The Next Chapter with Seun Adeyemi

Seun Adeyemi

The Next Chapter with Seun Adeyemi is for men who want to honor God and live faithfully as husbands, fathers, brothers and workers. Seun Adeyemi, CFP®, talks honestly with guests and the brothers he does life with about faith, family, fatherhood, purity, money and the local church, and holds each conversation up to Scripture. Two kinds of episodes: full-length conversations, often with guests, and Reflections, a short weekly letter read aloud, released on Mondays. This is not about starting over. It’s about stewarding what you’ve been given—and walking faithfully into the next chapter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 5d ago ·  Bonus

    Reflections: A Christian View of Debt: Freedom, Not Math

    A weekly reflection from Seun, also available as a letter at seunadeyemi.ca. Debt is not just a math problem; it's a freedom problem. Drawing on Proverbs, this reflection explains why getting out of debt restores a man's freedom to give and to obey. First sent August 2026 as Reflection No. 29, "Debt Is Not a Math Problem. It's a Freedom Problem." Read the letter: seunadeyemi.ca/reflections Get Reflections in your inbox each Wednesday: seunadeyemi.ca Watch on YouTube: youtube.com/@TheNextChapterwithSeunAdeyemi Instagram: @seunadeyemicfp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Reflections: A Christian View of Debt: Freedom, Not Math

  2. Oct 26 ·  Bonus

    Reflections: What Jesus Says About Anxiety in Matthew 6

    A weekly reflection from Seun, also available as a letter at seunadeyemi.ca. Anxiety often moves in quietly, like a thief you let in yourself. This reflection traces two roots of anxiety in Matthew 6, misplaced treasure and a view of God that has shrunk, and what Jesus offers instead. First sent August 2026 as Reflection No. 28, "There's a thief in your house. You probably let him in." Read the letter: seunadeyemi.ca/reflections Get the next one in your inbox each Wednesday: seunadeyemi.ca Watch on YouTube: youtube.com/@TheNextChapterwithSeunAdeyemi Instagram: @seunadeyemicfp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Reflections: What Jesus Says About Anxiety in Matthew 6

  3. Oct 19 ·  Bonus

    Reflections: Reading the Bible When You Don't Feel Like It

    A weekly reflection from Seun, also available as a letter at seunadeyemi.ca. Election night went badly, and a friend realised how much of his peace he had placed in the outcome. He saw it because he had kept reading Scripture even in the seasons he didn't feel like it. This reflection is about obedience when the feeling is absent: the disciplines are not a rule, they are how God equips a man. First sent July 2026 as Reflection No. 27, "Waiting to feel ready is its own kind of disobedience." Read the letter: seunadeyemi.ca/reflections Get the next one in your inbox each Wednesday: seunadeyemi.ca Watch on YouTube: youtube.com/@TheNextChapterwithSeunAdeyemi Instagram: @seunadeyemicfp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Reflections: Reading the Bible When You Don't Feel Like It

  4. Oct 12 ·  Bonus

    Reflections: Christian Marriage and Money: Managing as One

    A weekly reflection from Seun, also available as a letter at seunadeyemi.ca. The most important financial conversation in a marriage isn't about the budget. Grounded in Genesis 2 and what it means to become one flesh, this reflection is about husbands and wives managing money as one. First sent July 2026 as Reflection No. 26, "The most important financial conversation in your marriage isn't about the budget." Read the letter: seunadeyemi.ca/reflections Get the next one in your inbox each Wednesday: seunadeyemi.ca Watch on YouTube: youtube.com/@TheNextChapterwithSeunAdeyemi Instagram: @seunadeyemicfp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Reflections: Christian Marriage and Money: Managing as One

  5. Oct 5 ·  Bonus

    Reflections: Biblical Stewardship on a Tight Budget

    A weekly reflection from Seun, also available as a letter at seunadeyemi.ca. When money is tight and living costs keep rising, it's easy to believe faithfulness with money starts once there's more of it. Through the widow's two coins and Luke 16:10, this reflection shows what stewardship looks like on a tight budget: direction, not perfection. First sent July 2026 as Reflection No. 25, "You don't have to be rich to be faithful with money." Read the letter: seunadeyemi.ca/reflections Get the next one in your inbox each Wednesday: seunadeyemi.ca Watch on YouTube: youtube.com/@TheNextChapterwithSeunAdeyemi Instagram: @seunadeyemicfp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Reflections: Biblical Stewardship on a Tight Budget

  6. Oct 5 ·  Bonus

    Reflections: A Weekly Letter for Christian Men

    A weekly reflection from Seun, also available as a letter at seunadeyemi.ca. Every week Seun Adeyemi writes a short letter to men about faith, family and finance, and holds it up to Scripture. This short introduction explains what Reflections is and why each one stands on its own, so you can start wherever you are. Read every letter: seunadeyemi.ca/reflections Get the next one in your inbox each Wednesday: seunadeyemi.ca Watch on YouTube: youtube.com/@TheNextChapterwithSeunAdeyemi Instagram: @seunadeyemicfp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Reflections: A Weekly Letter for Christian Men

  7. Jul 27

    Ep 10: Why Willpower Won't Free You | When the Word of God Killed My Appetite for Pornography

    This is Part 2 of The Next Chapter series on pornography and purity. If you haven't listened to Part 1 — Why Willpower Won't Free You — start there first. Part 1 laid out the theology: why willpower never works, what you're actually hungry for, and what the spiritual disciplines do to fan your affection for Christ. This episode is the testimony. Justin is a brother Seun does life with. For ten to twelve years, he was in what he describes as a steady relationship with pornography addiction. College. Moving back into his parents' house. His own apartment. Marriage. The struggle followed him everywhere. He tried everything — put the phone in another room, told himself no, counted the days. None of it lasted longer than a week. Then his wife had a miscarriage at five months. That loss brought him low — and brought him back to the God he'd acknowledged publicly but never really pursued. He started reading the Bible chronologically for the first time in his life. And when he got to Abraham's willingness to sacrifice his son, something broke open. He saw the gospel. And the appetite for pornography — a ten-year appetite — just left. This conversation covers: Justin's full testimony: twelve years of addiction, the miscarriage, and the moment everything turnedWhy putting the phone outside the bedroom never workedWhat meeting with God intentionally actually looked like in practiceHow pornography was just the tip of the iceberg — and what the Word revealed underneath itWhat to say to the brother who is doing everything right and still strugglingThe disciplines as the meal and the boundaries as the accoutrementsWhy obedience without emotion is not legalism — it's faithfulness Key Scriptures: Romans 8:1-4 | 1 Corinthians 10:13 | John 15:4-5 | Romans 12:2 | Psalm 37:4 | 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 | Philippians 1:6 Connect with Seun: Instagram: @SeunAdeyemiCFP LinkedIn: Seun Adeyemi CHAPTERS 00:00 Cold Open — "I Would Look at Porn Every Day. I Don't Have an Appetite for This Anymore." 01:05 Introducing Justin 01:44 Growing Up in Church, College, and When Pornography Took Hold 02:50 A Ten to Twelve Year Steady Relationship With Pornography 03:13 The Miscarriage That Brought Him Low and Brought Him Back to God 04:30 Reading the Bible Chronologically — The Bible Recap Plan 05:10 The Moment Abraham's Sacrifice Changed Everything 05:40 This Is Disgusting. I Don't Have an Appetite for This Anymore. 06:47 How Pornography Fulfilled Every Role — Anger, Boredom, a Bad Day 07:34 What He Tried to Do to Stop — And Why Nothing Lasted 09:18 I Was the Biggest Hypocrite — His Relationship With God During the Struggle 10:06 Listening to Part 1 — What Resonated? 10:35 Being Intentional About Meeting With God — The God Shot 12:00 Pornography Was Just the Tip of the Iceberg 13:36 Romans 12:2 — Renewing the Mind 14:18 You Stopped Nibbling and Started Feasting — Seun Reflects 15:45 Romans 8 — Is It Possible Not to Sin? 17:06 Pornography as One Expression of Idolatry 18:54 What to Say to the Brother Who Is Doing Everything Right and Still Struggling 21:19 Our Salvation Is Not Based on Perfect Execution 21:42 Be Faithful on a Daily Basis — Prayer Without Ceasing 23:58 Psalm 37:4 — Delight Yourself in the Lord 25:58 The Election Night That Revealed Another Idol 27:00 Be in Fellowship — The Walk Was Not Meant to Be Done Alone 27:45 Practical Boundaries: Accountability Software, Social Media, the Gym 29:01 The Disciplines Are the Meal. The Boundaries Are the Accoutrements. 30:10 Don't Hang Out in the Bar If You're Trying Not to Drink 32:12 Nothing Wrong With Obeying the Lord Even When You Don't Feel Like It 33:46 Be Faithful Even When You Forget What You Read 34:55 Closing — Steward This Chapter Faithfully Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Ep 10: Why Willpower Won't Free You | When the Word of God Killed My Appetite for Pornography

  8. Jul 6

    Ep 09: Why Willpower Won't Free You | Pornography, Purity & the Glory of Christ for Christian Men

    It's late. The house is quiet. Your wife is asleep. And something in you — you already know what it is — reaches for the phone. This episode is for that man. Not to shame him. Not to give him another accountability app or a list of rules that haven't worked yet. But to tell him the truth about what he's actually hungry for — and where that hunger was always supposed to go. The problem is not that you desire pleasure. You were made for it. Moses stood at the edge of a mountain after seeing the Red Sea part, after seeing God do more miracles than almost any man alive, and his one request was: Show me your glory. David had wealth, power, women, armies — every earthly pleasure available to a king — and he sat down and wrote: One thing have I desired. Same hunger. Thousands of years apart. Pornography is just the wrong address for a legitimate hunger. In this episode, Seun works through what that hunger actually is, why willpower has never been the answer, how Satan's strategy is not primarily to make you sin but to veil you from the glory of Christ, and what the spiritual disciplines actually do — not as rules, but as ways of fanning the flame of affection for Christ so that lesser things lose their grip. The question is not: how do I stop? The question is: am I abiding? Books referenced: Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life — Donald Whitney God Is the Gospel — John Piper Key Scriptures: Exodus 33:18 | Psalm 16:11 | Psalm 27:4 | Psalm 63:1 | Psalm 119 | Hebrews 1:2-3 | 2 Corinthians 4:4-6 | Philippians 3:8 | John 15:4-5 | Romans 8:5-6 | 1 Peter 5:8 | Colossians 3:1-2 Connect with Seun: Instagram: @SeunAdeyemiCFP LinkedIn: Seun Adeyemi CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro — The Late Night Scene 01:29 Pursuing Purity: Fighting for What Actually Satisfies 02:20 Pornography Is the Wrong Address for Legitimate Hunger 02:30 Moses: Show Me Your Glory (Exodus 33:18) 03:20 David: One Thing Have I Desired (Psalm 27:4) 03:56 My Flesh Feigns for You — Psalm 63:1 05:00 In Your Presence There Is Fullness of Joy — Psalm 16:11 06:21 Christ Is the Radiance of the Glory of God (Hebrews 1:2-3) 08:44 Satan Blinds, God Illuminates — 2 Corinthians 4 09:30 Every Time You Open That Tab — Satan Has Won a Debate 10:00 Paul Didn't White-Knuckle — He Had Vision (Philippians 3:8) 11:11 Every Blessing of Christ Points You Back to Beholding God 12:00 You Are Not a Renovation Project — You're a Creation Project 13:36 How Do You Begin to Behold Christ? (Romans 8:5-6) 13:57 Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life — Donald Whitney 15:00 Discipline 1: Feasting on God's Word 16:28 How Sweet Are Your Words to My Taste — Psalm 119:103 18:52 A Person Who Has Been with God Will Find It Harder to Betray Him 21:17 Blessed Is the Man — Psalm 1 and the Vine (John 15) 22:10 Discipline 2: Prayer 23:44 Discipline 3: Worship — Every Part of Life as Glory to God 24:15 Discipline 4: Serving and Stewardship 24:35 Discipline 5: Fasting 27:05 No Muscle Memory for Resistance 28:31 I Discipline My Body — 1 Corinthians 9:27 29:35 Discipline 6: Silence and Solitude 32:05 Search Me O God — Psalm 139 33:15 Be Sober Minded — You Are Being Hunted (1 Peter 5:8) 34:30 Abide in Me — John 15:4-5 35:41 Purity Is the Fruit of Abiding 36:30 The Question Is Not How Do You Stop — Are You Abiding? 38:05 The Same Power That Raised Christ Is Available to You Now 39:30 Fix Your Eyes on Jesus — Colossians 3:1-2 40:31 Closing Prayer Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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The Next Chapter with Seun Adeyemi is for men who want to honor God and live faithfully as husbands, fathers, brothers and workers. Seun Adeyemi, CFP®, talks honestly with guests and the brothers he does life with about faith, family, fatherhood, purity, money and the local church, and holds each conversation up to Scripture. Two kinds of episodes: full-length conversations, often with guests, and Reflections, a short weekly letter read aloud, released on Mondays. This is not about starting over. It’s about stewarding what you’ve been given—and walking faithfully into the next chapter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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