The Built To Grow Podcast

Santo Chiappetta
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Built to Grow explores the transformative power of resilience and growth. Join Santo as he interviews experts and thought leaders, uncovering stories of overcoming setbacks, mastering habits, and breaking through barriers. Inspiring insights to help you evolve and thrive, because growth is never finished.

Episodes

  1. Apr 7

    You're Capable Enough to Burn Yourself Out — Here's the Way Back

    You didn't burn out because you were weak. You burned out because you were too good at holding it all together. Jeff Catapang knows that pattern well. Former journalist, martial artist, meditation coach, group fitness instructor — he's spent his career studying what happens when high-performing people stop listening to their bodies and what it actually takes to find your way back. In this episode, Jeff unpacks the tension-release cycle he first discovered through martial arts and why it's one of the most powerful — and most ignored — tools for people who pride themselves on keeping it together. We talk about what burnout really looks like from the inside, why presence is a skill you can train (not a personality type you either have or don't), and how genuine confidence gets built through the body long before it shows up in your life. If you've been running on fumes and calling it discipline, this one's for you. In this episode: Why your capability is both your greatest strength and your biggest riskThe tension-release cycle — what martial arts teaches us about nervous system regulationHow to build resilience that doesn't require you to white-knuckle through everythingWhat success actually feels like when you stop measuring it by output

  2. Mar 16

    The Competency Curse: How Being Too Capable Can Make You Burn Out

    Most high-achieving women unknowingly become prisoners of their own capabilities. Overloading themselves without even realizing it. Santo Chiappetta reveals the “competency curse,” a hidden trap that makes your skills work against you, driving exhaustion, overwhelm, and even physical health issues. If you’ve ever felt like your competence is exhausting, this episode is your wake-up call.You’ll discover how the more capable you become, the more the world, and your own psyche pulls demands towards you, creating a powerful gravitational force that often leads to depletion. Santo breaks down the four patterns that manifest this curse: the absorber the performer, the invisible carrier, the denier. Ready to break the cycle? Your antidote to exhaustion begins here.V isit strengthbysanto.com/quiz to take the personalized competency curse score and discover your pattern. Your journey to intentional mastery starts now.

  3. Mar 9

    The Price of Performance: Why Hustle Culture Could Sabotage Your Longevity

    Join Scott Fournier as he shares his journey from a high-stakes football career to thriving in the movement world. Discover how he balances hustle with purpose, emphasizing mastery and authentic relationships over endless grind. Scott reveals insights on overcoming injuries, finding identity beyond sports, and the power of intuition in coaching. Perfect for fitness pros and entrepreneurs seeking sustainable success and clarity beyond hustle culture. Tune in for a transformative take on balancing life and career.

  4. Mar 3

    The "Four O'Clock Collapse" That Derails Your Health & the Ritual Fix You Need

    Most of your health habits aren't about motivation — they're about rituals that make change effortless and sustainable. I reveal how building simple, intentional habits can transform your relationship with movement, food, and self-care, even on your busiest days. Are you tired of waiting for motivation that never comes? Discover the secret to forging habits that stick—without relying on willpower. In this episode, I dive into why rituals outperform motivation every time. You'll learn how the brain's decision fatigue sabotages your consistency and why predictable routines help regulate your nervous system, creating a sense of safety and stability. Through vivid stories and practical frameworks, I share how everyday rituals (like your morning coffee or post-drop-off walk) can serve as identity anchors, reinforcing who you are and what you value. These small, repeatable actions are the secret weapon for lasting change, especially when motivation wanes. We break down the "one ritual rule": choose a tiny, manageable habit that fits seamlessly into your existing routines. Emphasizing attaching new behaviors to actions you already do daily, creating neural grooves that require almost no effort to maintain. Whether it's drinking a glass of water before your coffee or a few squats while it brews, these micro-rituals build self-trust and transform your self-identity over time. The power lies in consistency—small actions sustained over months forge a new relationship with yourself and your health. Why does this matter? Because most people chase motivation, only to hit walls of inconsistency and frustration. Rituals provide a stable foundation, reducing the mental load and emotional stress that derail progress.

  5. Feb 23

    From Corporate to Coffee with Jerry's Coffee

    Join Connor, owner of Jerry's Coffee, as he shares his journey from corporate life to entrepreneurship, turning a passion for coffee into a thriving business. Discover how embracing uncertainty and trusting himself led to personal and professional growth. Connor discusses the mental frameworks and small, deliberate actions that helped him overcome fear and self-doubt, including building community, leveraging social media, and prioritizing wellness. This episode is perfect for anyone feeling stuck or looking for inspiration to start their own venture. Tune in to learn how to turn passion into purpose and craft a life you love—one cup of coffee at a time.

  6. Feb 16

    You Don’t Have a Discipline Problem — You Have a Nervous System Problem

    Discover why discipline isn't your problem—it's your nervous system. In this episode, Santo Chiappetta reveals how stress and overwhelm hijack your brain, leading to impulsive decisions and burnout. Learn how cortisol shifts your focus from long-term goals to immediate survival, causing even high achievers to fall into short-term relief behaviors like scrolling and snacking. Key insights include: The impact of stress on your prefrontal cortex and decision-makingSigns your nervous system is overloadedWhy high performers experience more stressStrategies to regulate your nervous system for better performanceUnlock the science behind stress and gain control over your choices. Perfect for those ready to move beyond willpower and enhance clarity, consistency, and performance under pressure. Tune in to transform your understanding of discipline and resilience.

  7. Feb 9

    Marny's Manifestation - "You wanted it, and it happened"

    What if your “messy” path was actually preparing you for exactly where you’re meant to be? Marny Florence shares her journey from a decade of freelancing and uncertainty to hosting Hot Wheels Monster Trucks Live, and the mindset, trust, and inner work that made it possible. A conversation about growth, alignment, mental health, and learning to let life meet you halfway. IG: @MarnFlo

  8. Feb 2

    Why self doubt isn’t a mindset problem

    Most high performers struggle with self-doubt that feels surprisingly logical — not loud fear, but quiet undercutting beliefs that prevent real growth. I unpack how your nervous system, past trauma, and identity shape the way you doubt yourself, often more than you realize. Learn why confidence isn’t some all-or-nothing trait you declare, but a state you cultivate through regulation, repetition, and aligned action. You’ll discover the subtle but powerful distinction between self-worth and self-belief, and how confusing the two keeps you stuck in cycles of conditionally proving your value. I share eye-opening insights from neuroscience and psychology — including how your body remembers both failure and success, and why high performers often struggle because their identity is tied to usefulness, not worthiness. We break down actionable frameworks: How to regulate your nervous system before expecting belief, asking simple questions like “What would I do today if my worth wasn’t on trial?” and why slow, consistent practice creates lasting confidence. This episode reveals the hidden mechanism that keeps you from trusting your own capacity — and how you can rewire it so growth feels safe, steady, and sustainable. Perfect for anyone tired of chasing confidence, high achievers who want to break free from performance traps, and curious minds eager to understand the physiology behind true self-trust. If you’re ready to grow without losing yourself, this is essential listening. Because growth isn’t about forcing confidence — it’s about building the capacity to stay with yourself when certainty disappears.

    Why self doubt isn’t a mindset problem
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Built to Grow explores the transformative power of resilience and growth. Join Santo as he interviews experts and thought leaders, uncovering stories of overcoming setbacks, mastering habits, and breaking through barriers. Inspiring insights to help you evolve and thrive, because growth is never finished.

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  • Creator
    Santo Chiappetta
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Santo Chiappetta
  • Show Website
    The Built To Grow Podcast