Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B

Jennie K. Drollinger
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Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B Have you ever wondered, “Did I miss my chance?” Hosted by Jennie K. Drollinger—an unapologetic ’80s girl at heart—Second Chances is a storytelling podcast about second chances in love, career, health, family, faith, purpose, and life after unexpected change. Each episode shares real, hope-filled stories of people who found their Side B: rekindled romances, love after divorce, restored marriages, career reinvention, health recovery, healing after heartbreak, family reconnection, and new beginnings after loss, failure, or fear. It all began with Jennie’s own lost and found love story: meeting a boy in H.S. 1985 Alaska, falling fast, then losing touch through misunderstandings and an old-school disconnected landline—a mystery that took over three decades to explain and finally uncover what really happened. Thirty years later, they found their way back to each other. Their journey captured hearts nationwide and was crowned America’s Favorite Couple 2025, winning out of 210,000 couples. But this isn’t just a love story podcast. It’s a community of Side B moments—a place for listeners to share stories of resilience, forgiveness, healing, personal growth, reinvention, purpose, and proof that it’s never too late to begin again. Pull up a chair. Get cozy. You’re not too late. "Your life didn’t end when your plans did—some stories aren’t over yet, and the best parts may still be waiting on Side B." Your Side B story could give someone hope! Listen to inspiring real stories and submit your own at: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/second-chance-on-love-side-b/id1868301852 https://open.spotify.com/show/3gpuyYsF5MXrn67ATYNcZP?si=a3183c87390c48cb Follow us on: https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove https://substack.com/@secondchanceonlove https://www.tiktok.com/@jendoll70 #SecondChances #SecondChanceOnLove #NewBeginnings #HopeAfterHardship #StorytellingPodcast #WomenPodcasters #80sVibes

  1. 14h ago

    "Why Couples Argue & How to Communicate Better | Dr. Phillip Pistole"

    Why do couples argue over simple misunderstandings? In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Dr. Phillip Pistole (Dr. Phil) reveals why couples talk at each other instead of with each other—and how to break the cycle. Discover how assumptions, defensiveness, and poor listening skills create conflict in relationships. Dr. Phil shares practical couples communication tips, including how to ask clarifying questions, recognize body language, improve emotional awareness, and complain without criticizing. He also explores how family dynamics influence communication and conflict resolution. Whether you're married or dating, learn how to avoid miscommunication, stop unnecessary arguments, and build a stronger, healthier relationship through better communication. Key Takeaways: You just have to ask.There's a huge difference between talking at someone and talking with someone.Assuming is not good. Assuming's bad.Clarifying questions are essential in conversations.Body language tells more than our words do.Emotional awareness is crucial in relationships.You need to notice when your partner is upset.Complaining is different from criticizing.No one is wrong in a conversation; it's about understanding.We often play games in communication without realizing it.Soundbites: 00:00 "You just have to ask." 18:49 "It's all about self-preservation." 19:42 "No one is wrong." 22:06 "You have to learn how to complain." Chapters: 00:00 The Importance of Communication 02:54 Understanding Miscommunication 06:14 Clarifying Questions in Conversations 08:59 Emotional Awareness in Relationships 11:51 Body Language and Non-Verbal Cues 15:10 Navigating Family Dynamics 17:54 The Art of Complaining vs. Criticizing

    "Why Couples Argue & How to Communicate Better | Dr. Phillip Pistole"

  2. Oct 21

    Been There, Got Out: Two Survivors on Rebuilding After a High-Conflict Divorce

    Can you find love again after heartbreak, emotional abuse, and a high-conflict divorce? In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Lisa Johnson and Chris Berry, the couple behind Been There Got Out (BTGO), share their inspiring second-chance love story—from navigating toxic relationships and online dating to rebuilding trust and finding love again. We dive into narcissistic relationships, emotional abuse, healthy boundaries, divorce, co-parenting, and the impact of high-conflict relationships on children. Lisa and Chris share honest relationship advice, healing strategies, and how their personal experiences inspired them to become advocates, coaches, and authors of two powerful books. Their message? Your past doesn't have to define your future. Healing is possible, love can happen again, and sometimes your greatest chapter is still ahead. Takeaways: Hidden Abuse: Recognizing toxic patterns.Second Chances: Finding love after heartbreak.Online Dating: Taking a leap of faith.Healthy Boundaries: Protecting your peace.Building Trust: Honesty, vulnerability, and connection.Love & Laughter: Rediscovering romance.Healing Trauma: Navigating triggers and rebuilding confidence.Narcissistic Relationships: Spotting emotional abuse.Therapy Challenges: Avoiding blame and manipulation.High-Conflict Divorce: Communicating without escalating.Protecting Children: Putting their well-being first.Finding Support: The power of therapy and community.Pain Into Purpose: Turning struggles into strength.Sharing Your Story: Inspiring others through books and advocacy.Sound Bites: 00:00 "They survived high conflict relationships." 14:20 "I have never stopped wanting to know her more." 20:43 "It's not about the cigarette." 22:52 "You should write a book." 24:00 "This isn't normal. This isn't right." 27:40 "You've ruined my life, both of you." 30:59 "We call it strategic communication." 34:14 "You could never represent yourself." 37:14 "Children are essentially both of you." 44:14 "This is a human issue, not a gender issue." Chapters: 00:00 Recognizing Abuse in Relationships 01:40 Finding Love After Heartbreak 08:03 The Journey of Online Dating 14:28 Navigating New Relationships 21:08 Helping Others Through Shared Experiences 23:32 Understanding Narcissistic Relationships 28:54 Navigating Therapy with Narcissists 30:36 Establishing Boundaries and Communication 35:29 The Impact of Divorce on Children 41:32 Healing and Moving Forward 46:05 Finding Purpose in Helping Others Connect with Chris and Lisa: Website: https://beentheregotout.com/ Podcast: https://beentheregotout.buzzsprout.com/ First BTGO Book: https://www.amazon.com/Been-There-Got-Relationships-Circumstances/dp/194627495X/ Second book: https://www.amazon.com/Been-There-Got-Out-Against/dp/1967674183/ Strategic Communication course - free webinar:  https://programs.beentheregotout.com/SC-Register Have a Second Chance story to share? ❤️ Whether it’s love, faith, family, health, career, or life’s unexpected turns, we’d love to hear about your Side B moment! Visit secondchanceonlove.com to share your story or apply to be a podcast guest. hello@secondchanceonlove.com

    Been There, Got Out: Two Survivors on Rebuilding After a High-Conflict Divorce

  3. Oct 7

    Don’t Waste Your Pain: Healing After Losing Both Parents to Suicide

    In this deeply vulnerable episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Tiffaney Childers shares her journey through grief, trauma, chronic pain, and healing after losing both of her parents to suicide. Tiffaney opens up about what it means to keep functioning when your world has fallen apart—the loneliness that can exist even when you’re surrounded by people, the stigma surrounding suicide loss, and the hidden weight of carrying grief in silence. She shares how vulnerability and community became essential parts of finding her way forward. Through motherhood, chronic pain, self-discovery, and the support of others, Tiffaney began transforming survival into something more: a life filled with greater intention, connection, and purpose.This conversation is about allowing yourself to be seen in the messy middle, finding the courage to ask for support, and discovering that healing doesn’t require having everything figured out. Sometimes a second chance begins with one small decision to keep going—and then choosing to do it again tomorrow. Tiffaney’s story is a powerful reminder that our hardest chapters don’t have to be the end of the story. Takeaways Staying strong can prevent healing. Healing involves discomfort, but so does refusing to heal. Community is essential for healing. Motherhood can be a lifeline during tough times.Chronic pain can stem from emotional trauma. Grief can feel isolating, even in a crowd. Talking about loss helps break the stigma. Don't waste your pain; use it to help others. You can change your direction at any time. Silence about grief can be more harmful than healing.Sound Bites 00:00 "Strong does not mean healing." 06:40 "You better make time to fall apart." 15:05 "Community will be your lifeline." 30:01 "You have got to dig down deep." 32:05 "Don't waste your pain." 34:03 "Grief is a toxic place to sit." 35:36 "Silence buries you, it doesn't heal you." Chapters 00:00 The Strength in Vulnerability 02:58 Navigating Grief and Trauma 06:01 The Chaos of High Functioning Survival 09:10 The Loneliness of Grief 12:00 Understanding Suicide and Its Impact 15:05 The Importance of Community and Support 18:13 Motherhood as a Lifeline 21:01 Facing Chronic Pain and Healing 24:10 Transforming Pain into Purpose 27:00 The Journey of Healing and Self-Discovery 30:01 Embracing Change and Moving Forward Grab your copy of The Rise Back https://a.co/d/0bvYQiYP Find Tiffaney: https://theriseback.com/ https://www.facebook.com/TiffaneyChildersSpeaker https://www.instagram.com/tiffaneychilders/ Have a Second Chance story? 💗 If you’ve had a Side B moment in love, faith, family, health, career, or life, we’d love to hear it. Share your story or apply to be a guest on Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B. SecondChanceOnLove.com 📧 hello@secondchanceonlove.com Follow us: Facebook | Instagram | YouTube | Substack | TikTok

    Don’t Waste Your Pain: Healing After Losing Both Parents to Suicide

  4. Sep 30

    He Texted the Girl He Dated in 1989… 33 Years Later, Everything Changed

    What happens when a connection from your past finds its way back to you more than 30 years later? In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Originally released as a two-part episode, Darice and Mitch share their remarkable second chance love story from meeting in 1989 and losing touch to an unexpected reunion decades later in one full episode. Their story is filled with faith, spiritual connection, personal growth, miracles, and divine timing. After more than three decades, one simple message reopened a door neither expected and rekindled a love they had never completely forgotten. A beautiful reminder that sometimes the right love doesn’t arrive on our timeline—and that second chances can come when we least expect them. Takeaways: Miracles happen every day, whether we recognize them or not.Faith and divine timing can bring people together against all odds.Open communication and trust are vital in overcoming relationship challenges.Spiritual connections can guide life choices and reunions.Patience and perseverance are key to second chances in love.Sound Bites: 5:35 — Miracles happen every single day, every moment. 60:06 — Your souls knew each other and found each other again. 49:11 — What is it? The show, Jerry Maguire. You complete me. Chapters: 00:00 — Introduction to the story of love and miracles 02:08 — How they first met and their initial connection 06:02 — The impact of life challenges and serving missions 12:05 — The moment they lost touch and life moved on 20:05 — The unexpected reconnection and divine signs 30:01 — The first time they spoke after decades 39:50 — Their feelings and the spiritual bond 50:10 — The significance of divine timing and miracles 59:58 — Their marriage and ongoing journey of love Have a Second Chance story to share? We'd love to hear it! If you've experienced a Side B moment in love, faith, family, health, career, or life, visit https://secondchanceonlove.com/ to connect, share your story, or to be featured as a guest on the podcast. Reach out to us: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove https://substack.com/@secondchanceonlove https://www.tiktok.com/@jendoll70

    He Texted the Girl He Dated in 1989… 33 Years Later, Everything Changed

  5. Sep 23

    High School Sweethearts Reunite After 30 Years — Jerry & Debbie’s Story

    What happens when your first love finds its way back to you decades later? In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Jerry and Debbie revisit their teenage romance in 1980s Alaska—from folded notes and long-distance love to the friendships, memories, and growing pains that shaped their lives. Originally released as a two-part story earlier this year, their journey is now brought together in one complete episode, taking you from young love and years apart to an unexpected reconnection decades later. With laughter, honesty, and plenty of nostalgia, Jerry and Debbie reflect on love, relationships, friendship, faith, happiness, personal growth, and self-discovery—and the life lessons that come with getting a second chance. Can a connection from your teenage years survive decades apart? Sometimes the best parts of our story really do come on Side B. Takeaways Teenage romance and first love can leave a lasting impact.Long-distance love, friendships, and family shape the relationships we remember.Nostalgia can bring old memories—and old feelings—back to life.Reconnection proves that timing can change everything in love and life.Happiness and personal growth start with finding fulfillment within yourself.Faith and friendship can create bonds that survive years apart.Money can’t fix relationship problems, but personal growth can change your path.Second chances can lead to unexpected love, happiness, and self-discovery. Sound Bites 00:00 "Love Jerry. and I love you, Jerry." 06:28 "I was like, My mom is here, what the heck?" 25:01 "Jerry Fullmer is alive." 27:26 "It takes a village to raise everybody." 28:46 "It's all God's timing." 31:11 "You just know, you know." 41:54 "Money only fixes money problems." 44:44 "You gotta make yourself happy." 46:59 "Sometimes, when you know, you know." Chapters 00:00 Nostalgic Beginnings: Teenage Romance in Alaska 03:08 The Dance of Young Love: Memories and Connections 05:59 The Trials of Teenage Life: Family and Friendship 09:13 Long-Distance Love: The Impact of Time and Distance 11:54 Growing Up: Changes and Challenges 15:12 Reconnecting: The Journey Back to Each Other 17:58 Reflections on Love: Lessons from the Past 20:54 Full Circle: The Unchanging Nature of Connection 24:09 Reconnecting After Years Apart 27:26 The Journey to Happiness 29:16 The Power of Familiarity 34:56 Faith and Friendship 39:32 Life Together: A Second Chance 43:46 Finding Strength in Adversity Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. Website: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove www.tiktok.com/@sidebwithjennie

    High School Sweethearts Reunite After 30 Years — Jerry & Debbie’s Story

  6. Sep 16

    The 19th of 21 Children: Paul Lamar Hunter’s Story of Faith, Forgiveness & Second Chances

    What if your beginning didn’t have to determine your ending? On Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Jennie talks with Paul Lamar Hunter, author of No Love, No Charity: The Success of the Nineteenth Child. As the 19th of 21 children, Paul shares his inspirational story of overcoming poverty, adversity, generational trauma, and family dysfunction to become the first in his family to graduate from college. Through faith, forgiveness, education, fatherhood, resilience, and personal growth, Paul learned how to break generational cycles and turn adversity into purpose. It’s a powerful reminder to never give up—your past may shape your story, but it doesn’t have to write your ending. Key Takeaways Your beginning does not determine your endingTurn adversity into resilience and purpose.Forgiveness helps break generational patterns.Education can be a powerful path to transformationSurround yourself with positive, like-minded peopleKeep moving forward—even without everyone’s support.Fatherhood is about presence, love, and intentional parentingYour story can give someone else hope to overcomeNever give up: your best chapter may still be on Side B Sound Bites 00:00 — Become Anything You Believe 01:26 — An Amazing American Story 06:15 — Put Purpose Above Circumstance 13:22 — Love Creates Change 18:06 — Forgiveness Frees You 20:32 — Education Breaks Barriers 22:58 — Cross the Finish Line 36:43 — Your Story Can Give Hope 41:30 — The Best Parts Are on Side B Chapters 00:00 — You Can Become Anything 01:26 — The 19th Child of 21 02:53 — Growing Up in the 1970s 04:19 — The Power of Real Connection 06:43 — Music, Family, and Soul Train 08:37 — The Tradition of Sunday Dinner 11:30 — The Meaning Behind the Book Title 12:28 — The $1 House That Changed Everything 14:20 — Understanding Imperfect Parents 16:43 — Forgiveness Breaks Generational Cycles 18:06 — Surviving Family Trauma 20:03 — From Job Loss to College 21:32 — Becoming a Family First 22:58 — Crossing the Finish Line 24:55 — Choosing a Positive Circle 26:50 — Fatherhood and Family Legacy 27:49 — Turning Loss into Presence 30:09 — Coaching Beyond the Game 31:56 — From Book to Screenplay 33:49 — Overcoming the People Who Hold You Back 34:46 — Writing as a Path to Healing 36:14 — Becoming Proof of Possibility 38:09 — Keep Evolving and Stay Positive 38:37 — Paul’s Global Mission 40:30 — Resilience, Perseverance, and Hope 41:30 — Your Best Parts May Be on Side B Connect with Paul: TikTok: @paul.lamar.hunter, PaulLamarHunter2.0 Insta: paullamarhunter, plh19_sports, ischildsupportlaw X: @APLH19 No Love, No Charity. The Success of the 19th Child: https://amzn.to/4Aa9Fcz Contact Jennie at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. Website: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    The 19th of 21 Children: Paul Lamar Hunter’s Story of Faith, Forgiveness & Second Chances

  7. Sep 9

    We Waited 32 Years to Find Out What Really Happened | Our True Love Story

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, what happens when high school sweethearts reconnect after 32 years and finally learn why they lost each other? Bryan and Jennie share how one disconnected phone call changed everything—and how their second-chance love story inspired the novel As Sure as the Stars. From 1980s nostalgia to an unexpected reunion, it’s a story of first love, timing, and finding your way back. TakeawaysOrdinary moments can change everything — a missed call can alter the course of a life.Timing matters—sometimes love, reconciliation, and second chances arrive decades later.Our memories shape us — revisiting the past can bring unexpected clarity, healing, and understanding.Some moments feel bigger than coincidence — “God winks”, unexpected connections became meaningful parts of their reunion.Sharing your story takes vulnerability — but telling it can help you understand where you’ve been and who you’ve become.Nostalgia tells a story, too — music, dances, fashion, cassette tapes, and 1980s culture bring their high school years vividly back to life.Love can be rediscovered at any age — hope, courage, and vulnerability can open the door to a second chance.Real life can inspire something bigger — their lost-and-found love story became the heart behind As Sure as the Stars. Soundbites 03:26 The Story Was Meant to Be Written 06:21 The Memory That Survived 16:17 The Phone Call That Never Came 29:48 The Moment Everything Came Back 38:23 The First Dance 45:01 Love Is Not Always a Straight Line 45:31 Ordinary Moments Can Become Everything 46:59 Love Requires Courage 48:53 There Is Hope for Everyone 49:51 One Misunderstanding Created Three Decades Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Love Story and Book Inspiration 04:11 Memories Resurfaced During Writing 07:36 High School Traditions and First Love 10:39 The Awkwardness of the First Encounter 14:55 The Disconnected Phone and Missed Opportunities 18:33 The Emotional Impact of Nostalgic Songs 19:43 The Surreal Moment of Seeing Each Other Again 22:13 Jake's Perspective and the Moment of Recognition 23:30 The Significance of Ordinary Moments 24:47 The First Conversation and Reconnecting 26:10 The First Time They Felt a Connection 27:06 Reflections on Teenage Insecurities 31:00 Memories of a High School Dance and Traditions 32:41 The First Night They Met in 1985 34:05 The Magic of a Slow Dance 35:39 The Moment of Recognition 38:10 The Elder's Advice, Timing 39:49 Memories, Songs of the 80s 43:00 Lessons on Love, Hope, and Second Chances Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. Website: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    We Waited 32 Years to Find Out What Really Happened | Our True Love Story

  8. Sep 2

    It Wasn't About the Paper Towels — A Real Marriage Therapy Session

    In this episode of Second Chances: The Best Parts Are on Side B, Jennie Bryan and Dr. Phil get real about marriage, relationships, anger, fear, and communication in a candid mini therapy session. They explore why conflict is rarely about the argument on the surface, how emotional intelligence can improve conflict resolution, and how gender differences, step parenting, blended families, and past relationships can shape the way couples communicate. From resentment to compromise, discover practical insights for understanding your triggers, communicating what you really need, and building healthier relationships. Takeaways: Anger often stems from fear of loss. Effective communication is crucial in relationships. Conflict is a natural part of relationships. Understanding emotional underpinnings can resolve arguments. Gender differences affect communication styles. Past relationships influence current dynamics. Compromise is essential for relationship success. Recognizing triggers can prevent escalation. Learning to complain effectively improves communication. Therapy can provide valuable tools for couples. SoundBites: 00:00 "Marriage is messy. Second chances, even messier." 04:12 "It's best to compromise and to listen. "06:34 "There's always a reason behind anger. "13:30 "Conflict's not a bad thing. "18:17 "You can't fix it if you don't talk about it. "38:41 "It's never really just the paper towels. "42:48 "True relationship is compromising. "43:16 "You're helping a lot of people." Chapters: 00:00 Understanding Anger and Fear 01:08 Introducing Dr. Phil and the Therapy Session 02:23 The Importance of Communication in Relationships 05:10 Conflict Resolution and Fair Fighting 10:13 Emotional Underpinnings of Arguments 14:54 The Role of Gender Differences in Communication1 9:45 Navigating Family Dynamics and Step Parenting 25:05 The Impact of Past Relationships on Current Dynamics2 9:59 Final Thoughts on Compromise and Understanding Have a Second Chance story? Share your story-or apply to be a guest—at https://secondchanceonlove.com/contact/ Contact us at: hello@secondchanceonlove.com. https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove

    It Wasn't About the Paper Towels — A Real Marriage Therapy Session
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Second Chances: The Best Parts are on Side B Have you ever wondered, “Did I miss my chance?” Hosted by Jennie K. Drollinger—an unapologetic ’80s girl at heart—Second Chances is a storytelling podcast about second chances in love, career, health, family, faith, purpose, and life after unexpected change. Each episode shares real, hope-filled stories of people who found their Side B: rekindled romances, love after divorce, restored marriages, career reinvention, health recovery, healing after heartbreak, family reconnection, and new beginnings after loss, failure, or fear. It all began with Jennie’s own lost and found love story: meeting a boy in H.S. 1985 Alaska, falling fast, then losing touch through misunderstandings and an old-school disconnected landline—a mystery that took over three decades to explain and finally uncover what really happened. Thirty years later, they found their way back to each other. Their journey captured hearts nationwide and was crowned America’s Favorite Couple 2025, winning out of 210,000 couples. But this isn’t just a love story podcast. It’s a community of Side B moments—a place for listeners to share stories of resilience, forgiveness, healing, personal growth, reinvention, purpose, and proof that it’s never too late to begin again. Pull up a chair. Get cozy. You’re not too late. "Your life didn’t end when your plans did—some stories aren’t over yet, and the best parts may still be waiting on Side B." Your Side B story could give someone hope! Listen to inspiring real stories and submit your own at: https://secondchanceonlove.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/second-chance-on-love-side-b/id1868301852 https://open.spotify.com/show/3gpuyYsF5MXrn67ATYNcZP?si=a3183c87390c48cb Follow us on: https://www.facebook.com/2ndchanceonlove https://www.instagram.com/2ndchanceonlove/ https://www.youtube.com/@2ndchanceonlove https://substack.com/@secondchanceonlove https://www.tiktok.com/@jendoll70 #SecondChances #SecondChanceOnLove #NewBeginnings #HopeAfterHardship #StorytellingPodcast #WomenPodcasters #80sVibes

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