The Debrief

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A space to take a pause 🥂 with two best friends talking through life , lessons and everything in between . Pull up a seat you’re always welcome here 🤎

  1. 6d ago

    Are you over him….👀 or do you Just Want to Be?

    Girl, be honest… are you really over him, or have you just convinced yourself that you are? 👀 Sometimes, we say we’ve moved on, we’re unbothered, and we’ve healed… until his name pops up, someone mentions him, or we find ourselves reacting to things we thought no longer mattered. So, does being triggered mean there are still feelings there, or can someone hurt you without you still wanting them? This week on The Debrief, we’re unpacking the messy space between healing and pretending to be healed. From checking his socials and entertaining the “what ifs” to feeling absolutely nothing when you see him again, we’re asking the questions we don’t always want to answer. Because sometimes, you don’t want him back… but does that mean you’re completely over him? 👀🥂 Let’s debrief! 💋 💌 Have a dilemma or a story you want us to unpack? Send it our way through the anonymous link in our bio. #TheDebrief #AreYouOverHim #DatingAndRelationships #HealingJourney #GirlTalk

  2. Oct 5

    If You’re Really My Friend, You Should Just Know When Something’s Wrong.

    “If You’re Really My Friend, You Should Just Know When Something’s Wrong.” We’ve all thought it… “If you really know me, why do I have to tell you?” 👀 But how much should the people closest to us just know? Should your friends be able to tell when you’re upset without you saying anything? Should they know how you want to be supported, what hurts your feelings, or when you need space? Or are some of our “standards” actually unspoken expectations that we’ve never communicated? In this episode of The Debrief, we’re getting into friendship, expectations, standards, communication, disappointment and the uncomfortable truth that sometimes… people can love you deeply and still not know what you need. Are we expecting people to read our minds? Or is being known well enough to expect certain things from the people we love? Let’s debrief. 🥂 💌 Have a friendship dilemma or situation you want us to debrief? Send it to us anonymously through the link in our bio.

  3. Sep 28

    We need to Talk about our Feelings!!!🫂

    We Need to Talk About Feelings. 🫂 Why do we struggle to say how we really feel? Why do some emotions feel easier to express than others? And what actually happens when we keep everything bottled up? In this episode of The Debrief, we’re getting honest about our emotions — how we experience them, how we regulate them, and the ways we sometimes avoid, suppress or overthink what we’re feeling. From anger and sadness to anxiety, excitement, disappointment and everything in between, we’re unpacking what our emotions might be trying to tell us and why learning to sit with our feelings can be so uncomfortable. Because sometimes, we don’t need to “get over it” — we need to understand it. So, let’s debrief. 🤎 💌 Have a dilemma, story or something you want us to debrief? Send it to us anonymously through the link in our bio. 🎧 Listen to The Debrief on Spotify & YouTube.

  4. Sep 21

    The Group Chat Is Divided | Dilemma Night with Your Girls 🥂

    You know those situations you send straight to the group chat because you genuinely don’t know what to do? 👀 Well… bring them here. In this episode of The Debrief, we’re having a proper Dilemma Night — reading through your messy, complicated, awkward and “girl… what would YOU do?” situations and debating them like we’re all sitting around the same table. From friendship drama and girls’ trips, to money, dating, relationships, boundaries, adulthood and those situations where there’s no obvious right answer… we’re getting into ALL of it. We won’t always agree. We might judge a little. 😂 We’ll definitely ask the questions you’re probably asking yourself — and sometimes, the group chat might just be divided. Because sometimes you don’t need advice from an expert. You need your girls to sit down, hear the whole story and say: “Okay… let’s debrief.” 🥂 Got a dilemma of your own? Send it to us anonymously through the link in our Instagram bio — you might just hear it on a future episode. 🎧 Listen, watch & join the conversation. #TheDebrief #DilemmaNight #GirlTalk #Friendship #Dating #Adulting #GirlsChat

  5. Sep 14

    💸 Money, Money, Money | Perception, Lifestyle & the Pressure to Keep Up

    Money, money, money… we earn it, spend it, save it, stress about it — but how often do we actually talk about what it means to us? In this episode of The Debrief, we’re getting honest about our relationship with money and the ways it shapes how we live, what we value and how we see ourselves and others. Are we spending to enjoy our lives, or spending to look like we’re doing well? Does someone’s salary or lifestyle change the way we perceive them? And when did keeping up become something we feel we have to do? From financial habits and lifestyle inflation to comparison, friendship, ambition and the pressure to appear successful, we’re unpacking the conversations we don’t always say out loud. Because sometimes, it’s not just about how much money you have — it’s about what you think it says about you. So, is the way I’m living threatening the way you see me? 🎙️ Tune in, debrief with us, and tell us: Are we living for ourselves, or for the perception of others? 📩 Have a dilemma you’d like us to debrief? Send it to us through the link in our Instagram bio.

  6. Sep 7

    Conversations Nobody Prepared Us For - Talks we wish we had growing up🙄

    Growing up, we’re given so many rules — respect your elders, focus on school, be a good girl, don’t date too early, listen to people older than you. But what happens when you become an adult and suddenly realise nobody actually taught you how to navigate the things that come next? In this episode of The Debrief, we’re having the conversations we wish we had growing up — from going from “you’re not allowed to date” to “so, where is your husband?”, to learning that saying no doesn’t automatically mean you’re being disrespectful. We’re talking about the difference between respect and people-pleasing, learning to set boundaries with family, finding your voice at work, and understanding what it really means to have self-respect. Because sometimes growing up means unlearning the idea that being a “good girl” means always being agreeable — and learning that you can honour the people you love while still choosing yourself. This is a conversation about growing up, becoming the woman you are, and figuring out the things nobody thought to prepare you for. 💌 Have something you want us to Debrief? Send us your stories, dilemmas, questions or confessions at thedebriefpod@gmail.com. You can remain anonymous — no judgement, just an honest conversation. 🎙️ Welcome to The Debrief — a safe space to pause, talk through life, and everything in between. 🤎

  7. Aug 31

    Are We Too Independent? | Why We Struggle to Receive🥹

    I’ve got it.” “Don’t worry, I can do it myself.” “I don’t need anyone.” But what happens when being independent becomes so deeply ingrained that we struggle to let people help us, love us, support us or simply show up for us? In this episode of The Debrief, Gwakisa and Priscah are asking a question that might hit a little too close to home: Are we too independent? We’re unpacking what it means to be the “strong, independent woman” while also exploring the side of independence that we don’t always talk about — struggling to receive. From refusing help when we’re overwhelmed, to feeling guilty for needing people, to navigating dating, relationships and the idea of the “soft life,” we’re getting honest about why receiving can sometimes feel harder than giving. We’re talking about: ✨ Independence vs. hyper-independence
❤️ Why we struggle to let people care for us
🤍 The pressure of always being “the strong one”
💭 Why asking for help can come with shame
💰 Being financially independent while still wanting to be cared for
💕 Dating, partnership and allowing someone to show up for you
🌸 The “soft life” and what it really means
🫶🏾 Learning that needing people doesn’t make you weak And maybe the biggest question of all: If we’re always saying “I can do it myself,” are we leaving any room for people to show us that they care? This isn’t about becoming dependent on anyone. It’s about asking whether strength and vulnerability can exist at the same time. Because maybe independence isn’t about never needing anyone. Maybe it’s knowing you can stand on your own while still allowing people to stand beside you. 💌 HAVE A DILEMMA FOR THE DEBRIEF? We want to hear from you! Whether it’s about friendship, dating, relationships, family, work, identity, faith or navigating adulthood, send your dilemma to: 📩 thedebriefpod@gmail.com Your story could be featured in a future episode of The Debrief. You can also send us your thoughts on this episode — especially if you’ve ever struggled to ask for help or let someone take care of you. 🎧 Listen to The Debrief: Spotify, Apple Podcasts & Amazon Music
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📱 Follow us: @dbriefpod_ New episodes every Monday at 9AM AWST. Take a pause. Talk through life. And everything in between. #TheDebrief #AreWeTooIndependent #WhyWeStruggleToReceive #HyperIndependence #IndependentWomen #SoftLife #Adulting #Dating #Relationships #Friendship #WomenInTheir20s #WomenInTheir30s

  8. Aug 24

    We Got the Degree, But Did We Get the Experience?👩🏾‍🎓

    University is supposed to be the best years of your life… but what if it wasn’t? In this episode of The Debrief, Gwakisa and Priscah take a trip down memory lane and get real about their university experiences — from the pressure of getting through endless semesters and assignments, to friendships, finding your place, and the reality of being Black girls navigating university in Australia. We talk about the university experience we thought we were going to have versus the one we actually lived, why it can feel so lonely even when you’re surrounded by people, and the things we wish we had done differently. And then there’s the question we keep coming back to: Did we actually enjoy university, or were we just trying to survive it? 👀 Plus, we get into your dilemmas from students who are struggling with feeling behind, not belonging, academic pressure and wondering whether they have what it takes to keep going. Because maybe university wasn’t the best years of our lives — and maybe that’s okay. 🎧 Press play, take a seat, and debrief with us.

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A space to take a pause 🥂 with two best friends talking through life , lessons and everything in between . Pull up a seat you’re always welcome here 🤎

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    The Debrief Pod
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  • Episodes
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