Sittin' In A Tree Podcast

John and Shalon
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Sittin’ In A Tree Podcast is a marriage and parenting podcast for couples navigating real life, real relationships, and family before, during, and after kids. Hosted by John and Shalon, each episode offers honest conversations, practical marriage advice, and encouragement for building strong relationships and healthy families.

  1. Apr 1

    What Biblical Submission Really Means in Marriage (And Why Most Get It Wrong)

    Submission in marriage is often misunderstood, misapplied, and sometimes even weaponized. In this episode, we unpack the true biblical meaning of submission, the role of both husband and wife, and how mutual sacrifice—not control—leads to a thriving, fulfilling marriage. If you want a healthier relationship rooted in truth, this episode is for you.

    25 min

  2. Mar 25

    Why Communication Fails in Marriage (And How to Fix It With One Simple Shift)

    Communication is one of the biggest struggles in marriage—but it’s not just about talking more. It’s about what kind of conversations you’re having. In this episode, we explore how negative, stressful, and routine conversations can slowly create distance in a relationship—and how intentional positive communication can rebuild connection, trust, and emotional intimacy. We also discuss: Why couples start to dread talking to each otherHow everyday stress (bills, schedules, responsibilities) impacts connectionPractical ways to introduce meaningful, positive conversationsHow communication shapes your marriage—and your familyWhether you’ve been married for years or are just starting out, this episode will give you simple, practical tools to strengthen your relationship.

    19 min

  3. Mar 18

    5 Fun Things to Do in Your Marriage (Easy Ideas to Reconnect Fast)

    Feeling stuck or bored in your marriage? In this episode of Sittin’ In A Tree, John and Shalon share 5 simple and practical ways to bring fun back into your relationship—most of which you can start tonight. From getting out of your routine to creative date ideas and spontaneous connection, this episode is packed with easy ways to reconnect, laugh more, and enjoy each other again. If you’ve been asking: “How do we make marriage fun again?” “What are simple date ideas that actually work?” “How do we reconnect without overcomplicating things?” This episode is for you. Plus, don’t miss the bonus tip that helps you build spontaneity into your marriage anytime you need it. Stick around at the end for bloopers and outtakes!

    15 min

  4. Mar 11

    What Counts as Cheating? Emotional Affairs, Boundaries, and Rebuilding Trust in Marriage

    What Counts as Cheating? Emotional Affairs, Boundaries, and Rebuilding Trust in Marriage Cheating is one of the most searched relationship topics online—but many couples still struggle to define what cheating actually is. Is it only physical? What about emotional connections, secret conversations, or pornography? Where should the boundaries really be in a healthy marriage? In this episode of Sittin’ In a Tree, John and Shalon tackle the uncomfortable but necessary conversation about infidelity, emotional cheating, and protecting intimacy in marriage. They discuss what behaviors slowly pull couples apart, why emotional connections outside the marriage can be just as damaging as physical affairs, and how couples can recognize warning signs before real damage is done. If you’ve ever wondered: What actually counts as cheating in a marriage? Are emotional affairs just as serious as physical ones? How do couples rebuild trust and intimacy after betrayal? What boundaries protect a healthy relationship? This conversation dives into the real issues couples face and offers practical perspective for strengthening trust, protecting intimacy, and building a marriage that lasts. Whether you’re trying to guard your relationship or recover from hurt, this episode will challenge you to think deeper about loyalty, connection, and commitment in marriage. Topics in this episode:Marriage advice • Emotional cheating • Infidelity in marriage • Relationship boundaries • Rebuilding trust • Protecting intimacy • Healthy marriage communication

    50 min

  5. Mar 4

    Marriage Communication: How Tone, Assumptions & Body Language Start Fights

    Communication problems in marriage aren’t usually about the topic — they’re about tone, assumptions, and misinterpretation. In this episode, we share practical, real-life communication tools from 31 years of marriage, including: How tone instantly shifts a conversation Why “listening with curiosity” changes everything The danger of assigning emotions to your spouse How to pause and reset mid-conflict Real examples of how we still navigate misunderstandings If you want fewer arguments and better connection, this conversation will give you clear steps to start improving today.

    48 min

  6. Feb 25

    Laughter, Spontaneity & Play: 3 Keys to a Fun and Fulfilling Marriage

    What if the missing piece in your marriage isn’t just better communication… but more fun? In this episode, we explore three foundational habits that help couples move from surviving to thriving: • Making laughter a regular part of your relationship • Choosing spontaneity over routine • Learning to be playful again as adults Between raising kids, paying bills, and managing responsibilities, it’s easy to lose the fun. We talk practically about how to rebuild connection, reduce stress, and strengthen intimacy — even in busy seasons of life. If you want a marriage that feels alive, connected, and fulfilling long term, this conversation is for you. Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode designed to help you build a stronger marriage.

    26 min

  7. Feb 18

    Super Love: Sacrifice, Presence & Building an Extraordinary Christian Marriage

    What separates an ordinary marriage from an extraordinary one? In this episode, John and Shalon unpack the five pillars of what they call Super Love: – Sacrifice in all things– Unconditional love as a daily decision– Presence both mentally, emotionally, and physically– Extraordinary in going beyond what’s expected– Revealing new ways to love and serve each other If you’re looking for practical, biblical principles to strengthen your relationship and create a fun, fulfilling marriage, this episode is for you. Marriage is more than a commitment on paper — it’s a daily choice. Follow the podcast to never miss an episode of Sittin’ In A Tree.

    27 min

  8. Feb 11

    Sex, Intimacy & Communication in Christian Marriage | Breaking Purity Culture Confusion

    Many Christian couples enter marriage hearing “don’t have sex”… but never learning what healthy sex inside marriage actually looks like. In this episode of Sittin’ In A Tree, we talk openly about sex, intimacy, communication, trauma, purity culture, and what the Bible really says about enjoying sex in marriage. We discuss:• The difference between intimacy and sex• Why sex can feel awkward or difficult to talk about• How past teaching and trauma affect connection• Should sex be fun?• What Christian couples are allowed to do• How often married couples should have sex If you want a stronger, more fulfilling Christian marriage, this episode will help you start the conversation.

    42 min
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Sittin’ In A Tree Podcast is a marriage and parenting podcast for couples navigating real life, real relationships, and family before, during, and after kids. Hosted by John and Shalon, each episode offers honest conversations, practical marriage advice, and encouragement for building strong relationships and healthy families.

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  • Creator
    John and Shalon
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  • Episodes
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