The Well-Being | Christian Motherhood, Wellness, and SAHM's with a Calling

Niki Wolfe | Functional Health Coach
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Helping Christian stay-at-home moms (SAHMs) steward what matters most. Every week you'll find practical conversations on faith, motherhood, wellness, marriage, homemaking, healthy habits, anxiety, nervous system health, pregnancy, birth, postpartum, building meaningful community, and using your God-given gifts to build a purpose-filled life—including a side business if that's where He's leading you. Biblical wisdom, practical encouragement, and simple steps you can actually apply to everyday life.

  1. 3d ago

    65 | She Cried After Her First Mom Group. Now She Has the Friends She Prayed For.

    You want mom friends. The kind you can text on a random Tuesday, invite over without cleaning your house first, or call when you're having a really hard day with the kids. But where do you even find women like that? And how do you go from awkward introductions at a playdate to actually becoming friends? In this episode, I'm sitting down with two of my girlfriends from our Bible study to talk about how we met, what it took to build real friendships, and what our lives look like now. Savannah shares how she went to a mom group, felt completely out of place, and cried the entire drive home. But she kept showing up. And now she has the kind of friendships she once prayed for. In this episode, we're talking about: How to make mom friends when you don't know anyone Where to find local mom groups, Bible studies, and Christian friendships Getting past the awkward introductions and fear of rejection How to turn a first playdate into an actual friendship Why consistency and a little inconvenience matter What it looks like to help each other through everyday motherhood If you're a stay-at-home mom feeling lonely, you've recently moved somewhere new, or you keep wishing you had a group of girlfriends to do life with, I hope this conversation gives you the encouragement and practical steps to start. You don't need to find ten friends this week. Start with one woman. Send the text. Make the plans. And keep showing up. Want help getting started? I created the Village Starter Kit, a four-week guide that walks you through finding mom friends, reaching out, making plans, and building friendships that go beyond the occasional playdate. Get the guide here:https://stan.store/nikiwolfewellness

  2. Oct 6

    64 | She Said Something Rude about you at Bible Study. Before You Text Another Friend to Process It, Listen to This

    She says something rude in front of the group, or makes a comment that embarrasses you, and now the whole thing is following you home. You’re replaying it, wondering what she meant, wondering if anyone else noticed, and feeling that urge to text the one friend who will probably understand exactly why you’re annoyed. But what happens next can either keep a small moment small… or quietly turn it into something much bigger. In this episode, we’re talking about the part of female friendship that nobody really knows how to handle in the moment: when someone says something that feels rude, unfair, embarrassing, or just completely off, and now you’re trying to figure out whether to let it go, say something, or “process” it with somebody else. We’ll talk about how quickly one comment can turn into a whole story in your head, how to tell the difference between wise counsel and collecting agreement, and why the person you most want to talk about may actually be the person you need to talk to. We’re also getting into what Matthew 18, Proverbs 18, and Ephesians 4 actually give us here, and how to use Scripture as a real next step instead of just a nice verse we tack onto the situation. You’ll leave with a much clearer way to handle conflict in Christian friendship without blowing it up, avoiding it, or dragging half the group into it. And if your first instinct when something gets weird is to pull back, skip next week, or decide maybe these women were never really your people after all, we’re talking about that too. Because deep friendship is not proven by never having awkward or painful moments. Sometimes it’s proven by what you do next.

  3. Sep 29

    63 | For the Woman Who’s Always Doing: Before You Say “Don’t Be a Martha,” Read the Rest of Her Story

    If you’re the woman who has a hard time sitting down because you can already see the dishes that need to be done, the toys that need to be picked up, the dinner that needs to be made and the twelve other things you could knock out while everyone else is relaxing... you’ve probably heard the story of Mary and Martha and thought, “Yep. I’m definitely Martha.” And being called a “Martha” usually doesn’t feel like a compliment. We’re often taught the story in Luke 10 as a simple lesson: Martha was busy. Mary sat at Jesus’ feet. Don’t be a Martha. Be a Mary. But what happens when we keep reading? In this episode, Sage is back with me for a deeper Bible study on Martha, and we’re looking beyond the one moment she’s most known for. Because the more we studied her story throughout Scripture, the more we realized how much gets missed when we reduce this woman to “too busy.” We talk about the difference between serving and being distracted by serving, and why the issue may not simply be that Martha was doing too much. Jesus specifically points to her worry, distraction and being upset over the details. Later, we see Martha serving again—and Scripture doesn’t present her service as the problem. Pasted text Pasted text That opens up a much bigger conversation for the Christian woman who is naturally a doer. How do you serve your family without quietly becoming resentful that no one is helping? How do you manage a home, raise children, work, host, volunteer, pursue a calling and take care of the things that genuinely need to get done without allowing all that doing to pull your attention away from Jesus? When does diligence become distraction? And is the answer really to stop being productive—or could Jesus be after something deeper in our hearts? We also look at the Martha of John 11, because this is the part of her story I didn’t know nearly as well. After Lazarus dies, Martha runs to meet Jesus. She’s honest about her disappointment while still holding onto her faith, and she makes an incredibly bold confession about who Jesus is. Pasted text That version of Martha deserves our attention too. Sage and I talk about motherhood, homemaking, busyness, anxiety around getting everything done, serving others, resentment, stillness with God, prayer, surrender and what it looks like to bring your actual personality to Jesus instead of assuming you need to become a completely different kind of woman to follow Him well. This isn’t a conversation about becoming less capable, less hardworking or less willing to serve. It’s about examining what’s happening in our hearts while we’re doing all of it. If you’re a busy Christian woman, stay-at-home mom, homemaker, working mom or simply someone who relates deeply to Martha, I hope this episode sends you back into your own Bible to read Luke 10, John 11 and John 12 with fresh eyes. Because maybe the takeaway from Mary and Martha was never as simple as: “Stop being a Martha.” In this episode: Mary and Martha Bible study, Luke 10:38–42, John 11, John 12, women of the Bible, Christian motherhood, biblical homemaking, Christian women and busyness, serving Jesus, Christian anxiety and overwhelm, being present with your kids, spending time with God, biblical womanhood, faith and motherhood, and finding stillness with God in a busy season. THE VILLAGE STARTER KIT Want deeper Christian mom friendships but don’t know where to start?Get The Village Starter Kit FREE WEEKLY ORGANIZER FOR CHRISTIAN SAHMs Download the free Weekly Organizer CONNECT WITH ME Instagram @nikiwolfewellness

  4. Sep 25

    62 | Christian Content Creators: Are You Trusting the Algorithm More Than God?

    If you’re a Christian content creator, entrepreneur, podcaster, ministry leader, or simply a woman building something you believe God has called you to, there’s a tension that can sneak in when it finally starts working: growth feels exciting... until you become afraid to lose it. This episode came out of a conviction I’m still actively working through. I’ve spent a lot of time learning how to create better content, understand social media strategy, grow an Instagram account, improve my podcast, communicate clearly and reach more women. I don’t think any of those things are bad. I actually think learning to do our work well can be part of faithful stewardship. But what happens when strategy starts making decisions for us? When “I’m just being consistent” is actually fear of slowing down? When we’re willing to pull time from our sleep, health, marriage, motherhood or margin before we’re willing to loosen our grip on the thing that’s growing? And maybe the most uncomfortable question: If the outcome changed, would I still trust God? In this episode, I’m digging into the difference between stewardship and control, ambition and obedience, working hard and believing everything depends on you. We’re talking about Christian content creation, social media burnout, Instagram growth, the pressure to stay consistent, hustle culture, calling, motherhood, business, trusting God with your work, and what surrender actually looks like when there’s a real possibility that slowing down could cost you momentum. We’re also going deeper into 1 Corinthians 3:5–9, because Paul’s words about planting, watering and God giving the growth completely changed the way I’m thinking about my role as a creator. Paul wasn’t teaching passivity. There was real work to do. But there was also a line between the work that belonged to Paul and Apollos and the growth that belonged to God. Pasted text That distinction matters when you’re building something for God and genuinely care about the people on the other side of the numbers. How do you pursue growth without becoming consumed by it? How do you use strategy without putting your trust in strategy? How do you faithfully carry what God has actually given you in this season instead of cramming every good opportunity into your life? And how do you surrender an outcome you really, really want without secretly expecting God to preserve it? I don’t have this perfectly figured out. I’m recording from the middle of it. I still want to grow. I still care about reaching more women. I’m still going to learn, experiment, create and work hard. But I’m asking some very different questions about who I believe is ultimately responsible for the growth. If you’ve been searching for Christian content creator advice, biblical entrepreneurship, Christian business, social media burnout, Instagram growth as a Christian, trusting God with your business, Christian ambition, biblical stewardship, surrendering control to God, faith and work, or how to balance motherhood and calling, this conversation is for you. THE VILLAGE STARTER KIT Want deeper Christian mom friendships but don’t know where to start? Get The Village Starter Kit FREE WEEKLY ORGANIZER FOR CHRISTIAN SAHMs Download the free Weekly Organizer CONNECT WITH ME Instagram @nikiwolfewellness

  5. Sep 16

    61 | Should Christians Celebrate Halloween? What the Bible Actually Says + How Our Family Is Deciding

    If you’re a Christian mom who has started looking at Halloween differently since having kids or growing deeper in your faith, you’ve probably realized this conversation is not as simple as the internet makes it sound. Maybe your family has always celebrated Halloween. You have good memories of dressing up, trick-or-treating and coming home with a pillowcase full of candy. You’re not suddenly afraid of pumpkins and Reese’s. But you’re raising your own kids now. You’re growing in your relationship with Jesus, opening your Bible more and paying closer attention to what comes into your home, what your kids watch and what your family participates in. When something starts bothering your conscience, you don’t want to brush it off just because someone says, “It’s not that big of a deal.” But you also don’t want fear, legalism or the loudest Christian online deciding your family’s convictions for you. Yes, this episode is about whether Christians should celebrate Halloween. We’re looking at the pagan and Christian history of Halloween, Samhain, All Hallows’ Eve, trick-or-treating, witches, the occult, costumes and scary movies. We’re also opening the Bible and looking at passages including Deuteronomy 18:9–14, Philippians 4:8, 1 Corinthians 10:23, Ephesians 5:8–11 and Romans 14. But the bigger conversation is about biblical discernment. How do we know when Scripture has given us a clear command and when we’re dealing with personal conviction? Can something be permissible for a Christian but still not be beneficial for you? What happens when another Christian family lands somewhere completely different? And how do we make decisions for our kids without borrowing our convictions from a pastor, influencer, another Christian mom or whoever made the most convincing Reel that week? That’s what challenged me most while studying this. I don’t want to spend my Christian life only asking, “Am I technically allowed to do this?” I want to get better at asking whether something is good for me, what fruit it’s producing, what I’m teaching my children through it and whether my husband and I can genuinely participate with a clear conscience before God. And those questions reach way beyond Halloween. I’ll also share where my husband and I are currently landing for our family this year. Not because I think our conviction should automatically become yours, but because I think there’s value in seeing what it looks like to actually work through a gray area instead of immediately picking a side. I’m sure I haven’t covered every Bible verse that could be studied in a conversation about Halloween, witchcraft, spiritual darkness, Christian freedom, conscience and discernment. I’m still learning too. My hope is that this gives you a place to start, and then you open your own Bible, read these passages in context, pray, talk with your husband and keep working through what faithfulness looks like for your family. You might finish this episode and keep celebrating Halloween exactly as you have. You might change a few things. You might decide not to participate. The goal isn’t for every Christian family to land in the same place. It’s to stop letting the loudest voice online do our discernment for us. If you’ve been searching for whether Christians should celebrate Halloween, what the Bible says about Halloween, whether Halloween is pagan or Christian, whether Christian kids should trick-or-treat, Halloween and witchcraft, Romans 14 and Halloween, or how Christian parents should approach Halloween, this episode will give you a thoughtful place to start. THE VILLAGE STARTER KIT Want deeper Christian mom friendships but don’t know where to start?The Village Starter Kit FREE WEEKLY ORGANIZER FOR CHRISTIAN SAHMs Download the Weekly Organizer CONNECT WITH ME Instagram @nikiwolfewellness

  6. Sep 8

    60 | How to Find Christian Mom Friends Without the Perfect House, Plan or Personality | Part 3

    If you want close Christian mom friends but feel like you’re somehow missing the part where acquaintances turn into women you actually do life with, this episode is for you. Maybe you’ve joined the Bible study. You’ve gone to the mom group. You know other Christian moms. You’ll talk at church or stand around chatting while the kids play…but you still don’t have the kind of friendships where someone can text, “We’re going to Costco, want to come?” or walk into your messy house on a random Tuesday and stay for coffee. And maybe when you hear people say, “You have to create community,” you immediately feel overwhelmed. Because you’re not the mom who wants to host 20 women. You don’t want another event to plan. Your house is not always clean. Your kids are loud. You don’t have the energy to make a beautiful spread every time someone comes over. And you definitely don’t need another thing on your calendar. Good. Because that’s not what we’re talking about. In Part 3 of my Christian female friendship series with Sage from Bibles & Babies, we’re talking about how much simpler Christian mom community can actually be. Sometimes friendship looks like inviting another mom into what you were already doing. Meet me at the park. Come drink coffee while the kids play. I’m going to Costco—come with me. We’re eating dinner; there’s enough for you. Come over, but fair warning, my house is a disaster. 😂 You don’t need the perfect house, the perfect plan, or the perfect personality to find Christian mom friends. We also get into the deeper side of friendship: how to see your friends biblically, why no friend can meet every need you have, how unrealistic expectations can quietly hurt good friendships, and why a friend taking a few days to text you back doesn’t automatically mean something is wrong. We talk about serving each other according to the capacity we actually have, learning how your friends need to be loved, letting people see your real life instead of performing for them, and giving friendships enough time to become something deeper. And if you’re sitting there thinking, “Okay…but I don’t even have that yet. Where do I start?” we get really practical. Start with one woman. Send one text. Pick one thing you’re already doing. Ask her to come. If you’re looking for a Christian Bible study, you can start there too. It does not need to be complicated or impressive. Meet at a park. Pick a book of the Bible. Read a chapter. Talk about it while your kids play. Keep coming back. And please don’t decide after one awkward meetup, one unanswered invitation, or one morning when nobody can come that you “tried community and it didn’t work.” Adult friendships are a slow burn. If you’ve been searching for how to make mom friends, how to find Christian mom friends, Christian mom groups, Bible studies for moms, how to make friends as a stay-at-home mom, how to find your village, Christian female friendships, making friends as an adult, or how to find Christian community after motherhood changed your friendships, this conversation will give you somewhere simple to start. Because the goal isn’t to become the mom who hosts everything. It’s not to collect a huge group of friends. It’s to have women close enough that you can actually know each other, pray for each other, speak truth to each other, help each other, raise your kids alongside each other, and point each other back to Jesus. And your kids get to watch that too. They get to grow up seeing women open their Bibles together. They hear their moms talk about Jesus. They watch women show up for each other. They learn that following Jesus was never supposed to be something we do completely alone. BIBLES & BABIES If you’re in the Treasure Valley / Boise area and looking for Christian mom friends and community:https://www.instagram.com/biblesandbabiesboise/ Bibles & Babies Hub:https://www.instagram.com/biblesandbabies.hub/

  7. Sep 4

    59 | How to Make Mom Friends When It Feels Like Everyone Already Has Their Group

    You finally worked up the courage to go to the mom group. You packed the snacks, loaded the kids, showed up, introduced yourself, made small talk…and somehow you still left feeling like everyone else already had their people. Maybe two moms were already close. Maybe everyone seemed to know each other. Maybe you tried inviting someone to coffee or a walk and it didn’t happen. Maybe you put yourself out there a few times, got discouraged, and started thinking, “Okay, maybe this just isn’t going to happen for me.” This episode is for that mom. I recorded this one right in the middle of a “just come over” morning at my house. Kids are running around, moms are working out, drinking coffee, nursing babies, talking, laughing, crying, and doing real life together. It is very much not a polished studio episode, and honestly, that’s kind of the point. I sit down with Maria, another mom in our Bibles & Babies Boise community, and we talk about what it actually looked like for her to try to find mom friends after moving from California to Idaho. She didn’t move here and instantly find her village. She tried different mom groups. She felt awkward. She watched other women start forming closer friendships and wondered why it wasn’t happening for her. She invited people to things and sometimes nobody could come. She got discouraged. She pulled back. And then she kept trying. We talk about: • How to make mom friends after moving to a new city• What to do when everyone in the mom group seems to already have their friend group• Why going to a mom group doesn’t automatically create real friendship• How to go from acquaintances to actual mom friends• Why you may need to keep showing up longer than you want to• What to do when your invitations keep getting declined• How to stop taking every “no” or unanswered text as rejection• Why not every woman in the group needs to become your close friend• How to know when a group just might not be the right fit• Why repeated time together matters so much in adult female friendships• How Christian mom community can become something much deeper than an occasional playdate• Why offering something to the group can help you build relationships faster• How to start your own mom group if you can’t find the community you’re looking for One of the biggest things we talk about is how easy it is to walk into a group, see women who are already close, and immediately make it mean something about you. “They don’t like me.” “I’m too late.” “They already have their friends.” “I’m being annoying if I text again.” But sometimes the truth is much simpler: friendship takes reps. You need more Tuesdays together. More stroller walks. More coffee. More random texts. More sitting next to each other while the kids play. More opportunities to learn each other’s stories. Adult friendships are a slow burn. And if you’re looking for a Christian mom village, making friends as a stay-at-home mom, trying to find mom friends after moving, feeling lonely in motherhood, struggling to make friends as an adult, looking for a Christian mom group, or wondering how to build deeper female friendships, I hope this episode gives you both encouragement and something practical to do next. Keep showing up. Keep inviting. Keep asking questions. Keep giving people a chance. And if the group truly isn’t the right fit, try another one. Or start one. Because sometimes the difference between “I don’t have a village” and “these women are part of my real life” is simply that somebody kept coming back. BIBLES & BABIES 🤍 If you’re in the Treasure Valley / Boise area and looking for Christian mom community:https://www.instagram.com/biblesandbabiesboise/ FREE WEEKLY ORGANIZER FOR CHRISTIAN SAHMs 🗓️ If you’re trying to make room for your faith, marriage, kids, home, health, community and the things God has put on your heart, download my free Weekly Organizer here: https://thewellsteadco.myflodesk.com/weeklyorganizer

  8. Sep 2

    58 | Which Woman of the Bible Are You? A Fun Bible Study + Get the Exact Prompt I Used

    I used to LOVE those ridiculous magazine/BuzzFeed quizzes that told you which Disney princess or Friends character you were 😂 So naturally I thought... wait. Which woman of the Bible am I most like? But I didn't want ChatGPT to give me some generic flattering answer like, “You're Esther because you're brave.” I wanted it to actually ask me questions about how I handle fear, conflict, waiting, relationships, calling, hard seasons, what I'm afraid of getting wrong, the woman I want to become... and THEN look across all of my answers for patterns. I got Priscilla, Martha + Hannah. And what started as something playful actually gave me one of the easiest ways I've found to get excited about studying my Bible. Because maybe you're in that spot where you know you should read your Bible more, but you open it and think... okay, where do I even start? A giant Bible study feels overwhelming right now. This gave me somewhere specific to go. I started with Priscilla, read the actual Scripture about her, studied the context, and started asking: What can I learn from this woman? Where do I see myself in her? Where do I need to grow? And THAT turned into this week's episode 😂 If you want to try it yourself, here's the exact prompt: COPY + PASTE THIS INTO CHATGPT: Act as a thoughtful Christian Bible study guide and mentor. I want to discover which women in the Bible I most closely relate to based on my actual personality, strengths, weaknesses, fears, relationships, calling, patterns and the way I respond to difficult seasons. Start by interviewing me with 10 thoughtful, open-ended questions, one at a time. Don't tell me which women you're considering while I'm answering because I don't want that to influence my responses. Ask follow-up questions if something I say needs more context. After all 10 questions, look at my answers as a whole, not individually. Identify recurring patterns, strengths, blind spots, tensions and themes. Then choose the 2–3 women in Scripture I most closely parallel. Don't default to the obvious women like Esther, Ruth or Proverbs 31 simply because they're well known. Choose whoever is actually best supported by my answers and Scripture. For each woman: • Explain specifically why you chose her and connect it to my answers. • Show me her strengths and where I share them. • Show me her weaknesses, struggles or tensions and where those may show up in me. • Tell me where the comparison doesn't fit. • Separate what Scripture explicitly tells us from reasonable interpretation or inference. Don't invent personality traits the Bible doesn't give us. • Give me the main Scripture passages where I can study her for myself. • Give me thoughtful journal questions that help me examine my own life, faith, relationships and calling through what I learn from her. Don't flatter me or force a positive interpretation. I want this to be biblically grounded, honest and specific enough that I can learn something about myself and, more importantly, be pointed back to Scripture. Finally, tell me which woman I should study first and why, then create a simple Bible study plan for her using the relevant passages, context to understand, things to notice while reading, questions to pray through and practical applications to consider. One important caveat: ChatGPT is not spiritual authority. Don't use this to tell you who you are or what God is saying to you. Use it as a tool to ask better questions and give you somewhere interesting to start, then go read the Scripture for yourself. Check what it tells you against the Bible, pray through it, talk to someone you trust if you need to, and throw out anything that doesn't line up. Then come tell me who you got because obviously I need to know 😂 And if you want to hear me completely overanalyze everything I learned from Priscilla and how uncomfortably accurate some of it was, this week's episode is up now. 😅

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