By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support

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By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast for women navigating the uncertainty of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney with more than 30 years of experience and a certified divorce coach, the show blends legal insight with compassionate guidance. Each episode offers practical tools on financial preparation, custody considerations, and choosing the right attorney—while also addressing the emotional challenges of leaving a marriage. Whether you’re just beginning to wonder if divorce is right for you, preparing for mediation, or rebuilding afterward, this show provides clarity, confidence, and support every step of the way.

Episodes

  1. 5d ago

    Child Custody Basics: Protecting Kids Through the Process

    Episode Summary: In this episode of By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support, host Lisa Mosbey is joined by Patricia Sokolich, a seasoned family law attorney and divorce coach, to discuss the intricacies of child custody. They explore the critical distinctions between legal and physical custody, emphasizing the importance of understanding these terms before entering a divorce. Patricia explains how custody decisions have evolved over time, with courts now considering both parents equally. The episode delves into the "best interest of the child" standard, highlighting how it guides custody decisions. Patricia also shares insights on preparing children emotionally for changes in living arrangements and the significance of co-parenting. Listeners will gain valuable knowledge on navigating custody discussions, avoiding common pitfalls, and ensuring the well-being of their children during this challenging process. Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 00:24 – Basics of Child Custody 01:10 – Emotional Aspects of Custody 02:14 – Evolution of Custody Decisions 03:18 – Legal vs. Physical Custody Explained 04:47 – Importance of Legal Custody 07:14 – Visitation and Custody Arrangements 08:09 – Preparing Children for Custody Changes 12:00 – Best Interest of the Child Standard 14:02 – Common Custody Mistakes 16:00 – Role of Divorce Coaching in Custody About the Show: By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast dedicated to providing clarity and support for individuals navigating the complexities of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney and divorce coach, the show offers expert insights on topics such as child custody, legal rights, and emotional well-being. With a focus on empowering listeners, each episode delivers practical advice and strategies to help individuals move through separation with confidence and clarity. Whether you're facing a divorce or seeking guidance on family law matters, By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is your trusted resource for navigating these challenging times.

    Child Custody Basics: Protecting Kids Through the Process

  2. Jul 28

    Post-Divorce: Life After the Judgment

    Episode Summary: In this episode of By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support, host Lisa Mosbey is joined by Patricia Sokolich, a seasoned family law attorney and divorce coach. Together, they delve into the crucial steps women should take once their divorce is finalized. Patricia emphasizes the importance of planning during the divorce process to ensure a smooth transition into post-divorce life.  She discusses the necessity of financial planning, maintaining a stable lifestyle, and the role of a divorce coach in rebuilding self-esteem and identity. Patricia also highlights strategies for supporting children through new family dynamics and the importance of avoiding old patterns in future relationships. Listeners will gain valuable insights into creating a stable, fulfilling life after divorce, ensuring both personal and financial well-being. Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 00:14 – Importance of Planning During Divorce 01:09 – Financial Stability and Lifestyle Maintenance 02:34 – Emotional Impact and Support Systems 03:38 – Rebuilding Identity and Confidence 05:17 – Role of a Divorce Coach 06:17 – Financial Steps for Stability 08:07 – Supporting Children Through Divorce 10:22 – Avoiding Old Patterns in New Relationships 12:32 – Importance of Support Networks 14:18 – Coaching for Future Planning 16:14 – Encouragement for Life After Divorce About the Show: By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast dedicated to helping individuals navigate the complexities of divorce with clarity and confidence. Hosted by Lisa Mosbey, the show features insights from Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney and divorce coach, who offers practical advice on legal and emotional aspects of divorce. Whether you're in the midst of a separation or rebuilding after one, this series provides valuable guidance to support your journey towards a new beginning. With a focus on empowerment and informed decision-making, By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is your companion in creating a fulfilling life post-divorce.

    Post-Divorce: Life After the Judgment

  3. Jun 30

    During Divorce: Managing the Process and Protecting Yourself

    Episode Summary: In this episode of By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support, host Lisa Mosbey is joined by Patricia Sokolich, a seasoned family law attorney and divorce coach. Together, they delve into the complexities women face once the divorce process begins. Patricia shares insights on managing initial challenges, such as serving divorce papers and dealing with a spouse's reaction. She emphasizes the importance of finding a responsive attorney and discusses the role of temporary court orders in maintaining financial stability and housing security. The conversation also highlights the significance of maintaining physical and mental health during this tumultuous time, offering practical advice on establishing healthy routines. Patricia further explores the emotional aspects of divorce, including strategies for helping children feel secure amidst changing family dynamics. This episode is a valuable resource for women seeking clarity and support as they navigate the emotional and legal intricacies of divorce. Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 00:14 – Starting the Divorce Process 00:44 – Challenges After Filing Papers 01:55 – Importance of a Divorce Coach 02:40 – Choosing the Right Attorney 03:46 – Emotional Support from Attorneys 04:32 – Temporary Court Orders Explained 06:21 – Handling Abusive Situations 07:04 – Maintaining Health During Divorce 09:14 – Managing Financial Stress 11:07 – Preparing for Financial Challenges 12:57 – Supporting Children Through Divorce 16:02 – Children's Legal Representation 17:00 – Encouragement for Women in Divorce About the Show: By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast dedicated to empowering women through the divorce process with clarity and confidence. Hosted by Lisa Mosbey and featuring expert insights from Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney and divorce coach, the show provides practical advice on navigating the legal and emotional challenges of divorce. Listeners gain valuable knowledge on topics such as legal procedures, emotional well-being, and effective communication strategies. With a focus on support and understanding, the podcast aims to help women make informed decisions and find peace during a difficult time.

    During Divorce: Managing the Process and Protecting Yourself

  4. Jun 2

    Dealing with a Difficult Spouse: Staying Calm When Emotions Run High

    Episode Summary: In this episode of By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support, host Lisa Mosbey is joined by Patricia Sokolich, a seasoned family law attorney turned divorce coach. They delve into the challenges of dealing with a difficult or combative spouse during a divorce. Patricia shares insights on setting healthy boundaries, managing overwhelming communication, and the importance of limiting direct confrontations. She emphasizes the role of a divorce coach in preparing women for the legal and emotional hurdles of divorce, offering practical advice on gathering financial documentation and protecting one's peace. The discussion highlights the benefits of having a divorce coach to navigate the complexities of the process, ensuring women feel empowered and informed. Listeners will gain valuable strategies to handle high-stress situations and maintain stability for themselves and their children. Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 00:26 – Handling a Combative Spouse 01:34 – Living Arrangements During Divorce 02:48 – Setting Healthy Boundaries 05:42 – Managing Overwhelming Communication 07:03 – Benefits of Divorce Coaching 08:29 – Gathering Financial Documentation 10:01 – Protecting Peace and Children's Wellbeing 12:11 – Legal Process and Preliminary Conferences 14:12 – Empowerment Through Divorce Coaching 16:00 – Professional Help and Financial Awareness 18:06 – Financial Planning and Women's Independence About the Show: By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast dedicated to empowering women navigating the complexities of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a former family law attorney and current divorce coach, the show offers practical advice and emotional support for women facing separation. Each episode covers essential topics such as legal strategies, emotional resilience, and financial planning, providing listeners with the tools they need to move forward with clarity and confidence. With a focus on ethical guidance and personal empowerment, the series is a valuable resource for anyone seeking to understand and manage the divorce process.

    Dealing with a Difficult Spouse: Staying Calm When Emotions Run High

  5. Mar 10

    What Happens to the House? Understanding Property, Debt, and Divorce

    Episode Summary: In this episode, Patricia dives deep into one of the most emotional and complicated issues in divorce—what happens to the house. She breaks down how property is divided, what “marital assets” really mean under New York law, and how debt, pensions, and other finances come into play. Beyond the numbers, Patricia explains the emotional ties many women have to their homes, why financial planning is key before filing for divorce, and how to make confident decisions about the future. She also explores how housing decisions affect children and introduces the concept of “nesting” as a creative solution for families who can make it work. What You Will Learn in This Episode: How marital property and debt are divided under New York law Why emotional attachment to the marital home can cloud judgment Steps to take before divorce to protect your financial stability How pensions and 401(k)s are split—and what mistakes to avoid The importance of financial planning and divorce coaching How to prioritize your goals and make strategic trade-offs during negotiations The impact of housing decisions on children and how “nesting” works Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction: What happens to your house in a divorce 01:45 – Understanding marital property and a 50/50 split 04:30 – The financial reality of keeping the marital home 06:15 – Dividing pensions, savings, and retirement accounts 08:00 – The truth about debt division and financial responsibility 10:30 – Why planning before divorce can prevent emotional overwhelm 13:45 – Setting financial goals and understanding trade-offs 16:30 – The emotional side of losing a home and finding peace afterward 18:00 – Housing and custody: how to keep children’s stability in mind 20:30 – The “nesting” arrangement and how it benefits kids 22:00 – Closing thoughts and where to get support About the Show: By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast for women navigating the uncertainty of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney with more than 30 years of experience and a certified divorce coach, the show blends legal insight with compassionate guidance. Each episode offers practical tools on financial preparation, custody considerations, and choosing the right attorney—while also addressing the emotional challenges of leaving a marriage. Whether you’re just beginning to wonder if divorce is right for you, preparing for mediation, or rebuilding afterward, this show provides clarity, confidence, and support every step of the way.

    What Happens to the House? Understanding Property, Debt, and Divorce

  6. Feb 24

    How to Leave an Abusive Relationship, Even If You Don’t Have Money

    Episode Summary: In this powerful episode, Patricia Sokolich dives into one of the most difficult but necessary conversations — how to leave an abusive relationship when finances feel like a barrier. She breaks down the three types of abuse — physical, emotional, and financial — and explains how control and fear keep many women trapped. Patricia shares practical steps women can take to regain their independence, protect their children, and find safety, even when financial limitations make leaving seem impossible. What You Will Learn in This Episode: The three main types of abuse and how to identify them Signs of financial control and how it traps victims Realistic steps for leaving when money feels like a barrier How to seek legal protection and support safely The role of divorce coaching in planning a safe and structured exit Emotional and community resources available to survivors Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to the topic and why many women stay in abusive relationships 02:45 – Understanding the three main forms of abuse: physical, emotional, and financial 05:10 – Signs of financial control and what financial abuse looks like in a marriage 08:40 – What to do if you can’t afford to leave and how to start saving safely 10:30 – When and how to seek shelter or police support 13:00 – How divorce coaching helps women plan a safe exit 15:40 – The importance of emotional support and breaking the cycle of abuse 18:50 – Resources and legal steps women can take without hiring a lawyer 20:10 – Words of encouragement: why you should never give up About the Show: By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast for women navigating the uncertainty of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney with more than 30 years of experience and a certified divorce coach, the show blends legal insight with compassionate guidance. Each episode offers practical tools on financial preparation, custody considerations, and choosing the right attorney—while also addressing the emotional challenges of leaving a marriage. Whether you’re just beginning to wonder if divorce is right for you, preparing for mediation, or rebuilding afterward, this show provides clarity, confidence, and support every step of the way.   If you or someone you know is in danger, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788 for confidential support.

    How to Leave an Abusive Relationship, Even If You Don’t Have Money

  7. Feb 10

    I Want to File for Divorce. Where Do I Start?

    Episode Summary: In this episode, longtime family law attorney and divorce coach Patricia Sokolich walks women through the very first steps of divorce. From recognizing the signs it may be time to leave, to gathering the right financial documents, to understanding mediation and custody evaluations, Patricia explains how proper preparation can make all the difference. She shares practical advice for women who feel ready to move forward but don’t know where or how to begin. Key Timestamps: 01:40 – Signs it may be time to consider divorce 04:30 – Why you shouldn’t rush to hire a lawyer immediately 06:15 – The financial documents every woman should gather 09:50 – How a divorce coach helps you prepare for custody evaluations 12:30 – Mediation: benefits, risks, and what to know before agreeing 16:00 – Finding the right attorney and knowing your end goals About the Show: By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast for women navigating the uncertainty of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney with more than 30 years of experience and a certified divorce coach, the show blends legal insight with compassionate guidance. Each episode offers practical tools on financial preparation, custody considerations, and choosing the right attorney—while also addressing the emotional challenges of leaving a marriage. Whether you’re just beginning to wonder if divorce is right for you, preparing for mediation, or rebuilding afterward, this show provides clarity, confidence, and support every step of the way.

    I Want to File for Divorce. Where Do I Start?

  8. Jan 27

    What Is a Divorce Coach and How Can One Help?

    Episode Summary: In this episode, family law attorney Patricia Sokolich shares insights from over 30 years of experience helping women navigate the challenges of divorce. Now offering private divorce coaching, she explains how coaching provides clarity, emotional support, and practical preparation before hiring an attorney. Patricia discusses the misconceptions about divorce, the importance of financial awareness, the role of domestic control in relationships, and how women can gain confidence and control through guided support. Key Timestamps: 00:45 – What is a divorce coach and how can they help? 02:20 – Why Patricia transitioned from courtroom law to coaching 04:30 – Misconceptions about divorce and relying on friends’ experiences 07:15 – Managing expectations and the role of coaching in preparation 09:40 – Listening, empathy, and when to seek professional therapy 12:00 – Financial preparation and the “pre-divorce prep period” 15:10 – Addressing domestic control and ensuring safety before divorce 17:50 – Patricia’s experience supporting survivors of abuse 19:30 – Advice for women who feel stuck or scared before taking the next step About the Show: By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast for women navigating the uncertainty of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney with more than 30 years of experience and a certified divorce coach, the show blends legal insight with compassionate guidance. Each episode offers practical tools on financial preparation, custody considerations, and choosing the right attorney—while also addressing the emotional challenges of leaving a marriage. Whether you’re just beginning to wonder if divorce is right for you, preparing for mediation, or rebuilding afterward, this show provides clarity, confidence, and support every step of the way.

    What Is a Divorce Coach and How Can One Help?
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By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast for women navigating the uncertainty of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney with more than 30 years of experience and a certified divorce coach, the show blends legal insight with compassionate guidance. Each episode offers practical tools on financial preparation, custody considerations, and choosing the right attorney—while also addressing the emotional challenges of leaving a marriage. Whether you’re just beginning to wonder if divorce is right for you, preparing for mediation, or rebuilding afterward, this show provides clarity, confidence, and support every step of the way.

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