Hanging Out With The Girlfriends

Kamsy Okanu, Rebecca Ajifowowe

Hanging Out With The Girlfriends is the podcast that brings the group chat straight to the mic. Hosted by Kamsy and Beckie, this is your girls’ night experience filled with unfiltered conversations about life, relationships, glow-ups, pop culture hot takes, and real-time growth. It's honest talk and shared laughs. So grab a drink, get comfy, and hang out with us. This mic is just an extension of the group chat.

Episodes

  1. Apr 30

    Ep. 11: Friendship Breakups and Unspoken Tension

    Nobody really talks about friendship breakups… but they hurt. The slow distance, the unspoken tension, the memories that don’t feel the same anymore. We’re unpacking it all in this episode. Come hang with your favorite girlfriends.  Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A  Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542  Beats by Tite Tunez

    1h 26m

  2. Apr 16

    Ep. 10: Everybody Thinks It…. Nobody Says it

    We’re sharing our unpopular opinions, hot takes, and the truths people think but don’t always admit. From love and marriage to friendships, family, boundaries, closure, pretty privilege, and life online — nothing was off limits. Do you agree… or are you cancelling us? Funny, bold, and guaranteed to start conversations. Come hang with your favorite girlfriends.  Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A  Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542   Beats by Tite Tunez

    1h 7m

  3. Apr 9

    Ep. 9: Leave It In The Grave

    Some habits need to stay buried… permanently. In this episode, we’re calling out the annoying, questionable, and downright unnecessary habits people really need to leave behind. From everyday behaviors to things that just don’t make sense anymore, we’re asking one simple question — why are we still doing this? Funny, a little chaotic, and very relatable. Come hang with your favorite girlfriends. Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542  Beats by Tite Tunez

    1h 2m

  4. Mar 26

    Ep. 8: The Audacity of Being That Girl

    What does it really mean to “know your worth”? Are we being confident… or just afraid to admit we’re settling? In this episode, we’re unpacking self-worth, standards, and the pressure women feel to shrink themselves or be “less.” Real, spicy, and very relatable. Come hang with your favorite girlfriends. Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A  Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542  Beats by Tite Tunez

    43 min

  5. Mar 19

    Ep. 7: The Modern Woman Dilemma

    Be independent… but not too independent. Be successful… but still “soft.” Have standards… but don’t be intimidating. In this episode, we’re unpacking the pressure of being a modern woman — balancing culture, independence, expectations, and figuring out life on your own terms. Are we empowered… or just overwhelmed? Come hang with your favorite girlfriends.  Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A  Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542  Beats by Tite Tunez

    56 min

  6. Mar 12

    Ep. 6: Female Friendship: Support vs Competition

    Female friendships are powerful… but they can also get messy. In this episode, we’re talking about support vs competition, jealousy between friends, and what real sisterhood should actually feel like. Have you ever felt competed with by a friend? Come hang with your favorite girlfriends. Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542 Beats by Tite Tunez

    1h 4m

  7. Mar 5

    Ep. 5: Is Suffering A Status Symbol?

    Why does it feel like suffering is a competition? The moment you say you’re tired, someone is ready to remind you they had it worse. In this episode, we’re unpacking glorified struggle, hustle culture, and why rest feels almost illegal. Is exhaustion proof of ambition… or are we just addicted to survival mode? Come hang with your favorite girlfriends. Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542 Beat by Tite Tunez

    1h 1m

  8. Feb 26

    Ep 4: Are you “In Love” or Just Disappearing

    Can you be in love and still be THAT girl? In this episode, we’re unpacking what it really means to love yourself while loving someone else. From losing yourself in relationships to adjusting vs shrinking, maintaining friendships, and recognizing self-sabotage patterns — we’re asking the real question: Do we actually know what healthy love looks like? Honest. Reflective. A little uncomfortable — in the best way. Come hang with your favorite girlfriends. Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542   Beat by Tite Tunez

    58 min

  9. Feb 19

    Ep. 3: Navigating Dating in Diaspora: Chaos and Confusion

    Dating in diaspora is a different kind of experience. From cultural shock and talking stages that never end, dating apps vs real life … to immigration pressure, loneliness, and trying not to lose your standards. We’re unpacking what it really feels like dating abroad as Nigerian girls. Is it better? Is it harder? Or are we just more aware now? Press play and come hang with your favorite girlfriends. 💕🎙️ Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE   Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A   Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542    Beat by Tite Tunez

    1h 10m

  10. Feb 12

    Episode 2: Healing, Hilarious and Bare Minimum

    A Valentine Special: Love month is doing what it does… so we had to talk about it. In this episode, we’re unpacking the chaos, the growth, and the absolutely unserious things we’ve done in the name of love. From hilarious relationship moments that should’ve been warning signs… to the healing that came after, we’re keeping it real. We’re also asking the real question: Are we asking for princess treatment… or are we just tired of accepting the bare minimum? This one is honest, reflective, and slightly embarrassing (for us). But that’s what girlfriends are for. Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE   Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A   Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542  Beat by Tite Tunez

    1h 14m

  11. Feb 5

    Episode 1: We are the new adults and we still can’t believe it

    Adulthood comes with bills, pressure, and a lot of “I wasn’t prepared for this” moments 😭 In this episode, we talk honestly about navigating adulthood — the expectations, the confusion, and the small wins that keep us going. Real conversations, shared laughs, and relatable experiences, just like a girls’ night. Press play and hang out with the girlfriends  Leave a review if this episode felt a little too relatable and don’t forget to follow the podcast so you don’t miss an episode You can listen on  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3esJU8EioTxFWRWADIs2TZ?si=K9EdfOXMS1uMRo5FHRxE_A   Apple podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/hanging-out-with-the-girlfriends/id1871792542   YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends  And catch up with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE

    42 min

  12. Feb 3

    Meet The Girlfriends

    It’s finally here guysss Meet the Hosts — unfiltered, raw, and just a little edit here and there. In this episode, we’re introducing ourselves the only way we know how: honest conversations, real laughs, and zero pretending. From our likes and dislikes to the little things that shaped us, this is your chance to truly get to know the girlfriends behind the mic. Press play, get comfy, and hang out with us. Please follow and subscribe Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/@HangingOutWithTheGirlfriends  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howgfpodcast?igsh=ZGNua2l3cHN4NjNi Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howgfpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-93JVwidBWfE

    33 min
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Hanging Out With The Girlfriends is the podcast that brings the group chat straight to the mic. Hosted by Kamsy and Beckie, this is your girls’ night experience filled with unfiltered conversations about life, relationships, glow-ups, pop culture hot takes, and real-time growth. It's honest talk and shared laughs. So grab a drink, get comfy, and hang out with us. This mic is just an extension of the group chat.

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  • Creator
    Kamsy Okanu, Rebecca Ajifowowe
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Explicit
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