Church hurt can leave deep wounds, especially when the place meant to offer healing becomes the source of pain. In Part One of this three-part conversation, Deneen sits down with Pastor Nathaniel Simpson of The Forgiving Church to talk honestly about church hurt, faith, accountability, forgiveness, boundaries, discipleship, and what healing can look like without losing your relationship with God. Pastor Simpson shares his own experience with church hurt and explains why he made the deliberate decision not to blame God for what people had done. He challenges church leaders to validate the pain people experience, take responsibility when harm has been caused, and remember that many people enter the church already carrying wounds. This conversation makes room for both truths: church hurt is real, and God is still God. Together, we discuss what church hurt actually is, leadership accountability, the difference between God and the people who may misrepresent Him, why spiritual maturity matters, and how believers can begin separating disappointment with church from their relationship with God. In keeping with Season Two’s theme of Reclamation, this conversation asks what it means to reclaim faith, trust, community, and the parts of ourselves that may have been wounded in religious spaces. This conversation is for anyone who has been hurt, disappointed, dismissed, or wounded by a church, pastor, ministry leader, or fellow believer—and for those trying to decide whether they can trust the church again without abandoning their faith. If you care about church hurt, healing from church hurt, religious trauma, Christian faith, church leadership, spiritual healing, forgiveness, accountability, or rebuilding your relationship with God, this conversation is for you. Don’t forget to Like, Subscribe, Comment, and Follow. And share this episode with someone who may need to hear that healing does not require them to give up on God. Connect with Pastor Nathaniel Simpson & The Forgiving ChurchWebsite: https://theforgivingchurch.org/ Facebook: http://facebook.com/forgivingchurch Connect with Calm & Cultured CollectiveInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/calmandculturedcollective/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@calmandcultured Newsletter — The Culture of Calm: https://calmandculturedcollective.riverside.com/newsletter Part One of Three — subscribe now so you don’t miss Parts Two and Three of this Church Hurt series.