What Was She Thinking?

Sharla Brown
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What Was She Thinking delivers thoughtful, engaging reviews of movies, TV shows, and cultural moments that shape how women—especially women of color—see themselves and the world. Through insightful commentary and honest conversation, we delve into representation, identity, and the stories that shape our perspectives. Expect episodes that make you laugh, reflect, and feel inspired—because you are wonderful, worthy, and deeply valuable.

  1. 5d ago

    Diarra from Detroit Part 1: Is Diarra Addicted to Distraction?

    In this episode of What Was She Thinking?, we dive into the first four episodes of season two of Diarra from Detroit—and once again, Diarra has found herself in the middle of more drama than one person should probably have time for. As much as we love watching Diarra jump headfirst into mysteries, crimes, and other people's problems, we have to ask: Is her constant need for distraction keeping her from dealing with her own life? This season, Diarra has plenty to unpack. From complicated relationships and emotional men to unresolved questions about love, family, and what she really wants for her future, there is definitely some “work” that needs to be done. But instead of sitting still long enough to deal with it, Diarra does what Diarra does best—finds another mystery to solve. We also discuss her incredible group of friends, who we love dearly... even though they may enable a few of her shenanigans. Plus, we get into the overstimulating beauty of Black family dynamics, dealing with emotional men, and why this season feels like a modern-day adventure reminiscent of Indiana Jones and The Goonies. So grab your clues, call your therapist, and join us as we ask: What was Diarra thinking—and are we sometimes a little more like her than we want to admit? TIMESTAMPS 0:00 – Greetings, current happenings, parenting older kids, and parental paranoia 10:30 – Introduction to Diarra from Detroit and comparisons to Insecure 15:30 – Season one recap and what makes Diarra different 20:00 – Season two begins: the cookout and Diarra, queen of distraction 24:00 – Funny moments, Black family overstimulation, and new characters 27:30 – Chris, Diarra's family, and men who cry 32:30 – Diarra keeps playing detective and avoiding her own problems 39:00 – The search for Ron's desk and new character additions 41:00 – Community quirks, Diarra and Chris with the baby, and funny moments 45:00 – Diarra and Chris visit the therapist 47:00 – The fake desk, children, and what Diarra really wants 52:00 – Chris gets arrested, Diarra avoids hard decisions, and the Indiana Jones feeling of the season 56:00 – Royce (Method Man), Danger, and Detroit's role in the story 1:00:00 – The Masonic Temple, disguises, Bill Duke, and episode three 1:05:00 – Episode four, Booker, and BET+ versus Paramount storytelling 1:09:00 – Decoding the treasure map and enabling Diarra's distractions 1:13:00 – Cartier Kelly, more laughs, and the search for $100 million 1:21:00 – What Was She Thinking? Picks from Sharla and Kim

    Diarra from Detroit Part 1: Is Diarra Addicted to Distraction?

  2. Aug 29

    Ride or Die Episodes 5–8: Toxic Friendships, Trust & What Was She Thinking

    In this episode of What Was She Thinking?, Kim and Sharla dive into episodes 5–8 of Ride or Die on Prime Video—and let’s just say, the show took a turn! After the first four episodes had us convinced the series might be a little too predictable, episodes 5–8 had us laughing, questioning everybody’s decisions, and rooting for these besties to make it out on top. Along the way, we ask some bigger questions: What does it really mean to be a good friend? Why do we return to people and situations we know aren’t good for us? And just how horrifying is it to be tortured by being left alone in the dark with nothing but your own thoughts? We also talk about Debbie and Judith’s unlikely friendship, Ana’s obsession with destroying their relationship, the dangers of operating on autopilot, and whether women are sometimes taught to live smaller than they should. Plus, we get into discernment, toxic friendships, trusting yourself, and the moments that had us saying, “Girl… WHAT are you doing?!” Join Kim and Sharla as they break down episodes 5–8 of Ride or Die and ask the question we’re always asking: What Was She Thinking? ⚠️ Spoiler Alert: This episode discusses major plot points from episodes 5–8. 00:00–03:00 — Beginning of the School Year 03:00–07:00 — Initial Thoughts on Episodes 5–8 Our thoughts on the second half of the series and finding a good friend. 07:00–14:00 — Episode 5: Debbie Gets Daring Is Debbie transforming—or simply discovering who she really is? 14:30–17:00 — We Realize We Are NOT Dangerous 😂 Debbie and Judith may be the same kind of dangerous—and maybe that’s why they make such good friends. 19:30–24:00 — Episode 6: Why Didn’t the Former Assassin Protect Herself? One of the biggest head-scratchers of the episode. 24:00–31:00 — Ana’s Backstory & Toxic Friendships We unpack Ana’s history, her “crazy” friends, and how the agency shaped her. 31:00–40:00 — Ana Tracks Debbie & David Is Still Alive?! Ana is coming for Debbie, while David proves survival and common sense are two different things. 40:00–45:00 — Episode 7: Ana Wants to Destroy Their Friendship The cops have Debbie, but she remains loyal to Judith. Meanwhile, Queenie and Judith make a plan to deal with Ana. 45:00–55:30 — Ana Kidnaps Debbie Ana tries to destroy Debbie and Judith’s relationship—and Debbie makes a decision that changes everything. 55:30–1:08:00 — Episode 8: Back to What’s Familiar Debbie is back home with David. We ask: Are women sometimes trained to live small? 1:08:00–1:11:00 — Judith Falls Into the Trap Again Judith returns to the Director. What happens when you stop trusting yourself? 1:13:00–1:17:00 — Ana Leaves Judith in the Dark A psychologically disturbing moment leads to a Thelma & Louise-style ending, and Queenie makes a major decision about the agency. 1:17:00–1:19:00 — Season Two Setup Debbie and Judith think it’s over—but they don’t know they’re still being watched. 1:19:00–1:25:00 — What Was She Thinking? Choices Kim and Sharla make their picks, predictions, and questionable decisions.

    Ride or Die Episodes 5–8: Toxic Friendships, Trust & What Was She Thinking

  3. Aug 21

    Ride or Die Review: Octavia Spencer, Friendship, Risk & Starting Over

    On this episode of What Was She Thinking?, we review the first four episodes of Ride or Die and ask: Are we really the ride-or-die type? Well… not if it involves killing people, burying bodies, stealing money, or jumping off moving trains. Like… no. 😂 We found plenty of moments that were hard to believe, but maybe that's part of the fun. We love seeing women of a certain age kick butt, take risks, and do things we don't typically see them do on screen. We especially love seeing Octavia Spencer take on a role that feels so different from some of her previous characters. But when Debbie becomes just as daring as her assassin bestie Judith, played by Hannah Waddingham, we started asking questions. How believable is Debbie's transformation? Have we seen this storyline before? And would Ride or Die have worked better as a movie? More importantly, we connected with the heart of the series: What happens when your life is completely uprooted at the age when you thought things were finally supposed to be settling down? We also explore friendship and how the people closest to us can help us see things about ourselves we've been avoiding. Is Judith helping Debbie find herself, or pulling her into a life she never would have chosen? Plus, we discuss age discrimination, starting over, losing the things we depend on, questionable character decisions, and whether we're brave—or crazy—enough to be anyone's ride or die. Listen as we break down Episodes 1–4 of Ride or Die and decide whether we'd actually be willing to ride… or if we'd be getting off at the next stop. Timestamps 0:00–10:30 — Introduction Hair products we're using; learning to love your curl pattern 10:30–20:00 — Initial Thoughts & The Leads Where we've seen the actors; who the characters remind us of; Octavia Spencer's new role; have we seen this storyline before?; movie or series? 20:00–25:00 — Are We the Illegal Ride-or-Die Type? Would we really go this far for a friend? 25:00–31:26 — Episode One: Meet Whiptail & Judith Debbie and Judith are opposites; age discrimination; being an assassin; finding work as you get older 31:30–33:00 — When Something You Depend On Ends Debbie's marriage ends and she faces an uncertain future 33:00–39:30 — Debbie Discovers the Truth Debbie learns about Judith's profession 39:30–42:20 — Episode Two: How Did They Meet? Questionable decisions; was Debbie and David's love believable? 42:30–47:00 — “This Is All I Have” Judith visits Cathy; Debbie visits the Albanians alone 47:30–49:30 — Is the Friendship Problematic? Could Debbie really be as risky and fearless as she appears? 49:30–56:00 — Episode Three: Friends, Fear & Fighting Back Sam and Queenie; Debbie's fight back; how risk-ready are we? 56:00–59:00 — Judith Calls Debbie Out Pretending to be someone you're not 59:00–1:02:00 — Episode Four: Friend or Job? Judith's manipulation; friendship versus her job 1:04:00–1:09:00 — Seeing Things Differently Debbie opens Judith's eyes; both women begin trying something new 1:09:30–1:11:30 — Final Thoughts 1:11:30–1:17:00 — What Was She Thinking? Picks

    Ride or Die Review: Octavia Spencer, Friendship, Risk & Starting Over

  4. Jul 31

    The Dutton Ranch Season 1 Episodes 5–9 Review | Family Secrets, Betrayal & Ending Explained

    In this episode, Sharla and Kim dive into Episodes 5–9 of The Dutton Ranch Season 1. Together, they explore Beulah's choices and the lengths she—and the Ten Petal family—are willing to go to in order to protect their family name. They also revisit one of the season's biggest surprises: believing Beth was always one step ahead of Beulah, only to realize that Beulah had been playing both Beth and Rip all along. From a What Was She Thinking? perspective, we unpack the lessons surrounding desperation, the trouble people create when they're trying to protect their image, and the difficult choices they're willing to make to save face. Finally, we share why we're excited to return for Season 2, the questions we're still asking, and what we hope to see next from The Dutton Ranch. Timestamps 0:00 – Intro & Updates: Summer camps, family reunions, and camping adventures 14:00 – The Dutton Ranch Review Begins: How far would you go to protect your family legacy? Comparing the Dutton Ranch and Ten Petal 19:20 – Episode 5: Beth and Rip's new plan—what we expected vs. what actually happened 24:00 – Rob Will returns: What his comeback means for the story 26:30 – Episode 6: Beulah and Everett reconnect, Ed Harris' thoughts on his role, and finding love later in life 31:30 – Beth the businesswoman and Oreana's influence over Carter 34:00 – Joaquin is shot as Rob Will strikes again through Chet 36:00 – Rip steals the show: Why we love his energy, his backstory, and why we still couldn't fully ride or die with him 43:16 – Beulah tries to manipulate Beth 45:30 – Episode 7: Preparing for the Ten Petal anniversary as Beulah realizes she may have to hand the business over to Rob Will 49:30 – Azul and Zacharia uncover the truth, plus the growing divide between the ranchers and the owners at Ten Petal 52:00 – Oreana and Carter: A relationship that isn't meant to be, and Joaquin's father enters the picture 55:00 – Episode 8: The truth about Ten Petal Ranch, Beulah's poor business decisions, and whether Rob Will's drug operation was a believable twist 1:01:00 – Beulah retires after her hospitalization, Beth and Rip become collateral damage, Carter struggles with his place in the family, Oreana's pregnancy, and Carter refuses to come home 1:06:00 – Beth uncovers fraud at the butcher factory, and we discuss what makes Rip—and characters like him—so compelling 1:10:32 – Beth, Rip, and Everett take up arms against the drug dealers 1:14:30 – The corruption of Ten Petal is fully exposed, Rob Will is killed (but by whom?), Carter is kidnapped, and we debate whether we'll care when he returns in Season 2 1:19:00 – Sharla's What Was She Thinking? Perspectives: Lessons on desperation, family loyalty, and saving face 1:27:00 – Final thoughts, Season 2 predictions, and wrap-up

    The Dutton Ranch Season 1 Episodes 5–9 Review | Family Secrets, Betrayal & Ending Explained

  5. Jul 4

    Dutton Ranch Episodes 1–4: Faith, Family & Resilience

    In this episode of What Was She Thinking?, Kim and Sharla dive into the first four episodes of Dutton Ranch, exploring why the newest chapter in the Yellowstone universe is about much more than cattle and cowboys. From Beth and Rip's unwavering devotion to one another to Carter's youthful innocence and desire to belong, we unpack the relationships driving the story. We also discuss the manipulation and power plays of Beulah Jackson and her family, Beth's resilience in the face of relentless setbacks, and how grief, loyalty, and starting over shape the Duttons' journey. One of our favorite conversations centers on Zacariah, whose quiet faith and perspective on redemption offer a powerful contrast to the chaos surrounding the ranch. His presence raises larger questions about trusting God—or a higher purpose—when life feels unfair, and one setback follows another. Along the way, we share our own connections to ranching, horses, and the emotional themes woven throughout the series, drawing parallels between Dutton Ranch and the challenges many of us face in our own lives. Whether you're a longtime Yellowstone fan or just discovering Dutton Ranch, join us as we explore the characters, relationships, and life lessons behind Episodes 1–4. Topics include: Beth and Rip's relationship, Carter's coming-of-age journey, Beulah Jackson's manipulation, Zacariah's faith and redemption, resilience, family dynamics, and our favorite moments from the first four episodes. Timestamps 0:00 – Summer happenings: Then vs. now 6:44 – Introduction to Dutton Ranch and Yellowstone connections 11:10 – Our experiences with horses 12:50 – First impressions and Beth's backstory 17:27 – Beth's sterilization storyline and review strategy 20:00 – Episode 1: Beth, Rip, and Carter 26:00 – Beth vs. Beulah: Two strong women collide 32:00 – Carter tries to impress Oreana 36:30 – Yellowstone parallels and brother dynamics 41:00 – Episode 2: Zacariah, the slaughterhouse, and premium cattle 48:00 – Rip's secret and trust in his marriage 50:00 – Episode 3: Beth in Dallas and Beulah's wager 56:00 – Carter and Oreana's relationship 58:30 – The Jackson family's manipulation 1:00:00 – Zacariah, redemption, and faith 1:03:00 – Joaquin tracks Beth? 1:05:00 – The premium herd dies; Beth confronts Oreana 1:10:00 – Did Beulah poison the Dutton herd? 1:15:00 – Episode 4: The herd's funeral, faith, and uncertainty 1:23:00 – Carter's secret and confronting the cattle dealer 1:26:00 – Final thoughts on Episodes 1–4 1:28:00 – What Was She Thinking? Picks

    Dutton Ranch Episodes 1–4: Faith, Family & Resilience

  6. Jun 26

    Is God Is: Motherhood, Vengeance, and the Power of Mothers

    In this episode of What Was She Thinking?, we discuss the complex mother-daughter relationship at the heart of Is God Is and explore the film’s themes of vengeance, justice, and retribution through a Christian lens. We examine the bond between twin sisters Racine and Anaia, who have been deeply scarred by life yet remain inseparable. Are they examples of the “angry Black woman” stereotype, or are their emotions and actions justified by the trauma they have endured? We also ask whether their mother is right to send them on an odyssey-like journey to carry out her revenge. What responsibility do daughters have to their mothers? How much power does a mother hold, even after years of absence? And when does loyalty become manipulation? Join us as we unpack Is God Is and explore the intersections of motherhood, sisterhood, faith, vengeance, trauma, and the search for approval. Timestamps 0:00 – Intro, summer happenings, and why Is God Is wasn't playing locally 6:30 – Initial thoughts on the film 8:00 – Meeting twins Racine and Anaia; their differences and powerful bond 12:00 – Their scars, trauma, and losing their jobs after Racine reacts to being stared at 15:30 – The mysterious letter from their mother and questions of worthiness 19:00 – Why did their mother reach out now, and why only to Racine? 21:00 – Meeting Ruby; is she manipulative? 25:00 – Ruby’s version of the past and whether she is telling the truth 29:30 – Forgiveness versus vengeance and the girls' awareness of manipulation 34:00 – Racine begins referring to her mother as God; maternal intuition and power 40:00 – Mother Divine, church culture, and themes of worthiness 48:00 – Meeting Chuck Hall, repentance, self-punishment, and becoming like the monster 56:00 – The angry Black woman trope and the sisters beginning to divide 1:02:00 – Arrival at their father’s home and Zachariah’s revenge 1:05:00 – Angie, the new family, and escaping the devil 1:07:00 – David and Goliath symbolism, the slingshot, and Racine’s first kill 1:10:00 – The brothers, divine purpose, and Racine as the hand of God 1:12:00 – Rejection, unworthiness, and Anaia’s trust in her brother 1:17:00 – The final confrontation with the devil 1:21:00 – Is the devil telling the truth, and why does Anaia believe him? 1:26:00 – The ending battle, Racine’s fate, and possible PTSD 1:30:00 – Was the ending satisfying? Should Anaia have returned to her mother? 1:35:00 – Final thoughts 1:39:00 – What Was She Thinking? recommendations

    Is God Is: Motherhood, Vengeance, and the Power of Mothers

  7. Jun 19

    Margo's Got Money Troubles Review: OnlyFans, Motherhood & Stigma - Part 2

    In Episodes 5–8 of Margo's Got Money Troubles, the stakes get higher as Margo navigates single motherhood, financial survival, and the growing consequences of her success on OnlyFans. In this episode of What Was She Thinking?, we explore the complicated questions at the heart of Margo's story: Is monetizing your body empowering or exploitative? How much does society still judge women for the choices they make to support their families? And why do women continue to bear the brunt of that judgment? Drawing from our own experiences as single mothers, We reflect on the realities of financial insecurity, the importance of having a support system, and the social stigma that still surrounds women who step outside traditional expectations. Join us as we discuss feminism, autonomy, motherhood, and the real cost of survival in a world that often judges women more harshly than men. Timestamps Timestamps 0:00 – 7:00 | Opening Thoughts, the Fanning Sisters & First Impressions 7:00 – 11:30 | David E. Kelley, Michelle Pfeiffer & Episode 4 Reflections; Dad's Views on OnlyFans 11:30 – 15:00 | Double Standards Around Unwed Pregnancy; Shame, Guilt & the Emotional Impact on Women 15:00 – 22:00 | OnlyFans and Gender Double Standards; Women's Roles, Workforce Challenges & Breastfeeding in Public 22:00 – 29:40 | Episode 5: Shyanne's Bridal Shower; Identity, Hooters Stigma & Learning to Develop Thick Skin 30:00 – 33:00 | Shyanne's Embarrassment About Her Past; Mother-Daughter Dynamics & Good Intentions vs. Delivery 33:00 – 35:00 | The Not-So-Typical Grandma; The Awkward Hotel Check-In 35:00 – 43:00 | Vegas Adventures; Kenny vs. Shyanne; The "Party Girl" Label & Shrinking Yourself for Others 43:00 – 49:00 | Is Kenny Becoming Cringey? Girls' Night Out; Margo Reveals Her OnlyFans Account 49:00 – 59:00 | The Long-Term Impact of OnlyFans; Cultural Judgment, Self-Acceptance & Breaking Social Norms 1:00:00 – 1:03:00 | Healing Through Action in Midlife; Shyanne & Kenny's Wedding Night 1:03:00 – 1:11:00 | Margo the Marketing Genius; Recognizing Transferable Skills Beyond OnlyFans 1:11:00 – 1:17:00 | Jinx Breaks Mark's Hand; HungryGhost Goes Viral; Fame, Recognition & Shyanne's Warnings 1:17:00 – 1:22:00 | Margo and Jinx Come Clean; Mark Discovers the Account and Seeks Custody 1:23:00 – 1:28:00 | Mediation, Family Tension & Mark's Mother's Manipulation 1:28:00 – 1:34:00 | Shyanne's Arrest; Jinx's Overdose; Tough Love vs. Nurturing Support 1:35:00 – 1:42:00 | Jinx Moves In; CPS Arrives; Judgment Without Meaningful Support 1:42:00 – 1:47:00 | Lace's Lime Green Suit; Psychiatric Evaluation & Doubling Down on OnlyFans 1:47:00 – 1:54:00 | The "Tunnel of Love" Conversation; How Much Would You Show for Money? 1:54:00 – 2:00:00 | Courtroom Drama; A Surprisingly Supportive Judge; Margo's Custody Victory 2:00:00 – 2:02:00 | The Season Finale: Margo Goes All In 2:03:00 – 2:08:00 | What Was She Thinking? Final Verdicts on Margo and Shyanne

    Margo's Got Money Troubles Review: OnlyFans, Motherhood & Stigma - Part 2

  8. Jun 11

    Unwed Motherhood, Shame, and Healing: Why Margo’s Got Money Troubles Hit Home - Part 1

    In this episode, we share our experiences as a single mother and the unexpected emotions stirred by watching Margo’s Got Money Troubles. Though our stories predate the show by decades—and we've never had an OnlyFans or anything similar—the themes of judgment, stigma, and navigating pregnancy outside of marriage felt deeply familiar. Paired with reflections from Call the Midwife and Flowers in the Attic, this conversation explores how society continues to place uneven emotional and social burdens on women while often overlooking the men involved. Kim and I revisit our experiences of becoming pregnant in our twenties, the weight of family expectations, and the internalized shame that came from fear of judgment. Now older, we can see more clearly how motherhood—planned or not—reshapes identity, purpose, and direction. Over time, we've come to value support, community, and compassion for women in these moments rather than shock or shame. At its heart, this reflection is about letting go of unnecessary guilt, challenging long-held stigma, and recognizing that babies are not endings—they are beginnings. Episode Breakdown 0:00 – 12:50 Summer plans; finding joy; INFJ meaning—introverts or extroverts? 12:50 – 19:30 Intro to Margo’s Got Money Troubles; past risqué experiences; Black Planet memories; strip club visit; Magic City documentary 19:30 – 21:25 OnlyFans as income vs traditional work; Call the Midwife and treatment of unwed mothers then vs. now 21:25 – 32:00 Margo in college; relationships with professors; power dynamics and validation 32:00 – 36:00 Affair with a married man; Shyanne character discussion; nurturer vs non-nurturer; relationship dynamics 36:00 – 43:00 Pregnancy shock and consequences; unsupportive partner; telling family; lack of support systems for pregnant college students 43:00 – 51:30 Social stigma of single motherhood; shame, embarrassment, and judgment; community perception; roommates and isolation 52:00 – 56:00 Expectations of support vs criticism; Margo gives birth; “this will break you” comment and its impact 56:00 – 1:06:30 Postpartum isolation; lack of tribe; hospital-to-home transition; roommates reacting to newborn cries 1:06:30 – 1:11:00 Financial strain; asking for help; introduction of Jinx; shifting support dynamics 1:11:00 – 1:15:00 Caring for a colicky baby without help; emotional and physical strain of early motherhood 1:16:00 – 1:19:00 Job interview rejection; financial pressure; survival decisions; Jinx becomes a roommate 1:19:00 – 1:28:20 Shyanne hiding truth from Kenny; emotional masking; Flowers in the Attic comparisons; Call the Midwife parallels 1:28:20 – 1:34:00 Foster care suggestion; Margo turns to OnlyFans; stigma of motherhood vs sex work; early collaborations 1:34:00 – 1:42:30 Business success vs professional rejection; addiction themes; relational strain; emotional longing and unmet needs 1:42:30 – 1:48:00 Confrontations and conflict; moral question: OnlyFans decision—survival or harm? 1:48:00 – END Real-life OnlyFans parallels; financial survival vs mental impact; closing reflections

    Unwed Motherhood, Shame, and Healing: Why Margo’s Got Money Troubles Hit Home - Part 1
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What Was She Thinking delivers thoughtful, engaging reviews of movies, TV shows, and cultural moments that shape how women—especially women of color—see themselves and the world. Through insightful commentary and honest conversation, we delve into representation, identity, and the stories that shape our perspectives. Expect episodes that make you laugh, reflect, and feel inspired—because you are wonderful, worthy, and deeply valuable.

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  • Creator
    Sharla Brown
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Sharla Brown
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