The Chillness Room

Kyra Schaefer
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The Chillness Room is a quiet audio space for settling the nervous system and softening the mind without effort or fixing. It’s simply a place to allow yourself to be. Each episode is an invitation to pause and reconnect with yourself through gentle spoken reflection and, at times, guided rest or regulation. The tone is oriented toward peace and presence rather than escape. This isn’t about zoning out or transcending life. It’s about arriving more fully in this moment. There’s nothing to achieve here. You don’t have to become anything or adopt any philosophy. It’s just something that may resonate, offering a way to relax without pressure. A human voice, a little openness, and room to breathe. If you’re looking for a safe place to rest without numbing out, to quiet the mind without spiraling, and to let your body and mind settle back into calm alignment, this room is here. thedeepseason.substack.com

  1. Chillness Room Ep 22: I Had 13 Seconds to Prove Myself—and Didn’t

    APR 30

    Chillness Room Ep 22: I Had 13 Seconds to Prove Myself—and Didn’t

    In a simple, unexpected conversation, I noticed something uncomfortable: the pull to prove what I know—and the simultaneous fear that maybe it’s not enough. This piece explores that tension between ego and self-doubt, and the quiet shift that changes everything: asking instead of telling, listening instead of leading, and allowing others the space to find their own understanding. A reflection on humility, connection, and what it really means to support someone without shaping them.Also, as a bonus, I talk about cults… so there’s that. Subscribe for more free chillness podcast audios Get full access to The Deep Season at thedeepseason.substack.com/subscribe

    27 min
  2. Chillness Room Ep. 21: Arguing for What’s Possible

    MAR 31

    Chillness Room Ep. 21: Arguing for What’s Possible

    There are moments in relationships where one person is holding what’s possible… while the other is holding all the reasons it won’t work. It can feel circular.Frustrating.Like nothing is actually moving. In this episode, we gently look at that dynamic. How it shows up, why it can feel so activating on both sides, and what it’s like to be either the one encouraging forward movement or the one who can’t seem to get there yet. This isn’t about making either side wrong.It’s about awareness, honesty, and understanding what might actually help each person take a step that feels better and more aligned.Click Here: Chillness Gathering Registration 4/4 11 am PDT - 12:30 pm PDT Subscribe for free Get full access to The Deep Season at thedeepseason.substack.com/subscribe

    31 min
  3. Chillness Room Ep. 20: The Energy We Carry

    MAR 15

    Chillness Room Ep. 20: The Energy We Carry

    In Episode 20 of The Chillness Room, Kyra reflects on the quiet practices that have helped her reconnect with herself over the years — painting, writing, movement, meditation, and energy work. Sometimes the most powerful shifts come from the simplest acts: focusing on a candle flame, placing a hand over your heart, breathing slowly, or offering a moment of kindness to your own body. These small practices help quiet the conscious mind and allow the deeper parts of ourselves to rest and recalibrate. Kyra shares stories from her early experiences with meditation and hypnosis, explains the idea of focusing the mind so the subconscious can relax, and offers an approachable introduction to Reiki-style self-connection. No training required — just intention, attention, and a willingness to be gentle with yourself. This episode is an invitation to slow down, reconnect with your body, and remember that peace is often closer than we think. Take a breath. Step into the Chillness Room. Get full access to The Deep Season at thedeepseason.substack.com/subscribe

    15 min
  4. Chillness Room Ep. 19: When It’s Not You: The Hormonal Storm of Peri/Menopause

    MAR 13

    Chillness Room Ep. 19: When It’s Not You: The Hormonal Storm of Peri/Menopause

    In this deeply honest episode of The Chillness Room, Kyra shares a raw reflection after experiencing several days of intense anxiety, despair, and emotional upheaval caused by perimenopause. When hormones fluctuate, it can become incredibly difficult to tell the difference between who we are and what our chemistry is doing. Even when we’re eating well, exercising, getting sunlight, and doing everything “right,” sudden drops in estrogen can bring anxiety, depression, hot flashes, exhaustion, and emotional overwhelm. Kyra talks about what these hormonal shifts can feel like from the inside and why understanding the biological side of the experience can bring relief and compassion for ourselves. She also reflects on how earlier generations of women went through these changes without language, research, or support. This episode is both an explanation and a reassurance: if you’re in the middle of one of these waves, you’re not broken and you’re not alone. Hormonal storms pass. Your mind and body will find their balance again. Take a breath. Step into the Chillness Room. If you would like to hear more, consider subscribing below! Get full access to The Deep Season at thedeepseason.substack.com/subscribe

    19 min
  5. Chillness Room Ep. 18: Chemical or Mystical? Where Intuition Really Comes From

    MAR 8

    Chillness Room Ep. 18: Chemical or Mystical? Where Intuition Really Comes From

    Where does intuition actually come from? Is it brain chemistry… or something mystical? In this episode of The Chillness Room, Kyra explores the fascinating middle ground between science and spirituality. She looks at how intuition may arise from pattern recognition in the brain, the gut-brain connection through the vagus nerve, hormonal shifts that heighten sensitivity, and the ways our mind tries to predict the future to keep us safe. Along the way, she reflects on personal experiences with intuition, including how perimenopause can change emotional awareness and sensitivity, and how our past experiences shape what we perceive as “knowing.” But the conversation doesn’t stop with biology. What about consciousness? Ancient wisdom traditions? The feeling that we are more than just brain chemistry? This episode invites you to consider a gentle possibility: intuition might not be one thing at all. It may be a blend of body, mind, memory, and something deeper that connects us to life itself. A thoughtful, curious exploration for anyone who has ever wondered where their inner knowing comes from. Get full access to The Deep Season at thedeepseason.substack.com/subscribe

    31 min
  6. Chillness Room Ep. 17: Identity Shifts and Letting Go of Old Expectations

    MAR 1

    Chillness Room Ep. 17: Identity Shifts and Letting Go of Old Expectations

    In this episode of The Chillness Room, Kyra reflects on growing up without being expected to amount to much—and how that shaped her relationship with success, safety, and identity. Through stories of her grandmothers, loss, resilience, and the reality that life can change in an instant, she explores the tension between staying safe and becoming who you are meant to be. This episode gently moves into the powerful concept of identity shift—especially during midlife transitions, perimenopause, empty nesting, caregiving, and other seasons of change. You are invited to release outdated roles, old beliefs, and inherited expectations, and to consciously choose what you want to bring into the next phase of your life; perhaps more peace, softness, self-honoring? This is a quiet recalibration toward your next becoming. Want more Chillness Room or The Deep Season with Kyra Schaefer? Subscribe Below Get full access to The Deep Season at thedeepseason.substack.com/subscribe

    19 min
  7. Chillness Room Special Ep. 1: When the World Feels Like It’s Breaking

    FEB 28

    Chillness Room Special Ep. 1: When the World Feels Like It’s Breaking

    In this special episode of Chillness Room, Kyra wakes to news of war and shares an honest, emotional reflection on what it means to stay human when the world feels frightening. Through Buddhist teachings on suffering (dukkha), compassion for all sides (karuna), loving-kindness (metta), and bodhicitta—the awakened wish for all beings to be free—this episode becomes a quiet prayer for Iranian and American families, military on both sides, and anyone carrying fear right now. You don’t have to carry the world.You don’t have to solve it.You can send love. This episode also includes a reading from Little Zen Stories—“The Mountain Path”—a reminder that the summit is not the point. The walking is. If you are overwhelmed, grieving, angry, or just deeply sensitive to what’s unfolding, this space is for you. May you be safe.May you be protected from harm.May you find peace.May your heart be at ease. Want to hear more from Kyra? Consider subscribing for free below. Get full access to The Deep Season at thedeepseason.substack.com/subscribe

    26 min
  8. Chillness Room Ep. 16: Guru-izing and Giving Power Away

    FEB 27

    Chillness Room Ep. 16: Guru-izing and Giving Power Away

    In this episode of The Chillness Room, we explore something many of us have experienced at some point — placing a teacher, healer, or guide on a pedestal. When we’re searching for clarity or relief, it can feel natural to look outside ourselves for answers. But over time, we may begin to notice something deeper: the peace we felt wasn’t coming from them. It was being reflected back to us. This conversation is about remembering that your healing has always been yours. We talk about transference, authenticity, and what happens when the person we once looked up to reveals their humanness. And instead of feeling disillusioned, we practice something steadier — separating the message from the messenger and returning gently to ourselves. Your clarity, knowing and healing It was never outside of you. Get full access to The Deep Season at thedeepseason.substack.com/subscribe

    23 min
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The Chillness Room is a quiet audio space for settling the nervous system and softening the mind without effort or fixing. It’s simply a place to allow yourself to be. Each episode is an invitation to pause and reconnect with yourself through gentle spoken reflection and, at times, guided rest or regulation. The tone is oriented toward peace and presence rather than escape. This isn’t about zoning out or transcending life. It’s about arriving more fully in this moment. There’s nothing to achieve here. You don’t have to become anything or adopt any philosophy. It’s just something that may resonate, offering a way to relax without pressure. A human voice, a little openness, and room to breathe. If you’re looking for a safe place to rest without numbing out, to quiet the mind without spiraling, and to let your body and mind settle back into calm alignment, this room is here. thedeepseason.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Kyra Schaefer
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    23
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Kyra Schaefer
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    The Chillness Room