StillPoint Logic Podcast

Hila Eigner

Some days your own head is the hardest place to be. You replay conversations, talk yourself out of things before you even try, and understand what you should feel while feeling something completely different. StillPoint Logic is a podcast for anyone who has been there. Each episode explores thought patterns that influence how you feel, and works through them with reflection and logic. The ideas are practical and meant to become tools you return to when you are stuck, overwhelmed, or doubting yourself. I am your reflection companion, and I hope this podcast makes you feel good.

  1. 6d ago

    Why Are We Quick to Judge (S3 E1)

    A close friend invited me to a dinner party. I walked in, everyone smiled, everyone was welcoming, and within three minutes my mind had already decided I wasn't dressed cool enough, her outfit was strange, and the whole group thought I was chubby. I stood at the edge of the room, then worried they would think I was a snob for standing there. In the end I hid in the washroom with my phone for fifteen minutes, found a little courage, walked back out, and had a wonderful night. Nobody at that party even really talked to me, and I still judged. This is the first episode of Season 3, and with gathering season coming, I want to share what those fifteen minutes taught me. We judge fastest when we know the least about a situation and have the least courage in front of the people around us. We do it to strangers, we do it to our partners and children, and we do it to ourselves. In this episode, I cover: Why most judgments start in us, with no trigger out there, and why the speed of a judgment is the tell.The magnifying glass we place over the people we love, and Gibran's image of two trees growing side by side.Confidence as a changing level of knowledge and courage.A five step checklist for the next time you start building a case at a family dinner.A guided reflection to turn the same questions toward yourself. Enjoy, Hila I'm not a therapist, think of this as guided reflection, and me as your reflection companion. #StillPointLogic #HilaEigner #QuickToJudge #Gibran #InnerWork #PersonalGrowth

    Why Are We Quick to Judge (S3 E1)

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Some days your own head is the hardest place to be. You replay conversations, talk yourself out of things before you even try, and understand what you should feel while feeling something completely different. StillPoint Logic is a podcast for anyone who has been there. Each episode explores thought patterns that influence how you feel, and works through them with reflection and logic. The ideas are practical and meant to become tools you return to when you are stuck, overwhelmed, or doubting yourself. I am your reflection companion, and I hope this podcast makes you feel good.