The Iconic Freedom Podcast

thechristiedurham
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THE ICONIC FREEDOM PODCAST — DESCRIPTION The Iconic Freedom Podcast is for the woman who’s done shrinking. Done performing. Done living a life that doesn’t match her power. Hosted by Christie Durham — Freedom Lifestyle Coach, mom of two, wife, and the woman who rebuilt her identity from the inside out — this show dives deep into the real work of becoming a free, iconic woman. Inside these episodes, you’ll confront the patterns that keep you small, break the cycles that keep you stuck, and step into the identity you’ve been avoiding because you know she demands more from you. We go all in on identity, self-trust, boundaries, confidence, healing, faith, and the uncomfortable truths that turn regular women into iconic ones. If you’re ready to stop abandoning yourself, rise into your power, and build a life that actually feels good on the inside — not just one that photographs well — this podcast is your new home.

  1. May 14

    17. A Moment for Mama: Your Permission Slip to Put Yourself First

    Hello, beautiful. This one is for the mamas. For the women who are always caring for everyone else, putting themselves last on the list. For the women who were celebrated on Mother's Day by... celebrating everyone else. Today, this moment is for you.   In this short and deeply loving solo episode, Christie Durham holds space for the mothers who feel like they're in a chokehold of responsibility. This isn't a typical episode with lessons and strategies; it's a guided moment of pause. It's an invitation to grab your favorite drink, find a quiet space for just 10 minutes, and breathe.   This is your time to be grateful for you. To celebrate what you've overcome, to acknowledge your strength, and to tell yourself how deeply loved and worthy you are. You deserve this moment.   KEY MOMENTS: 01:32 - A Message to Moms: It's Okay to Put Yourself First 02:30 - The Unspoken Truth: Moms Are Always Last (Even on Mother's Day) 04:00 - Your 10-Minute Self-Celebration Ritual 05:30 - A Moment to Be Grateful for YOU 09:30 - Affirmations: "I Love You, Christie." 14:30 - Christie Gets Vulnerable About Her Own Journey as a Mom 17:30 - A Challenge: Take 10 Minutes for Yourself Every Week   JOIN THE PINK LIST: Want early access to every offer, every drop, and every movement inside my pink world? The Pink List is where all the magic goes first. Join via the link in my bio on Instagram.   RESOURCES: The Becoming Activation Workshop: Your first step to an iconic, free life. https://christiedurham.com/becomingiconic   STAY CONNECTED: Instagram : It’s Christie Durham @thechristiedurham   SUPPORT ‘THE ICONIC FREEDOM PODCAST”: Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts to help support the show! Share this episode with a woman who is ready to stop surviving and start living.

  2. Apr 30

    16. What Do You Actually Want? A Guide to Unfiltered Clarity

    "What do you want?" It sounds like a simple question, but for so many women, it's the hardest one to answer. We've been taught to be practical, to be realistic, and to consider everyone else first. We've become so disconnected from our own desires that when we finally ask ourselves what we want, all we hear is what we should want.   In this powerful solo episode, Christie Durham gets to the root of why so many women struggle with clarity. She explains that we don't lack desire; we lack the safety to admit what we truly want. This isn't about thinking harder; it's about getting honest. Christie shares a simple yet profound framework to help you bypass your brain's filters and reconnect with the truth of what your soul is craving.   If you're tired of living in survival mode and ready to start making choices from a place of want instead of need, this episode is your starting line.   KEY MOMENTS: 00:48 - The Real Reason You Don't Know What You Want 02:04 - The Filters That Block Your Clarity: "What Makes Sense?" & "What's Responsible?" 04:11 - Honesty Over Hard Thinking: The Key to True Clarity 05:30 - A Better Question: "What Feels Good to Me?" 06:30 - The Framework: What Do I Want More Of? What Do I Want Less Of? 08:12 - Your Desires Are Not Random; They Are Information 10:08 - You Don't Find Clarity by Forcing It; You Find It By Coming Back to Yourself   JOIN THE PINK LIST: Want early access to every offer, every drop, and every movement inside my pink world? The Pink List is where all the magic goes first. Join via the link in my bio on Instagram.   RESOURCES: The Becoming Activation Workshop: Your first step to an iconic, free life. https://christiedurham.com/becomingiconic   STAY CONNECTED: Instagram : It’s Christie Durham @thechristiedurham   SUPPORT ‘THE ICONIC FREEDOM PODCAST”: Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts to help support the show! Share this episode with a woman who is ready to stop surviving and start living.

  3. Apr 28

    15. The FREE Life Method: How to Stop Speaking Against Yourself

    The energy you give to something is the energy you receive back. If you're constantly dwelling on what's wrong, how overwhelmed you are, or what isn't working, you're unintentionally reinforcing a life you don't want. It's time to take your power back.   In this transformative solo episode, Christie Durham gets to the core of how our thoughts and words create our reality. She explains why most people are unconsciously speaking against their own lives and staying stuck in a loop of negativity. But this isn't about toxic positivity. It's about intentional redirection. Christie introduces her signature framework, The FREE Life    Method (Feel, Reframe, Embody, Execute), a powerful, step-by-step guide to move you from survival mode into deep self-trust. If you're ready to stop reacting to your life and start co-creating it, this episode is your blueprint.   KEY MOMENTS: 01:14 - The Core Principle: What You Put Out is What You Receive Back 03:33 - Are You Speaking Against Your Own Life? (Common Examples) 05:59 - This Isn't About Forcing Positivity; It's About Acknowledging What's Real 08:46 - The Shift: How to Choose What You Reinforce 12:16 - Introducing The FREE Life Method: Your Path from Survival to Self-Trust 13:41 - F is for FEEL: The Power of Nervous System Awareness 15:00 - R is for REFRAME: Intentional Redirection of Your Thoughts 17:22 - E is for EMBODY: Moving Like the Woman You're Becoming 19:43 - E is for EXECUTE: Taking Small, Grounded, Aligned Action JOIN THE PINK LIST: Want early access to every offer, every drop, and every movement inside my pink world? The Pink List is where all the magic goes first. Join via the link in my bio on Instagram.   RESOURCES: The Becoming Activation Workshop: Your first step to an iconic, free life. https://christiedurham.com/becomingiconic   STAY CONNECTED: Instagram : It’s Christie Durham @thechristiedurham   SUPPORT ‘THE ICONIC FREEDOM PODCAST”: Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts to help support the show! Share this episode with a woman who is ready to stop surviving and start living.

  4. Apr 16

    14. Doing It Messy: My Real-Time Toolkit for Tough Seasons

    This is the episode where the script gets thrown out. In a moment of radical honesty, Christie Durham shares the truth behind her creative process and makes a commitment to you, her community: from now on, every episode comes straight from the heart.   This isn't just a behind-the-scenes look; it's a real-time walkthrough of navigating a tough season. Christie gets vulnerable about the mental and emotional rollercoaster of building her new brick-and-mortar business and shares the exact toolkit she's using to stay grounded. From radical self-awareness to finding energetic outlets and communicating your needs, this episode is a masterclass in how an iconic woman walks through the fire.   If you're in a tough season of your own, this is your guide to not just surviving it, but using it as fuel for your growth.   KEY MOMENTS: 01:46 - The Honest Truth: Dropping the Scripts & Doing It Messy 08:04 - The Tough Season: The Realities of Building a New Business 10:29 - Tool 1: Radical Self-Awareness (Asking, "Am I the problem?") 13:00 - Tool 2: Find Your Energetic Outlet (Hot Works & Mahjong) 15:44 - Tool 3 & 4: Get in Your Bible & Journal It Out 17:01 - The Bonus Tool: Defining & Communicating Your Needs to Your Support System 19:42 - The Promise: This is How the Podcast Will Be From Now On   RESOURCES: The Becoming Activation Workshop: Your first step to an iconic, free life. https://christiedurham.com/becomingiconic   STAY CONNECTED: Instagram : It’s Christie Durham @thechristiedurham   SUPPORT ‘THE ICONIC FREEDOM PODCAST”: Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts to help support the show! Share this episode with a woman who is ready to stop surviving and start living.

  5. Apr 4

    13. The Hidden Cost of Being "The Strong One"

    Hello, my friend. Today, we're talking about the badge of honor so many of us wear without ever questioning the cost: being "the strong one." The reliable one. The one who can handle anything. The world praises this woman, but what people don't see is how heavy it is to hold everything together.   In this deeply insightful solo episode, Christie Durham gets real about the loneliness and exhaustion that hide behind a capable exterior. She unpacks the invisible emotional labor women carry, and the pivotal realization that her "strength" had become a shield against vulnerability. This isn't about being less capable; it's about redefining what real strength looks like.   If you're tired of carrying everything by yourself, this episode is your permission slip to soften, to receive, and to remember that you were never meant to do this life alone.   KEY MOMENTS: 01:46 - The Badge of Honor We All Wear: Being "The Strong One" 03:38 - The Hidden Cost: When Strength Becomes Self-Protection 04:52 - The Invisible Emotional Labor of Being the Peacemaker 05:30 - The Loneliness of Being Capable 06:33 - The Truth Bomb: "We've Trained Ourselves Not to Need It" 07:37 - Redefining Strength: It's Honesty, Not Invincibility 09:17 - How Christie Found Community & Support IRL (in a Mahjong Club!) 11:39 - The Question to Ask Yourself: When Did You Last Let Someone Support You?   JOIN THE PINK LIST: Want early access to every offer, every drop, and every movement inside my pink world? The Pink List is where all the magic goes first. Join via the link in my bio on Instagram.   RESOURCES: The Becoming Activation Workshop: Your first step to an iconic, free life. https://christiedurham.com/becomingiconic   STAY CONNECTED: Instagram : It’s Christie Durham @thechristiedurham   SUPPORT ‘THE ICONIC FREEDOM PODCAST”: Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts to help support the show! Share this episode with a woman who is ready to stop surviving and start living.

  6. Mar 19

    12. High-Functioning Doesn't Mean Aligned: The Ache of Disconnection

    Your life looks perfect on the outside. You’re the strong one, the capable one, the one who handles everything. People think you have your shit together. So why do you feel so disconnected on the inside? If you've ever felt this, hear this now: You are not broken. You are not ungrateful. You are simply disconnected from yourself.   In this deeply moving solo episode, Christie Durham names the unspoken ache of the high-functioning woman. She gets vulnerable about her own experience of "functioning, not living" of being so focused on performing strength and responsibility that she lost the connection to herself. Christie shares how this showed up in her relationship with her daughter and the raw, honest story of her own upbringing that taught her to suppress affection.   This episode is a mirror for every woman who is tired of just "handling it" and is ready to start truly living. It’s a permission slip to admit you’re not fine and the first step to coming back home to yourself.   KEY MOMENTS: 01:46 - The Unspoken Feeling: Disconnected, Not Depressed 03:10 - The Loneliness of Being "The Strong One" 04:19 - The Truth Bomb: High-Functioning Does Not Mean Aligned 06:21 - The Turning Point: "I wasn't disconnected from my life, I was disconnected from myself." 09:07 - Christie's Vulnerable Story: Not Being Present with Her Daughter 16:11 - An Actionable Tool: How to Be More Present Today 17:10 - The Painful Origin of "I Love You" & Physical Affection   JOIN THE PINK LIST: Want early access to every offer, every drop, and every movement inside my pink world? The Pink List is where all the magic goes first. Join via the link in my bio on Instagram.   RESOURCES: The Becoming Activation Workshop: Your first step to an iconic, free life. https://christiedurham.com/becomingiconic   STAY CONNECTED: Instagram : It’s Christie Durham @thechristiedurham   SUPPORT ‘THE ICONIC FREEDOM PODCAST”: Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts to help support the show! Share this episode with a woman who is ready to stop surviving and start living.

  7. Mar 16

    Becoming Iconic: The Identity + Self-Trust Activation

    In this episode, Christie is sharing the heart behind her new on-demand experience, the Becoming Iconic Activation, and why this work matters so much right now.   Most women aren’t confused about what they want. They’re just disconnected from their own knowing. Over time, we learn to override ourselves to keep the peace, keep life moving, or keep everyone else comfortable. Eventually, that pattern of self-abandonment becomes automatic.    The Becoming Iconic Activation was created to interrupt that pattern. Listen in to hear why so many women feel disconnected, how the pattern of overriding yourself shows up, and why this simple but powerful experience is designed to help you slow down, reconnect to your inner authority, and finally hear yourself again.   KEY MOMENTS: Why So Many Women Feel Disconnected from Themselves The Pattern of Overriding Your Own Knowing for Others' Comfort How Identity and Self-Trust Shape Your Daily Decisions Why Clarity Alone Isn’t Enough Without Integration A Look Inside the Becoming Iconic Activation Experience   THE BECOMING ICONIC ACTIVATION: If this conversation resonated, the Becoming Iconic Activation is available now on demand.   This 60-minute identity and self-trust activation includes: A pre-workbook to prepare for the experience The Becoming Iconic Activation session A post-workbook to help you integrate the shifts This is for the woman ready to stop abandoning herself and start trusting her own clarity again.    Explore the activation via the link below. https://christiedurham.com/becomingiconic   JOIN THE PINK LIST: Want early access to every offer, every drop, and every movement inside my pink world? The Pink List is where all the magic goes first. Join via the link in my bio on Instagram.   STAY CONNECTED: Instagram: @thechristydurham Website: https://christiedurham.com/becomingiconic SUPPORT ‘THE ICONIC FREEDOM PODCAST”: Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts to help support the show! Share this episode with a woman who is ready to hear herself again.

  8. Mar 12

    11. Answering the Voice That Whispers, "Is This It?"

    Your life looks good on paper. You've done what you were "supposed" to do. And yet, there's a quiet voice inside that asks, "Is this it?" Most women are taught to silence that voice, to label it as ungrateful or greedy. The truth? That voice isn't greed. It's guidance.   In this powerful solo episode, Christie Durham validates the ache of wanting more—not more things, but more depth, more truth, more alignment. She dismantles the belief that you should be content with a life that doesn't light you up and reminds you that the desires on your heart were put there because they are meant for you.   This episode is more than a pep talk; it includes a guided 7-Minute Clarity Reset to help you cut through the noise, connect with your body's truth, and take the first small step toward the life you're actually meant to live.   KEY MOMENTS: 01:46 - The Feeling No One Names: Wanting "More" 02:53 - Why You Immediately Silence That Voice (& Why You Should Stop) 03:24 - Your Desires Are Not Greedy, They're Guidance from God 07:56 - The Voice Isn't Greed, It's Guidance 09:36 - Your "More" and My "More" Are Two Different Things 14:14 - The 7-Minute Clarity Reset: A Guided Practice 17:01 - The Equation: How to Know if It's Truth or Anxiety 20:05 - Freedom is Feeling Safe Inside Yourself   JOIN THE PINK LIST: Want early access to every offer, every drop, and every movement inside my pink world? The Pink List is where all the magic goes first. Join via the link in my bio on Instagram.   RESOURCES: The Becoming Activation Workshop: Your first step to an iconic, free life. https://christiedurham.com/becomingiconic   STAY CONNECTED: Instagram : It’s Christie Durham @thechristiedurham   SUPPORT ‘THE ICONIC FREEDOM PODCAST”: Please Subscribe, Rate, and Review with 5 stars on Apple Podcasts to help support the show! Share this episode with a woman who is ready to stop surviving and start living.

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THE ICONIC FREEDOM PODCAST — DESCRIPTION The Iconic Freedom Podcast is for the woman who’s done shrinking. Done performing. Done living a life that doesn’t match her power. Hosted by Christie Durham — Freedom Lifestyle Coach, mom of two, wife, and the woman who rebuilt her identity from the inside out — this show dives deep into the real work of becoming a free, iconic woman. Inside these episodes, you’ll confront the patterns that keep you small, break the cycles that keep you stuck, and step into the identity you’ve been avoiding because you know she demands more from you. We go all in on identity, self-trust, boundaries, confidence, healing, faith, and the uncomfortable truths that turn regular women into iconic ones. If you’re ready to stop abandoning yourself, rise into your power, and build a life that actually feels good on the inside — not just one that photographs well — this podcast is your new home.

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  • Creator
    thechristiedurham
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Explicit
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