La Jefa Unfiltered

Janet Pabon

Welcome to La Jefa Unfiltered — the podcast created for women, by a woman who knows your voice matters.   This is a space for real conversations, unfiltered truth, and growth without apology. A space where women are empowered, inspired, and reminded that they are seen, heard, y más que enough — exactly as they are.   Here, we talk confidence, purpose, self-love, balance, and the courage it takes to step fully into your power. We celebrate strength and softness, resilience, authenticity, and the beauty of becoming.   No masks. No perfection. Just real life, honest conversations, and empowerment — sin filtros.

  1. 3d ago

    Episode 14. Healing Loudly: Taking Up Space Without Apologizing

    Welcome back to another episode of La Jefa Unfiltered. I’m your host, Janet, and as always, I am so grateful you’re here spending a little part of your day with me. If you’ve been listening these past few weeks, you know we’ve been on a healing journey together. We talked about romanticizing your healing era, creating routines that nurture you instead of drain you. Then we talked about the power of saying no, because healing often begins with protecting your peace. Last week, we gave ourselves permission to rediscover who we are, especially after life, relationships, motherhood, careers, or simply time have caused us to lose pieces of ourselves. Today, we’re continuing that conversation because healing isn’t something you check off a list. It’s layered. Every lesson builds on the last, and every season asks something different of us. Today’s episode is called “Healing Loudly: Taking Up Space Without Apologizing.” Because once you start healing, something interesting begins to happen. You stop settling. You stop questioning your worth. You stop asking for permission to exist as your authentic self. You begin to realize that shrinking yourself never protected your peace—it only made you invisible. Healing isn’t just about recovering from what hurt you. It’s about becoming the version of yourself that no longer feels the need to apologize for taking up space. And that can feel uncomfortable. Especially if you’ve spent years making yourself smaller to keep other people comfortable. So today, we’re talking about what it looks like to stop shrinking yourself in your relationships, your career, your friendships, and even within your own family. Because healing isn’t meant to make you quieter. It’s meant to make you freer. So grab your coffee, your tea, or take me along on your walk, and let’s have an honest conversation. Let’s get into it.

  2. Jul 2

    Episode 12. You Don't Have to do it All

    Before we dive into today’s episode, I want to start with something from the heart. First, I want to acknowledge that the past month has been incredibly difficult for me and my family. As many of you know, my dad underwent open-heart surgery, and during that time, life looked very different than it normally does. There were moments filled with uncertainty, fear, exhaustion, and a lot of emotions that I didn’t always have the words for. Like many eldest daughters, I immediately shifted into caretaker mode. I focused on my family, on helping where I could, on supporting my parents, and on making sure everyone around me was okay. But something else happened during this season. I was forced to practice what I preach. I had to give myself permission to pause. Permission to step away. Permission to rest. Permission to put family first. Permission to prioritize my mental and emotional well-being. That’s why Episode 12 took a little longer to arrive. Not because I didn’t care. Not because I wasn’t committed. But because sometimes the strongest thing we can do is recognize when we need to slow down. As women, as Latinas, as Jefa’s, lady bosses and especially as eldest daughters, we’re often taught that our value comes from how much we can carry. How much we can handle. How much we can sacrifice. But today’s conversation is about challenging that belief. Today’s episode is called: “You Don’t Have to Do It All.” We’re talking about the pressure of being the eldest daughter, the unofficial family manager, the fixer, the caretaker, the strong one, and why learning to rest isn’t selfish, it’s necessary. So, grab your cafecito, or a glass of your favorite wine, take a deep breath, and let’s have an honest conversation.

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Welcome to La Jefa Unfiltered — the podcast created for women, by a woman who knows your voice matters.   This is a space for real conversations, unfiltered truth, and growth without apology. A space where women are empowered, inspired, and reminded that they are seen, heard, y más que enough — exactly as they are.   Here, we talk confidence, purpose, self-love, balance, and the courage it takes to step fully into your power. We celebrate strength and softness, resilience, authenticity, and the beauty of becoming.   No masks. No perfection. Just real life, honest conversations, and empowerment — sin filtros.