How to Be Him Podcast

Garth Wheeler, Za Smith
  • 5.0 (2)
  • Christianity
  • Updated Biweekly

How To Be Him is a Christ-centered space where Garth and Za have honest conversations about faith, masculinity, doubt, lust, identity, and real life in our generation. If you’re ready to stop conforming and start being transformed—welcome to How To Be Him.

Episodes

  1. 2h ago

    Hookups, Dating, or Marriage? What Gen Z Men actually want- Gabe Conte

    Nobody's saying what they actually think — so we did. In this episode, Gabe Conte joins HTBH to talk about what Gen Z men are really looking for when it comes to relationships, sex, and commitment. Is marriage still the goal? Are hookups filling a void? And what does any of this have to do with faith? Unfiltered and real.

    50 min

  2. Jun 2

    This is what real community looks like

    We pulled up, brought the snacks, and let the conversation breathe. This episode is less interview, more real life — a roundtable with guests you recognize, who are actually trying to live out Godly community. No perfect answers. Just honest conversation about what it looks like when faith gets lived out in a living room with people you trust.

    53 min

  3. May 19

    Ambitious or Obedient? Why Faith-Driven Men Have to Choose

    Garth and Za get honest about the pressure to always hustle, always achieve, and always prove themselves. From chasing success to struggling with self-worth, the boys unpack the tension between working hard for what you want and not letting achievement define who you are. A real conversation about ambition, identity, and the pressure men face today.

    40 min

  4. May 5

    God Humbled Me- Grant Troutt

    Pride is subtle — and it’s powerful. Grant, Garth, and Za, break down the difference between natural and toxic pride, reflecting on past battles and current struggles with surrendering control and trusting God. This episode points back to what matters most: understanding the gospel and letting it reshape everything.

    45 min

  5. Apr 21

    SHAME: God Isn’t Disgusted With You

    Garth and Za unpack the weight of shame and guilt, and how those struggles distort purpose when you’re searching for truth. There’s a difference between just carrying your past and actually living free with in who God says you are.

    33 min

  6. Apr 7

    Culture’s Version Of Man Is BROKEN- Bailey Jamieson

    Manhood in 2026 is… confusing. So we talked about it. The boys dive into their own experiences navigating masculinity — the wins, the failures, the emotions, and the pressure. Centered around five biblical keys, this episode unpacks toxic masculinity, relationships, and what it actually means to step up as a Christian man.

    38 min

  7. Mar 24

    Identity: It’s Not What You Think- Landon Hurlbut

    Landon and the boys talk through the identity crisis in Gen-Z, and the personal battles that come with searching for truth. There's a difference between existing and living with purpose. Everything starts with who God says you are.

    39 min

  8. Mar 10

    Battle Plan Against Porn- Dani Valentine

    The team talks about where culture is right now when it comes to pornography, how it’s affected their own lives, and the real, practical steps they take to fight it day to day. It’s wild how normal porn has become… so we talked about it.

    39 min

  9. Feb 24

    How To Be Him - Pilot

    What happens when two guys with totally different upbringings decide to create something rooted in truth? In this pilot episode, Garth and Za unpack who they are, what shaped them, and how “How To Be Him” was born. Culture says being “him” means one thing. The Bible says being like “Him” means another. Come along the journey of discovering truth.

    25 min
  10. How To Be Him - Trailer

    Feb 22

    How To Be Him - Trailer

    "How To Be Him" hosts, Garth and Za share the vision and goal behind the podcast. No perfection, or pretending. Just two guys trying become more like Jesus Christ.  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howtobehimpodcast/?hl=en

    2 min

Trailer

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How To Be Him is a Christ-centered space where Garth and Za have honest conversations about faith, masculinity, doubt, lust, identity, and real life in our generation. If you’re ready to stop conforming and start being transformed—welcome to How To Be Him.

Information

  • Creator
    Garth Wheeler, Za Smith
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    10
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 K-LOVE, INC.
  • Show Website
    How to Be Him Podcast