Inference and Incense

Inference and Incense

Where data meets divination — and science spars with the sacred. Inference and Incense is a podcast hosted by two data scientists with radically different worldviews — one rooted in logic, the other drawn to mysticism — united by a belief that truth lives in tension. Each week, we dive into a big (or beautifully random) question at the edge of AI, identity, behavior, and spirituality — mixing rigorous analysis with tarot pulls, surprise guests, and the occasional existential spiral. This is a space for the curious, the skeptical, and the beautifully undone.

  1. May 15

    Perception of Free Will

    What if you've never actually met your unfiltered self?In this episode, we unpack the unsettling reality that most of what you watch, read, click, and consume isn't chosen by you—it's pre-selected by algorithms optimizing for one thing: keeping you engaged. We start with a late-night YouTube spiral that goes from data visualization to aesthetic nationalism in under 10 minutes, and ask: did the algorithm find your interests, or did it create them? Then we dive into Netflix—the OG godfather of recommendations—where 80% of viewing comes from algorithmic curation, not user search. You think you're browsing a library of millions of titles, but the platform only shows you 0.1% of its catalog. The rest? Hidden in the stock room. We explore the exposure effect: did Lucy organically love true crime, or did Netflix train her to through repetition and convenience? And we confront the deeper question: does free will exist when you can't choose what you don't know exists, can't evaluate options you're never shown, and are constantly auto-played into the next thing? We talk about postpartum K-drama binges, the illusion of emotional resonance, phones listening to your conversations, and why "just one more episode" isn't always your decision. This isn't anti-streaming. It's anti-forgetting that you're the one being optimized. Because consciousness is shaped by its objects—and right now, the algorithm is choosing your objects. Not for your growth. For quarterly earnings. The question isn't whether you have free will. It's whether you're aware enough to use it.

    32 min
  2. Apr 10

    When Desire Becomes Data (And Dating Feels Different)

    When did desire turn into data? In this episode, we dive into what dating feels like when attraction becomes analytics. Profiles, filters, compatibility scores, swipe rates — modern romance now comes with dashboards. You don’t just meet someone. You match at 92%. We start with Lucy’s real-life origin story — yes, she met her husband on an app — and unpack the difference between Profile You and Embodied You. The curated, keyword-optimized, well-lit version… versus the 4K human who laughs weird, holds a coffee cup a certain way, and can’t be reduced to dropdown menus. Then we follow the money. A $9 billion industry built on one paradox: if you fall in love, you leave. But if you almost fall in love, you become revenue. We talk intermittent reinforcement, attachment styles, “Designed to be deleted” marketing, and how maximum hope + maximum uncertainty is suspiciously good for quarterly earnings. Finally, we confront the hyper-selection trap. Dating as KPI. A/B testing your photos. Filtering out 85% of humanity by one metric. Watching rejection become quantified — and then quietly internalized as identity. The app tracks behavior. Your brain turns it into self-worth. This isn’t anti-app. It’s anti-forgetting-you’re-human. Because compatibility isn’t sameness. It’s willingness. Intimacy isn’t optimized for volume. It grows in slowness, vulnerability, repetition. The algorithm may introduce you. But love? Love happens in the unmeasurable spaces. And no compatibility percentage can calculate that.

    32 min

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Where data meets divination — and science spars with the sacred. Inference and Incense is a podcast hosted by two data scientists with radically different worldviews — one rooted in logic, the other drawn to mysticism — united by a belief that truth lives in tension. Each week, we dive into a big (or beautifully random) question at the edge of AI, identity, behavior, and spirituality — mixing rigorous analysis with tarot pulls, surprise guests, and the occasional existential spiral. This is a space for the curious, the skeptical, and the beautifully undone.