Have you rated the podcast yet? Review, Subscribe & Share with a friend! Who are the men who hire escorts? Lonely bachelors? Wealthy businessmen? Married men looking for a little excitement on the side? Or maybe your sweet old grandpa? In this revealing episode of Nutty & Slutty, Isadora pulls back the curtain on the surprisingly diverse world of escort clients. From investment bankers to everyday guys, from young men barely out of their teens to gentlemen well into their eighties, the truth is far more complicated — and considerably more entertaining — than you might imagine. Isadora shares some of the more unusual encounters from her years in the business, including clients with disabilities, men with unexpected sexual preferences, and one successful young businessman who regularly invited escorts into his apartment — and dressed them in his unsuspecting fiancée's clothes. But beneath the outrageous stories lies a more provocative question: Why do men who seemingly have everything — beautiful partners, successful careers, happy families — seek sexual experiences outside their relationships? Is it simply cheating, or does the human appetite for intimacy, fantasy, and adventure defy the neat boundaries we place around love and marriage? The conversation takes a surprisingly emotional turn when Isadora recalls a longtime favorite client. Handsome, wealthy, charming, and sexually compatible, he seemed like the one man who might transform their professional relationship into something more. But when they reunited years later, after Isadora had suffered a devastating financial loss, his response exposed a painful truth about the difference between being desired and being genuinely cared for. What happens when an escort develops real feelings for someone who sees her as nothing more than a pleasurable escape? With their trademark combination of honesty, curiosity, irreverence, and humor, Janine and Isadora explore the secret lives of seemingly ordinary men, the complicated realities of monogamy, and the emotional boundaries that aren't always as clear as we'd like to believe. It's an episode about sex, certainly, but also about loneliness, longing, illusion, and the universal desire to mean something to someone. Because sometimes the biggest surprise isn't what happens behind closed doors — it's what happens when the door closes for good. Send us Fan Mail Welcome to NUTTY & SLUTTY Where Mental Health, Sexuality and Unfiltered Truth Take Center Stage NUTTY & SLUTTY is a bold, sex-positive podcast exploring the messy, complicated and often hilarious intersections of mental health, sexuality and real life — without shame, filters or pretense. Hosted by Janine Noel (living with bipolar disorder) and Isadora O’Boto (ex-escort), this show brings together two radically honest perspectives for conversations that are as raw as they are insightful. From navigating mood swings and medication to unpacking the realities of sex work and desire, nothing is off-limits. _________________________________________________ Isadora O’Boto (co-host) is a Juilliard Drama grad. Under the pen name Sephe Haven, she is the author of two award-winning memoirs: My Whorizontal Life and A Someday Courtesan, and playwright/performer of the solo show: “My Whorizontal Life: The Show!” Isadora co-hosted the podcast My Index to Sex with Lynn Ferguson. Find her at: isadoraoboto.com Janine Noel (co-host) is creator and host of Bipolar She podcast, where guests sh...
