A Brothers Mind

A Brother's Mind Podcast

Two brothers, one mind. Luke and Heath strip back the ego for raw, unfiltered conversations about the realities of men's mental health, fatherhood, and navigating life's hardest chapters. From the heavy truths of divorce, co-parenting, and rebuilding yourself, to finding resilience in business, property, and investing—no topic is off the table. Real talk, real struggles, and real growth.

  1. The psychological reason you stay broke

    5D AGO

    The psychological reason you stay broke

    Your external wealth will never outgrow your internal self-worth. This week, we sit down with human behaviour and performance expert Michael Johnson to unpack the psychology of success, failure, and self-sabotage. In this episode, we break down: The psychological reason you stay broke (and why your spending habits are a mask). The "$20-a-week" mindset and the psychology of lottery winners. Why you only reach the level of success you are prepared to lose at. The formula for rewiring your financial reality: Clarity × Standards + Environment = Success. If you are constantly hitting a glass ceiling in your business or personal life, this conversation exposes the blind spots keeping you stuck. CHAPTERS: 00:00 - The $3 Billion Pushback (Intro) 02:10 - Michael’s backstory and extreme human behaviour 11:18 - Closing the $9 million gap 22:15 - Why money is just an exchange of value 32:49 - Escaping the $20-a-week mindset 52:00 - Net worth vs Self-worth: The lottery paradox 01:11:06 - The Clarity Equation for success Guest Links: Website: https://www.michaelmojo.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/MichaelMojo00Instagram: @MichaelMojo00TikTok: @michaelmojo_successFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/MichaelMojo00X: @MichaelMojo00Like, Follow & Subscribe YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/abrothersmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@abrothersmind⁠⁠If this episode resonated with you or provided value, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast, and share it with someone who needs to hear this conversation.

    1h 26m
  2. Reunited with the Stranger Who Saved My Life, Police Trauma & Rebuilding

    MAY 12

    Reunited with the Stranger Who Saved My Life, Police Trauma & Rebuilding

    Five years ago, Heath was at rock bottom. Trapped in a dark spiral after a devastating separation, a complete stranger knocked on his door and pulled him from the edge. That stranger was Matt Newlands. In this emotional five-year reunion, we uncover the story behind that night. Heath discovers that the man who saved him was already a survivor of his own war. After a decade as a police officer, Matt faced severe PTSD, an arrest that cost him his badge, and a fight to stay alive. Matt gives Heath and Luke an uncompromising look into the culture of burying trauma in the police force, the day his career ended in a watch house, and how he engineered his own rebuild to create Frontline Mental Health. CHAPTERS: 00:00 - The Reunion: 5 Years Later 02:18 - Why A Stranger Walked Into Heath's House 07:41 - Heath's Darkest Night 15:52 - Matt's 10-Year Police Career 27:01 - The Trauma That Changed Everything 34:33 - Hiding PTSD in the Police Force 39:15 - The Arrest: Losing the Badge 46:41 - Taking Responsibility & The Rebuild 51:48 - Founding Frontline Mental Health 01:03:54 - How Businesses Can Support Staff Content Warning: This episode contains raw discussions of severe depression, PTSD, and suicidal ideation. If you or a mate need help, call Lifeline on 13 11 14 or text 0477 13 11 14. Or reach out to Matt & Frontline Mental Health: Facebook: Frontline Mental Health & Matt NewlandsInstagram: @Frontline_MH & @matty.newlandsWebsite: frontlinemh.com.auLike, Follow & Subscribe YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/abrothersmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@abrothersmind⁠⁠

    1h 8m
  3. Watching A Loved One Spiral: Severe Alcohol Addiction

    MAY 5

    Watching A Loved One Spiral: Severe Alcohol Addiction

    Understanding the realities of severe alcohol addiction, men's mental health crises, and the devastating impact on families. Donna joins Heath and Luke to share the timeline of her 37-year-old son Shane’s escalating battle with substance abuse. We strip back the stigma to discuss how unaddressed relationship trauma, fear, and paranoia can rapidly spiral into an uncontrollable addiction. Donna bravely details the physical warning signs, the absolute helplessness of a parent watching from the sidelines, and how she and her husband Pete are navigating the profound aftermath of an impossible situation. CHAPTERS 00:00 - A Parent's Worst Nightmare 06:07 - The Beginning of the Spiral 10:22 - Paranoia, Fear, and the Turning Point 21:05 - The Toll on Marriage and Family 30:48 - Losing Tila: The Breaking Point 36:10 - Seizures and Hospital Intervention 43:20 - The Final Days and Impossible Decisions 48:55 - Moving Forward Through Grief Like, Follow & Subscribe YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/abrothersmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@abrothersmind⁠⁠If this episode resonated with you or provided value, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast, and share it with someone who needs to hear this conversation.

    56 min
  4. The Dark Side of Divorce: Why Hurt People Hurt Others (recovered from Hurt People Hurt)

    APR 28 ·  BONUS

    The Dark Side of Divorce: Why Hurt People Hurt Others (recovered from Hurt People Hurt)

    Most divorced men mask their trauma with ego, money, and gym progress. This extended clip from our previously removed Hurt People Hurt episode exposes the toxic cycle of unhealed relationships and the reality of life after a breakup. CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains discussions regarding mental health and thoughts of self-harm. Please see resources below. Owning your part in a failure is easy to say but difficult to do. Extracted from the original removed episode, Heath strips back the ego to discuss the "villain" phase most men go through but never admit to. We dive into the reality of using physical progress, money, and "relationship hopping" to mask deep-seated insecurities. Heath shares the moment he realised he was no longer the victim, but a contributor to the damage. This is a conversation about the "Great Dad" trap and the hard truth that unhealed people will always continue the cycle of pain. Help Line Resources Lifeline: 13 11 14MensLine Australia: 1300 78 99 78Beyond Blue: 1300 224 636Like, Follow & Subscribe YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/ABrothersMind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/abrothersmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@abrothersmind⁠⁠If you found value in our first season, please follow the show and leave a review to help us reach more people as we build Season 2.

    26 min

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Two brothers, one mind. Luke and Heath strip back the ego for raw, unfiltered conversations about the realities of men's mental health, fatherhood, and navigating life's hardest chapters. From the heavy truths of divorce, co-parenting, and rebuilding yourself, to finding resilience in business, property, and investing—no topic is off the table. Real talk, real struggles, and real growth.

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