Chaps Out

Men Coming Out Later in Life

UK-based Podcast where Gay and Bisexual Men share their stories of Coming Out Later in Life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

  1. 12h ago

    A Love Lost, A New Life Discovered- Coming Out at 58: Mark | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott talks with Mark. Originally from Zimbabwe, Mark has lived in the UK for over 24 years. After 32 years with his wife and raising two daughters together, his world was turned upside down when she died suddenly in 2023. After her death, Mark reflected on his own life and feelings he'd kept buried since his teenage years. In his late 50s, he came out as gay and began exploring a side of himself he'd never felt able to before. Mark talks about his childhood in Zimbabwe, the heartbreak of losing his wife, telling his family, and a chance encounter on holiday in Sitges that led to an unexpected relationship. It's a moving story about grief, love and finding the courage to start a new chapter, while never forgetting the life that came before. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it really helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #comingoutstory #lgbtq #Gay #comingout #authenticity #personalgrowth #mentalhealth #lgbtqstories #ChapsOut #mentalhealthawareness #mentalwellness Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    A Love Lost, A New Life Discovered- Coming Out at 58: Mark | CHAPS OUT
  2. Oct 20

    I’m Still Married To My Wife- Coming Out at 56: Paul Dadds | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott talks to Paul Dadds, who had been married for decades when he finally began to explore what it meant to be gay. He was 56 when he came out, telling his wife just a few days after his first kiss with a man- an experience which he describes as feeling like fireworks going off in his head. Paul found himself ex-communicated from his Church, but coming out didn't mean walking away from his marriage. Paul talks honestly about the effect on his wife, the religious beliefs he'd lived with for much of his life, and how the two of them have found a way forward together. He also shares what he wishes he'd understood earlier, and why there's no single right way to come out. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it really helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #comingoutstory #lgbtq #Gay #comingout #authenticity #personalgrowth #mentalhealth #lgbtqstories #ChapsOut #mentalhealthawareness #mentalwellness Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    I’m Still Married To My Wife- Coming Out at 56: Paul Dadds | CHAPS OUT
  3. Aug 11

    I Confronted My School Bully- Coming Out at 39: Chris Ebbs | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott talks to Chris Ebbs, who came out at 39 after years of questioning his sexuality while married to a woman. Chris shares how the support of his parents, friends and colleagues helped him find the confidence to come out in his own time, the challenges and acceptance he experienced at work, and how coming out ultimately gave him the strength to be his true self. Chris also opens up about being badly bullied at school, the impact that had on him, and his decision years later to confront one of the people who bullied him and finally find closure. Chris offers honest and encouraging advice for anyone considering coming out later in life. Most of all, his story is one of resilience, acceptance and the freedom that comes from finally being yourself.Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ComingOut #LGBTQ #Bisexual #ComingOutStory #Fatherhood #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #LGBTQStories #ChapsOut Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    I Confronted My School Bully- Coming Out at 39: Chris Ebbs | CHAPS OUT
  4. Aug 7 ·  Bonus

    Why Heartstopper Matters- Alan Hill | CHAPS OUT CULTURE

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott is joined again by Chaps Out guest Alan Hill who shares the LGBTQ+ films and TV shows that have stayed with him over the years. From the impact of TV shows such as Heartstopper to memorable films like The Birdcage and Torch Song Trilogy. Alan also discovers some of the other titles recommended by previous guests. If you’re looking for inspiration, this episode is packed with plenty of heartfelt recommendations. If you enjoyed this episode of Chaps Out Culture please subscribe or follow wherever you listen, give us a 5-star rating and Share to help the podcast reach anyone who may need to hear it. Your feedback helps me make the best podcast I can. And if you missed it, don’t forget to check out the full interview on the main episode of Chaps Out. Thanks again for listening and take care.If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #LGBTQ #QueerCulture #Podcast #ChapsOut #LGBTQPodcast #QueerVoices #RepresentationMatters #Pride #TorchSongTrilogy #Heartstopper #Skins #WillandGrace #Birdcage #GayCulture #LGBTQStories #LGBTQHistory #PodcastRecommendations #ListenNow #QueerMedia #LGBTQCommunity #InclusiveVoices Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Why Heartstopper Matters- Alan Hill | CHAPS OUT CULTURE
  5. Aug 4

    I Didn't Know I Was Gay- Coming Out at 30: Alan Hill | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of #ChapsOut, host Grant Philpott is joined by Alan Hill who shares his journey of realising he was gay at the age of 30 and how the family life he had always wanted was turned upside down. Alan talks about the struggles of his early childhood and his confusion when he discovered himself. He reflects on the reactions of friends and family, and the challenges of coming out to his wife and children. This is a moving story about courage, understanding and the impact that honesty can have on the people we care about most. If you've ever struggled with being yourself or wondered whether authenticity is worth the risk, this conversation contains essential advice and lived experience. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ComingOut #LaterInLife #LGBTQ #ComingOutStory #Fatherhood #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #LGBTQStories #ChapsOut Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    I Didn't Know I Was Gay- Coming Out at 30: Alan Hill | CHAPS OUT

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UK-based Podcast where Gay and Bisexual Men share their stories of Coming Out Later in Life. chapsoutpod.substack.com