Prepared and Proven with Kenny DuBose, Jr.

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Prepared and Proven Podcast is a readiness-focused show for everyday people who take responsibility for their own safety. Hosted by Kenny DuBose Jr., this podcast explores personal protection, mindset, situational awareness, emergency response, and the legal and emotional realities that follow critical incidents. Through solo segments and in-depth conversations with instructors, protectors, and experienced professionals, Prepared and Proven delivers practical insight, not hype, so you can think clearly, act decisively, and protect what matters most. Because preparedness isn’t fear. It’s responsibility.

  1. Sep 7

    Home Defense Isn't What Most People Think

    Most people don't have a home defense plan. They have an idea. Owning a firearm doesn't automatically make you prepared. In this episode of The Readiness Report, Kenny DuBose explains why responsible home defense has very little to do with fantasy and everything to do with what you've done before something goes wrong. You'll learn why owning a firearm isn't the same as having a plan, why clearing your house is usually the wrong answer, how family communication changes your response, and why the layers around your home can buy you something incredibly valuable during an emergency: time. Get the FREE Field GuideTake what we talked about in this episode and start applying it to your own home. Download The 8 Layers That Buy You Time: A Practical Home Security Guide for Everyday Families. The guide will help you look at your home differently, identify areas that may need attention, and start improving your preparedness one layer at a time. Download The 8 Layers That Buy You Time You don't have to fix everything tonight. Start with one thing you can improve today. Chapters00:00 You Don't Have a Home Defense Plan 00:46 Home Defense for Normal People 02:25 Why Clearing Your House Is Dangerous 03:47 Training Recommendation: Apex Defense Group 04:49 The Layers That Buy You Time 05:32 Family Communication Changes Everything 06:59 Your Home Isn't a Fortress 07:57 Panic Exposes the Unprepared 08:47 Five Things You Should Do Tonight 11:04 Preparedness Is Built Before Chaos Mentioned in This EpisodeApex Defense Group Winston-Salem, NC (336) 529-4019 Apex Defense Group on Facebook Learn MoreExplore Prepared & Proven training, including the Developing a Home Emergency Plan course: Prepared and Proven If this episode challenged the way you think about preparedness, follow the show, leave a review, and share it with someone who would benefit from hearing it. Stay safe. Stay prepared. Stay empowered.

  2. Aug 15

    Are You Really Ready to Become a Firearms Instructor?

    What does it really take to become someone others can trust to teach them? In this episode of Instructor Track, I sit down with retired U.S. Navy veteran Doran Glass II for an honest conversation about his journey from lifelong firearms enthusiast and student to someone seriously considering taking the next step into firearms instruction. This conversation was recorded earlier in Doran's journey—and I intentionally kept it that way. Because sometimes there's more value in seeing where someone starts than only seeing where they eventually end up. Doran brings years of military experience, firearms training, and professional teaching experience to the conversation. But what stood out wasn't simply what he already knew. It was his willingness to keep learning. As Doran puts it: “One of the worst things I think I could be is a half-educated instructor.” That statement becomes the heart of our conversation. We talk about the experience that reignited his passion for teaching after he stepped in to help three inexperienced women at the range, why he's deliberately taking classes and learning from other instructors, and the questions he's asking himself before deciding he's ready to teach others. Because becoming an instructor isn't simply about earning another certification. It's about accepting the responsibility that comes with someone trusting you to help build their knowledge, skills, confidence, and judgment. IN THIS EPISODE• How Doran's 20-year Navy career shaped his approach to learning and preparedness • Why being willing to listen helped him qualify expert his first time shooting • The childhood firearms experience that changed how he later taught his own children • The range encounter that made him reconsider becoming an instructor • Why helping new shooters reminded him how much he enjoyed teaching • The difference between having experience and being ready to teach it • Why humility remains essential no matter how much experience you have • The value of continuing to take classes—even when you already know the fundamentals • Why Doran approaches every instructor with the mindset: “Teach me as if I know nothing.” • What it means to take responsibility for the people you eventually teach CHAPTERS: 00:00:00 The Instructor Track 01:12 Doran’s Firearms Journey 06:26 Growing Up Around Guns 11:36 Becoming a Concealed Carrier 19:16 The Moment That Sparked Teaching 24:33 Helping Shooters on the Range 30:25 What Instructor Track Is About 31:12 Military vs. Civilian Training 37:31 The Half-Educated Instructor 42:15 Good Instructors Keep Learning 45:02 Knowledge, Skill & the Journey ABOUT INSTRUCTOR TRACKInstructor Track is a Prepared & Proven series exploring the people, mindset, experiences, and professional development behind becoming an effective instructor. These aren't just conversations about certifications. They're conversations about growth, responsibility, mentorship, continued education, and what it takes to become someone others can trust to teach them. Never stop being a student. CONNECT WITH PREPARED & PROVENFor more episodes, training resources, and information about the DJr Empowerment Group: 🌐 preparedandproven.com Follow Prepared & Proven on your favorite social platforms and subscribe so you don't miss future episodes of: DISCLAIMERThe information shared on Prepared & Proven is for educational and informational purposes only. Stay safe. Stay prepared. Stay empowered.

  3. Jun 17

    After the Shooting Stops; The Consequences Begin

    Everybody talks about surviving the fight. Almost nobody talks about surviving what comes after it. Most people imagine a clean ending to a self-defense encounter. The threat is stopped, the police arrive, statements are made, and life returns to normal. Real life doesn't work that way. In this episode, Kenny DuBose Jr. explores the part of self-defense that rarely gets discussed: the aftermath. From investigations and temporary detention to attorney representation, emotional trauma, family stress, public scrutiny, and long-term self-doubt, the consequences of a defensive use of force can extend far beyond the moment itself. Topics include: • What happens after the shooting stops • Law enforcement response and investigations • Why articulation matters under stress • The importance of knowing your state laws • Emotional and psychological recovery • Family impact and social pressure • Avoidance, judgment, and emotional discipline • Why preparedness goes beyond marksmanship Preparedness is not about becoming eager to use force. It's about protecting life while avoiding unnecessary destruction whenever possible. Because if that moment ever comes and you survive it, you still have to live with what comes next. And that's the part nobody wants to talk about. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Learn More: DJR Empowerment Group https://thedjrgroup.org Prepared and Proven Podcast https://preparedandproven.com ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Stay safe. Stay prepared. Stay empowered.

  4. Jun 8

    Gear Doesn't Equal Readiness | Why Capability Matters More Than Equipment

    Most people believe preparedness starts with equipment. It doesn't. Real readiness is built through mindset, discipline, consistency, and preparation long before pressure arrives. In this episode, Kenny DuBose Jr. explains why capability, not equipment, is what ultimately determines performance when things become difficult, uncertain, or stressful. If you've ever wondered whether you're truly prepared or simply well-equipped, this episode is for you. In This Episode• Why people confuse gear with readiness • The difference between ownership and capability • Why training creates confidence • The role consistency plays in preparedness • How mindset influences performance under pressure • Practical ways to become more capable today Continue Your TrainingThe DJr Empowerment Academy helps everyday people develop practical skills for real-world decision-making and preparedness. Courses include: • Should I Shoot... Or Can I? • Conflict Avoidance & Situational Awareness • Developing a Home Emergency Plan Learn more at: DJr Empowerment Academy ConnectPrepared & Proven: https://preparedandproven.com DJr Empowerment Group: https://thedjrgroup.org Instagram: @preparedandproven Facebook: @preparedandproven X: @preparedproven YouTube: @preparedandproven Key Thought"The people who perform best under pressure built capability long before the moment arrived." Stay safe. Stay prepared. Stay empowered.

  5. Jun 3 ·  Bonus

    Women, Firearms & Confidence Under Pressure

    Instructor Track | Featuring Charlene Funderburg In this Instructor Track episode of the Prepared and Proven Podcast, Kenny DuBose sits down with Charlene Funderburg, Air Force veteran, certified firearms instructor, and founder of Heels & Steel Gun Club & Training Institute. Together, they discuss what responsible firearms instruction should actually look like, rooted in respect, fundamentals, and clear communication. This episode covers: • The importance of tone and respect in firearms training • Why fundamentals are non-negotiable • Creating safe, empowering environments for women • Training beyond the range - dry fire, holster work, and daily readiness • The responsibility of being your own first responder • Why unpreparedness carries real consequences Charlene also shares her journey from novice gun owner to instructor and community leader, and how Heels & Steel provides women with both skill development and belonging. Connect with CharleneWebsite: https://heelsandsteelgunclub.com/ Facebook: Heels & Steel Gun Club & Training Institute Based in Portsmouth, Virginia. 🎯 TRAIN WITH DJR EMPOWERMENT GROUP https://thedjrgroup.org Preparedness is built. Confidence is earned. Standards matter. Stay safe. Stay prepared. Stay empowered.

  6. May 16

    You’re Raising Adults, But Are Your Kids Prepared?

    You’re raising adults—but are they prepared? Most people think readiness starts later. It doesn’t. It starts at home. In this episode of the Prepared and Proven Podcast, I sat down with Kaleesha Washington, host of the Don’t Screw Up Your Kids Podcast, while I was out in Las Vegas for a training event. We got into something that doesn’t get talked about enough. Single moms… the pressure they carry… the decisions they’re making every day… and how that shapes the kids they’re raising. This isn’t just about parenting. It’s about decision-making, responsibility, and what shows up when pressure hits. 🎯 Train for outcomes. Not applause. ABOUT TODAY’S GUESTKaleesha Washington Instagram: @Kaleesha.washington YouTube: https://youtube.com/@DontScrewUpYourKids Podcast: Don’t Screw Up Your Kids (Spotify & Apple Podcasts) WHAT WE COVERWhat single moms are really carrying day to dayHow kids learn to react, or think, under pressureWhy preparation starts long before the momentTeaching de-escalation, awareness, and responsibilityWhy “don’t touch” isn’t enough anymoreWhat a real home safety mindset actually looks like Because when pressure shows up… you’re not building anything new. You’re falling back on what’s already there. CONNECT & TRAINTraining & Coaching: https://thedjrgroup.org Follow: IG: @PreparedAndProven FB: @preparedandproven Threads: @preparedandproven X: @preparedproven Stay safe. Stay prepared. Stay empowered.

  7. Apr 6

    Self-Defense Isn’t Over When the Fight Ends

    The Readiness Report | Episode 5 - Self-Defense Isn’t Over When the Fight Ends Most people think the hardest part of self-defense is the fight. It’s not. The hardest part comes after, when every decision you made is examined and judged under the law. In this episode, Kenny DuBose breaks down the legal reality every defender must accept. From the difference between feeling justified and being legally justified, to how emotional decisions and lack of legal understanding can lead to life-altering consequences. This episode challenges how you think about self-defense—and what it really means to be responsible for your actions. Because once the moment is over… what you did still has to hold up. 🔷 NEXT STEP If you’re ready to build real discipline behind your decision, explore the Empowerment Academy. Structured mindset training. Practical, repeatable habits. No hype. Just preparation. 🔗 Training & Courses: https://thedjrgroup.org 🔷 CONNECT Follow the show: Instagram: @preparedandproven Facebook: @preparedandproven Website: https://preparedandproven.com Stay Safe Stay Prepared Stay EMPOWERED! #preparedandproven #everydaydefender #readinessoverreaction #trainwithpurpose

  8. Mar 21

    Legal Confusion & Split-Second Decisions

    Everyday Defender — S1E3 A firearm doesn’t give you permission. Training doesn’t give you immunity. And adrenaline doesn’t change the law. In this episode of the Prepared and Proven Podcast, host Kenny DuBose Jr. sits down with Nobl3 Jenkins to examine how legal confusion creates hesitation, and why hesitation at the wrong moment carries serious consequences. Nobl3 is actively developing his competence as a student of the DJR Empowerment Academy, learning that readiness is more than skill with a tool. Together, this conversation explores how lawful decision-making under stress determines whether an action can be justified after the fact. This episode covers: Why knowing how to shoot is not the same as knowing when you can How legal uncertainty freezes decision-making under pressure What lawful justification actually requires in civilian self-defense Why articulation after the incident matters The responsibility that comes with choosing to carry If your goal is to protect yourself and your family — and to make decisions that can withstand scrutiny — this episode will challenge how you think about preparedness. About DJR Empowerment Academy DJR Empowerment Academy prepares responsible citizens to make sound, lawful decisions under pressure. Training emphasizes legal clarity, accountability, and readiness that holds up when it matters most. Learn more at: https://thedjrgroup.org Follow the Prepared and Proven Podcast Instagram / Threads / Facebook: @PreparedAndProven

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Prepared and Proven Podcast is a readiness-focused show for everyday people who take responsibility for their own safety. Hosted by Kenny DuBose Jr., this podcast explores personal protection, mindset, situational awareness, emergency response, and the legal and emotional realities that follow critical incidents. Through solo segments and in-depth conversations with instructors, protectors, and experienced professionals, Prepared and Proven delivers practical insight, not hype, so you can think clearly, act decisively, and protect what matters most. Because preparedness isn’t fear. It’s responsibility.

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