Walking Close, Living Changed

Brian Opbroek

Real-life transformation begins with God's presence. This podcast invites you to walk closely with God and be changed from the inside out.

Episodes

  1. Episode 10: Pray

    15H AGO

    Episode 10: Pray

    Brian opens the episode by acknowledging how this might be a listener's first or tenth episode, then quickly moves into the central message: pray. Not just thinking about prayer or sending emojis—but actually opening your mouth, going to a quiet place, and talking to God. He references Matthew 6, where Jesus doesn't say "if you pray," but "when you pray," emphasizing that prayer is an assumed part of a believer's life. Brian teaches the importance of praying out loud—even alone—as a sign of faith that God is listening. He breaks down Jesus' model of prayer, the Lord's Prayer, as not just a script but a framework for how to approach God—from honoring His name to aligning with His will to seeking forgiveness and provision. Brian also highlights: Private Prayer: the intimacy and proof of belief found in closing the door and praying where no one else sees. Corporate Prayer: the power of agreement and praying aloud with others, including praying for and with people in public settings. Persistent Prayer: drawn from Luke 18, he shares Jesus' parables about asking, seeking, and knocking—continuing in prayer even when it feels like nothing is changing. Jesus as an Example: From praying all night to praying with tears, Brian underscores how Jesus modeled prayer in both form and fervency. He ends with an encouragement to pray as soon as the episode ends—not out of duty, but out of desire to talk to a God who wants to hear your voice.   Key Topics Discussed The difference between thinking about prayer and actually praying The power of praying out loud, even in solitude Breaking down the Lord's Prayer as a model The impact of consistent and persistent prayer (Luke 18) Examples from Jesus' life: all-night prayers, emotional prayers, and public prayers Teaching children to pray The beauty and power of praying with others (corporate prayer) Building faith through prayer and learning to hear God in the silence   Relevant Scriptures Matthew 6:6–13 – The Lord's Prayer and private prayer instructions Luke 18:1–8 – Parable of the persistent widow John 11:41–42 – Jesus' public prayer before raising Lazarus James 5:16 – The effective, fervent prayer of the righteous Hebrews 5:7 – Jesus praying with loud cries and tears

    29 min
  2. Episode 09: One Decision Away from Peace of Mind

    MAR 31

    Episode 09: One Decision Away from Peace of Mind

    In this episode, Pastor Brian Opbroek speaks to the inner turmoil many people live with and offers a simple but challenging truth: peace of mind is often just one decision away. Drawing from Scripture, personal counseling experiences, and powerful real-life examples, he explains how anxiety, restlessness, and mental torment are frequently rooted in delayed obedience—knowing what needs to be done but avoiding it. Pastor Brian encourages listeners to identify the one action God has already placed on their hearts, whether it involves forgiveness, reconciliation, changing direction, or letting go of control, and to take that step toward peace, clarity, and rest.   Key Topics Discussed:  Peace of mind vs. mental torment The power of one decisive, obedient choice Anxiety, despair, and coping mechanisms Forgiveness, reconciliation, and relational responsibility Obedience over religious performance Discerning God's will in daily decisions Knowing when to act and when to release control The Serenity Prayer as a framework for peace   Relevant Scriptures: Matthew 5:23–24 – Reconciliation before prayer Deuteronomy (early chapters) – Alignment affecting spiritual clarity 2 Corinthians 2:12–13 – Paul leaving Troas due to lack of peace Acts 20–21 – Context of Paul's ministry and decision-making James 4:13–17 – Acting within God's will; sin as knowing and not doing James 4:17 – "Anyone who knows the good they ought to do and doesn't do it, sins."

    26 min
  3. Episode 08: Mark Your Sacred Moments

    MAR 24

    Episode 08: Mark Your Sacred Moments

    In "Mark Your Sacred Moments," Pastor Brian unpacks the biblical and personal importance of remembering what God has done in your life. Through examples from his own spiritual journey—like his first encounter with God, family rituals, and meaningful souvenirs—he encourages listeners to create markers, whether physical or symbolic, that anchor their faith. Drawing from stories like Noah's altar, Jacob's pillar, and Jesus' Last Supper, he shows how these markers help us return to God's faithfulness when doubts, trials, or forgetfulness creep in. He also explains that remembering sacred moments isn't just for us—it's a way to encourage others and help them find hope in our testimonies. From journaling to tattoos, rituals to souvenirs, Brian urges listeners to intentionally honor what God has done, because what we remember can shape what we believe and how we lead others.   Key Topics Discussed: The concept of spiritual markers and memory as sacred discipline Biblical examples of altars, pillars, and rituals (Noah, Abraham, Jacob, Moses, Jesus) Personal stories: from first spiritual encounters to family traditions like the sheep pen The psychology of memory and how rituals help us grow, heal, and lead Why marking moments helps us level up, move forward, and guide others Practical ideas: journaling, objects, souvenirs, tattoos, and storytelling   Relevant Scriptures: Deuteronomy 4:9 — "Do not forget the things your eyes have seen…" Genesis 28 — Jacob's pillar and dream Genesis 8:20 — Noah builds an altar Matthew 26:26 — The Last Supper as a ritual of remembrance Exodus 14:14 — "The Lord will fight for you…" 2 Peter 1:5-9 — Adding to your faith and remembering your forgiveness Psalm 139 — "Where can I go from your Spirit?"

    31 min
  4. Episode 06: Your Father's Presence, Approval, and Power

    MAR 10

    Episode 06: Your Father's Presence, Approval, and Power

    Brian opens with a memory from 1998 when he was walking and praying in the woods. That day, a simple prayer came to his heart: "Father, I need Your presence, Your approval, and Your power." That prayer has stayed with him ever since and has become a foundational cry in his journey with God. He unpacks each word: Presence: More than goosebumps or feelings, God's presence means knowing He is with you always. Brian compares this to the powerful emotional impact of an earthly father simply being in the stands at a game—how it gives confidence and peace. He references Psalm 139 and redefines "the joy of the Lord is your strength" as the strength that comes from knowing the Father delights in you. Approval: Brian explores our deep desire to know we are seen, known, and approved by our Father. He tells a vulnerable story from childhood about wearing an unfashionable haircut to win his dad's approval, drawing parallels to how we crave affirmation from God. He also tells the story of Solomon, whose prayer for wisdom was likely rooted in the ache for his own father David's approval. Power: Brian shifts to why God's power matters—not for self-glory, but because God wants us to partner with Him to love and reach the world. He critiques how many earthly fathers withhold power from their children, contrasting this with a father who entrusts and empowers. Using examples from the life of Jesus, Brian shows that even Jesus had a moment of baptism where He received His Father's presence, approval, and power—before stepping into ministry. The episode ends with a heartfelt prayer for the listener to experience these same three things, and to live out their calling filled with God's Spirit.   Key Topics Discussed The original 1998 prayer: Presence, Approval, Power Longing for God's presence beyond emotion The deep human need for affirmation and approval from a father Story of Solomon and David's public dismissal Earthly fathers vs. the empowering nature of God Transfer of power and trust in healthy father/child relationships The baptism of Jesus as a model moment The purpose of power: to reveal God's love to the world 📖 Relevant Scriptures Psalm 139 – "Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?" Nehemiah 8:10 – "The joy of the Lord is your strength." 1 Kings 3 – Solomon's request for wisdom Matthew 3:16–17 – Jesus' baptism and the voice from heaven John 14:12 – "Greater works than these will you do." 1 Corinthians 13 – Love as the highest language and evidence of the Spirit Romans 12:15 – "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn."

    34 min
  5. Episode 05: Do You Speak Their Language?

    MAR 3

    Episode 05: Do You Speak Their Language?

    Pastor Brian follows up last week's theme on living your faith by exploring what it truly means to communicate it. Beginning in Acts 2, he reflects on the outpouring of the Holy Spirit and the miracle of the apostles speaking in the native tongues of people from every nation. But more than a linguistic event, he reveals it as a spiritual principle: when filled with the Holy Spirit, we gain the power to meet people where they are. Brian unpacks how real evangelism isn't about pushing or preaching at someone—it's about learning to speak to them in ways they understand, and that starts by listening. From Paul's example of becoming "all things to all people" to a touching story of helping a nervous new father, Brian reminds listeners that people's stories matter. He emphasizes the importance of listening, empathy, humility, and relational love. He also addresses the frustration believers feel when others don't respond to their faith and gently reminds us: you're not the Holy Spirit. Your job is to love, relate, and speak with compassion—the Spirit will do the convicting and changing. The episode concludes with a powerful message: love is the universal language. Whether rejoicing or weeping, connecting with others starts with Spirit-led love that speaks directly to the heart.   Key Topics Discussed: The Day of Pentecost (Acts 2) and the miracle of speaking in tongues The connection between the Holy Spirit and relational communication Paul's strategy of becoming all things to all people (1 Corinthians 9) The power of listening before speaking Personal stories: new father advice, a hurting young woman, and real-life application Understanding cultural, emotional, and spiritual "languages" Love as the universal language and the highest form of communication Encouragement to live and speak with empathy, not anger or force Relevant Scriptures: Acts 2:1–11 – The apostles speak in many languages through the power of the Holy Spirit 1 Corinthians 9:19–22 – Paul becomes "all things to all people" to win some 1 Corinthians 13 – The love chapter; love as the ultimate spiritual language Romans 12:15 – "Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep." James 1:19–20 – "Be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry." Colossians 3:7 – A reminder of who we once were before faith 1 Peter 3:15–16 – Sharing faith with gentleness and respect

    40 min
  6. Episode 04: You Can't Make Them Believe

    FEB 24

    Episode 04: You Can't Make Them Believe

    Brian opens with a heartfelt reflection on how frustrating it can be when we want others—especially those we love—to experience the same transformation we've had through faith in Jesus. Using the metaphor of sharing a favorite song with someone who doesn't "get it," he explores how timing, openness, and free will affect someone's journey toward belief. He walks through the story of the Apostle Paul, one of the most impactful evangelists in Scripture, and highlights that even Paul couldn't convince everyone. Some believed. Others didn't. Brian shares Paul's experience in Acts 28:24 as a freeing truth for believers today: "Some were convinced by what he said, but others would not believe." Even with miracles, cultural adaptation, and powerful testimony, people still chose not to believe—because belief is ultimately a choice. Brian emphasizes that you are not the Holy Spirit, and that trying to take on that role will only lead to frustration. He encourages listeners to live their faith honestly and consistently, sow seeds, water hearts—but release the outcome to God. He reminds us that even Jesus experienced rejection, and that the win isn't in forcing belief but in faithfully continuing to love, speak truth, and "keep playing the song."   Key Topics Discussed: The frustration of wanting others to believe in God when they don't Why real belief can't be forced or faked—it's a matter of free will Lessons from Paul's ministry efforts and evangelism strategies The limits of apologetics and persuasive arguments How to love and share your faith without trying to control others The difference between sowing seeds and causing spiritual growth Trusting the Holy Spirit to do what only He can do   Relevant Scriptures: Acts 28:24 – "Some were convinced by what he said, but others would not believe." 1 Corinthians 3:6–7 – "I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow." Matthew 11:16–17 – "We played the flute for you, and you did not dance…" 1 Peter 3:1 – "…they may be won without a word by the conduct…" (implied in reference to believing spouses)

    29 min
  7. Episode 03: How Do YOU See God?

    FEB 17

    Episode 03: How Do YOU See God?

    Brian opens with an honest reflection on the power of speaking truth aloud—not just to others, but to ourselves and to God. He encourages listeners to carve out space for real, vulnerable conversation with God and reminds us that spiritual clarity often comes through simple presence, not performance. The episode centers around the question, "How do you see God?"—exploring how even faithful people can carry distorted views of Him. Brian shares his own experience with aphantasia (the inability to visualize images) and how it's affected the way he "sees" God—not through form or image, but through presence, light, and love. Drawing from Scripture, Brian unpacks the idea that even Biblical heroes like Peter, James, and John had skewed understandings of God's character—and how Jesus lovingly corrected them. The episode culminates in a powerful takeaway: while our perspective of God may shift or struggle, God's perception of us remains constant, true, and full of love. He ends with a moving prayer, inviting listeners to ask the Holy Spirit to shake loose any false filters through which they see God and to embrace the true character of the Father as revealed through Jesus. Key Topics Discussed:  The importance of talking out loud to God and processing spiritually What it means to have a "skewed view" of God Personal story about having aphantasia and how it affects spiritual imagination How religious upbringing or tradition can cloud our view of God Encouragement to seek the real character of God beyond religious performance Stories of Biblical characters who misunderstood God but were lovingly corrected How God's view of us remains steady, even when ours of Him doesn't The invitation to "come and see" God for who He really is Relevant Scriptures: John 1:43–51 – Jesus calls Philip and Nathaniel; Nathaniel's transformation from skepticism to faith Luke 9:54–55 – James and John want to call down fire; Jesus rebukes them Acts 10 – Peter's vision about clean/unclean animals and God redefining perspective Hebrews 12:27 – "Everything that can be shaken will be shaken" (referenced conceptually) Psalm 139 (implied) – God sees, knows, and is present with us

    28 min
  8. Episode 02: Can God Really Change Me?

    FEB 10

    Episode 02: Can God Really Change Me?

    Pastor Brian continues the conversation from Episode 1 about real transformation, illustrating that God's change isn't just gradual—it can happen in an instant. He shares a humorous story about a friend who shocked himself by cheering for the Eagles, highlighting how even small shifts in perspective can signify deeper internal change. Using scientific and historical analogies, he explains that while some changes happen over time, others are immediate, permanent, and irreversible—just like a chemical reaction. The same applies to our spiritual lives: when we truly encounter Jesus, we can be changed in an instant. Brian examines four biblical figures to contrast those who were radically changed by Jesus with those who missed their moment of transformation: Zacchaeus – A tax collector who, after one encounter with Jesus, gave away half his wealth and repaid those he wronged, showing true repentance and transformation. Judas Iscariot – Unlike Zacchaeus, Judas wanted Jesus to change the world but wasn't willing to change himself, ultimately leading to his downfall. The Demoniac of Gadara – A man possessed by demons who was instantly set free and became a passionate messenger for Jesus, embracing a complete life transformation. The Lame Man at Bethesda – A man physically healed by Jesus but unwilling to change his heart, ultimately betraying Jesus to the religious leaders. Brian challenges listeners to reflect on whether they truly want to be changed by God or if they're just seeking circumstantial change. He encourages self-examination, urging believers to pray for a shift in perspective, openness to personal transformation, and a desire to truly walk with God.   Key Topics Discussed:  The difference between gradual and instant transformation How personal encounters with Jesus lead to true change Why some people experience deep transformation while others resist it The contrast between wanting God to change you vs. wanting God to change the world around you The importance of being willing to let go of old ways   Relevant Scriptures: Luke 19:1-10 – The transformation of Zacchaeus John 12:1-6 – Judas' response to generosity and his true motives Luke 8:26-39 – The healing and transformation of the demon-possessed man John 5:1-15 – The lame man at Bethesda and his reluctance to change John 1:43-51 – The calling and transformation of Nathanael Hebrews 13:8 – Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever

    43 min
  9. Episode 01: Happy, Healthy, and Whole

    JAN 30

    Episode 01: Happy, Healthy, and Whole

    In this heartfelt and introspective first episode, Pastor Brian Opbroek shares the inspiration behind launching his podcast. A recent conversation with a lifelong friend revealed the profound transformation that comes from truly walking with God—not just following religious principles, but allowing one's very spirit to be reshaped by divine love and wisdom. Pastor Brian reflects on his decades-long journey of faith, ministry, and personal growth. He shares stories of real-life change—marriages restored, individuals overcoming addiction, and people discovering a deeper connection with God. Through it all, he emphasizes the power of genuine transformation, one that affects not just actions but thoughts, emotions, and relationships. With honesty and warmth, he invites listeners into meaningful conversations about faith, personal growth, and becoming more like Christ. He introduces the core theme of his podcast: helping others live a life that is "Happy, Healthy, and Whole." Pastor Brian ends with a heartfelt prayer for all who are listening, encouraging them to seek God's abundant life and to join him on this journey of faith, wisdom, and real change.   Key Topics Discussed:  True transformation comes from a deep relationship with God, not just religious practice. Growth in faith impacts every area of life, from relationships to emotional well-being. God's desire is for us to be happy, healthy, and whole—spiritually, mentally, and physically. This podcast will be a space for real conversations, encouragement, and guidance on walking with God.

    23 min

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Real-life transformation begins with God's presence. This podcast invites you to walk closely with God and be changed from the inside out.