What not to say to someone who is grieving, and what to offer instead. Marilyn Morales and Nicky Cuesta join the WonderMama Coffee Chat to talk about Please Don’t Say That: Stories of Loss, Love, and Legacy, the new grief anthology launching October 24, 2026. Some of the most painful words a grieving person hears come from people who love them and never meant to hurt them. Fellow contributing author Ami Maikoski, who wrote chapter 22, joins us too, and I am honored that my own chapter, chapter 23, “This Beautiful Scar,” is the first time I have shared the story of my first son, Muhammad. Marilyn, a nurse of nearly 40 years, shares the story of her daughter Isabella, who was diagnosed with a rare leukemia at seven months old. Nobody in the family was a match for the stem cell transplant she needed, and Marilyn learned how few Latino, Black and mixed heritage donors are on the registry. That discovery became her first book, When the Answer Is No: Finding Purpose Through Pain, and her nonprofit, Izzy’s Legacy, which supports families on a cancer journey. Then, at three o’clock one morning in June, she woke with the title, the cover and the guidebook for Please Don’t Say That, and called the one person she knew could help her bring it to life. That person was Nicky Cuesta, founder of BALM Global, who coordinated, edited and published all 31 chapters in under four months, while honoring her own brother, Milton, in chapter 8. Ami shares why, after years of holding space for others at the end of life, she wrote about the hardest goodbye of all, her own mother’s. In this conversation, we explore the words that wound people who are grieving, and what to offer instead, why this book is meant to be read slowly, one story at a time, how one mother’s loss became a movement, and why every one of us will need this conversation one day. Every purchase gives back. 100% of the proceeds support the families Izzy’s Legacy serves through its partnership with Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, and a portion goes to the Miguel Soto Memorial Fund, which will sponsor a young person through their GED and high school diploma. Get your copy of Please Don’t Say That and the companion guidebook: https://www.zeffy.com/en-US/ticketing/izzys-legacy-incs-shop Connect with our guests Marilyn Morales, Izzy’s Legacy Inc.: https://www.izzyslegacyinc.org Nicky Cuesta, BALM Global: https://balm-global.com Ami Maikoski: https://amimaikoski.com Connect with Leonne Sherr, https://LeonneSherr.com Join us The conversation continues every week inside The WonderMama Community, where members join our private Q&A with each guest after the live show. https://www.skool.com/the-wondermama-cycle-breakers-5827 The WonderMama Coffee Chat is live every Wednesday at noon EST on Facebook, then is posted to YouTube and wherever you listen to podcasts. #TheWonderMama #TheWonderMamaCommunity