Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B

Jennie K. Drollinger
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Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B Have you ever wondered, “Did I miss my chance?” Hosted by Jennie K. Drollinger—an unapologetic ’80s girl at heart—Second Chances is a storytelling podcast about second chances in love, career, health, family, faith, purpose, and life after unexpected change. Each episode shares real, hope-filled stories of people who found their Side B: rekindled romances, love after divorce, restored marriages, career reinvention, health recovery, healing after heartbreak, family reconnection, and new beginnings after loss, failure, or fear. It all began with Jennie’s own lost and found love story: meeting a boy in H.S. 1985 Alaska, falling fast, then losing touch through misunderstandings and an old-school disconnected landline—a mystery that took over three decades to explain and finally uncover what really happened. Thirty years later, they found their way back to each other. Their journey captured hearts nationwide and was crowned America’s Favorite Couple 2025, winning out of 210,000 couples. But this isn’t just a love story podcast. It’s a community of Side B moments—a place for listeners to share stories of resilience, forgiveness, healing, personal growth, reinvention, purpose, and proof that it’s never too late to begin again. Pull up a chair. Get cozy. You’re not too late. "Your life didn’t end when your plans did—some stories aren’t over yet, and the best parts may still be waiting on Side B." Your Side B story could give someone hope! Listen to inspiring real stories and submit your own at: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/second-chance-on-love-side-b/id1868301852 https://open.spotify.com/show/3gpuyYsF5MXrn67ATYNcZP?si=a3183c87390c48cb Follow us on: https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove https://substack.com/@secondchanceonlove https://www.tiktok.com/@jendoll70 #SecondChances #SecondChanceOnLove #NewBeginnings #HopeAfterHardship #StorytellingPodcast #WomenPodcasters #80sVibes

  1. 2d ago

    The 19th of 21 Children: Paul Lamar Hunter’s Story of Faith, Forgiveness & Second Chances

    What if your beginning didn’t have to determine your ending? On Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Jennie talks with Paul Lamar Hunter, author of No Love, No Charity: The Success of the Nineteenth Child. As the 19th of 21 children, Paul shares his inspirational story of overcoming poverty, adversity, generational trauma, and family dysfunction to become the first in his family to graduate from college. Through faith, forgiveness, education, fatherhood, resilience, and personal growth, Paul learned how to break generational cycles and turn adversity into purpose. It’s a powerful reminder to never give up—your past may shape your story, but it doesn’t have to write your ending. Key Takeaways Your beginning does not determine your endingTurn adversity into resilience and purpose.Forgiveness helps break generational patterns.Education can be a powerful path to transformationSurround yourself with positive, like-minded peopleKeep moving forward—even without everyone’s support.Fatherhood is about presence, love, and intentional parentingYour story can give someone else hope to overcomeNever give up: your best chapter may still be on Side B Sound Bites 00:00 — Become Anything You Believe 01:26 — An Amazing American Story 06:15 — Put Purpose Above Circumstance 13:22 — Love Creates Change 18:06 — Forgiveness Frees You 20:32 — Education Breaks Barriers 22:58 — Cross the Finish Line 36:43 — Your Story Can Give Hope 41:30 — The Best Parts Are on Side B Chapters 00:00 — You Can Become Anything 01:26 — The 19th Child of 21 02:53 — Growing Up in the 1970s 04:19 — The Power of Real Connection 06:43 — Music, Family, and Soul Train 08:37 — The Tradition of Sunday Dinner 11:30 — The Meaning Behind the Book Title 12:28 — The $1 House That Changed Everything 14:20 — Understanding Imperfect Parents 16:43 — Forgiveness Breaks Generational Cycles 18:06 — Surviving Family Trauma 20:03 — From Job Loss to College 21:32 — Becoming a Family First 22:58 — Crossing the Finish Line 24:55 — Choosing a Positive Circle 26:50 — Fatherhood and Family Legacy 27:49 — Turning Loss into Presence 30:09 — Coaching Beyond the Game 31:56 — From Book to Screenplay 33:49 — Overcoming the People Who Hold You Back 34:46 — Writing as a Path to Healing 36:14 — Becoming Proof of Possibility 38:09 — Keep Evolving and Stay Positive 38:37 — Paul’s Global Mission 40:30 — Resilience, Perseverance, and Hope 41:30 — Your Best Parts May Be on Side B Connect with Paul: TikTok: @paul.lamar.hunter, PaulLamarHunter2.0 Insta: paullamarhunter, plh19_sports, ischildsupportlaw X: @APLH19 No Love, No Charity. The Success of the 19th Child: https://amzn.to/4Aa9Fcz Contact Jennie at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. Website: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    The 19th of 21 Children: Paul Lamar Hunter’s Story of Faith, Forgiveness & Second Chances

  2. Sep 9

    We Waited 32 Years to Find Out What Really Happened | Our True Love Story

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, what happens when high school sweethearts reconnect after 32 years and finally learn why they lost each other? Bryan and Jennie share how one disconnected phone call changed everything—and how their second-chance love story inspired the novel As Sure as the Stars. From 1980s nostalgia to an unexpected reunion, it’s a story of first love, timing, and finding your way back. TakeawaysOrdinary moments can change everything — a missed call can alter the course of a life.Timing matters—sometimes love, reconciliation, and second chances arrive decades later.Our memories shape us — revisiting the past can bring unexpected clarity, healing, and understanding.Some moments feel bigger than coincidence — “God winks”, unexpected connections became meaningful parts of their reunion.Sharing your story takes vulnerability — but telling it can help you understand where you’ve been and who you’ve become.Nostalgia tells a story, too — music, dances, fashion, cassette tapes, and 1980s culture bring their high school years vividly back to life.Love can be rediscovered at any age — hope, courage, and vulnerability can open the door to a second chance.Real life can inspire something bigger — their lost-and-found love story became the heart behind As Sure as the Stars. Soundbites 03:26 The Story Was Meant to Be Written 06:21 The Memory That Survived 16:17 The Phone Call That Never Came 29:48 The Moment Everything Came Back 38:23 The First Dance 45:01 Love Is Not Always a Straight Line 45:31 Ordinary Moments Can Become Everything 46:59 Love Requires Courage 48:53 There Is Hope for Everyone 49:51 One Misunderstanding Created Three Decades Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Love Story and Book Inspiration 04:11 Memories Resurfaced During Writing 07:36 High School Traditions and First Love 10:39 The Awkwardness of the First Encounter 14:55 The Disconnected Phone and Missed Opportunities 18:33 The Emotional Impact of Nostalgic Songs 19:43 The Surreal Moment of Seeing Each Other Again 22:13 Jake's Perspective and the Moment of Recognition 23:30 The Significance of Ordinary Moments 24:47 The First Conversation and Reconnecting 26:10 The First Time They Felt a Connection 27:06 Reflections on Teenage Insecurities 31:00 Memories of a High School Dance and Traditions 32:41 The First Night They Met in 1985 34:05 The Magic of a Slow Dance 35:39 The Moment of Recognition 38:10 The Elder's Advice, Timing 39:49 Memories, Songs of the 80s 43:00 Lessons on Love, Hope, and Second Chances Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. Website: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    We Waited 32 Years to Find Out What Really Happened | Our True Love Story

  3. Sep 2

    It Wasn't About the Paper Towels — A Real Marriage Therapy Session

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Jennie Bryan and Dr. Phil get real about marriage, relationships, anger, fear, and communication in a candid mini therapy session. They explore why conflict is rarely about the argument on the surface, how emotional intelligence can improve conflict resolution, and how gender differences, step parenting, blended families, and past relationships can shape the way couples communicate. From resentment to compromise, discover practical insights for understanding your triggers, communicating what you really need, and building healthier relationships. Takeaways: Anger often stems from fear of loss. Effective communication is crucial in relationships. Conflict is a natural part of relationships. Understanding emotional underpinnings can resolve arguments. Gender differences affect communication styles. Past relationships influence current dynamics. Compromise is essential for relationship success. Recognizing triggers can prevent escalation. Learning to complain effectively improves communication. Therapy can provide valuable tools for couples. SoundBites: 00:00 "Marriage is messy. Second chances, even messier." 04:12 "It's best to compromise and to listen. "06:34 "There's always a reason behind anger. "13:30 "Conflict's not a bad thing. "18:17 "You can't fix it if you don't talk about it. "38:41 "It's never really just the paper towels. "42:48 "True relationship is compromising. "43:16 "You're helping a lot of people." Chapters: 00:00 Understanding Anger and Fear 01:08 Introducing Dr. Phil and the Therapy Session 02:23 The Importance of Communication in Relationships 05:10 Conflict Resolution and Fair Fighting 10:13 Emotional Underpinnings of Arguments 14:54 The Role of Gender Differences in Communication1 9:45 Navigating Family Dynamics and Step Parenting 25:05 The Impact of Past Relationships on Current Dynamics2 9:59 Final Thoughts on Compromise and Understanding Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    It Wasn't About the Paper Towels — A Real Marriage Therapy Session

  4. Aug 26

    Why Forgiving Yourself Is Harder Than Forgiving Anyone Else

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B, Jennie explores forgiveness, self-forgiveness, shame, remorse, and personal growth. Inspired by Forgiven: Own What Is, Let Go of What Isn't, she examines how childhood experiences and past choices shape who we become, and why understanding our behavior can create space for healing, accountability, and emotional well-being. This episode is a reminder that we can't change the past, but we can stop allowing it to define us—and move forward with self-compassion, grace, and second chances. Takeaways: Forgiveness is about giving ourselves permission to change the future. Remorse can lead to growth, while shame can keep us stuck. Understanding our past choices helps us to forgive ourselves. We often judge our younger selves with the wisdom we have now. Forgiveness is a process that may need to be revisited. We can own our choices without being defined by them. Understanding childhood experiences can inform our adult behavior. Forgiveness does not require reconciliation with others. Setting boundaries is essential for protecting our peace. The rest of our life is still ahead of us, regardless of past mistakes. Sound Bites: 00:00 "The rest of your life is ahead of you." 19:49 "Forgiveness does not mean access." 25:27 "We can own the choices we made." 25:56 "We don't have to keep carrying the shame." 26:53 "What am I ready to stop carrying?" Chapters: 00:00 The Challenge of Self-Forgiveness 03:09 Understanding Remorse vs. Shame 06:00 The Weight of Past Choices 08:52 The Impact of Childhood Experiences 12:09 Forgiveness: A Process, Not a Destination 15:02 The Complexity of Forgiveness 17:55 The Journey of Self-Understanding 21:11 Practical Steps to Forgiveness 24:05 Embracing Second Chances Grab your copy : https://amzn.to/4geO6zM Contact Heather: https://www.raisinggoodhumans.com/ https://www.instagram.com/thinkgetagrip/ Contact Cherisse: https://www.instagram.com/insighteqcb/ https://www.facebook.com/cherisse.brown/ Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    Why Forgiving Yourself Is Harder Than Forgiving Anyone Else

  5. Aug 19

    Two Transplants, Two Near-Death Experiences & One Second-Chance Love Story 30 Years Later

    What happens when life gives you more than one second chance? In this powerful episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Joel and Vicky share an extraordinary journey of organ transplantation, resilience, faith, family, and unexpected love. Vicky received a life-saving kidney transplant from her sister, while Joel survived liver failure and a liver transplant. Their experiences reshaped how they view gratitude, family support, personal growth, and the gift of everyday life. Years later, Joel and Vicky reconnected and found their own second chance on love. Together, they open up about marriage, blending families, communication, overcoming adversity, and supporting each other through life's hardest moments. This is a story about surviving, healing, loving again—and choosing what to do with the second chances we're given. Takeaways: Second chances can change everything.Organ donation saves lives and creates new beginnings.Kidney and liver transplants reveal the power of resilience.Faith, family, and hope provide strength through adversity.Gratitude changes how we see everyday life.Sometimes survival leads to an unexpected second chance at love.Blending families requires patience, support, and understanding.Communication is the foundation of a strong marriage.Past relationships can fuel self-worth and personal growth.Love, laughter, and shared struggles can make relationships stronger.Sharing our experiences can create healing, purpose, and legacy. Sound Bites 00:00 "We all go through stuff." 03:17 "I was young and stupid." 05:10 "I did end up having babies." 08:03 "I was praying really hard."1 2:17 "I never had any doubts." 31:15 "I lost myself." 31:43 "We support each other." 36:56 "Don't let it fester." 47:00 "I wear it proudly." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Second Chances 02:47 Vicky's Journey of Resilience 06:09 Joel's Liver Transplant Experience 08:59 Faith and Overcoming Adversity 11:47 The Power of Family and Love 15:11 Finding Each Other Again 18:05 Cherishing Life's Little Moments 23:48 Reconnecting and Rediscovering Love 25:11 Blending Families and Navigating Relationships 26:39 Lessons from Past Relationships 30:19 Communication and Support in Marriage 35:59 Fun and Lighthearted Moments 42:14 Life Lessons and Legacy Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    Two Transplants, Two Near-Death Experiences & One Second-Chance Love Story 30 Years Later

  6. Aug 12

    A Mormon and An Atheist Fell in Love: From 320 Pounds & Drunk Texts to 14 Years of Marriage

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B, Chris Pettit went from alcohol addiction, food addiction, and 320+ pounds to a healthier life built on family, honesty, and consistency. In this conversation with Jennie, Chris and Heidi share how communication, respect for different beliefs, and family-centered habits helped them build a strong marriage and transform their health together. Their story proves that recovery, weight loss, and lasting change are possible when the reason is bigger than yourself. Takeways: Chris shares how he went from Captain Morgan to broccoli and lost 120 poundsHeidi and Chris explain how they built a marriage across different faith backgroundsThe couple opens up about the power of communication, honesty, and respectChris talks about the moment he realized health had to change for his familyThey share how their kids now live a healthy, active family lifestyleChris explains why recovery from food and alcohol addictionwas harder than Ninja Warrior training SoundBites: 00:00:28— Captain Morgan to Ninja Warrior00:29:486— Laugh, cry, heal00:03:50— Teach people kindness00:06:15— Drunken first date stories00:10:52— Barnes and Noble connection00:13:08— Mormon and atheist00:15:25— Communication is everything00:20:14— I was a dumbass00:22:37— Health for my family00:23:26— Captain Morgan to broccoli00:24:47— Recovery is harder00:27:09— Kids ask about protein00:29:31— Marriage is worth it00:35:00— Talk to your spouse00:36:49— Reaching out is scary00:39:11— Nobody is better Chapters: 00:00— Captain Morgan to Ninja Warrior01:27— Meet Chris and Heidi03:22— How They Met06:15— First Date Disaster10:01— Barnes and Noble Connection13:08— Mormon and Atheist Marriage15:25— Communication Is Key18:48— The Health Wake-Up Call23:05— Losing 120 Pounds23:48— Ninja Warrior Family27:09— Healthy Habits at Home29:56— Marriage Is Worth It35:21— Advice for Struggling Listeners38:16— Unconditional Love Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    A Mormon and An Atheist Fell in Love: From 320 Pounds & Drunk Texts to 14 Years of Marriage

  7. Aug 5

    Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Break Trauma Bonds & Find Yourself Again

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, what does it take to heal from narcissistic abuse and reclaim your sense of self? Jennie K. Drollinger talks with life coach Kyle Miller about recovery from emotional abuse, breaking trauma bonding, and building healthy boundaries. They explore myths about narcissism, the power of self-love, and practical steps for healing, self-discovery, and personal growth. Whether you're leaving a toxic relationship or supporting someone who is, this episode offers hope, clarity, and tools for moving forward. If you're ready to stop surviving and start thriving, this conversation will help you reconnect with your authentic self and create a healthier future. Takeaways: Misconceptions about narcissists and narcissistic tendenciesThe importance of boundaries and self-kindnessTrauma bonding and its impact on relationshipsLong-term effects of emotional and mental abuseSteps to rediscover passions and rebuild confidenceThe role of self-forgiveness and allowing feelingsHow age and societal beliefs affect starting overPractical daily practices for reconnecting with oneself Soundbites 21:21 Sound Bite: “It’s not just about getting out of the toxic relationship, it’s about finding you” 0:00/25:25“If you have to continually justify the way someone treats you, they don’t value you” 41:01 “You can just think to yourself, whoa, okay, that’s enough. That’s enough” Chapters 00:00 Introduction to healing from narcissistic abuse 01:59 Common misconceptions about narcissists 04:04 The importance of boundaries and self-kindness 07:06 Trauma bonding and recognizing patterns 09:55 Long-term effects of emotional abuse on health 13:01 When to seek help and avoid counseling pitfalls 15:01 The power of self-love and rediscovery 18:00 Starting over at any age and self-compassion 20:58 Justifying treatment and recognizing true support 23:04 Understanding gaslighting and its effects 25:08 Healing as a holistic process and physical health 28:00 Rediscovering passions and living fully 29:57 The importance of self-boundaries and self-talk 33:03 Daily practices for reconnecting with yourself 36:54 The message of hope and new beginnings https://kylemillercoaching.com/ https://www.facebook.com/kylemillercoach https://www.instagram.com/kylemillercoaching/ https://www.tiktok.com/@kylemillercoaching https://www.youtube.com/@Kylemillercoaching Have a Second Chance story? We'd love to hear it! Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com https://secondchanceonlove.com/

    Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: Break Trauma Bonds & Find Yourself Again

  8. Jul 29

    She Was in Her Wedding Dress When Her Soulmate Knocked on the Door

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, what would you do if the love of your life showed up at your door... at exactly the wrong time? Join Jennie as she discovers how one unexpected knock, plenty of laughter, a few surprising twists, and a little courage can turn an ordinary day into the beginning of an extraordinary second chance. Bob and Renee share their remarkable journey of finding their way back to each other after years apart, proving that timing isn't always perfect-but love has a way of rewriting the story. Through honest communication, resilience, personal growth, and unwavering faith in each other, they built a successful blended family and a lasting marriage rooted in love and respect. Their inspiring story is a powerful reminder that hope, healing, and second chances are always possible—and sometimes the best chapters of our lives begin with an unexpected knock at the door. Takeaways: The significance of timing and fate in relationshipsChildhood connections and how they influence adult love storiesNavigating blended families and the importance of honesty with childrenOvercoming past marriages and redemptive second chancesCommunicating openly and maintaining romance in long-term relationshipsThe role of patience, humor, and mutual respect in lasting loveLife lessons from personal experiences and family historyPractical advice for couples facing tough times or considering second chance Sound Bites: 00:00, Wrong time, right love 01:13, Renee’s background 02:11, Bob’s background 03:38, First marriages 05:06, Family connection 06:05, First spark 08:25, The almost-wedding 10:40, Separated 11:09, Caregiving and clarity 13:00, Life is short 15:22, Reconnecting 16:19, Sweden 17:46, Soul connection 20:04, Blended family 22:32, Adoption 24:54, Farming 27:19, Love notes 29:37, Respect and humor 31:58, What they admire 34:15, Fate 36:41, Saved my kids' lives 39:09, Advice for hard seasons 41:35, Hope 43:47, Closing Chapters 00:00, Wrong time, right love 01:13, Renee’s background 02:11, Bob’s background 03:38, First marriages 05:06, Family connection 06:05, First spark 08:25, The almost-wedding 10:40, Separated 11:09, Caregiving and clarity 13:00, Life is short 15:22, Reconnecting 16:19, Sweden 17:46, Soul connection 20:04, Blended family 22:32, Adoption 24:54, Farming 27:19, Love notes 29:37, Respect and humor 31:58, What they admire 34:15, Fate 36:41, Saved my kids’ lives 39:09, Advice for hard seasons 41:35, Hope 43:47, Closing Have a Second Chance story? We'd love to hear it! Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

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Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B Have you ever wondered, “Did I miss my chance?” Hosted by Jennie K. Drollinger—an unapologetic ’80s girl at heart—Second Chances is a storytelling podcast about second chances in love, career, health, family, faith, purpose, and life after unexpected change. Each episode shares real, hope-filled stories of people who found their Side B: rekindled romances, love after divorce, restored marriages, career reinvention, health recovery, healing after heartbreak, family reconnection, and new beginnings after loss, failure, or fear. It all began with Jennie’s own lost and found love story: meeting a boy in H.S. 1985 Alaska, falling fast, then losing touch through misunderstandings and an old-school disconnected landline—a mystery that took over three decades to explain and finally uncover what really happened. Thirty years later, they found their way back to each other. Their journey captured hearts nationwide and was crowned America’s Favorite Couple 2025, winning out of 210,000 couples. But this isn’t just a love story podcast. It’s a community of Side B moments—a place for listeners to share stories of resilience, forgiveness, healing, personal growth, reinvention, purpose, and proof that it’s never too late to begin again. Pull up a chair. Get cozy. You’re not too late. "Your life didn’t end when your plans did—some stories aren’t over yet, and the best parts may still be waiting on Side B." Your Side B story could give someone hope! Listen to inspiring real stories and submit your own at: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/second-chance-on-love-side-b/id1868301852 https://open.spotify.com/show/3gpuyYsF5MXrn67ATYNcZP?si=a3183c87390c48cb Follow us on: https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove https://substack.com/@secondchanceonlove https://www.tiktok.com/@jendoll70 #SecondChances #SecondChanceOnLove #NewBeginnings #HopeAfterHardship #StorytellingPodcast #WomenPodcasters #80sVibes

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