Loop 12:05 Triggers and Brain Predictions 15:28 Compassionate Reframe 18:55 SIFT Your Inner Experience 20:39 Guided Breath Practice 22:13 Body Awareness Check 22:57 Replaying the Trigger 24:23 Sending Love to Tension 25:13 Integration Over Resistance 26:44 Control Versus Safety 27:33 Validation Builds Connection 30:45 Autonomy and Cooperation 33:58 Calm Parent Toolkit 34:43 Bottom Up Regulation 41:41 Breath as Regulator 44:35 Wiggle and Name It 45:35 Wrap Up and Next Episode Connect with me on Social Media: @parentfromlove Instagram l Facebook l Youtube l Tiktok l Linkedin l Website l Email

    46 min

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Parent From Love Podcast is for parents who want to stop yelling, stop doubting themselves, and start parenting with calm and connection. Learn nervous system–based tools, emotional regulation strategies, and heart-centered parenting approaches for raising emotionally resilient kids.