Legacy of Loud

Tara Averill and Fiona Averill

Two generations, one mic: unpacking what matters with humor and honesty. 

  1. Jun 2

    Systems, Scarcity & Why Are We Doing It All Alone?

    "Systems That Weren't Designed For Us" is a four-part conversation series from Legacy of Loud, and this episode is where it starts — by naming the thing out loud. Women move through work, healthcare, motherhood, and partnership systems that were never built around their lives, bodies, or realities, and are still expected to perform inside them as if they were. Recorded live at the Museum in Spite of Everything in Brooklyn, this first conversation brings together five women — including a New York agency CEO, a psychiatris specializing in women’s mental health,  a chief creative officer, two creative talent agents and the founder of Not Safe For Mom Group — to do exactly that. Over the course of the night they move from the gaps in women's health research and the realities of hormones and perimenopause, to the unspoken costs of leadership, divorce and the systems around it, dating and beauty standards, maternity leave, mental health, and what it means to model different choices for the next generation. Stay Connected with Legacy of Loud: https://linktr.ee/legacyofloud Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Museum and Its Purpose 02:39 The Concept Behind the Museum 05:27 Intergenerational Conversations and Their Importance 08:30 Navigating Work-Life Balance as a Working Mother 11:01 The Impact of Hormones on Women's Health and Work 14:17 Challenges in Women's Health Research 17:17 The Unspoken Struggles of Women in Leadership 20:00 The Importance of Naming and Addressing Issues 23:17 Personal Experiences with Healthcare Systems 26:09 Divorce and the Systems Surrounding It 29:12 Dating, Beauty Standards, and Societal Expectations 35:47 The Poisoned Soil of Society 38:28 Gatekeeping and Community Among Women 41:45 Empathy and Understanding in Relationships 45:38 Redefining Work and Time 50:45 Motherhood and Identity 55:15 Sex, Power, and Relationship Dynamics 01:01:46 Modeling Choices for Future Generations 01:06:26 Creating Supportive Work Environments 01:08:26 The Economic Impact of Women's Workforce Participation 01:11:23 Navigating Maternity Leave and Workplace Support 01:14:37 Mental Health Challenges in Women

  2. May 5

    Biet Simkin: Ambition, Anarchy & Can You Actually Handle the Life You say you want?

    Biet Simkin is a contemporary artist, bestselling author, and founder of Guided by Biet — sometimes called the David Bowie of meditation. Tara prefers spiritual assassin. In this episode, we get into wanting more, hating yourself less, and why God might need better PR. The 50% light / 50% a*****e problem. The $40 million question. Why your body and mind are designed to f**k with you — and how to make them work for you anyway. Why she treated her now-husband like a six-year-old for six months before they ever dated. And the Midtown story you'll be telling for weeks. Stay Connected with Legacy of Loud: https://linktr.ee/legacyofloud Chapters: 00:00 Exploring Spirituality and Transformation 00:13 Intergenerational Perspectives on Life 02:23 Understanding Capacity and Desire 05:12 The Dichotomy of Life's Struggles 07:26 Money, Self-Worth, and Clarity 09:48 Desire and the Pursuit of More 15:35 Permission to Want More 17:37 Finding Bliss in the Present 20:28 Body Positivity and Health Debate 22:07 The Return of God in Modern Life 26:50 Experiencing God Through Art 33:23 Marrying Spirituality and Commerce 44:45 Dating and Relationships: A New Approach 47:32 Navigating Rejection and Communication in Relationships 50:05 The Impact of Grief and Loss on Personal Growth 52:19 Living Life Fully Despite Fear of Loss 54:05 The Challenges of the Anxious Generation 56:57 Creating Meaningful Experiences in a Digital World 58:20 Overcoming Doubt in Creative Pursuits

  3. Apr 21

    Jody & Georgia: Mothers, Daughters & Why Did We Tell Our Kids Happiness Was the Point?

    We got the chance to talk with Jody and Georgia, a baller mother daughter duo. We dove into politics, dating, and generational differences  with honesty, humor, and zero fear of disagreement.  Follow Legacy of Loud: https://linktr.ee/legacyofloud Chapters: 00:00 Introduction   00:10 Mother-Daughter Dynamics and Podcast Genesis 03:26 Political Conversations and Perspectives 08:35 Navigating Political Differences in Relationships 12:35 Navigating Political Conversations 18:33 Challenges in Political Discourse 22:56 The Changing Dynamics of Gender Roles 28:06 The Importance of Social Skills in Youth 33:56 The Impact of Choice on Relationships 38:11 The Reality of Long-Term Relationships 41:11 The Impact of Therapy on Modern Relationships 43:14 Navigating Community and Connection in a Digital Age 48:00 Cultural Differences in College Experiences 50:59 The Role of Parenting in Shaping Independence 58:32 Trusting Authority and the Pandemic Experience 01:00:00 The Evolution of Political Parties in the UK 01:00:25 The Impact of Conservative Governance and Brexit 01:01:23 Immigration and Integration Challenges 01:02:42 The Rise of Antisemitism and Community Integration 01:04:17 Cultural Integration vs. Multiculturalism 01:05:44 The Grooming Gangs Inquiry and Racial Dynamics 01:09:42 Cultural Values and the Limits of Tolerance 01:11:15 The Complexity of Cultural Identity and Values 01:12:54 Navigating Polarization in Political Discourse 01:14:41 The Role of Police in Community Safety 01:16:32 The Challenge of Cancel Culture 01:18:58 The Debate on Gender Identity and Women's Spaces 01:25:47 Navigating Responsibility and Consequences 01:27:06 Parenting and Alcohol: A Personal Perspective 01:29:19 Cultural Differences in Drinking Norms 01:31:35 The Role of Liberal Parenting in Rebellion 01:33:09 Lessons from Parenting: The Swimming Pool Analogy 01:38:27 The Human Experience of Parenting 01:39:40 The Journey of Self-Acceptance 01:43:41 Comparison and Self-Worth 01:46:59 Embracing Different Types of Fabulousness

  4. Apr 7

    Jeff Sheehan: Death, Competency Addiction & Who Are You When the Roles Run Out

    Jeff Sheehan is an acupuncturist, death doula, and Taoist death medicine practitioner. He's also the most alive person in any room. In this episode, we get into what it actually means to prepare for death — and why that's really just another way of saying: stop sleepwalking through your life. We talk about competency addiction, the illusion of control, why we medicate the dying for our comfort, and what happens when the roles we've built our identities around disappear. We go to Varanasi. We talk about Franklin. We talk about your grandfather wanting to watch the Giants. Jeff's new platform, The Departure Lounge, exists to do what this conversation does — make death less of a threat and more of a teacher. What do you know now that you wish you knew earlier? Jeff's answer: that he's going to die. And that changes everything. Stay connected with legacy of loud: https://linktr.ee/legacyofloud Chapters: 00:00 Understanding Death and Dying 02:00 Cultural Perspectives on Death 04:32 The Departure Lounge: A New Venture 07:03 Conscious Living and Death Awareness 11:42 The Nature of Energy and Existence 12:28 Cultural Perspectives on Dying and Death 13:44 Medication and Comfort in End-of-Life Care 15:17 The Intersection of Life and Death 16:10 Navigating Discomfort and Control 17:43 Cultural Reflections on Identity and Death 19:17 The Journey to India and Death Rituals 27:31 Cremation Practices in Varanasi 29:14 Cultural Practices Around Death 30:17 The Normalization of Death in Daily Life 31:49 Facing Mortality: Conversations on Death 33:39 The Role of Identity in Life and Death 35:07 The Value of Death Doulas 37:19 Living Fully: The Impact of Mortality on Life 40:11 Rituals and Transitions in Life 43:30 Community and Connection in Modern Society 51:41 Navigating Modern Convenience vs. Authentic Living 52:52 The Obsession with Longevity and Convenience 54:17 The Tension Between Technology and Authentic Experience 55:56 The Importance of Living Life Fully 57:39 Facing Death and Embracing Life 59:18 The Impact of COVID-19 on Our Perception of Life 01:01:08 Branding and Authenticity in a Digital Age 01:03:10 The Journey of Acceptance and Letting Go 01:05:17 What We Wish We Knew Earlier About Life and Death

  5. Mar 24

    Kassi Underwood: Energy, Feminism, and Why Are Men Waiting for Women To Text First!?

    Kassi Underwood is a spiritual teacher, author, Harvard Innovation Labs’ first (sequins-clad) meditation advisor. In this episode, Tara and Fiona sit down with Kassi for a conversation about feminine and masculine energy that is neither a return to the 1950s nor a rejection of feminism. It's more complicated than that. And more interesting. They get into why modern motherhood has become a masculine exercise in logistics, why the tradwife is actually the countercultural figure right now, what healthy masculine pursuit actually looks like, why YouTube dating coaches are making the whole thing worse, and why men waiting for women to text first is — biologically, metaphysically, practically — completely backwards. "It takes two hours to get into your feminine after work. Expecting a woman to hustle her ass off all day and still be a soft place to land is unrealistic." Also: the midnight Uber situation. The general. The dish in the dishwasher. And the sperm-to-egg theory of pursuit. Connect with Kassi:  Website: https://kassiunderwood.com Free 1-minute morning practice:  https://kassiunderwood.com/morningpractice/ Connect on IG:  @kassiunderwood Keep in touch with Legacy of Loud: https://linktr.ee/legacyofloud Chapters: 00:00 Casual Conversations and Personal Reflections 01:37 Introducing Kassi Underwood 04:09 Understanding Kassi's Work and Metaphysics 06:48 Intuition and Truth in Coaching 07:26 Exploring Dating and Polarity Concepts 08:46 Navigating Masculine and Feminine Energies 12:00 The Complexity of Gender Roles 16:34 Expectations in Relationships 19:51 The Rise of the Tradwife 24:19 Attention Economy and Self-Expression 26:35 Financial Dynamics in Relationships 32:41 Empowering Women Through Solidarity 33:31 The Need for Protection and Provision 34:22 Navigating Modern Dating Dynamics 36:25 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energy 38:58 The Impact of Societal Expectations on Gender Identity 43:24 Defining Healthy Masculine Energy 47:37 Emotional Intelligence in Relationships 50:54 The Importance of Chivalry and Care 52:50 Cultural Implications of Gender Dynamics

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Two generations, one mic: unpacking what matters with humor and honesty. 

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