LET’S TALK WITH BEN, BRAD & COIT

LET'S TALK
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This isn’t just another men’s podcast. It’s real conversations. Real laughter. Real growth. Hosted by Ben De Boef, Brad Dorethy, and Coit Willis, this show blends lighthearted humor with honest discussions about the issues men actually face — faith, leadership, marriage, fatherhood, struggles, purpose, and everything in between. Whether you’re saved, searching, skeptical, or somewhere in the middle, this podcast creates space for men to talk openly, grow intentionally, and pursue becoming fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ. We’ll make you laugh. We’ll challenge you. We’ll move you forward. Because men were never meant to do life alone. New episodes weekly. Pull up a chair and join the conversation.

  1. 1d ago ·  Video

    THE KEY MEN OVERLOOK

    Are men meant to fight alone, or is real strength found in community?In this episode of Let’s Talk, we dig into the biblical and cultural truths about brotherhood, vulnerability, and how isolation is our enemy's greatest weapon. Ben, Coit and Brad unpack the dangerous solo warrior myth we see in media and history — and reveal why true resilience requires surrounding yourself with brothers who will sharpen and protect you, especially in spiritual battles.They share powerful stories, from the surprising lion licks in Africa to the transformative power of authentic community in churches and CrossFit groups. You’ll discover how true community isn’t just about proximity — it’s built on shared passions, healthy conflict, and vulnerability. But avoiding that can leave men exposed to unseen dangers: substance abuse, emotional disconnection, and spiritual attack.Learn how the biblical call in 1 Peter 5.8 to stay alert in the face of an enemy prowling like a lion relates directly to your life today. Ben and Brad emphasize that real strength comes from being honest about your struggles, stepping into safe environments, and leading with vulnerability — not perfection. They challenge you to rethink the solo warrior image and reveal practical steps to find, build, and sustain real community rooted in faith, fun, and shared purpose.Whether you're feeling isolated at church, unsure how to start authentic friendships, or simply want to be a better brother to others, this conversation is your blueprint for fighting the fight with others by your side. Because in this battle called life, one thing’s certain: you don’t have to — and shouldn’t — fight alone. FAITH FOCUS: We explore how God's design for community mirrors the military’s unit strategy — fighting together, standing guard against spiritual lions, and encouraging one another in vulnerability as Christ’s body. If this episode challenged or inspired you, subscribe and share it with a brother. Tune in every Wednesday at 8AM for more honest conversations on becoming built for battle—together.

    THE KEY MEN OVERLOOK

  2. Jul 22 ·  Video

    THE HIDDEN WAR IN YOUR MIND

    The Subtle But Prevalent Mental Pollutants for Christian MenIn this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit dive into the often overlooked mental pollutants that Christian men willingly invite into their minds daily—distractions disguised as entertainment and staying informed. They explore how these influences shape our thoughts and spiritual health, and provide practical insights to guard our minds. What you'll gain:Awareness of common mental pollutants in modern lifePractical strategies to guard your mind and deepen your faithReflection on how media consumption impacts your spiritual walkKey talking points:The influence of negative news and media on mental healthWhy staying constantly informed can be a form of mental pollutionThe impact of pornography, raunchy movies, and inappropriate entertainment choicesbiblical perspective on guarding the mind (Philippians 4:8, Romans 12:2)Actionable steps to reduce exposure and protect your spiritual wellbeingStandout Quotes:“The way we stay informed can become an entry point for mental pollution.”“Limiting negative media is a spiritual discipline.”“What we consume shapes our thoughts—make it count for faith.”Scripture References:Philippians 4:8Romans 12:2Practical Takeaways:Audit your daily media consumption and identify pollutantsReplace negative content with Scripture and faith-building resourcesSet boundaries around entertainment and news intakeConnect with us:https://linktr.ee/letstalkthepodJoin us as we discuss how to recognize and eliminate the mental pollutants that hinder our spiritual growth, helping you live with greater clarity and faithfulness.

    THE HIDDEN WAR IN YOUR MIND

  3. Jul 15 ·  Video

    THE HIDDEN WAR INSIDE YOUR HOME

    Ready to lead your family with purpose and faith? In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore the vital, battle-worthy role of men defending and building their households according to God's design. Discover how to be spiritually vigilant, intentionally build legacy, and reflect Christ's love within your family. Your greatest victory isn't just in work or wealth—it’s in cultivating a legacy rooted in love, faith, and steadfast leadership. In this episode:The biblical call to fight for our families with both spiritual and practical weaponsBalancing the spiritual and physical protection of your homeRecognizing the subtle signs that your family’s defenses are downThe power of legacy and how our family’s story impacts future generationsPractical steps for guarding your home against screen invasions and negative influencesThe importance of sacrificial love and spiritual vigilance in everyday leadershipStandout Quotes:"The most important battles we face as men aren’t out in the world—they are within the four walls of our own homes." 🔥"Fight for your family. It’s a legacy battle that leaves a kingdom impact." ✝️"God didn't design us to be passive; He calls us to stand guard and lead with love.""Legacy isn’t about buildings or bank accounts—it’s about the people you raise in faith.""Peace on earth starts in the home when men stand up and fight the good fight."Scripture References:Nehemiah 4:14 – "Fight for your families"Ephesians 6:11-17 – Spiritual armor for protectionRevelation 12:11 – Overcoming by the blood and testimonyPractical Takeaways:Prioritize prayer and spiritual vigilance daily—guard your home in the SpiritLead with sacrificial love, humility, and owning your mistakesBe intentional with your time: build valuable moments with your familyUse technology wisely—set boundaries to protect your household from harmful influencesRemember, your legacy is built in everyday faithfulness, not just big victoriesNext Steps:Reflect on the legacy you're leaving—what story are you writing with your actions?Commit to one practical change today: pray with your family, set tech boundaries, or own a mistake openlyJoin a local men's group or accountability partner to stay encouraged and held accountable in your leadershipResources:Let’s Talk the Podcast — Stay connected, get resources, and continue the conversation! Never forget, with Christ at the center, you’re equipped to lead your family to victory. Build intentionally, fight bravely, and leave a legacy that lasts for eternity.Blessings in His name—see you next time!

    THE HIDDEN WAR INSIDE YOUR HOME

  4. Jul 8 ·  Video

    ARE YOU FOLLOWING THE RIGHT COMPASS

    In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore what it truly means to stand firm in our convictions as men built for battle. They emphasize that the Holy Spirit is our guide, helping us discern God’s voice from the enemy’s, and reveal how biblical conviction leads to freedom, transformation, and alignment with God's purpose. |KEY TOPICS| The difference between common personal convictions and Spirit-led convictionsHow revelation from God produces true conviction and transformationThe importance of humility and healthy fear of our own capacity for sinGuardrails: practical personal convictions to protect your marriage, family, and integrityHow to discern whether conviction is from Holy Spirit or the enemyThe significance of aligning our goals with God's calling rather than personal ambitionsThe dangers of following our heart and culture’s “follow your feelings” mentalityBuilding spiritual compasses: Holy Spirit vs personal convictionsPractical steps to respond when feeling defensive or tempted to run from convictionHow to remain humble, teachable, and receptive to Holy Spirit in everyday life |SCRIPTURE REFERENCES| Jeremiah 17:9 — "The heart is deceitful above all things."John 16:8 — "When He comes, He will convict the world concerning sin and righteousness and judgment."Psalm 139:23-24 — "Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts." Develop an ongoing relationship with the Holy Spirit through prayer and Bible reading, asking Him to guide your convictions.Create personal guardrails based on biblical principles—things you will not compromise.Regularly evaluate your goals: Are they aligned with God's calling or your own ambitions?Practice humility by acknowledging your human frailty and need for God's grace daily.Respond to conviction with repentance and obedience, even when it’s uncomfortable.Trust that as you listen and obey, the Spirit produces freedom, peace, and fruitfulness in your life. Brothers, lean into the Holy Spirit today—ask Him to reveal any areas in your life that need conviction and correction. Commit to aligning your goals with God's purpose and build your life on biblical truth and Spirit-led guidance. Share this episode with other men seeking to build relationships God's way, and visit our linktree for resources to deepen your walk with Jesus. https://linktr.ee/letstalkthepod 00:00 - Welcome & introduction to building a life built for battle 02:08 - The importance of conviction in our walk with Christ 09:55 - What are real convictions? Biblical and cultural perspectives 14:21 - The Holy Spirit’s role in producing conviction and transformation 22:43 - How to discern Holy Spirit conviction from personal preferences 33:20 - Building spiritual compasses aligned with God's purpose 41:14 - Practical steps to respond when feeling defensive or tempted to run 44:30 - The importance of humility and being teachable 47:46 - Encouragement to listen to the Holy Spirit and stay humble 48:10 - Closing prayer and challenge to pursue God's conviction Links: Let's Talk Podcast on Linktree

    ARE YOU FOLLOWING THE RIGHT COMPASS

  5. Jul 1

    UNLOCK GOD'S POWER IN YOUR QUIET MOMENTS

    Winning the War on Your Knees: Building a Strong Prayer LifeFeeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to pray effectively? You're not alone—and today, we're focusing on how purposeful prayer can transform your walk with Christ and empower you to face life's battles with hope and strength rooted in Jesus. Join Ben, Brad, Coit, and special guest Timothy Tuttle as they explore the power of prayer, breaking down simple, practical steps to deepen your relationship with God through honest, authentic communication. In this episode, you'll learn how prayer is more than words—it's a conversation of the soul with your Heavenly Father. We discuss the importance of consistency, the prayer templates that help keep you grounded, and how prayer acts as both a shield and a sword in life's battles. Expect encouragement to pursue intimacy with Jesus daily and practical tips to start or strengthen your prayer life today, no matter where you're at. Key Talking Points Prayer as a dynamic conversation, not just religious dutyThe importance of simple, authentic prayers ("Help me," "Thank you," "Lord, I need You")Using the Lord's Prayer as a template for effective prayerThe role of prayer in building spiritual resilience ("gas on the plane")Prayer’s dual role: offensive (uniting against spiritual strongholds) and defensive (shielding from trials)The power of praying in the Spirit and in tongues for spiritual edificationPractical steps for new believers: start voicing thoughts, pray consistently, and find a quiet placeThe significance of timing: prayer before the day begins, in moments of need, and throughout life's daily routineThe importance of unlocking our hearts and being vulnerable before GodHow prayer influences future generations and spiritual legacyCall to ActionTake a step today—whether it’s a quick, honest prayer while driving, a quiet moment in your home, or joining a prayer group. Commit to intentionally making prayer a regular part of your life and build that vital relationship with Jesus. Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement to pray more intentionally. And, most importantly, ask God to teach you how to pray His way—for His glory and your transformation. Timestamps (00:00) - Introduction: Why most men struggle with prayer(03:26) - The power of prayer & why it's essential in spiritual warfare(07:59) - What is prayer? Understanding its true nature(10:50) - Authenticity in prayer: Job's boldness & vulnerability(15:00) - Practical steps to start praying today(20:34) - How to incorporate prayer into daily routines(25:26) - Jesus' example: The importance of seeking solitude for prayer(30:55) - The Lord’s Prayer as a simple but powerful template(35:32) - Prayer as both a shield & a sword in spiritual battles(45:39) - Recognizing the power of simple prayers & resting in God's presence(50:07) - Overcoming doubts: Prayer works & the legacy of prayer in your family(58:37) - The greater work of prayer—preparing your heart for revivalLinks & Resources Let's Talk Podcast - LinkTree

    UNLOCK GOD'S POWER IN YOUR QUIET MOMENTS

  6. Jun 24

    DUST OFF YOUR BIBLE - THE WEAPON YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO LEAVE IDLE

    Are you feeling unprepared for the spiritual battles you're facing? In this empowering episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore how to build yourself up as a man of God—focused on readiness, the importance of God's Word, and practical ways to stay in the fight. Learn how to armor up and wield the sword of the Spirit with confidence, so you can face life's challenges with divine strength and hope rooted in Jesus. In this episode:The meaning of being built for spiritual battle and the importance of readinessWhy the Bible is our ultimate weapon and how to select the right translationRecognizing the spiritual battle around us and the lies that threaten our faithHow to develop daily rhythms and community support to stay in God's WordPractical steps for new believers or those feeling distant from GodThe importance of knowing and defending biblical truth in a world of counterfeit teachingsStandout Quotes:"The Bible is a weapon of war—a divine tool to fight against darkness." 🔥"Knowing the Word can be like having your daily compass—your true North in a chaotic world.""Get a word out of the Word every day—it's the Holy Spirit's way to refresh and sharpen your soul.""Study the real, so you can spot the fake—know what Scripture says, so we're not deceived."Scripture References:Ephesians 6:10-18 — The Armor of God2 Timothy 3:16 — The Word as God-breathed and usefulHebrews 4:12 — The Word sharper than a double-edged swordIsaiah 58 — A call to true service and hearing God's voicePractical Takeaways:Prioritize daily time in Scripture—start with a few verses, then grow.Engage in community Bible studies or men's groups to deepen understanding.Get a good study Bible, like the Fire Bible, for better insight.Recognize the spiritual fight—you're in a war for your soul, your family, and your future.Lead your family in Bible reading—be a spiritual general in your home.Next Steps:Start today: open your Bible, even if it's just a few verses.Find one or two men to read and pray with regularly.Study a book like John, Psalms, or Proverbs to begin your journey.Share what you learn with others—be accountable, be consistent. resources:Let’s Talk the Podcast for more encouragement and toolsTimestamps: 00:00 - The importance of being built for battle as men of God 02:02 - Defining readiness and preparation in spiritual warfare 03:14 - Picking up the sword: Choosing the right Bible translation 08:38 - Recognizing the spiritual battle around us and the danger of false teachings 12:10 - The Bible as our true North—standing on God's inerrant Word 14:29 - Navigating social media and worldly influences that obscure truth 17:51 - The importance of knowing the real Scripture to spot counterfeits 22:47 - Practical tools to stay in the Word daily and grow in community 29:20 - Building a rhythm of Scripture and support to face life's battles 36:02 - Leading the next generation in God's Word and faith

    DUST OFF YOUR BIBLE - THE WEAPON YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO LEAVE IDLE

  7. Jun 17

    THE MANHOOOD CRISIS IN AMERICA

    Ever felt like your spiritual life is just... existing? Wondering how to step out of that numbness and live as the man God created you to be? Join Ben, Brad,Coit & special guest Cody Cochran as they confront the issues quietly draining men's spirits and discover how to lead with strength, authenticity, and hope in Christ. In this episode: The importance of biblical masculinity in today’s cultureHow spiritual deadness manifests in men and familiesThe influence of culture on the perception of manlinessPractical steps to wake up and renew your faithThe role of authentic brotherhood in spiritual revivalCreating an environment that appeals to men in churchHow to identify and remove masks hiding spiritual drynessThe significance of priorities—God first, family secondThe power of perseverance and accountability in overcoming failuresInspiring stories of resurrection and renewal in men’s livesTimestamps: 00:00 - How cultural expectations are draining men's spiritual vitality 00:26 - The importance of biblical masculinity and honoring God's design 00:52 - Recognizing the signs of a spiritually dead man 01:56 - The impact of family breakdown and lack of role models 02:51 - The power of church culture in cultivating authentic manhood 03:26 - Creating environments that attract and empower men 04:45 - Masks men wear to hide their spiritual dryness 06:08 - The importance of intentional brotherhood and accountability 10:21 - Practical steps to wake up and surrender to God's plan 12:39 - Overcoming disappointment and unfulfilled expectations with faith 15:05 - Cultivating a resilient, warrior spirit in men 16:41 - The need for a spiritual awakening and renewal 25:20 - How busyness and distractions drown out God's voice 30:29 - The danger of masks and superficial church attendance 35:41 - Challenging men to fight the right battles and prioritize God's kingdom 43:26 - The role of family as the foundation for societal change 52:22 - Restoring true masculinity to lead and protect 58:39 - The first step to awakening spiritually: determine to be a man of God 60:20 - The importance of brotherhood and perseverance 62:00 - Vulnerability and ownership in community 66:33 - Moving forward with hope, purpose, and Christ-centered strength Resources & Links: https://linktr.ee/letstalkthepod

    THE MANHOOOD CRISIS IN AMERICA

  8. Jun 10

    WHY PRIDE KEEPS MEN FROM THE HOPE OF CHRIST

    Are the hidden masks of pride quietly sabotaging your relationships and spiritual walk? Discover how Jesus’s example and biblical truth can set us free to love others with humility and grace. In this hope-filled episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore the tricky terrain of pride—what’s healthy and what’s destructive. They share practical stories and biblical insights on how to identify pride, confess it, and walk in humility through God's grace. Whether in marriage, church, or personal growth, you’ll learn how humility opens the door to God's best in your life and relationships. Leave encouraged to live not pridefully, but Christ-centered and others-focused. The difference between healthy pride (hard work, achievement) and unhealthy ego that exalts selfRecognizing masks pride wears, like insecurity and the need for approvalThe biblical warning in James 4:6: God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humbleJesus’ model of humility—serving others and controlling emotions even when confronting conflictPractical steps to confess, seek forgiveness, and restore broken relationshipsThe importance of community and humility in minimizing pride’s powerHow pride can hide behind spiritual knowledge and church leadershipThe delicate balance: living confidently without becoming boastful or pridefulThe danger of dismissing correction and the red flags of pride in everyday lifeThe hope-filled promise: God’s grace is sufficient for those who humble themselves before Him Today, identify one area where pride may be quietly ruling your heart. Take an active step—confess, ask for forgiveness, or serve someone intentionally—and watch how God's grace transforms your relationships and spiritual walk. Follow us at Let’s Talk the Podcast for ongoing encouragement and biblical truth. 00:00 - Introduction: The hidden masks of pride 00:37 - The importance of humility modeled by Jesus 02:13 - Sharing stories of pride and arrogance 03:57 - How pride affects our walk with God 06:36 - Recognizing pride in church and leadership 08:13 - The danger of spiritual pride and knowledge puffery 10:03 - The biblical warnings and God’s grace for the humble 12:20 - Practical steps to confess and restore broken relationships 14:46 - Masks pride wears: insecurity, arrogance, spiritual pretenses 16:45 - The roots of pride: insecurity and self-centeredness 19:48 - Walking the tightrope: pride vs humility in life 21:04 - The power of correction and humility in leadership 23:12 - Red flags: defense, refusal to ask for help, dominance 25:20 - The promise of grace for those who humble themselves 30:14 - Jesus’ example of humility and servanthood 33:04 - Applying humility in marriage and relationships 36:55 - Reconciliation and the importance of humble accountability 41:42 - Living with biblical humility, not passivity 43:15 - Closing encouragement: love, serve, and walk in God's grace.

    WHY PRIDE KEEPS MEN FROM THE HOPE OF CHRIST
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This isn’t just another men’s podcast. It’s real conversations. Real laughter. Real growth. Hosted by Ben De Boef, Brad Dorethy, and Coit Willis, this show blends lighthearted humor with honest discussions about the issues men actually face — faith, leadership, marriage, fatherhood, struggles, purpose, and everything in between. Whether you’re saved, searching, skeptical, or somewhere in the middle, this podcast creates space for men to talk openly, grow intentionally, and pursue becoming fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ. We’ll make you laugh. We’ll challenge you. We’ll move you forward. Because men were never meant to do life alone. New episodes weekly. Pull up a chair and join the conversation.

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