No Love Lost

Katriana Young
  • 5.0 (2)
  • Relationships
  • Updated Weekly

Your weekly dose of unfiltered conversations on relationships, self-love, healing, and mindset shifts. For the ladies who love deeply, laugh loudly, and like their truth served straight. Because there’s No Love Lost… only wisdom gained! I’m Katriana — your sapphic bestie — helping women raise the bar and stop apologizing for what they truly want and deserve. This is universal wisdom for ALL women, regardless of who they love or how they present. Lean in and cuddle up, as we explore how to navigate life and relationships entirely on YOUR terms.

Episodes

  1. Mar 3

    Baby Girl, Stop Praising the Bare Minimum—It's Not a Blessing!

    ✨In this episode, we break down the difference between the bare minimum, exceptional effort, and manipulative behavior — because when you’ve been under‑loved long enough, the baseline starts to feel like a blessing. And that’s exactly how users, abusers, and half‑assers keep you stuck. Whether you're trying to raise your standards, recognize when you're settling, or avoid love-bombing and finally understand what it actually feels like to be chosen with intention — this one's for you! 🔥 Truth Bombs in This Episode: ⚡️ Human Decency ≠ Extra Credit: Respect, honesty, consistency, and emotional availability are the bare minimum — not a blessing, not a reward…but definitely a prerequisite! ⚡️Exceptional Effort Is Intentional: True above‑and‑beyond behavior is voluntary, consistent, and tailored to you — not something you have to beg for, negotiate, or remind someone to do. ⚡️Hush Effort Is Not the Same as Growth: If they only go above and beyond after you complain, catch them slipping, or threaten to leave — that's strategy, not love. ⚡️Deprivation Distorts Your Standards: When you've been under-loved long enough, you start praising the baseline, making excuses for lack of effort, and staying in situations that are beneath what you actually deserve. ⚡️What's Exceptional Is Personal: What feels above and beyond to you might be the baseline for someone else — and that's okay. The goal is clarity on your own standard, not someone else's list. ⚡️Sincere Investment Includes Sacrifice: When someone is genuinely invested, they show up even when it's inconvenient, uncomfortable, and requires personal sacrifice — not just when it's easy. 💎 Top Takeaway: You aren’t high-maintenance or “asking for too much” when you desire effort that feels intentional, nourishing, and specific to YOU. Exceptional effort feels expansive. Manipulative behavior is confusing and draining. Stop gaslighting yourself into calling something a blessing when it barely meets your baseline — and start getting clear on what it actually feels like to be treated with intentionality. 🥂 📣 Cuddle Up & Drop a Comment on Spotify or Instagram: Have you ever confused the bare minimum for exceptional effort? What helped you recognize the difference? And remember, there’s No Love Lost… only wisdom gained! ✨ Follow Katriana on Instagram at @katriana.young

  2. Jan 28

    Be Honest...You Love Them, But Don't Respect Them!

    ✨ If you’ve ever found yourself making snide remarks, feeling superior to your lover, or cringing at how they carry themselves and the decisions they make...it’s time to head back to the drawing board. In this episode, we unpack the difference between decency and respect in relationships, why "loving" someone doesn't mean you honor them, and how recognizing toxic patterns early on can help you avoid resentment, control, and emotional exhaustion. Whether you're looking for dating advice on healthy relationships or healing from a toxic dynamic in your past, this one's for you! 🔥 Truth Bombs in This Episode: ​⚡️Human Decency ≠ Respect: Just because you're courteous and patient doesn't mean you have deep regard for who they are at their core.​⚡️Love vs. Attachment: Most people confuse attachment (familiarity, convenience, good sex) with actual love—and that's why they end up with people they don't respect.​⚡️Signs You Don't Respect Them: Feeling superior, constantly teaching/raising them, gossiping about them, feeling embarrassed by who they are, or thinking "a real man/woman would..."​⚡️Signs They Don't Respect You: Excluding you from decisions, dismissing your input, calling you names during arguments, micromanaging you, or disregarding your time and goals.​⚡️The "Build-A-Bear" Project: If you're trying to teach, mold, or fix them into who "you" want them to be, you don't respect who they are.​⚡️Why This Matters: Lack of respect leads to dysfunction, resentment, condescension, and eventual abuse (even if it's just verbal). It poisons communication and turns the relationship into a power struggle. 💎 Top Takeaway: Examine what you actually respect, admire, and honor in a person—their mindset, values, how they carry themselves, how they handle emotions and money. Then choose someone who aligns with that, not just someone who looks good on paper or gives you butterflies. 📣 Cuddle Up and Drop a Comment on Spotify or Instagram: Have you ever stayed with someone you lacked respect for? How did that impact the person you became in the end? And as always, there's No Love Lost… only wisdom gained! Follow Katriana on IG: @katriana.young

  3. Jan 15

    Stop Asking What THEY want...What do YOU Want?

    ✨ Instead of focusing on what THEY want, we’re gaining clarity on what YOU want!  This episode is about going from “Am I good enough? 😔” to “Are they what I’m looking for? 🧐” Listen to this episode if you’re someone (queer or straight 👀) seeking dating advice on setting relationship standards, knowing your worth, and walking away when it’s not in alignment. 🔥 Truth Bombs in This Episode: ​⚡️ The "Couple Goals" Illusion: Stop pedestalizing relationships you only see on the surface. Pluck what resonates and leave the rest! ​⚡️ The Ice Cream Shop: Walk away when the "menu" doesn't match your request—trying to force it is a waste of your time.  ​⚡️ “Tickling Booties": A good moan and groan doesn’t equal a partner who’s aligned and compatible. ​⚡️ Toxic Femininity & Overgiving: A candid look at the "Take-Take-Take" vs. "Give-Give-Give" dynamics in both straight and queer relationships. ​⚡️ Willingness vs. Capability: Just because they may want to show up doesn't mean they have the emotional maturity, time, or capacity to properly do so. 💎 Top Takeaway: Wearing rose-colored glasses to make a situation that's "good on paper" work is foolish and a waste of time. Be clear on exactly what you want, because that’s the only way you’re gonna get it! 📣 Cuddle Up and Drop a Comment on Spotify or Instagram: What's one thing you know you want but haven't had the courage to ask for? And remember, there's No Love Lost… only wisdom gained!

  4. Jan 5

    The Sex is Good, But…Do You Even Like Them?

    ✨ Welcome to the first official episode of No Love Lost. We aren't just talking about dating; we’re talking about the social programming that tells us to shrink, settle, and play small for the sake of being chosen. 🔥 Truth Bombs in This Episode: Autopilot Dating: How we repeat toxic cycles just because they feel "normal."The Subconscious "Pick Me": Shifting from "Do they want me?" to "Does this person align with the life I’m building?"Titles vs. Commitment: Why a romantic label doesn't mean anything if they aren't showing up for the connection.Nagging vs. Growth: Stop nagging your friends and asking why your lover did X, Y, Z. Either take your concerns directly to your lover—or take yourself out of the equation. Simple!Emotional Safety: True safety isn't "they like me more than I like them" or “everything looks good on paper.” Real safety is fully being yourself without walking on eggshells and being deeply fulfilled in areas that matter to YOU! 💎 Top Takeaway: You shouldn't be with someone who hinders the version of you that you actually like. If you have to stifle your humor or your spirit to fit in their box, that’s not a relationship—that’s a prison cell. 📣 Cuddle Up and Drop a Comment on Spotify or Instagram: What was the moment you realized you liked the attention more than you liked the person? And remember, there’s No Love Lost… only wisdom gained!

  • 4 Episodes

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About

Your weekly dose of unfiltered conversations on relationships, self-love, healing, and mindset shifts. For the ladies who love deeply, laugh loudly, and like their truth served straight. Because there’s No Love Lost… only wisdom gained! I’m Katriana — your sapphic bestie — helping women raise the bar and stop apologizing for what they truly want and deserve. This is universal wisdom for ALL women, regardless of who they love or how they present. Lean in and cuddle up, as we explore how to navigate life and relationships entirely on YOUR terms.

Information

  • Creator
    Katriana Young
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    4
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Katriana Young
  • Show Website
    No Love Lost